Love Letters | Are You Too Busy?

Find yourself or others saying you're too busy lately?

Wondering why there's never enough hours in the day?

Wish you had more time but don't know how to get it?

The guides have a bit of tough love for you this week around stopping being "too busy."

And it actually doesn't have to do with how many things are on your To-Do List.

Watch this week's 11-minute love letter video to discover what being "too busy" actually means!

"I'm working twice as hard as anyone else I know."

This week in particular my guides have been sharing with me a little bit of an uncomfortable message to hear as well as to relay, so get ready.

You are not too busy, you're actually lazy.

Oh man, so this is a bit of a tough love message and I know this is the last thing that if you are super in it, super crazy busy, the last thing that you want to hear is, "What, I'm lazy? I'm working twice as hard as anybody else in my sphere. My family, my clients, my coworkers, all depend on me. My classmates, etc. My siblings, my parents."

This is where being the messenger gets a bit sticky so if this bothers you, I'm not going to apologize. I'm actually just going to acknowledge you might be bothered and actually that's a a good thing. This is what the guides tell me.

It's important for you to feel a bit agitated with being busy rather than, "Oh, this is just how it is," because that's actually not healthy.

When we find ourselves telling others, "Oh, I'm too busy to do that" or find ourselves hearing our loved ones or people within our sphere saying, "Oh you've been really busy lately or you're too busy or you might be getting a little bit too busy," this is what that actually means about you.

One, and this is according to the guides, it's a symptom of having poor boundaries, poor personal boundaries where you've over committed, over scheduled, and therefore overwhelmed yourself by saying yes to more projects than should be on your plate or more than are humanly possible, right?

And not said no or said no to things that could have really, so not said no to things that could hurt you and said no to things that could help you.

It's interesting channeling about this because total transparency, this is sometimes busyness and dancing with busyness versus business is a dance that I am personally going through right now.

It's not that I've mastered this. I'm just here to channel to you what my guides have been ministering to me about so that we all can walk our paths, our healing paths together. My journey is mine, yours is yours and we're all on healing journeys so let's share this wisdom.

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Know this: Saying you're "too busy" actually says you're too lazy to work smarter rather than harder.

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So there are things that could have helped you that you said no to such as maybe an intern or someone offering to help or seeing a help wanted ad or hearing a friend say, "You know, I really would like to get into this industry but I just don't have enough experience. I think I might intern somewhere." The family up the street says, "My teen doesn't really haven't enough to do. We're thinking of having her babysitting more."

There's opportunities to receive support and those are just a few examples that when someone says, "Oh, can I carry your bag for you, miss?" or "Hey, bro, is it all right if I hold the door open for you?" "No, no, no, I got it."

Saying no when you actually could have received help is a sign of poor boundaries actually, and then saying yes to something that shouldn't even have been on your plate in the first time because you want to impress everybody and seem like you got it together, taking care of business.

Then you're just overwhelming yourself and setting a standard of expectation that this person is over the top in their ability to make things happen so let's depend on this person, you, being over the top all the time. No bueno, not good.

Be kind to yourself.

This week in particular the guides say you gotta stop that. Also saying or hearing this too busy paradigm is a sign of poor time management skills where your concept of time is completely off.

Now blessed be, one of the spiritual symptoms of a crown chakra awakening is actually no concept of time because in spiritual truth there's no such thing as time. However here in 3D reality meaning the physical mundane realm, we all abide by this weird man-made concept such as time.

So to be kind to yourself noticing that as we shape and move this idea of time, it's a limited resource that we're working with, and having strong time management skills allows you to be a normal, relaxed, flowing open human being.

Then lastly, this too busy paradigm also has to do with being too distracted by the details and shoving all of your energy into the details work to be open enough and receptive enough to effectively utilize all the resources that are around you. There's a certain level of support you require in order to live the life you desire.

Affirmation: I am open to receiving the level of support I require in order to live and enjoy the life I desire.

That's a tweetable, by the way, and I hear the Oracle cards calling in the energy. One second, we'll bring you on in a sec.

Yes, the details works may feel like: "I'm getting stuff done. Look at my sexy to-do list, has a check-mark here and a cross-out here and a check-mark." I don't know how many videos are channeled on that but it's so satisfying, yes? Closet Type A personalities are like, "Hallelujah" in the background.

I know how you're feeling however it's important for you to begin to build the ability to open up to receiving the support you require in order to live the life that you desire, where you're not too busy to live and enjoy.

The Oracle cards for this week is Archangel Raphael Healing, so this is Healing with the Angels specifically Archangel Raphael, another Doreen Virtue deck here at the Dojo.

Let's see, Archangel Raphael, what do we need to know about healing our relationship with being too busy?

Oh, this said don't shuffle any further. I can't take it ... Home Help.

Dear God and Archangel Raphael, thank you for giving me the courage to ask for and accept help from you, the angels and others in manners regarding my family and home. This is where we're going to end. This is so self-explanatory.

Home Help? Hello? If you're too busy, get some help at home. What comes up for you hearing this in particular? Oh my gosh, what support would you receive if you had a bazillion dollars. Let's just say you hit the lottery. What would be the first help at home in particular you would hire in order to stop being too busy?

Maybe you love what you do but everybody has stuff that they have to do at home so it's important to feel supported at home.

Let's take the money idea off the table because money also doesn't exist. If you hit the lottery, who would you hire? A butler? A cook? The laundry? Whatever, someone, a nanny?

Who would you hire? Post in the comments below.

By the way, if you know someone who's too busy, share this video with them. I think they need some of the same loving energy and inspiration.

Make sure you subscribe on YouTube so that you get your love letters first every week, all right? And we will see you next time.

By the way, if you were just as surprised as me, just tell me in the comments below. I'd love to hear that. This never gets old.

All right, I will see you soon. Bye.

In Love and Light,

Victoria.

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Just for Today...

Listen for when you use the excuse of being "too busy."

Then ask yourself "how can I work smarter at this rather than harder, so I'm not too busy?"

Notice how you feel at that moment - you're already healing!

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