Tired of "faking it 'til you make it"?
Secretly catching yourself feeling like a fraud?
Scared to share a certain part of your personality for fear of judgment, rejection or ridicule?
You don't have to be a member of the LGBTQ community to be hiding something about yourself in the closet — we ALL do it one way or another.
We lock key parts of our authentic selves up to cope, to survive or to fit in.
Watch this week's 9-minute Love Letter video to gain the courage to step out your closet and in to the light!
"I feel like a fraud."
This week, source is asking you to come out of the broom closet. Come out of the closet.
This may touch a nerve for some of you because we tend to associate coming out of the closet, especially with our LGBTQ community, love, but guess what?
They're not the only people that have to come out of the closet or something about them that it's important that they share in order to have an authentic and fully expressed life.
Guess what? Everybody has something that they've been hiding, back performing in front of so that no one can really get to know this authentic side of you.
I'm talking to you watching. What are you hiding in your closet? I call it the broom closet, in particular, to a little bit of magical energy to that. For me, I know that one of the things that I tend to hide in my closet quite a bit is my voice.
This is something that I've been working on for quite some time, being able to bring my voice forward and share. You know what? This is what I want or this is how I feel or this is what I'm thinking about, especially in my private relationships.
It takes a lot of courage to share what's really on your heart and what's really on your mind, especially if you tend to be like me.
I don't know if you're watching this because you're like me. If, like me, you tend to be in the supportive healer role in not only your business, but also in your private relationships tend to be the strong one, supportive, enacting, in fueling the realizations of dreams and feelings of others or having your loved ones, you want to see those realized because you get a sense of fulfillment being involved in that creative process and holding the space, but you've got to come out of the closet.
Come out of your broom closet.
Unleash that magic of your authentic energy.
This could be a journaling moment for you this week, in particular. The title of this journal entry is How I Am Hiding in the Closet or What I Am Hiding in My Closet in My Life.
It could be that there's a lot of things about your business or about your marriage or your relationship or your body or your diet that you've been tolerating. Tolerating, tolerating, tolerating, pushing to the back burner, procrastinating. "Maybe later I'll get to that. It's not really that important." That builds momentum over time.
What have you been tolerating? What have you been hiding about the truth of you? Could it be that there's a part of you that thinks that, "Oh, I feel like I'm not good enough. I feel like I'm not worthy or like I'm a fraud."
All of that, the guides are saying it's important to acknowledge that energy and begin to be willing to bring that out of the closet because when you do, all you have to be is willing, by the way, you don't have to clean house if you're not ready.
Being willing begins to open up your energy to a new level of expression, vulnerability, and receptivity.
I want you to see vulnerability and receptivity as going hand in hand. Yes, it's intense. Yes, it's a higher calling, but this is the work.
The guides are saying pull the oracle cards for the week.
The fairies are sending joyful, loving, natural energy to our process of coming out of the broom closet.
Fairies, what do we need to know right now about coming out of our broom closets this week?
By the way, if you are one of my awesome members of the LGBTQ community, you know better than anybody that coming out of the closet is a process. We don't just come out once. "I came out as gay to my friends and family. All right. Now I'm with my partner and now I have to come out to my partner that I'm vegan. Not only that, but I have to come out to my partner if he still wants to be around me, I'm allergic to strawberries or something like that."
You can hide for so long. This is one example, but my LGBTQ friends are going to be like, "I know. When am I going to not be coming out of the closet, Victoria?"
Follow your dreams is the oracle card of the week from the fairies.
The guides are telling me about this card, in particular, not only are dreams at night because she's in sleep mode, but your visions - I got a chill up the back of my spine.
In order for you to ground and manifest your vision, what's hiding in your closet, your broom closet, is actually part of the process or part, a huge part, a foundational column.
If we're building a skyscraper, one of the columns that's a support beam for the entire structure is actually what's in your closet.
There's a previous video that we recorded earlier this year, Share Your Story. That elaborates more on exactly why that's a support beam.
But just to let you know, to fuel more of why you got to come out of the broom closet this week in particular, it's because in order for you to realize, as in actualize, ground and manifest that vision that you've been seeing for your life, your business, your relationship, your health, what's hiding in your broom closet, hiding in your closet, has got to come out.
That way, you can open up and really live your authentic life.
Send me an email back. Comment below what's coming up for you around this. If you want to send me a private email saying, "Victoria, this is what's in my broom closet. What do I do?"
I'm happy to respond. All of you know. I get emails constantly. I'm responsive, and I'm there for you.
I'm really excited to keep this conversation going. If you feel like you need a little bit more care and space to go through it, head over to my website, NaturalIntuition.com and VictoriaWhitfield.com so that you can book a private session so we can really dive deep and help you go through that coming out process first for yourself before anyone else.
I'm sending you so much love, honoring your process.
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In Love and Light,
Just for Today...
Be simply WILLING to come out your closet in one area of your life.
Consider being willing to let go of just one thing you've been tolerating and hiding at the expense of your happiness.
Notice how you feel at that moment - you're already healing!
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