Believe that you "have to" stay later at work to prove your worth to the company?
Do you eat lunch at the computer and bring work home with you to save time?
Tired of feeling overworked and underpaid?
"All work and no play makes Jack a dull boy" is actually the truth.
Even if we love what we do for a living, it's important to find a safe, loving balance between contributing (through work) and receiving (through self-care, etc.) abundantly in life.
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"If I'm not working, I don't feel safe."
I'm hearing the Oracle cards calling in the energy now.
Be kind to yourself this week.
If you are an workaholic, if you have self-identified as being a workaholic, you don't have to do that.
You don't have to stay later, you don't have to come earlier, you don't have to eat lunch at the computer.
You don't have to bring work home with you and work on the laptop in front of the TV while you're on Facebook on your cellphone, and maybe even another couple of screens around you.
You don't have to.
There is an enabling pattern going on here, and the enabling is serving you on some level, and Source wants you to know that something about this addiction is serving you -- what is it?
It's this: you're trying to fill a Soul scar of neglect.
Whether you were neglected as a child, or are feeling neglected in your relationship or at work now, or you've been neglecting yourself -- neglecting your own relationship with yourself -- these cycles of neglect perpetuate cycles of workaholism.
This goes for any of the "-aholisms" -- alcoholism, for example. is to fill that space, that Soul scar of neglect.
It's an aching space. It doesn't have to be this way, though.
The Oracle cards for this week are the fairies sending us love and joy. Let's see. What have you got to tell us, fairies?
There's a strong, deep resonance coming from this card. I couldn't agree with the fairies more.
The first thing that I'm hearing in the energy is that, "Well, if I'm not working, I don't feel safe."
That's the dilemma of retirement, by the way.
Ah, the dilemma of retirement. "OK, I'm not working anymore. Out into the great unknown! What the heck is life without work?" Right?
Work is a coping mechanism to deal with experiencing life uncensored.
A coping mechanism to deal with experiencing your own emotions, your own desires, your own vision, your own passion and purpose uncensored.
Work, at its lower vibration, is the biggest coping mechanism and distraction you experience in your adult life.
Know this: Work can either be a distraction from an unfulfilled life or a vehicle for expressing love.
But let's see what the channeling is from the fairies:
Any feelings of danger of vulnerability are healing.
Wow! You know, usually when we think of feeling vulnerable we get scared.
Say you're feeling financially vulnerable because you're unemployed right now. To all my unemployed members of The TRIBE on the list, all my unemployed people, I'm sending you LOTS of love right now!
But, they're saying feeling vulnerable can be healing?
You know, there are times when we go through bouts of unemployment where looking for money becomes our job, and that's our number one focus.
It's a worry, a fear, a frustration.
And then there are the blessed moments when we realized in unemployment, holy cow, the world is my oyster right now, or I'm rekindling my relationship with my family, and with myself, because I have time and space to do that.
That higher vibration is what the fairies are talking about.
But I'm only one phrase in. It wasn't even a whole sentence of what they said:
Any feelings of danger or vulnerability are healing, and they are replaced with the certain knowledge that you are safe and protected right now.
Have you felt frightened or insecure lately?
If so, this card is a signal that heaven is aware of your feelings and has come to your aid.
You are surrounded by heavenly beings who love and protect you on an ongoing basis. The fairies remind you...
I just heard in the energy for all of us who feel like workaholics right now -- Source is saying we're looking for ongoing protection to come from work, rather than looking for it to come from Spirit.
And if you don't believe in a higher power, to all of my loves on the list out in The TRIBE who are Atheist, see "Spirit" as looking into your own inner spirit, the human spirit, your own will, your own desire to live, your capability as a human being.
Rather than looking inward, we're looking outward for protection. And that's why it can be addictive.
Why? Because whenever we look outward -- we will never be satisfied being external focused.
When you're looking for what to energetically feed on and what to do to "find" (or define) yourself, you won't find what you're looking for in just work. You're much bigger than that.
The fairies remind you that your thoughts of danger are triggering your feelings of vulnerability. In your mind you have given power to some outside entity."
Your job or your business or your clients, or the search for a job, or your volunteering. Big hugs to my volunteer-aholics! Wow, LOL, we're calling out everybody today!
You believe that this idol that you have created has the power to hurt you, or to control your life. Yet the only power it has is that which you have attributed to it.
You gave it the power. You unplug, you've got it back for you.
The fairies urge you to awaken from this mistaken concept, see that you have the power to create a happy and secure dream, and make the decision to feel safe by living that dream.
Affirmation: 'I am safe, I am secure, I am completely protected at all times.'
And this is where we're going to end.
Being a workaholic is just a spiritual boundaries issue.
This may have to be like a "let's get real moment" here, guys.
You're the only one who's burying you under your work, and in fact you're the one shoveling more on top of you.
But you don't have to be entombed like this.
Take personal responsibility and say: "I don't have to."
Say it with me. "I don't have to work right now. I don't have to work right now. In fact, I'm here to live. I'm here to live my life."
Build a strategic, clear and balanced personal approach to work.
And if you have a business, build your business in a way that supports you living your life in the way that you envision you want to live it at your best and highest vibration.
Send me an email back. What's coming up for you?
I look forward to hearing from you, and until next time, I'm just giving you tons and tons of hugs and kisses.
In Love and Light,
Just for Today...
Decide to look inward for feelings of safety and protection; take your power back.
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