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		<title>Love Letters &#124; Let&#8217;s Have A Reunion Party</title>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p>﻿﻿ This is a special announcement Love Letter. Yay! I'M INTERESTED! NOTIFY ME 🙂 So I wanted to let you know that I am so, so thankful for all your years of support. Being in this line of work has really changed my life and changed the lives of hundreds of entrepreneurs around the world. [&#8230;]</p>
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<h2><strong>This is a special announcement Love Letter. Yay!</strong></h2>
<h2><a href="mailto:team@victoriawhitfield.com?subject=Put Me On The Reunion List!&amp;body=I want to know how I can attend the 2018 Winter Solstice Reunion Party. Please put me on the list.&amp;bcc=senseivictoriawhitfield@gmail.com"><strong>I'M INTERESTED! NOTIFY ME 🙂</strong></a></h2>
<p>So I wanted to let you know that I am so, so thankful for all your years of support. Being in this line of work has really changed my life and changed the lives of hundreds of entrepreneurs around the world. Tribe, I want to thank you, thank you, thank you for all your support over the years and because of that, my work has grown. This is my special announcement, if you didn't get it in the mail: oh my goodness, we're moving!</p>
<p><strong>I wanted to take this week in particular to inspire you, as well as inform you, around the shifts that are happening here at the dojo. </strong>Here's what's going to happen. My work has grown so much that my guides have asked me to focus more on serving you and your teams in particular. We have manifested a gorgeous space that you'll be seeing more of come this December onward. My guides have shown me it's time for us to gather more as a tribe in person, and heal together as a group.</p>
<p>For the last three years in particular, the dojo space where I have been presenting to you from, as well as seeing you if you've been coming for sessions and for meditation classes, is really set up for more one-on-one work. When we throw a party there, we're practically sitting on each other's laps. There's nothing wrong with that, however, gathering together in general is where the juice is at. Right? I'm sure you'd agree with me, for those of you who know what I'm talking about -- when we get to see each other as a group in person, this is so powerful.</p>
<p><strong>For those of you who are members of my Visionary Shaman Circle, of my Abundant Business Circle and who come to group guided meditations, you already know, or for those who attend our solstice parties at the dojo, you know it is so enriching to get to see your tribe in person. </strong>Because of that, the location that we've manifested is capable of holding 10 times the amount of visitors. Before I could only maybe have like six to 10 people, maybe 12 in the room if we're sitting on each other's laps. Where we're going has between 60 to 100 people in on-site capacity. It's gorgeous, it's a historic home, maybe about seven minutes away from where we are currently. And I would really love to get to share that with you.</p>
<p><strong>So, we're not just throwing a winter solstice party this year. It's a brand new dojo, and I desire for us to have a reunion, and YOU are invited! Want to come? <a href="mailto:team@victoriawhitfield.com?subject=Put Me On The Reunion List!&amp;body=I want to know how I can attend the 2018 Winter Solstice Reunion Party. Please put me on the list.&amp;bcc=senseivictoriawhitfield@gmail.com">CLICK HERE if you want to be notified as soon as possible for when and where we're going to be throwing our very first Winter Solstice Tribe Reunion Party.</a></strong></p>
<p>This week in particular, I’m being guided to tell you to ask YOUR guides. Normally, I'm telling you what my spirit guides are telling me. Absolutely. I've been journeying on this for quite some time. But this reunion is actually a personal desire of my own: I desire a reunion. Ask your own spirit guides, ask your own higher self. What would it look like for me to throw a reunion party for all of my beloved peeps? If it's for your clients, if it's a reunion for your family, if it's a reunion for your friends, try it, and for no particular reason other than a reunion.</p>
<p><strong>Because here's the thing: together is better. </strong>You have to ask if you want to receive. I know for me personally, I find that the more I think about it, the more I desire to be in the presence of the people that I love. Right? I've made that decision in my own living situation. I will never live alone. I will always live with someone who loves me and who I love dearly. However that works out, whatever it takes. Because I have lived alone before, and I discovered that I personally don't like the way that that feels.</p>
<p>I've also changed my business lifestyle as well with that same value: I will always work with someone who loves me and who I love dearly, too. I will never work alone. That has changed the level of abundance that I get to experience and enjoy in my life as well as in my business. What matters most is how I feel, and I live that with passion!</p>
<p>With that, let's call it in. I know I'm calling YOU in to come to our Winter Solstice Tribe Reunion Party this December, so make sure you click here to say, "I'm interested. I'm there!” <strong><a href="mailto:team@victoriawhitfield.com?subject=Put Me On The Reunion List!&amp;body=I want to know how I can attend the 2018 Winter Solstice Reunion Party. Please put me on the list.&amp;bcc=senseivictoriawhitfield@gmail.com">Click here if that speaks to you.</a></strong><br />
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<p><strong>And, this week in particular, I would challenge you to ask your spirit guides, what kind of reunion party should I throw? </strong>This doesn't mean that you have to cook, by the way. I never cook at my parties. All of them are potluck style! Baby, bring it, bring it. Whatever you bring. That's awesome. And also, this doesn't mean that you have to chase people down and charge. When I throw a party I never charge, this is just to see you come, hug and spend quality time together.</p>
<p>Now, if you want to contribute, or leave a donation to cover the cups, plates and the space and party supplies, of course I'm grateful and always open to receive support if it brings you pleasure to give. Or for myself I know that when I'm going to a party the hostess is saying, "Hey, could you help us spot five, 10, 30, 50, however for the space, et cetera, et cetera?" I'm happy to oblige, because I have an abundant mindset and I get to be in the party with people I love. Let it be easy.</p>
<p><strong>Ok! I'm hearing my own, personal, Oracle cards deck calling in the energy. </strong>This is the very first deck that I ever got for myself, it's the Goddess Guidance Oracle Cards deck by Doreen Virtue. This is the actual deck that is only mine and I'm at my home office right now; this deck changed my life when I bought it and I encourage you to get this one (<a href="https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/1401903010/ref=as_li_tl?ie=UTF8&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=9325&amp;creativeASIN=1401903010&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;tag=senseivictori-20&amp;linkId=ee2ecd6b418e6899c64fe2f266c1fefa" target="_blank" rel="noopener">BUY ON AMAZON</a>).</p>
<p>For this week in particular, goddesses, what do we need to know right now about throwing a reunion party, up-leveling our quality of life, and welcoming in more of the tribe? ...Hey, I love it. This is a bit counterintuitive. And I love that. The goddess card that’s coming to us is <em>“Bast: Independent. Your independence is a foundation for your strength and success.”</em>What I'm hearing right now, coming from my guides about throwing a reunion party and welcoming people back into your space, and with me inviting you to come see the new dojo, is let's celebrate, let's have some fun together.</p>
<p><strong>Bast, the Goddess Bast is coming forward about independence. </strong>Now, I know you. You are a “strong, independent, insert word here.” Strong independent woman, strong independent man, strong independent girl, strong independent boy. Strong independent business owner. Strong independent entrepreneur. Strong independent artist. Strong independent musician. Strong independent mother. Strong independent father. So on and so forth.</p>
<p>Be kind to yourself. Your independence is a foundation for your strength and success. AND there is more to a house than just the foundation. I do believe it's powerful to be strong and independent. Right there with you! I'm an achiever. Achievers unite, haha! And, that's our foundation. What fills in the rest of the house is the power of positive community. Your ability to be resourced and resourceful. Call it in, ask for what you desire.</p>
<p><strong>If you've been feeling lonely at work, ask for people to come by and visit. </strong>If you've been feeling like you're not hanging out with, or seeing enough of your friends and family, ask for them to come by. Don't wait for somebody else to ask you. I just felt a chill in the energy like someone who's watching this right now, maybe it's you, or maybe it's whoever you're going to share this with, because you got to make sure that this word gets out to our tribe. Someone who's watching this right now, could be you, has been waiting to be invited and has been angry or frustrated that they haven't been asked to come out, or everybody else is going out, or everybody else is having parties and things to celebrate, blah, blah, blah. Instead, take a deep breath, and accept that – if only just for today – it’s officially on you this time to make it happen.</p>
<p><strong>It's official: Happy Everything Week! Okay? Got it? Declare happy everything. Join me in this.</strong></p>
<p><strong><a href="mailto:team@victoriawhitfield.com?subject=Put Me On The Reunion List!&amp;body=I want to know how I can attend the 2018 Winter Solstice Reunion Party. Please put me on the list.&amp;bcc=senseivictoriawhitfield@gmail.com">And by the way, click here and make sure that you join us, so that you get on that notifications list to be there for our winter solstice party.</a> </strong>Our reunion this time will be at the new space, and let's enjoy being together. We can be independent, absolutely, and be powerful in that independence. And then let's enjoy our lives together. Two strong independent people come together, and they become interdependent, and create this amazing life full of love, fulfillment and togetherness. Doing it alone is great, but together is better.</p>
<p>Comment below, send me an email back at info@victoriawhitfield.com, that comes straight to me, or you can email my team at team@victoriawhitfield.com. Let me know what comes up for you around this. Make sure that you subscribe on YouTube so that you get these Love Letters first every week, and I will see you next week with our next series. Bye for now!</p>
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<h2><strong>Just for today...</strong></h2>
<h3>Declare that it's "Happy Everything Week" and call in people you miss seeing.</h3>
<h3>Take a deep breath, center yourself, and ask someone you miss to come visit you or to meet up to reconnect in person.</h3>
<h3>Notice how you feel in that moment - <em>you're already healing!</em></h3>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 27 Mar 2017 07:00:30 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p>Scared to ask for help? Struggling to hold it all together on your own? Feeling like you're headed for burnout? Feeling resistant to making a change because it's outside your comfort zone? Strong, independent go-getters like you and I have learned over time to rely on ourselves to get the job done, and done well. [&#8230;]</p>
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<h2><span style="color: #800080;"><em>Scared to ask for help?<br />
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<h2><em>Struggling to hold it all together on your own?<br />
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<h2><em>Feeling like you're headed for burnout?</em></h2>
<p>Feeling resistant to making a change because it's outside your comfort zone?</p>
<p>Strong, independent go-getters like you and I have learned over time to rely on ourselves to get the job done, and done well.</p>
<p>Yet, there comes a time in life where in order to get what we really want, we have to open up and receive help – so where do you start?</p>
<p><span style="color: #008080;"><strong>Watch this week's 12-minute Love Letter video to find out exactly what you need to do to turn your situation around!<br />
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<p style="text-align: right;"><em><span style="color: #800080;"><b>"I&nbsp;don't want to be a burden."</b></span></em></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">As a holistic stress management expert and spiritual teacher, it's a really interesting line of work. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><strong><span class="s1">I get all kinds of reactions and all kinds of stories from people, when they encounter who I am and what I do. </span></strong></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">I support visionary entrepreneurs like yourself, and creative people just like you, in creating a life that they love by harnessing their natural intuition, so that they feel more centered and grounded as they get out there and share their gifts.</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1" style="color: #800080;"><strong> And from time to time, that means speaking to people who don't quite get it, or encountering people who love, and need, and desire support in that realm.</strong> </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">They need the one-on-one, or the group spiritual support sessions that I provide. They'll need it, but then they'll resist it, and then they'll throw their resistance, they'll "hot potato" that on me. Right? </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1"><strong> Here's the thing. This week in particular, the guides are telling you what they've told me for many years, and that's take a risk. Risky requests.</strong> </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">This week in particular, your visionary challenge is to take a risk by making a risky request. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span style="color: #800080;"><strong><span class="s1">Now what does that look like? That basically looks like inviting someone in to support you, to affirm you, or to join you, or to help you out, etc, making a risky request.</span></strong></span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1"> If you are watching this, chances are very, very likely that you are a natural healer, supportive caregiver, someone who's highly sensitive, and wants everybody else to feel happy, healthy, loved, supported, etc. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><strong><span class="s1">You care so much that you take strong, deep responsibility for making sure that everyone around you is well taken care of, except for you.</span></strong></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1"> Correct me if I'm wrong, maybe I'm off-base. Maybe this one isn't for you. Maybe you're amazing at making requests, and that's wonderful. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span style="color: #800080;"><strong><span class="s1">But to the rest of us watching this Love Letter video, or reading through it, or listening to the recording, etc, we could all use a little bit more practice asking for what we desire, asking for what we need, and asking for support.</span></strong></span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1"> So this week in particular, the guides are challenging you to make a risky request. All right? </span></p>
<p class="p1"><strong><span class="s1">What would that look like for you? What could you never ask for? </span><span class="s1">Oh, like:</span></strong></p>
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<li class="p1"><span class="s1"><em>"I could never ask my husband to massage my shoulders, no way. No, no, no, no,"</em></span></li>
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<li class="p1"><span class="s1"><em>"I could never ask for a little bit more time off from my boss. No, no, no, no,"</em></span></li>
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<li style="list-style-type: none;">
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<li class="p1"><span class="s1"><em>"I could never ask that beautiful person out on a date. No, no, no, no,"</em></span></li>
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<li class="p1"><span class="s1"><em>"I could never ask for my own one-on-one session with Victoria. No, no, no, no, no. I'm not worth it."</em></span></li>
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<li class="p1"><span class="s1"><em>"I don't want to interrupt her,"</em></span></li>
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<li style="list-style-type: none;">
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<li class="p1"><span class="s1"><em>"I don't want to interrupt him."</em></span></li>
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<li style="list-style-type: none;">
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<li class="p1"><span class="s1"><em>"I don't want to be a burden."</em></span></li>
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<li class="p1"><span class="s1"><em>"I don't want to take up space."</em> </span></li>
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<p class="p1"><span class="s1"> What? Ooh, look at all of those excuses, and all of that resistance that just comes flying out of us. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1" style="color: #800080;"><strong>Requests that are effective, that are really meant for you to move to your next level, in life and in business, usually feel a little bit risky. There's a flutter of vulnerability, because you're risking rejection.</strong> </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1"> What's the worst thing that could happen, though? They could say no. And guess what? </span></p>
<p class="p1"><strong><span class="s1">There's another seven billion people on the planet. You've got that many more opportunities to find the person, the organization, the venue, the space, the time, etc, who can fulfill what it is that you need and desire.</span></strong></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1"> So what's your risky request? Is it for more time off? Is it for a sick day? Is it for flowers? Is it for a compliment and an affirmation? </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1" style="color: #800080;"><strong>I want to hear it. Type in the comments below or send me an email back at senseivictoriawhitfield@gmail.com. I want to hear your risky request, but I dare you to share it publicly.</strong> </span></p>
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<h2 class="p1"><a href="http://bit.ly/2nZvLu7">Know this:&nbsp;Quantum leaps in life and business require you to take a risk.</a></h2>
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<p class="p1"><span class="s1"> Mine's coming, but first I hear the Oracle cards calling in the energy. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1"><strong>And talk about risk, Angel Answers, by Doreen Virtue. This is the yes/no deck.</strong> </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">So you ready to play a little bit of Russian roulette? Let's go. This deck is similar to the old Magic 8-Ball thing, where you'd shake it and ask a yes/no, binary type question, and it would say Yes, No, Maybe, Ask Again Later. I always got the Ask Again Later, what about you? Oh my gosh. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span style="color: #800080;"><strong><span class="s1"> Angels, what do we need to know right now? Should we ask a risky question this week? Can we ask a risky question this week?</span></strong></span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">You know there's nos, there's two nos, actually, and two yeses in this deck in particular. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><strong><span class="s1">Can we ask a risky question this week? What do we need to know right now? This is so good. You ready? Compromise.</span></strong></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Compromise, and this is so beautiful. Look at, there's the two hands, the higher self and the lower self. Ooh, they just told me to read. I'll give you the channeling that I'm hearing first, though. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1" style="color: #800080;"><strong> The guides say, <em>"When you ask, remember that it's not your way or the highway. It could be what you ask for, or something even better. Let your risky ask be of mutual benefit. Ask in a way that pleasures you as well as the person that you are requesting for."</em> What would that look like?</strong> </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1"> Also, asking from a space of pleasure and abundance versus asking from a place of, <em>"Arrgh, you're not going to even answer my request anyway, so I'm just doing this homework because Victoria told me to."</em> Don't do that. Compromise. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><strong><span class="s1">Also, the guides turned this upside down and said, <em>"Be careful how much you compromise your boundaries in order to meet others' requests. Remember, you have needs and desires too."</em></span></strong></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Here it is, <em>"In order to create a happy outcome for this situation, you will find it necessary to compromise. Allow yourself some time to become clear about what is truly important to you."</em> </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span style="color: #800080;"><strong><span class="s1">Some of you may be thinking,<em> "Well Victoria, I don't know what to ask for."</em> </span></strong></span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Okay, don't jump to it. Take some time to reflect about what you want, or what you would ask for that feels a little bit, <em>"Ooh, I can't ask that."</em></span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1"><em> "Also take note of matters where you would be open to changing your position. Work toward an agreement where everyone wins."</em> Same as the channeling. Beautiful. <em>"Be open to cooperation that would allow you to get what you need while also assisting others in fulfilling their desires."</em> Is this beautiful or what? <em>"Be objective about finding a balance between respecting everyone else's viewpoints and still being true to your own."</em></span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1"> So good, and this is where we're going to leave off. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1"><strong>Your risky ask is actually a blessing. So be kind to yourself. And share what that desire is, because it could very well, and it can very easily, bless the other person. By them getting to serve and support you, it gives them an opportunity to show you love.</strong> </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1"> Here's my risky ask, by the way. If you could, please send me a comment back or an email below. In what way have I touched you? Maybe it was in this video. Maybe it's been over the years. Maybe in a group experience, or maybe in one of your private sessions. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><strong><span class="s1" style="color: #800080;">As someone who's out and sharing, sharing, sharing abundantly, and it's my joy to share, sometimes I wonder, <em>"Have I ever touched anyone, or really helped them?"</em></span></strong></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1"> I can tell you, this is a risky ask because I feel a bit of emotion flutter, like,<em> "I wonder."</em> Right? Even I wonder, I'm not perfect. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1"> So if you want to return a little bit of the love received, please send me an email back or comment below, and let me know what has been my effect on you, whether right now or in the past, et cetera. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1"><strong>And if you're very new to my work, what do you see me doing in the future? I'd love to hear that. Okay?</strong> </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1"> I don't know if anyone's going to answer that, but I'm trusting and putting it out there, and I'm open to receiving your love, support, and affirmation. I'm sending you so much love, regardless. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Muah, make sure you subscribe on YouTube so that you get your Love Letters first every week. All right, we'll see you soon. Bye.</span></p>
<p class="p1"><strong style="line-height: 1.5;">In Love and Light,</strong></p>
<p><strong>Victoria.</strong></p>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 19 Sep 2016 12:00:23 +0000</pubDate>
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<h2><span style="color: #800080;"><em>Do you have a big vision for your life and business?<br />
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<h2><em>Ready to make a quantum leap and experience exponential growth?<br />
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<h2><em>Think it's impossible to make your dream a reality because it's too much work for you?<br />
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<p><span style="line-height: 1.5;">You're right; it is impossible if you try to do it all by yourself!</span></p>
<p><span style="line-height: 1.5;">Source says that there's infinite abundance waiting for you right at your fingertips — all you have to do is reach out and take it.<br />
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<p><span style="color: #008080;"><strong>Watch this week's 8-minute Love Letter video to learn a technique to receive more abundance in an exponential way — the Shiva Ask!</strong></span></p>
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<p style="text-align: right;"><em><span style="color: #800080;"><b>"<em>Should I be sharing my vision with others?</em>"</b></span></em></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">This week the technique that's coming through the energy for us to share with you, Source wants you to know about the Shiva Ask. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1"><strong>The Shiva Ask and this is really an incredible, divine feminine, although Lord Shiva is male, a divine feminine practice for inviting, conjuring and activating abundance, all right?</strong> </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">In depictions of Shiva Nataraja, he is in his divine dance, right? Where he is destroying the weary universe and creating the new one, right? Multiple, multiple arms in the process of creation, right, breaking down, breaking open, breaking through and creating newness.</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Now, I'm not going into too much who Shiva is, he's a Hindu god, I'll leave that up to you.</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1" style="color: #800080;"><strong>In particular this week, Source is telling me to share with you what is a Shiva Ask?</strong> </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">This week, in particular, it's going to be up to you to implement this technique. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><strong><span class="s1">The components of a Shiva Ask are:</span></strong></p>
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<li class="p1"><span class="s1">Vision</span></li>
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<p class="p1"><strong><span class="s1"><span style="color: #800080;">Firstly, the vision of what it is you desire most.</span> </span></strong></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">What is the new world, new life, new universe, new situation, new thing that you desire to create in your life? You have a vision of it and, in fact, that vision is bigger than who you are and where you are right now.</span></p>
<p class="p1"><strong><span class="s1">Second component is community.</span></strong></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Around you there are people who love you, people who champion you, people who do not judge you or criticize you but instead leap at the opportunity to be your cheerleader, to support you in any way. They tend to be very similar to you because you're a natural giver at heart, you're naturally sensitive and there are people who are around you that you just love who have that open mind, similar kind of vibration as you, right? </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span style="color: #800080;"><strong><span class="s1">First is vision, second is community, three, the third part of the Shiva Ask is opening.</span></strong></span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">In the opening, what you do is you open your vision to be shared with that community. The reason why Source is calling this a Shiva Ask is because god, goddess, universe, life, whatever you call it, right? Your higher self has so much abundance, so much support for you ready for you to receive right now that you are going to need more than two hands to catch it.</span></p>
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<h2 class="p1"><a href="http://ctt.ec/nL25c"><strong><span class="s1">Know this:&nbsp;God has so much abundance ready for you that you're going to need more than two hands to catch it. @SenseiWhitfield http://bit.ly/2cdE26J</span></strong></a></h2>
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<p class="p1"><span class="s1">As Shiva Nataraja has multiple arms, multiple hands, all these different representations on each hand too if you look at the artwork. Incredible, so it is that we need to have multiple arms, multiple hands in order to create that which we are envisioning. Now, you might be thinking to yourself,<em> "Wouldn't it be nice if I had like extra hands to create it?"</em> Guess what, you're missing step three is the opening.</span></p>
<p class="p1"><strong><span class="s1">Opening has to do with sharing your vision with step two that community of like-minded, loving individuals that are around you. Essentially saying I had this vision and I wanted to know what you think about it, <em>"I need your help, can I share it with you?"</em> </span></strong></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Then you tell them about your vision and passion. Maybe they might be able to be that extra set of hands that can help you capture the vision, right? Or they may know someone who can do that for you in their stead. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span style="color: #800080;"><strong><span class="s1">I'm hearing the oracle cards calling in the energy&nbsp;this week to weigh in on the topic.</span></strong></span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">It's the Goddess Guidance Oracle Cards deck to really vibrate with that feminine energy of opening and I mean this whether you are male or female. This means engaging vulnerability, it takes a lot courage to open.</span></p>
<p class="p1"><strong><span class="s1">To do that third step of the Shiva Ask and really share the vision because you risk having someone say no, you risk having someone see your vision and hear it, like there's so much risk opening but there's so much more to gain if you go for it.</span></strong></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Goddesses, what do we need to know right now about opening this week in particular? I'm hearing this card, ooh, White Tara. Let's do it, sensitivity. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1"><em>"You are becoming increasingly sensitive. Avoid harsh relationships, environments, situations and chemicals."</em> </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">And here's where we are going to end this week. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1" style="color: #800080;"><strong>You know how part two is that the people that you are identifying, are like-minded, loving, caring, champions, positive, not judge-y or crusty cooties in any way?</strong> </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">You already know who does not fall in that category, so in order to really capture the vision that you've been seeing you have to make sure that you are sharing it with people who are sensitive like you.</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Be kind to yourself if you want to tell everybody, that's not what we're saying here. That would really add some arms that aren't going to be with you, instead, they may working against you. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1"><strong>I don't know who this is for this week, but somebody out there is being called to realize the vision in a big way and needed to know what technique to really get that vision going, grounding, manifesting.</strong> </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Comment below, send me an email back at senseivictoriawhitfield@gmail.com&nbsp;and let me know what do you think? </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1" style="color: #800080;"><strong>What's coming up for you around doing the Shiva Ask? Have you done it? What was the outcome?</strong> </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Make sure you subscribe on YouTube so that you get your Love Letters every week, first, and I'll see you next week, right? Bye.</span></p>
<p class="p1"><strong style="line-height: 1.5;">In Love and Light,</strong></p>
<p><strong>Victoria.</strong></p>
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<p><strong>Practice The Shiva Ask with at least one other person that is a natural champion of you.<br />
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<p><strong>Open up and ask them to share in helping you realize your big vision.</strong></p>
<p><strong><em>Notice how you feel at that moment - you're already healing!</em></strong></p>
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<h2><span style="color: #800080;"><em>Stuck at a personal development plateau?</em></span></h2>
<h2><em>Hit a road block on your healing journey?</em></h2>
<h2><em>Annoyed that things aren't progressing further along, no matter how hard you try?</em></h2>
<p>When we decide to take charge of our lives and make time to make a change initially it yields fast and exciting results, and because the changes are brand new, they excite us and give us an ego boost.</p>
<p>Inevitably though, there comes a point in everyone's healing journey where we reach a developmental plateau in helping ourselves -- and this can be particularly frustrating.</p>
<p><span style="color: #008080;"><strong>Watch this week's 7-minute Love Letter&nbsp;to&nbsp;learn what to do when you're feeling stuck in your self-help journey.</strong></span></p>
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<p style="text-align: right;"><em><span style="color: #800080;"><b>"<em>I have this under control. I can really help myself.</em>"</b></span></em></p>
<p class="p1">This week Source&nbsp;wanted to talk to you about feeling stuck in your self help, specifically cycles of self help.</p>
<p class="p1"><strong>We've got books, we've got sprays, we've got candles, we've got classes and workshops and certifications, oh my!</strong></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">At some point it appears that we've hit a bit of a roadblock, where we're just preparing and preparing and helping ourselves and helping ourselves and helping ourselves, and nothing's really moving farther along. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><strong><span class="s1" style="color: #800080;">Your strategy for this week is to practice asking. Asking for help, in particular. </span></strong></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Immediately I'm feeling some kind of prickly things in the energy from some of the Tribe who's watching right now. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Prickly thoughts like, <em>"Oh, I have this under control. I can really help myself. I have a book,"</em> or, <em>"I have a certificate, I should be able with all the knowledge that I have right now, I should be able to shift my situation on my own."</em></span></p>
<p class="p1"><strong><span class="s1">Now to some extent, absolutely, yes you can shift your situation on your own. </span><span class="s1">On your own you can make great strides. </span></strong></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">On your own you can learn the importance of taking personal responsibility and taking your own power back, and really identifying that, <em>"Yes, this is my life and I'm going to write my own story. I'm going to reinvent myself."</em> </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span style="color: #800080;"><strong><span class="s1">In fact that's a powerful strategy in and of herself: t</span><span class="s1">ell yourself, <em>"I am reinventing myself, I am rewriting my life story right now."</em></span></strong></span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">However you may have been at that for a while now if you're watching this video in particular because the books like we're reading the Chopra-Oprah-Tolle-Hicks-Hay-Virtue etc.&nbsp;-- we've got everybody feeding us spiritually, which is incredible. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1"><strong>We're taking in and we're taking in from incredible masters... and then we notice nothing's happening.</strong> </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Privately, we think to ourselves in exasperation:</span><em><span class="s1"> "I've taken this financial abundance love attraction course and I haven't manifested enough money to really do that thing I wanted to -- pay the bills or pay off my debt. I wrote it on my goal card and it didn't happen."</span></em></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1" style="color: #800080;"><strong>What do you do, when we're hitting obstacles and roadblocks or feeling a sense of stagnation or being blocked?</strong> </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Here's what you do: get yourself emotionally&nbsp;ready to being willing to ask for assistance, because self help can only take you so far when you are by yourself.</span></p>
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<h2 class="p1"><strong><span class="s1">Know this: <a href="http://ctt.ec/WLfH9" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">#SelfHelp can only get you so far. Plateaued? Then it's time to reach out and ASK for help. #nextlevel #success @SenseiWhitfield</a></span></strong></h2>
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<p class="p1"><span class="s1"><strong>It's time to find support and talk to your tribe.</strong> </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Bring your problem up and out of you and into the hands of at least one other being who is open, caring, a champion for you naturally, someone who just celebrates you and who is curious about issues and helping, who loves being there to listen. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Bring it up and out of you. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span style="color: #800080;"><strong><span class="s1">For whatever reason this week in particular Source is saying it's time for you to ask for help.</span></strong></span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Perhaps someone, maybe even me, has been on your mind lately. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">You've been thinking:<em> "I know that I need to really reach out, but I'm going to try maybe just this one more thing,"</em> or, <em>"I'm going to try and figure this out on my own. I know I can do it, I've done it before."</em> </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1"><strong>At this level of your development, you need to accept that a new level is a new level. </strong></span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">We just need to accept that sometimes reaching out is the way to go to make it past our plateau. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">I'm hearing the oracle cards calling in the energy, now. It's the Healing with the Angels oracle cards deck -- Doreen Virtue's very first oracle cards deck.</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">This deck in particular came forward intuitively when I asked all the decks here at the dojo who wants to help with feeling stuck on self help. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1"><em>(I'm always receiving donations, by the way, if you wanted to donate an extra deck that you had. Email me about it at senseivictoriawhitfield@gmail.com)</em></span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Angels what do we need to know right now to get out of our decision to be stuck in our self help journey? </span></p>
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<p class="p1">Oh, Abundance!</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1" style="color: #800080;"><strong>There is infinite abundance around you of assistance, support, love, encouragement, championing. </strong></span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1" style="color: #333333;"><strong>But you cannot unlock and receive this abundance until you go out of your comfort zone and pursue it by asking.</strong> </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">That's a very open, vulnerable way of pursuing your next level, asking for the abundance which you seek. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">That's challenging, because it takes courage to ask for help, but we assure you that there, right underneath your nose is so much abundance of exactly what you need right now, down to the T. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">You are within on degree of separation. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><strong><span class="s1">This week, in fact this day in particular, you're within one degree of separation of the help that you need to move to your next level, but you have to step out of your comfort zone and ask for assistance now.</span></strong></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Comment below, send me an email back, what's coming up for you? </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Ask me what your question is about your plateau. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">You know I'd be overjoyed to support you and answer any questions that you have!</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">But reach out, don't try and self help, do the do-it-yourself kinds of thing because Source says we're moving passed that paradigm. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1" style="color: #800080;"><strong>You're at a new level now and this new level includes working with your group, your community and leveraging. Okay? I'm sending so much love.</strong> </span></p>
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<p>Sending you so much love 🙂</p>
<p class="p1"><span style="line-height: 1.5;">See you next time. Bye!</span></p>
<p><strong style="line-height: 1.5;">In Love and Light,</strong></p>
<p><strong>Victoria.</strong></p>
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<p><strong><em>Just for Today...</em></strong></p>
<p><strong>Be honest. Notice where you have plateaued in your personal development or in your life because you've been going it alone.</strong></p>
<div><strong>Then journal. Write out what it would be like if you had someone who was already past that plateau helping you now. What would be different about your life?</strong></div>
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<div><strong><em>Notice how you feel at that moment - you're already healing!</em></strong></div>
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