Feel like you're surrounded by negativity and don't know why?
Known as "the positive one," do people always go to you for support, telling you their whole life's story -- even as total strangers?
Love helping people in need, giving advice, solving problems and seeing lives change because it gives you a sense of purpose?
This message is for all you awesome Mr. and Ms. Fix-It's out there who are feeling exhausted by all the negative energy they're called to heal.
Spirit is sending you a loving warning: though your purpose is to be a Lightworker who spreads healing light and love on the planet, be careful that you are not feeding on the negativity along the way.
Watch the above 6-minute video to see if YOU feed on negative energy and not even know it!
"Am I drawn to negativity because I need to fix it?"
This week, Source is asking do you feed on negative energy?
It's interesting that we're asking you this in particular, because most of the people in the TRIBE who watch the Love Letters, if not all the people in our TRIBE, are sensitive to negative energy.
We know that the overwhelming answer, initially, is going to be "No! No-no. I am clearing my life of negative energy. The last thing that I want around me is negative vibe people, negative events, negative news, negative food, negative thoughts, feelings, or any kind of negative vibes. Get it away! Cooties!" Right?
This is the equivalent of Source asking you "Oh, do you eat cooties as your primary source of nutrition every day? Do you like cooties?"
No! Nobody likes cooties. No, of course not.
But the Energy is asking this question more as a rhetorical question.
Let's explain. In our culture, and in most cultures, a point of connection between people, a socially acceptable point of connection between people and getting to know others.
Making friends. Bonding with loved ones. Or, understanding each other on similar levels, on philosophical or political vibrations.
A commonly acceptable way to make connections is through negativity.
It could be focusing on something negative that happened in the news recently. Or, sharing something negative - sharing is a powerful connector.
Sharing things like "this really annoying person did this." Or, "this crappy thing happened to me and I'm so frustrated about it I just want to be able to share how crappy things are."
Or even at work, when we're coming together for a meeting, we may relate to our coworkers by saying and "Oh yeah, the coffee here is always terrible." "Oh I know, right? It's just so bad."
Know this: #Focus on the #negative, & you'll get more of it. Go figure. #Choose to speak #life today! #takecharge2016 #spreadlove
This sense of making connections according to negative energy doesn't just stop there, Source is saying.
On top of that, very positive, loving, open, sensitive and intuitive people who are givers at heart -- called "Lightworkers" -- are givers in response to the tremendous amount of negative energy that they are surrounded by.
However, we Lightworkers tend to have what's called a bit of a "savior complex" or "martyrdom addiction."
What does this look like?
Well, what this looks like in the energy, or in our behavioral patterns moreover, is that when people are in trouble or they're emotionally overwhelmed, or things are difficult for them, or they're dramatic -- we're drawn to that.
We're drawn to that negative vibration to resolve it, as if we are in charge of making everyone and everything happy.
We assume we are responsible, as the positive lightworker beacons of light that we are, to eradicate all negativity and make sure everyone is healthy, happy and comfortable.
Because of that, we're drawn to negativity.
But this assumption is coming from your Shadow side.
Now, Source is saying let's take a look this week in particular at your energy and really ask ourselves "Am I drawn to negativity because I NEED to fix it? Because I think I know better? Or because I think can help?"
Ask yourself, "is this the way that I relate to people, listening to and absorbing their troubles, and really letting them be in a vortex of negative focus with me?"
A.K.A: "Do I let people dump on me so they feel better? And so I can feel useful, significant and connected to them?"
As if you're some sort of an energetic trashcan.
If you're an energetic trashcan, then you just catch everybody else's problems because you're here to listen, here to love and to heal, but it's because you're drawn to negativity. You're drawn to cooties.
You don't have to do that.
You don't have to be a moth to the flame of negativity in life, because guess what happens when that moth finally meets the flame? We get burned.
In Love and Light,
Just for Today...
Notice when you catch yourself trying to make someone happy by focusing on negativity with them, or letting them dump on you.
When you do, ask yourself: "Wait... Why am I doing this?"
Notice how you feel at that moment - you're already healing!
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