Stuck at a personal development plateau?

Hit a road block on your healing journey?

Annoyed that things aren't progressing further along, no matter how hard you try?

When we decide to take charge of our lives and make time to make a change initially it yields fast and exciting results, and because the changes are brand new, they excite us and give us an ego boost.

Inevitably though, there comes a point in everyone's healing journey where we reach a developmental plateau in helping ourselves -- and this can be particularly frustrating.

Watch this week's 7-minute Love Letter to learn what to do when you're feeling stuck in your self-help journey.

"I have this under control. I can really help myself."

This week Source wanted to talk to you about feeling stuck in your self help, specifically cycles of self help.

We've got books, we've got sprays, we've got candles, we've got classes and workshops and certifications, oh my!

At some point it appears that we've hit a bit of a roadblock, where we're just preparing and preparing and helping ourselves and helping ourselves and helping ourselves, and nothing's really moving farther along.

Your strategy for this week is to practice asking. Asking for help, in particular.

Immediately I'm feeling some kind of prickly things in the energy from some of the Tribe who's watching right now.

Prickly thoughts like, "Oh, I have this under control. I can really help myself. I have a book," or, "I have a certificate, I should be able with all the knowledge that I have right now, I should be able to shift my situation on my own."

Now to some extent, absolutely, yes you can shift your situation on your own. On your own you can make great strides.

On your own you can learn the importance of taking personal responsibility and taking your own power back, and really identifying that, "Yes, this is my life and I'm going to write my own story. I'm going to reinvent myself."

In fact that's a powerful strategy in and of herself: tell yourself, "I am reinventing myself, I am rewriting my life story right now."

However you may have been at that for a while now if you're watching this video in particular because the books like we're reading the Chopra-Oprah-Tolle-Hicks-Hay-Virtue etc. -- we've got everybody feeding us spiritually, which is incredible.

We're taking in and we're taking in from incredible masters... and then we notice nothing's happening.

Privately, we think to ourselves in exasperation: "I've taken this financial abundance love attraction course and I haven't manifested enough money to really do that thing I wanted to -- pay the bills or pay off my debt. I wrote it on my goal card and it didn't happen."

What do you do, when we're hitting obstacles and roadblocks or feeling a sense of stagnation or being blocked?

Here's what you do: get yourself emotionally ready to being willing to ask for assistance, because self help can only take you so far when you are by yourself.

Know this: #SelfHelp can only get you so far. Plateaued? Then it's time to reach out and ASK for help. #nextlevel #success @SenseiWhitfield

It's time to find support and talk to your tribe.

Bring your problem up and out of you and into the hands of at least one other being who is open, caring, a champion for you naturally, someone who just celebrates you and who is curious about issues and helping, who loves being there to listen.

Bring it up and out of you.

For whatever reason this week in particular Source is saying it's time for you to ask for help.

Perhaps someone, maybe even me, has been on your mind lately.

You've been thinking: "I know that I need to really reach out, but I'm going to try maybe just this one more thing," or, "I'm going to try and figure this out on my own. I know I can do it, I've done it before."

At this level of your development, you need to accept that a new level is a new level.

We just need to accept that sometimes reaching out is the way to go to make it past our plateau.

I'm hearing the oracle cards calling in the energy, now. It's the Healing with the Angels oracle cards deck -- Doreen Virtue's very first oracle cards deck.

This deck in particular came forward intuitively when I asked all the decks here at the dojo who wants to help with feeling stuck on self help.

(I'm always receiving donations, by the way, if you wanted to donate an extra deck that you had. Email me about it at senseivictoriawhitfield@gmail.com)

Angels what do we need to know right now to get out of our decision to be stuck in our self help journey?

 

 

This week's oracle card is "Abundance" -- focus your efforts this week on improving your #abundance #mindset because everything you need is actually right under your nose, you just can't see it yet because of your #perspective. Full reading on #youtube at https://youtu.be/5d6me-nOXGY ???????????????? #positivevibes #healing #oraclecards #abundance #money #wealth #success #motivation #selflove #personaldevelopment #openyoureyes #letsgo

 

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Oh, Abundance!

There is infinite abundance around you of assistance, support, love, encouragement, championing.

But you cannot unlock and receive this abundance until you go out of your comfort zone and pursue it by asking.

That's a very open, vulnerable way of pursuing your next level, asking for the abundance which you seek.

That's challenging, because it takes courage to ask for help, but we assure you that there, right underneath your nose is so much abundance of exactly what you need right now, down to the T.

You are within on degree of separation.

This week, in fact this day in particular, you're within one degree of separation of the help that you need to move to your next level, but you have to step out of your comfort zone and ask for assistance now.

Comment below, send me an email back, what's coming up for you?

Ask me what your question is about your plateau.

You know I'd be overjoyed to support you and answer any questions that you have!

But reach out, don't try and self help, do the do-it-yourself kinds of thing because Source says we're moving passed that paradigm.

You're at a new level now and this new level includes working with your group, your community and leveraging. Okay? I'm sending so much love.

That's this week's message. By all means, please go to victoriawhitfield.com/freegift and make sure that you subscribe so that you're getting your weekly Love Letters if you haven’t already.

And on YouTube hit that Subscribe button, wherever she is on your screen, so that you get your weekly Love Letters as soon as their uploaded.

Sending you so much love 🙂

See you next time. Bye!

In Love and Light,

Victoria.

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There Is No Such Thing as Coincidence

Ever been thinking of someone and then they call you?

Or have you ever met somebody and had such a strong feeling of deja vu that you swore you've known them before you met?

Have you always felt there was a sense of order or divine timing behind "coincidences" you've experienced in life?

Well what if I told you there is no such thing as coincidence, and that things that you would normally write off as irrelevant or optical illusions are quite real? How would you live your life?

The more you throw away the idea of coincidences, and embrace instead the idea of synchronicities or resonances, the more magickal your life becomes.

Watch the above video to explore the implications of there being no such thing as coincidence!

"Oh, that was just a coincidence...right?"

This week's topic is synchronicity, and I love synchronicity.

Basically, what that means is when things in life just converge or “sync up,” and make more than normal sense. For example: if you're thinking of someone and they happen to call, or if you've got a song stuck in your head for the longest time and it comes on as soon as you turn on the radio.

Often here at The Dojo during one of the meditation classes, I'll be describing water and then the next song that plays on Pandora while I'm describing water starts playing water sounds. Now, Pandora is playing at random, I have no idea how to make that happen, but it does!

But what the heck is synchronicity, actually? And how is it different from “coincidence”?

The energy is so excited about this topic because this is the one thing that Source loves the most. Synchronicity is the way that Source communicates with us in our everyday, mundane lives.

The more messages and connections that you've got with Spirit, the more synchronicity you experience. It makes life very magical when we're able to open our eyes to the synchronicities that happen, and they happen quite often.

However, the non-receptive way of communicating with Source to write-off these events just "coincidences."

We’ll brush off signs from Source that can't be explained by saying things like: "Oh, that's just an optical illusion," or, "Aw, that never happens, that’s not real" or, "That was just a freak accident," or “It's just a coincidence that everything worked out like this.”

The challenge with calling signs and synchronicity “just a coincidence” is that we write these gifts from Source off as irrelevant or meaningless.

And when we write things off, energetically, we are pushing away, passing off or forfeiting our ability to receive the energy – the abundance, the blessing – whatever it may be.

Know This: Writing off signs from Spirit as ridiculous or "coincidences" blocks the flow of #abundance to you. #openyourheart #receive

You could be blocking receiving the energy of learning, of abundance, of a gift you’ve been asking Source for or a windfall, a tip or a trick that can get you out of whatever you're going through in a way that nothing else possibly could.

Here’s the thing: Energetically speaking, experiencing synchronicity is experiencing resonance.

Resonance is a term used in vibrational studies – which is the study of the movement of sound waves in nature – where two tones merge together or are in alignment together. When they're flowing together, they're resonating.

For example, have you ever been in a church or a wooden room, with all wood floors and walls that’s really well made for incredible acoustics, and when you speak with more bass in your voice or you call out echo, the room echos back to you, or you feel more engulfed in the sound of your voice and the vibration of the sound that you are creating becomes more wholly and completely around you? The sound of your voice has so much more depth, color, complexity, and strength there, right?

It's because that room, acoustically speaking, is designed to resonate, to better help your voice project it’s true power when you're in that space. That is the image that the angels are sending right now to illustrate the power of resonating with Source.

The gift of experiencing that “resonating feeling” when you're experiencing synchronicity is meant to – is designed to – make you know and feel that you are more fully and completely surrounded by your connection to Spirit.

I get such a chill as I'm describing that to you; the immersion of the presence of your higher self, the divine, whatever your belief of that spiritual consciousness is, is present and around you during these inexplicable events.

And if you don't believe in a higher consciousness or power, this feeling is meant to show you what it’s like to be in the presence of your passion, your vision, your drive, what your legacy is for your life as it is resonating with your vision so powerfully in that moment because you're wholly and completely engulfed in it.

Allowing and acknowledging synchronicity as resonance, instead of writing it all off as just coincidence, is a way for you to better resonate with, and therefore attract into physical manifestation that vision, or that consciousness you're vibrating or synching up with and connecting to.

It's a simple mental exercise of inhaling the thought and intention “calm” and exhaling the thought and intention “down.” It’s that simple.

As you're inhaling you're thinking the word “calm,” as you exhale you’re thinking the word “down.” Imagine that as you inhale, you can feel calm moving through your body, the idea, the image of what it would look like.

Then imagine that as you exhale, you can feel this “energy” moving down and releasing out of your body. Once you get used to imagining that, what you want to do is repeat this form of deep breathing for ten seconds.

Also, it's important to feel that because it is reproductive, endlessly reproductive.

That resonating feeling, as soon as you feel it five more are on their way, if not 10 more, or even more than that. The more you feel that resonance with whatever your vision is, or connection to god or goddess or connection to your community, the more you resonate with it, the more it attracts more into your life.

This happens because you're learning what it feels like to connect. This is not just a recap of the Law of Attraction, this is understanding the way that your physical body, your spiritual body, and your energetic body work together. They need to learn and acclimate to certain frequencies in order to know what they feel like so they can attract more of the same to you.

That being said, my favorite phrase that has turned my life from mundane to magical over the years, and all my students know it, is that there's no such thing as coincidence.

There's only convergence.

The idea of convergence is from the quantum physics perspective. It's a totally different world view, and yes, there's other ways to view your life that are less “out there” so-to-speak.

Personally, and as a teacher, I believe in seeing your world in a magickal and empowering way rather than in a dry and disempowering way.

So if we are seeing the magic in life: if there's no such thing as coincidence, there's only convergence. Things are happening for a reason and we want to know why.

Why is it that the exact person can call me if I think of them? Why is it that if I ask for something, bam! The opportunity to get it appears right there? And why, when I notice coincidences as resonance, they happen more and more to me?

This week's oracle card actually shines some light on exactly why these things happen.

You’ll have to watch the rest of this week’s video strategy to find out what it is!

In Love and Light,

Victoria.

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Take note of any "coincidences" that happen to you today.

Then ask yourself, "What if this was meant to happen? What could Source be trying to communicate to me through this right now?"

Notice how you feel at that moment - you're already healing!

SHARE THIS! You’d be surprised how many people you know right now are in desperate need of healing and could use this information to change their life. If you can read this, you know someone who needs this Love Letter!

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