Have you ever wondered what your life's purpose is?

Do you work to support a life you love, or do you live to work?

Still waiting to feel like you've finally "made it" in life, after all this time?

Sometimes our daily routine of work, home, sleep, repeat can get painfully boring, to the point that it can make life seem devoid of meaning.

But didn't they tell you that having a "nice" place, driving a "nice" car, keeping up with your bills and being "nice" to everyone should make you feel happy and fulfilled? That's the secret, right? WRONG!

Watch the above video to discover the secret to finally being fulfilled in life!

"What’s the point of it all?"

This week’s topic is the secret to being fulfilled in life.

Maybe recently you’ve been working really hard and wondering what it's all for.

Perhaps even, over the last couple of weeks, there's this aching inner sense of emptiness that's been creeping up on you.

Maybe it comes up in the people that you speak to lately, how frustrating it is when they're awfully shallow?

Or maybe are you doing things that don't really resonate with what you stand for or what your vision for your life has always been?

Are you not as far as you thought you would have been at this point in time? Are you not feeling fulfilled?

There's that inner sense of emptiness: the hole, the cave that can gather energetically, as well as even physically, eating away at our tissues, at our senses and sensibilities when we are not engaging what feeds us.

However, the non-receptive way of communicating with Source to write-off these events just "coincidences."

When we are externally driven in life, all meaning, worth, value, approval, acceptance – all judgments are based on what is external.

All actions in this sort of life are therefore based on what is external to us, as a self, a being, a consciousness, a person.

What it would look like if we were living an externally driven life is that, "I am what I can show for," or "I have to keep up with the Joneses because on the outside of me, these people are doing well, or at least their external representation looks showy, and I want to make sure that I'm on par with that."

Know This: Focusing on quality over quantity breeds fulfillment. #happiness #gratitude

The externally driven life is about acquiring larger quantities – of friends, of possessions, of dollars, etc.

Ultimately, the point is to make sure life looks very beautiful: the vision, the appearance and the visual spatial representation of whatever we're encountering in life.

But the externally driven life is one that it's not just shallow. There's a little bit more to it than that.

Specifically, the externally driven life is focused on appearances. If you can read this article, you have access to and are living in a society that is primarily externally driven.

The thing is that it’s not all bad. Yes, it’s true! Otherwise we wouldn’t really adhere to this point of view!

In truth, the good thing about being externally driven is that it's motivational.

Yes, it inspires you for more, more, more. However, if your vibration is low, it is good to be externally driven, because it pulls your vibration out of the dumps, or it keeps you from flat-lining energetically and boosts your physical life force.

Developing a dependency on being externally driven is where it becomes problematic is what the angels are saying right now. For example: determining your self-worth according to how many degrees and certifications you have is a slippery slope, because there's always more...

There comes a point in life where we need to be able to decide to enjoy where we are.

The other side is being internally driven.

Until now, we've been talking about having an externally driven life, which always ends up being not fulfilling. It will be motivational, endlessly.

I mean that positively and negatively at the same time, though. Being externally driven is not the key, not the secret, to experiencing what fulfillment feels like.

Rather than two sides of a coin, these have more of a “yin and yang” relationship.

The symbol of yin and yang is actually turning, because there is light and dark in both, constantly creating universal movement which is good. That actively creates harmony.

Similarly, we can apply this concept to the relationship between being internally and externally driven, in that when you find the active, dynamic balance between the two, you create – and have – harmony.

You can create and have fulfillment.

And it comes in a sustainable and expansive way, rather than from just throwing up your hands and saying "I'm done!" It's different.

But there’s a dark side to being internally driven.

The energy is saying that a good example of being internally driven is going about life by one of my favorite sayings, "What matters most is how you feel."

Being aware of how you feel, being present to the present moment and fully immersed in that is being internally driven in life.

So, the Joneses can have the car, the white picket fence, the expensive toy dog in the purse and the motorcycle/boat flying machine. Fabulous. I don't care because what matters most is how I feel. I'm more concerned with, "Well, am I all right with my house and my frying machine or my toaster oven." Right? Lol!

Well, there's more to it than just being stubbornly self-absorbed. How do you know if you're being internally driven or if you're around other people who are internally driven for the highest good?

You’ll have to watch the rest of this week’s video strategy to find out exactly how!

In Love and Light,

Victoria.

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Just for Today...

Stop and ask yourself: "why am I doing what I'm doing right now?"

Then check in and see if you're externally or internally motivated in your actions. Make sure to resist the urge to judge yourself; just observe!

Notice how you feel at that moment - you're already healing!

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Can't seem to escape all the negativity?

Finding it harder to stay positive these days?

Negative people, news, places and self-talk got you down?

It's hard to stay bright and positive all the time when most of the world is driven by negative and pessimistic inspiration.

How many times have you been having a great day, feeling happy and connected, only for one news headline or snide comment from some angry person to knock you all out of whack?

Watch the above video to learn about the nature of negativity and how to deal with it with grace and ease!

"No news is good news."

Way back in 2008, after reading The 4-Hour Workweek by the always awesome and crazy efficient Tim Ferriss, I made a commitment to going on a low-information diet: no more news.

No more watching, listening or reading the news except for headlines that I happen to see while passing by a newspaper or what people walk up and tell me directly.

And giving up the news changed my life.

From there, it extended to giving up watching television, mainly because with Youtube and Netflix, who needs TV?

For years I was commercial and newsflash free; now I only watch TV here and there when I know a show I like is airing. But it took years for me to detox from my TV and news addiction.

Now, it's easy enough to just shut off a TV and squelch that firehose of negativity. But, as nice as it would be, we can't quite "shut off" negative people--like negative bosses, colleagues or family members...

And, better yet, what happens when the source of negativity is in our head? Self-sabotage, anyone? 🙂

I know I do it to myself--and I'm certainly not the only one!

So, what can we do? Is negativity just unavoidable?

Yes. But the challenge is to heal and deal with it, not avoid it.

You see, if you're reading this article right now, you're a Lightworker; that means you're here to spread more love and light (enlightenment) on Earth in this lifetime.

And that's exactly why you're a naturally sensitive and positive person. That's also why you're so drawn to personal development and spiritual connection, too, because you intuitively know that as you raise your vibration, you give others permission to do the same.

So, rather than avoiding all negative energy and all the things that "kill your vibe," you have a higher calling to confront, heal and deal with the darkness.

Besides, remember the Law of Yin and Yang? There is always some dark in the light, and some light in the dark.

This Universal Law creates and maintains universal balance and expansion. Without contrast, life becomes unnaturally stagnant and sterile.

That being said, let's explore what is negative energy, and how we can send more love to the idea of it, rather than running in fear and ignorance.

Negativity and negative energy are at their core just energy, and all energy is essentially neutral. The idea of "negativity" or things being "negative" itself is relative and therefore a judgement.

All judgments are mindsets and stories we tell ourselves based on dominant thoughts we choose to think, and all judgments create emotional and energetic attachments to what we are judging. So, in other words, we actually create all the negativity we experience.

Know this: Negativity has no power over you that you didn't give it. #freeyourmind #loveandlight

Did you get that? We aren't saying that you caused that person to get shot or that you caused that tsunami to happen or that you caused the number of unemployed people to skyrocket (example of negative news headlines).

Instead, we are saying what happens is you choose how you feel, and because you are looking (vigilantly) for negativity, you'll find it and feel it.

Here's how this happens: you interpret what you're seeing or hearing (you spot a newspaper headline: dog found abused and abandoned), you create a "negative" judgment (thought: animal abuse is bad), you internalize the "negative" feelings associated with it (thought and feeling: dog abuse turns my stomach and makes me angry), and then you internalize responsibility for it because you know about it (thought and feeling: I know something must be done, but I can't do anything, so I feel helpless). It in turn tangles you up emotionally and spiritually with what you see or hear in that moment even if it has nothing to do with you, and because you feel helpless, the "negative energy" drains you and kills your vibe.

And that is how what was simply just a passing news headline can suddenly have enough power to ruin your day. Or even your week or month, or perhaps even more as you rehash the story over and over.

Here's the key: to deal with negativity, you need to unplug from it emotionally.

We're not saying become a cold-hearted person or shut down. If you're reading this, you're already a sensitive, loving, spiritual and empathic person, and that's your gift. So we're saying you need to be a good steward of your gift, knowing when and how to adjust it to protect your health and wellbeing (physically, mentally, emotionally and spiritually).

It's about learning to flow with your emotions and the energies that influence them.

Watch this week's video for the Oracle Card of the Week, which shows you how to release negative energy and negative mindsets!

In Love and Light,

Victoria.

VictoriaWhitfield.com
Facebook.com/SenseiVictoriaWhitfield

Just for Today...

Notice when you label something "negative" or "draining."

Then ask yourself "Why am I giving this thing / person power over me? Does it / do they actually have power over me, in spiritual truth?"

Notice how you feel at that moment - you're already healing!

SHARE THIS! You’d be surprised how many people you know right now are in desperate need of healing and could use this information to change their life. If you can read this, you know someone who needs this Love Letter!

Want to clear away negative energy? Tell me!

Give me a call at 732-903-8573 or click on the blue BOOK NOW button to start your healing journey, today!

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