Wondering what you should be doing with your life?

Unsure if you are in the right career or business?

Wish you could just know your life purpose already?

Finding your purpose can seem like a confusing and mysterious endeavor, one which most people avoid because it appears intimidating.

But actually, you are closer to finding and living your purpose than you think right now.

Watch this week's 8-minute Love Letter to learn how to find your purpose, right under your nose!

"I really want to find what my purpose is in life."

The energy Source wants you to know that your passion is your purpose.

Your pleasure has purpose.

Many, many, many, many times I hear the Dojo, and people asking, "I really want to find what my purpose is in life. I'd really like to discover what should I be doing professionally, how do I switch careers into a career that better fits my personality," or they'll explain that, "I don't really feel like I'm in the right career. I don't really feel like I've declared the right major or that I'm with the right person."

Be kind to yourself. There is no such thing as coincidence. Nothing just happens.

There is a reason, a very beautiful and divine reason as to why you have certain passions about you and things that drive you, pull your attention, your passionate, creative energy throughout each day.

I'm hearing to tell you what creates pleasure in you creates life and expansion in the universe.

Pleasure is sacred to Source consciousness, and so the reason why we have certain things that we are passionate about, certain things that bring us pleasure, is for the expansion of universal life, for the energy of the engine of the universe.

Our pleasure and the things that drive us passionately give Her, Source consciousness, the ability to expand.

The way to find your purpose in any way in life, whether it's romantically, socially, personally, professionally, physically; the way to find that inspiration is first and foremost by connecting to your passion and things that bring you pleasure.

Know this: Your pleasure has #purpose. What brings you joy is not random. #motivation #healing

What does that mean? Some leading questions could be:

• • Where's the first place in Barnes & Noble that you always walk to, as soon as you walk in the store

• • Whenever you go on amazon.com, what kind of books are you reaching for?

• • When you turn on the TV or when you go on YouTube, what are constantly watching? What draws you in?

• • What stores do you frequent when you are out?

• • Which subjects in school got your fired up?

• • What types of music are the ones that really got you going, got you emotional?

• • What's on your mind most of the day?

• What are you thinking about or percolating about, or whenever this kind of discussion comes up, which one really turns you on?

When you are turned on, so is the universe.

I'm hearing the oracle cards calling in the energy right now to really encourage you on this self-exploration of your own pleasure paradigm because your pleasure, your passion is sacred.

It's absolutely important.

Source gave it to you on purpose because you are here to change, to bring expansion, to bring color to specifically what your passions are.

Your purpose expands out of them, so the deck is "Life Purpose Oracle Cards" deck by Doreen Virtue.

Let's see then, which card wants to come forward in the energy for us, around passion and purpose, really finding that and increasing that. Because the more purpose-driven your life is, the more passionate and pleasure filled, your life is more fulfilled you will feel, rather than feeling tired, uninspired, monotonous or predictable.

 

 

This week's #oracle card message from the #angels is "Support. Your life purpose fully supports you." Source wants you to #trust that everything happens for a reason. Full reading on #YouTube at http://youtu.be/6jwIP4hRgnc ???????? #happy #entrepreneur #love #business #spiritual #selfcare #health #empath

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Support. Your life purpose fully supports you.

In the energy, this is where Source wants us to leave off this week.

No matter what your passion is, no matter what your gifting, your source of pleasure is, you're to trust and know that if you fully give your heart to it, your time, your investment of self and finances and energy, it will fully support you because you are designed because of your pleasure response to it, you are designed to go the distance.

"Calm down", Source says, "Come back to the present moment."

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Sending you so much love 🙂

See you next time. Bye!

In Love and Light,

Victoria.

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Believe that you "have to" stay later at work to prove your worth to the company?

Do you eat lunch at the computer and bring work home with you to save time?

Tired of feeling overworked and underpaid?

"All work and no play makes Jack a dull boy" is actually the truth.

Even if we love what we do for a living, it's important to find a safe, loving balance between contributing (through work) and receiving (through self-care, etc.) abundantly in life.

Watch the above 10-minute video to stop being a workaholic and heal your addiction for good!

"If I'm not working, I don't feel safe."

I'm hearing the Oracle cards calling in the energy now.

Be kind to yourself this week.

If you are an workaholic, if you have self-identified as being a workaholic, you don't have to do that.

You don't have to stay later, you don't have to come earlier, you don't have to eat lunch at the computer.

You don't have to bring work home with you and work on the laptop in front of the TV while you're on Facebook on your cellphone, and maybe even another couple of screens around you.

You don't have to.

There is an enabling pattern going on here, and the enabling is serving you on some level, and Source wants you to know that something about this addiction is serving you -- what is it?

It's this: you're trying to fill a Soul scar of neglect.

Whether you were neglected as a child, or are feeling neglected in your relationship or at work now, or you've been neglecting yourself -- neglecting your own relationship with yourself -- these cycles of neglect perpetuate cycles of workaholism.

This goes for any of the "-aholisms" -- alcoholism, for example. is to fill that space, that Soul scar of neglect.

It's an aching space. It doesn't have to be this way, though.

The Oracle cards for this week are the fairies sending us love and joy. Let's see. What have you got to tell us, fairies?

 

Feeling safe.

There's a strong, deep resonance coming from this card. I couldn't agree with the fairies more.

The first thing that I'm hearing in the energy is that, "Well, if I'm not working, I don't feel safe."

That's the dilemma of retirement, by the way.

Ah, the dilemma of retirement. "OK, I'm not working anymore. Out into the great unknown! What the heck is life without work?" Right?

Work is a coping mechanism to deal with experiencing life uncensored.

A coping mechanism to deal with experiencing your own emotions, your own desires, your own vision, your own passion and purpose uncensored.

Work, at its lower vibration, is the biggest coping mechanism and distraction you experience in your adult life.

Know this: Work can either be a distraction from an unfulfilled life or a vehicle for expressing love.

But let's see what the channeling is from the fairies: 

 

Any feelings of danger of vulnerability are healing. 

Wow! You know, usually when we think of feeling vulnerable we get scared.

Say you're feeling financially vulnerable because you're unemployed right now. To all my unemployed members of The TRIBE on the list, all my unemployed people, I'm sending you LOTS of love right now! 

But, they're saying feeling vulnerable can be healing?

You know, there are times when we go through bouts of unemployment where looking for money becomes our job, and that's our number one focus. 

It's a worry, a fear, a frustration.

And then there are the blessed moments when we realized in unemployment, holy cow, the world is my oyster right now, or I'm rekindling my relationship with my family, and with myself, because I have time and space to do that.

That higher vibration is what the fairies are talking about.

But I'm only one phrase in. It wasn't even a whole sentence of what they said: 

 

Any feelings of danger or vulnerability are healing, and they are replaced with the certain knowledge that you are safe and protected right now.

Have you felt frightened or insecure lately?

If so, this card is a signal that heaven is aware of your feelings and has come to your aid.

You are surrounded by heavenly beings who love and protect you on an ongoing basis. The fairies remind you...

I just heard in the energy for all of us who feel like workaholics right now -- Source is saying we're looking for ongoing protection to come from work, rather than looking for it to come from Spirit.

And if you don't believe in a higher power, to all of my loves on the list out in The TRIBE who are Atheist, see "Spirit" as looking into your own inner spirit, the human spirit, your own will, your own desire to live, your capability as a human being.

Rather than looking inward, we're looking outward for protection. And that's why it can be addictive.

Why? Because whenever we look outward -- we will never be satisfied being external focused.

When you're looking for what to energetically feed on and what to do to "find" (or define) yourself, you won't find what you're looking for in just work. You're much bigger than that.

 

The fairies remind you that your thoughts of danger are triggering your feelings of vulnerability. In your mind you have given power to some outside entity."

Your job or your business or your clients, or the search for a job, or your volunteering. Big hugs to my volunteer-aholics! Wow, LOL, we're calling out everybody today!

 

You believe that this idol that you have created has the power to hurt you, or to control your life. Yet the only power it has is that which you have attributed to it.

You gave it the power. You unplug, you've got it back for you.

 

The fairies urge you to awaken from this mistaken concept, see that you have the power to create a happy and secure dream, and make the decision to feel safe by living that dream.

Affirmation: 'I am safe, I am secure, I am completely protected at all times.'

And this is where we're going to end.

Being a workaholic is just a spiritual boundaries issue.

This may have to be like a "let's get real moment" here, guys.

You're the only one who's burying you under your work, and in fact you're the one shoveling more on top of you.

But you don't have to be entombed like this.

Take personal responsibility and say: "I don't have to."

Say it with me. "I don't have to work right now. I don't have to work right now. In fact, I'm here to live. I'm here to live my life."

Build a strategic, clear and balanced personal approach to work.

And if you have a business, build your business in a way that supports you living your life in the way that you envision you want to live it at your best and highest vibration.

Send me an email back. What's coming up for you?

I look forward to hearing from you, and until next time, I'm just giving you tons and tons of hugs and kisses.

In Love and Light,

Victoria.

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Decide to look inward for feelings of safety and protection; take your power back.

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Stressed out at work these days?

Can't handle the negativity in your workplace?

Wish you could improve your "work-life balance"?

Feeling comfortable and healthy being a highly sensitive, spiritual and creative individual like yourself can be quite tough when you have to expose yourself to a toxic work environment every day.

Inconsiderate or insensitive bosses, clients and coworkers can really drain your energy if you don't learn to protect and manage it while at work.

Watch the above video to learn how to begin dealing with stress and negativity while at work!

"I have a soul-crushing job."

Ugh. My heart sinks just typing that now.

I cannot tell you how many people I've met over the last few years I've been teaching about and sharing healing energy that have said the above statement to me, especially when I ask what they do for a living.

My heart sinks because, well, that used to be me, too.

So I'm going to be very candid right now. Here goes. xoxo

I remember what it was like dreading Monday morning every week, thinking about just turning the car around at the next jughandle on the way to work during my morning commute.

Worse yet, when it was really bad, I used to fantasize during my morning commute about driving my car into the divider on the highway just to see what would happen...

For the record, if this is you right now, I just want to say I love you, I'm sending you big hugs now, and there's more for you in life than just the same ol' ratrace every day.

Sparing you the expletives (I'm from Jersey, and we have colorful language here lol!), the job I was driving to at the time I would describe as a madhouse. My direct manager was a screamer and a bully, the hours were 10-12 hours a day, Monday - Friday, with a 1-hour commute (without traffic) one way.

Everyone was so anxious and depressed in the office. Lots of sneaking, gossiping and two-facedness.

In fact, I would hide in the bathroom just to pretend I was having a really long pee sometimes. Of course, my manager caught on to that and would run screaming my name into my department and bang on the bathroom door in front of all the 10 people I managed at the time...

So, yeah, I understand a little of what it feels like to work in a toxic work environment.

To cope (aka. NUMB myself), I would binge eat chocolate candies and cheeseburgers, drink Captain Morgan Private Stock rum and coke that I hid in my bedroom at home, and smoke black clove cigarettes or even e-cigars several times a day (especially while driving, Cuvana is the best). I also distracted myself even more with falling in "love" an emotionally and at times physically abusive boyfriend then...

Oh yes I went there. You can judge me if you want. I don't mind not being perfect. And no, I do not have it all figured out even as I type this Love Letter to you.

"Every saint has a past, and every sinner has a future," or so the saying goes. And you wonder why I say "you don't have to be perfect in life; all you ever have to be is honest." Well, now you have an idea why...

I'm just saying all this to let you know that I've experienced firsthand the powerful negative effects of what a toxic work (and life) environment can have on your self-esteem and health. So this week's topic is bigger than just making life more comfortable.

Having the gift of being sensitive can be a curse if you don't manage it well.

You see, highly sensitive individuals like us need environments that support and protect our energy. But WE have to create these environments; they don't just appear.

Now, when you work at a job that has a lot of negative energy, you can do one of two things: you can just go there and get victimized, or you can go there and take charge.

Either way, you'll absorb the dominant energy of your work environment by default.

You already do; and you can see what that energy does to you by observing how you feel when you're there compared to how you feel outside of the workplace.

Know this: You are still a divine, creative, and spiritual being even when you're at work. Act like it. #selfcare #business #wakeup

It all starts with your mindset about the workplace.

The common mindset is that if you're describing your work as "soul-crushing" then that's a big red flapping in your face that you need to improve your "work-life balance."

True, that is a big red flag that needs to be addressed.

But, there's no such thing as "work-life balance" -- there is only LIFE BALANCE.

We don't stop living our own lives just because we're working for someone else (as an employee or an owner / entrepreneur).

You deserve to feel just as happy and healthy at work as you do at home. And in the video I give you some practical suggestions for things that can raise the vibration of a negative work environment.

Watch this week's video for the Oracle Card of the Week, which shows you how to shift your mindset about your work right now, even if you hate your job!

In Love and Light,

Victoria.

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Take charge of your work environment.

Look around your office and desk space and ask yourself "what could I bring and display here for myself that reminds me that I am a spiritual and divine being worthy of self-care and happiness right now?"

Notice how you feel at that moment - you're already healing!

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Stressed out at work?

Feel like you are constantly putting out fires left and right?

Wish there was a way to be productive AND have more peace and calm while you're working?

Believe it or not, you are 100% responsible (and in control of) how you feel at work.

When you're stressed out, it's easy to blame your coworkers, customers or managers for how you feel, but how you feel actually is up to you, regardless of how crazypants dramatic or annoying they get.

Watch the above video to learn 3 ways to relax while at work that can be done while working -- no meditation break needed!

RELAX!! RELAX ALREADY! 🙂

Ever encounter someone just so stressed out at work that they look like an angry high-speed hamster, running from task to task furiously, as if that hamster wheel is really going to get them somewhere faster if they put the pedal to the metal?

Seeing them struggle with over-analyzing the simplest tasks is exhausting, right? How the they load up everything with unnecessary excuses, emotion and explosions...

Yeah. That someone is YOU right now.

Use your imagination for a minute or two as you read this.

Imagine that you could clone yourself, where the Clone You can observe the Regular You -- same intellect, age and everything, except the Clone You has no responsibilities and is independently wealthy (like an abundant bystander). Now, step into the Clone's point of view, and watch yourself. Really stand back and observe Regular You stressing at work.

Don't you just want to shake yourself and say "RELAX! Calm down! You're fine!" when you're on the outside looking in?

Granted, we are not all independently wealthy and responsibility-free, but the point of that visualization is to activate the part of your energy that is Free and Open, always.

It's this part of your intellect that kicks in when there is an emergency at home (someone's water broke or the house is on fire, for example) and you magically are able to detach from all the drama and drudgery at work and leap into action.

And it is this mindset, a creative and responsive mindset, you will need to embrace the simple techniques in this week's Love Letter.

Because, you can't relax at work if you don't admit that 1) you're stressed out, and 2) something needs to be done about it in the moment.

You see, the danger in being stressed out at work -- or, occupational stress, as it is officially called -- is that we both ignore it as par for the course, and accept it as if there's nothing we can do.

In spiritual truth, however, you are 100% in control of how you feel at any given moment. The same way that there's a part of your intellect (Clone You) that knows you should detach and relax, there's also the capability within you to control how you feel while at work, regardless of what's going on around you.

It comes down to a choice: will you focus on Your Health or focus on Your Job?

Now, I'm not saying you should quit your job because it stresses you out. If that's where your head went, then LOL you missed the point! 🙂

The point is this: where your awareness goes, energy flows.

So if you focus on meeting that deadline, people-pleasing, and other externally-driven things at work, then the energy will go to increasing the intensity of deadlines, people-pleasing activities and everything else.

Know this: The key that unlocks peace at work is self-awareness; not being self-conscious. Know yourself, and respond accordingly. #love #selfcare

You see, when you know yourself, you can respond to a triggering (or stress-inducing) situation strategically, because you know what you need to feel safe, centered and clear.

Yet, if you are self-conscious instead of self-aware, you will leap to please others without regard to your needs and values, as they are less important than whoever or whatever you are comparing yourself to -- comparison is the basis of negative self-consciousness, by the way.

Once you are clear on who and what triggers your stress response, then it's easier for you to regularly employ stress-reduction techniques. It's all about your mindset.

You are the only one who is really in charge of how you feel, so act like you know this, and take charge!

Most people are unconscious and unaware of this at work, so occupational stress runs their life, dictating the quality of day they have, rather than it being the other way around

Watch this week's video for the Oracle Card of the Week, which shows you how to activate your creative mind to de-stress at work!

In Love and Light,

Victoria.

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Watch yourself.

Try the "Clone You" visualization described in the above article, and really observe if you are responding with self-awareness to your stressors, or reacting because you are self-conscious.

Notice how you feel at that moment - you're already healing!

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Want to learn to RELAX and take charge of how you feel?

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