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Love Letters | Feeding on Negativity – Part 2 of 2

Sensei Victoria Whitfield — Mon, 25 Jan 2016 12:00:46 +0000

Are you sensitive to others' emotions and energy as an Empath?

Wondering why you keep attracting negative, dramatic, abusive or untrustworthy people?

Frustrated that your friends, family, clients or coworkers are so negative and draining?

The Law of Attraction states that "like attracts like;" therefore if you're surrounded by negative people and situations, then they're attracted to your Shadow's desire for negativity.

It's possible that although you're a positive person who loves helping people, you may be unconsciously feeding on negative energy to create connections and feel significant.

Watch this 9-minute video to learn how to stop your unconscious self-sabotage habit of feeding on negativity now!

"Why do I keep attracting the same kinds of people who are takers?"

So what's really going on, then?

Could it be that we as lightworkers and empathic, sensitive individuals are naturally drawn to -- and end up feeding on, or making deep connections based on -- negativity?

Are we hardwired to focus on negative things and commiserate by sharing being in that vortex of negative appreciation with others?

We create a vortex of negative appreciation, by the way, by appreciating all the things that we mutually hate, or are mutually annoyed by, or mutually want to get rid of.

How can we shift from a negative focus to a positive focus in how we relate to others?

Source keeps asking this question, "do you feed on negative energy?"

In the energy, the Spirits are saying, "We're asking this question as always to open you up to what could possibly be going on."

Source always brings something up for a reason:

Because you might be stuck in a cycle of self-sabotage right now.

This is especially to certain people in the tribe who are wondering:

"Why do I keep attracting the same kinds of people who are takers?"

"Why do I keep attracting people who dump on me? What did I ever do to deserve this?"

"Did I do something bad in another lifetime that I'm paying for, that all of this crap keeps happening to me?"

Or "Why do I keep attracting this?"

"This" being a situation that is a challenge or feeling stuck or the same pattern happening.

If you're noticing that there are loop cycles in your life, Source is asking this rhetorical question to help you sensitize to what your role is in creating this situation.

You could be feeding on negativity as a way to connect or a way to engage.

We've been taught that focusing on negativity together brings a sense of togetherness, or where a mutual frustration is a strong bond of vulnerability.

Unfortunately though, this sense of togetherness is based in a state of victimhood and fear.

I'm hearing the Oracle cards now calling in the energy to really help us understand what can we do then to shift our state from feeding on negativity -- unconsciously unaware feeding on negativity -- by the way.

So many people are going to watch this video and be like, "That's not me." But keep a separate eyeball out for YOUR message.

I know you have 2 eyes -- I have 3. 😉 If you're watching this you probably have 3, too. But everybody needs to grow another one right now -- LOL!

Specifically, be on the extra eyeball lookout for "Am I feeding on negativity to feel significant and have a meaningful life? Am I relating to people and really forming bonds based on a negative focus vortex of appreciation?"

The Oracle cards deck that came through in the energy this week is the Archangel Oracle Cards. High vibrational beings, archangels are.

It's good that we speak to archangels and really channel their energy, because we need an uplift, we need something to pull us up energetically so that we can best understand how to shift our states around kicking the addiction to feeding on negative energy.

When using oracle cards, shuffling the cards and allowing spirit to come through is essential, and saying "Archangels of communication and guidance, please come to us and let us know how can we shift our states to stop focusing on negativity."

This one really is standing out right now -

Remember who you are.

Archangel Michael is coming through for us. He's pretty reliable.

He is such an incredible, bright presence, the most commonly spoken to and spoken of archangel out of all of the pantheon of archangels.

Archangel Michael is saying:

You are a powerful, loving and creative child of God. You are very loved.

What I'm first hearing Archangel Michael saying in the energy is that when you remember who you really are, you decide to see from that point of view.

There is so much more to your energy as well as all of our energies than just focusing on negative vibrations, negative occurrences, drama.

If you remember who you really are as a child of God and as a divine presence yourself, you wouldn't allow anyone to dump on you.

If you really are a sacred being and you step into that truth as being a sacred being, that's out of the question.

Know this: Your #body, your #life and your #mind are hallowed ground. Act like it. #love #tbt @SenseiWhitfield

You don't dump on hallowed ground, no, you wouldn't even think twice of that.

Hallowed ground is a protected, sacred space.

Honoring yourself as a spiritual and sacred being must come first for you to shift your state away from feeding on and attracting negativity.

The reading continues:

You are made in the image and likeness of your Creator, so you embody all aspects of your divine nature.

Your inner divine light is pure and bright in truth, and no mistakes can undo God's handiwork of true perfection in you.

Don't be afraid of your power, your magnificence or your wisdom. When you succeed you inspire others.

When you change your life so that it's more aligned with your interests, you inspire others.

Be powerful, be magnificent. This is who you really are.

If you notice that you are feeding on negative energy -- and most energyworkers, empaths and lightworkers, by the way, do -- be kind to yourself.

Whether or not you're aware of it right now, I want you to be sensitive to the fact that you're at a very high probable risk of feeding on negative energy.

When you notice this, realize that this is happening because you're not giving yourself permission to be powerful and magnificent.

Instead, we're playing small. We're afraid of our power.

That's why, rather than stepping into a positive focus -- no matter what is happening in front of you because the universe is rearranging itself in your best interests at any given moment -- you shrink.

Rather than stepping into that greatness, no, we'll fall back on social convention of "Oh yeah, it's a terrible day out" or "Oh yeah, that person is really awful, let me tell you about her..."

You go down a notch energetically -- we all do, because we're afraid to stick out and be bright with a positive focus, and feeding ourselves only positive energy and focusing only on positive energy.

Even if other people come up and try to make heart connections with you based in fear and victimhood, you can do this.

It is absolutely possible.

And no, it's not naieve. There's more to being positive than being dumb or sticking one's head in the sand. Just because you're choosing to focus on the negative DOES NOT mean you're being "realistic."

Be kind to yourself if you're afraid to go this route.

You can do it. Remember who you really are.

Right now I'm sending you a tremendous amount of love. I see you as you are, as a divine and spiritual being, and I'm sending you big hugs and kisses.

In Love and Light,

Victoria.

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Just for Today...

Act like your time, body and mind are absolutely sacred spaces; treating her with the same level of reverence as you would a church or temple. She is already significant and meaning-filled without the focus on stories of drama and negativity -- no matter how true they are.

Decide to be the guardian of The Temple today and make sure no one -- including you -- brings "trash" or low-vibe energy into this sacred space.

Notice how you feel at that moment - you're already healing!

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Love Letters | Feeding on Negativity – Part 1 of 2

Sensei Victoria Whitfield — Mon, 18 Jan 2016 12:00:40 +0000

Feel like you're surrounded by negativity and don't know why?

Known as "the positive one," do people always go to you for support, telling you their whole life's story -- even as total strangers?

Love helping people in need, giving advice, solving problems and seeing lives change because it gives you a sense of purpose?

This message is for all you awesome Mr. and Ms. Fix-It's out there who are feeling exhausted by all the negative energy they're called to heal.

Spirit is sending you a loving warning: though your purpose is to be a Lightworker who spreads healing light and love on the planet, be careful that you are not feeding on the negativity along the way.

Watch the above 6-minute video to see if YOU feed on negative energy and not even know it!

"Am I drawn to negativity because I need to fix it?"

This week, Source is asking do you feed on negative energy?

It's interesting that we're asking you this in particular, because most of the people in the TRIBE who watch the Love Letters, if not all the people in our TRIBE, are sensitive to negative energy.

We know that the overwhelming answer, initially, is going to be "No! No-no. I am clearing my life of negative energy. The last thing that I want around me is negative vibe people, negative events, negative news, negative food, negative thoughts, feelings, or any kind of negative vibes. Get it away! Cooties!" Right?

This is the equivalent of Source asking you "Oh, do you eat cooties as your primary source of nutrition every day? Do you like cooties?"

No! Nobody likes cooties. No, of course not.

But the Energy is asking this question more as a rhetorical question.

Let's explain. In our culture, and in most cultures, a point of connection between people, a socially acceptable point of connection between people and getting to know others.

Making friends. Bonding with loved ones. Or, understanding each other on similar levels, on philosophical or political vibrations.

A commonly acceptable way to make connections is through negativity.

It could be focusing on something negative that happened in the news recently. Or, sharing something negative - sharing is a powerful connector.

Sharing things like "this really annoying person did this." Or, "this crappy thing happened to me and I'm so frustrated about it I just want to be able to share how crappy things are."

Or even at work, when we're coming together for a meeting, we may relate to our coworkers by saying and "Oh yeah, the coffee here is always terrible." "Oh I know, right? It's just so bad."

Know this: #Focus on the #negative, & you'll get more of it. Go figure. #Choose to speak #life today! #takecharge2016 #spreadlove

This sense of making connections according to negative energy doesn't just stop there, Source is saying.

On top of that, very positive, loving, open, sensitive and intuitive people who are givers at heart -- called "Lightworkers" -- are givers in response to the tremendous amount of negative energy that they are surrounded by.

However, we Lightworkers tend to have what's called a bit of a "savior complex" or "martyrdom addiction."

What does this look like?

Well, what this looks like in the energy, or in our behavioral patterns moreover, is that when people are in trouble or they're emotionally overwhelmed, or things are difficult for them, or they're dramatic -- we're drawn to that.

We're drawn to that negative vibration to resolve it, as if we are in charge of making everyone and everything happy.

We assume we are responsible, as the positive lightworker beacons of light that we are, to eradicate all negativity and make sure everyone is healthy, happy and comfortable.

Because of that, we're drawn to negativity.

But this assumption is coming from your Shadow side.

Now, Source is saying let's take a look this week in particular at your energy and really ask ourselves "Am I drawn to negativity because I NEED to fix it? Because I think I know better? Or because I think can help?"

Ask yourself, "is this the way that I relate to people, listening to and absorbing their troubles, and really letting them be in a vortex of negative focus with me?"

A.K.A: "Do I let people dump on me so they feel better? And so I can feel useful, significant and connected to them?"

As if you're some sort of an energetic trashcan.

If you're an energetic trashcan, then you just catch everybody else's problems because you're here to listen, here to love and to heal, but it's because you're drawn to negativity. You're drawn to cooties.

You don't have to do that.

You don't have to be a moth to the flame of negativity in life, because guess what happens when that moth finally meets the flame? We get burned.