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		<title>Love Letters &#124; Permission to Proceed</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 05 Jun 2017 12:00:12 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p>Waiting for the right moment to present itself? Wondering when you should make that move you've been thinking of for some time now? Want to go for your goal, but don't know if you're ready yet? Source says you have permission to proceed this week! But there's more to moving forward with your plans than [&#8230;]</p>
<p>The post <a href="https://victoriawhitfield.com/love-letters-permission-to-proceed-2017/">Love Letters | Permission to Proceed</a> appeared first on <a href="https://victoriawhitfield.com">Sensei Victoria Whitfield</a>.</p>
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<h2><span style="color: #800080;"><em>Waiting for the right moment to present itself?</em></span></h2>
<h2><em>Wondering when you should make that move you've been thinking of for some time now?<br />
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<h2><em>Want to go for your goal, but don't know if you're ready yet?</em></h2>
<p>Source says you have permission to proceed this week!</p>
<p>But there's more to moving forward with your plans than you think.</p>
<p><span style="color: #008080;"><strong>Watch this week's 7-minute Love Letter video to better understand how to get going on that new opportunity the Universe is sending you!</strong></span></p>
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<p style="text-align: right;"><em><span style="color: #800080;"><b>"When do I tell them that I care about them?"</b></span></em></p>
<p class="p1"><strong><span class="s1">This week, Source wants to let you know, that you have permission to proceed.</span></strong></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">You've got it. You ready? Incoming permission slip, right through the screen to you right now.&nbsp;</span><span class="s1">You have permission to proceed.</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span style="color: #800080;"><strong><span class="s1">The Guides are saying that it's been a long&nbsp;time coming, that you've been wondering:</span></strong></span></p>
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<li class="p1"><em><span class="s1">"When do I get to know if I'm ready yet?"</span></em></li>
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<li class="p1"><em><span class="s1">"When do I get to know if this is the right time for me to move forward with that vision that I've been having?"</span></em></li>
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<li class="p1"><em><span class="s1">"When do I move forward with the goals that I've been setting for myself?"</span></em></li>
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<li class="p1"><em><span class="s1">"When do I start that new cleanse program or exercise program?"</span></em></li>
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<li class="p1"><em><span class="s1">"When do I tell them that I care about them, and express my feelings?"</span></em></li>
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<li class="p1"><em>"When do I buy into that program or treatment package that I have been thinking about?"</em></li>
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<li class="p1"><em>"When do I set up that vacation, or a conference ticket? When do I book my flight?"</em></li>
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<p class="p1"><span class="s1">You have permission to proceed. This is what the Guides want to transmit to you, in particular today.</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1"><strong>We want to be specific: you have permission to proceed for yourself. This has to do with only you.</strong></span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Make sure&nbsp;to temper a bit of that enthusiasm you're getting:&nbsp;<em>"All right, yes, I can change him."</em> No, no, no!&nbsp;That is not what we're talking about.</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">The Energy says though YOU have permission to proceed.</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">If you're feeling like you've been holding back a compulsion whether or not you should give that suggestion to that person or give them that constructive criticism feedback, etc.&nbsp;Source says, you can only proceed forward if you get their explicit permission.</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span style="color: #800080;"><strong><span class="s1">If you have a push to really want to tell someone, <em>"You need to do this"</em> or <em>"You need to do this better,"</em> the reason why you have that push, is because that advice is for you.</span></strong></span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">The reason why that's happening is because that is meant for you to heal your life. People are sacred mirrors of your own spiritual energy.</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Have you asked yourself why you're so worried about the suggestion that you're trying to give that other person? Are you really living it yourself yet?</span></p>
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<h2 class="p1"><a href="http://ctt.ec/Aznhx"><strong><span class="s1">Know this:&nbsp;Worry will die when you increase your faith. Go for it this week and trust yourself! @SenseiWhitfield</span></strong></a></h2>
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<p class="p1"><span class="s1">This message is especially to those of you who are friends, spouses coaches, mentors, managers; it's for those in an authority role who are reading right now, who give incredible, insightful, awesome advice, that can sometimes be given unwarranted. Be kind to yourself if that's you.</span></p>
<p class="p1"><strong><span class="s1">It's time that you step out first in that direction rather than just tossing your advice or your suggestions on someone without getting that person's permission first.</span></strong></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">You have permission to proceed forward with the advice that you desire to give.&nbsp;</span><span class="s1">Go ahead and implement it.</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span style="color: #800080;"><strong><span class="s1">For the rest of us who are&nbsp;not necessarily about giving advice, this message is different because it pertains to a new goal or initiative that you've been working on;&nbsp;yes, you're worthy, you're okay, move forward.</span></strong></span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">The Guides are telling me now to pull from the Oracle Cards deck. "Angel Answers" is a yes-no deck, one of many donated decks here at the Dojo.</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">(You can always send donations to The Dojo by</span><span class="s1">&nbsp;emailing me at senseivictoriawhitefield@gmail.com if you would like to donate an oracle card &nbsp;deck&nbsp;that you just don't really use anymore.)</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Angels, what do we really need to know right now about permission to proceed? This feels strong. <em>"No Need to Worry;" </em>this is so big.</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">This basically hits the nail on the head and this is why we're going to leave off.</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1"><strong>The reason why we need permission to proceed is because we're worrying ourselves into a tizzy.</strong></span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">It's okay. You can go forward, let go of worry. Worry only happens when you are trying to control something that is outside of your energy. Trust your gut.</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span style="color: #333333;"><span class="s1">Worry will die when you increase your faith. If only just for now, believe that there's no need to worry.</span></span></p>
<p class="p1"><span style="color: #800080;"><strong><span class="s1">Let it go, and take a step of faith forward in the direction of whatever Source is guiding you towards.</span></strong></span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">I'm curious to hear what's coming for you hearing this week's message. If it spoke to you, let me know. I love feedback.</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Make sure you subscribe on YouTube so that you get your Love Letters first every week.</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">See you next time. Bye!</span></p>
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<p><strong>Victoria.</strong></p>
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<p><strong>Take your own advice; the guidance you're getting is meant for you.</strong></p>
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		<title>Love Letters &#124; Your Joy Is Sacred</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 01 May 2017 12:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p>Have you been secretly feeling down and depressed lately? Feeling like you've lost the joy you once had, or wish you had more? Think that joy and feelings are irrelevant to your work? Keeping up with the demands of professional life -- or "adulting" as I call it -- can really drain your joy sometimes. [&#8230;]</p>
<p>The post <a href="https://victoriawhitfield.com/love-letters-your-joy-is-sacred-2017/">Love Letters | Your Joy Is Sacred</a> appeared first on <a href="https://victoriawhitfield.com">Sensei Victoria Whitfield</a>.</p>
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<h2><span style="color: #800080;"><em>Have you been secretly feeling down and depressed lately?</em></span></h2>
<h2><em>Feeling like you've lost the joy you once had, or wish you had more?</em></h2>
<h2><em>Think that joy and feelings are irrelevant to your work?</em></h2>
<p>Keeping up with the demands of professional life -- or "adulting" as I call it -- can really drain your joy sometimes.</p>
<div>Yes we have responsibilities, and yes it gets monotonous, but deep down, you know that right now there's more to life than being dull and grey.</div>
<p><span style="color: #008080;"><strong>Watch this week's 7-minute Love Letter video to find out the power of joy and how to rekindle yours!</strong></span></p>
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<p style="text-align: right;"><em><span style="color: #800080;"><b>"Today I want to do something that brings me joy."</b></span></em></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Source wants you to know, this week in particular, that your joy is sacred.</span></p>
<p class="p1"><strong><span class="s1">Your joy, your happiness, your peace, how you feel, is sacred.</span></strong></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">One of the most common things that I say here to all my students at the Dojo, is that "what matters most is how you feel"; but your joy in particular is sacred.</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">In the energy I'm seeing that in a previous video, we had covered that your joy is actually a way of protecting yourself. It's your vortex, right?</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span style="color: #800080;"><strong><span class="s1">Being in your vortex keeps you energized -- and you're in it when you're feeling good.</span></strong></span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">When you're feeling joyful, it also keeps you open to new solutions and strategies for solving different issues that come through your life; also it does protect your heart and it protects your energy.</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">It's especially helpful&nbsp;when you're out in the world interacting with others, because sometimes news and things or issues at work can come up, or your family members or teammates may be having a challenge.</span></p>
<p class="p1"><strong><span class="s1">Your joy is sacred for protecting you from absorbing any of the healing journeys that they're on. Did you know that?</span></strong></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Joy is such a powerful thing to connect to, and especially when we are post-school-age.</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">So to all my students who are "studenting", awesome; but for those who are post being in school and you're now "adulting", as opposed to just "studenting" in your life right now, joy can become smaller and smaller and lesser and lesser.</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">The more we "adult" the more we get serious or monotonous, the more we curb our enthusiasm for life.</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">I'm using "adult"&nbsp;as a verb on purpose -- I was an English Major in college, so to all my grammarians out there, I know you're cringing, but I know what I'm doing, here ;).</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Let me be direct with you --</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span style="color: #800080;"><strong><span class="s1">What happened to your joy?</span></strong></span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">What happened to the things that made you come alive and inspired you, and made you want to be "frisky", as Abraham Hicks says, made you want to be mischievous or fun, sexy and silly?</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">What happened to your joy?</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">It energized you. It moved mountains in life so many times. When you've been joyful time flew and synchronicities came together, right?</span></p>
<p class="p1"><img decoding="async" class="aligncenter wp-image-2049 size-full" src="https://victoriawhitfield.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/11/TWEETOFTHEWEEK.png" alt="TWEETOFTHEWEEK" width="462" height="86" srcset="https://victoriawhitfield.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/11/TWEETOFTHEWEEK.png 462w, https://victoriawhitfield.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/11/TWEETOFTHEWEEK-300x56.png 300w, https://victoriawhitfield.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/11/TWEETOFTHEWEEK-460x86.png 460w" sizes="(max-width: 462px) 100vw, 462px" /></p>
<h2 class="p1"><strong><span class="s1">Know this:&nbsp;<a href="http://ctt.ec/1eKna">Your #joy is #sacred. This week start each day by #visualizing things that bring you joy. @SenseiWhitfield</a></span></strong></h2>
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<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Your joy is sacred.</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span style="color: #800080;"><strong><span class="s1">Source in particular this week wants you to know that you joy is sacred, though, because it is contagious.</span></strong></span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Your joy is contagious.</span></p>
<p class="p1"><strong><span style="color: #333333;"><span class="s1">God, Goddess,&nbsp;the Holy Spirit, Source consciousness, the human spirit and human potential that is around us and within us desires for more joy and more happiness to be on the planet -- and i</span></span><span class="s1">t's got to start with you.</span></strong></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Your joy is sacred because you're the only one who can access it for you.</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">I'm hearing the Oracle cards calling in the energy on this, but it's important that in this week, you prioritize first and foremost that&nbsp;<em>"Today I want to do something that brings me joy."</em></span></p>
<p class="p1"><span style="color: #800080;"><strong><span class="s1">I want to hear in the comments what brings you joy.</span></strong></span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">You know me. I love bubbles, I love dancing, I love rainbows, glitter and emojis. Shiny things and playfulness. Those bring me joy.</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1"><strong>These things bring me joy and light me up, and it's because of my joy practice that I have so much energy.</strong></span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">What I want to hear from you is how do you generate joy in your life?</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">What makes you joy-filled?</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span style="color: #333333;"><span class="s1">We're using the <em>Healing with the Fairies</em>&nbsp;oracle cards deck by Doreen Virtue.</span></span></p>
<p class="p1"><span style="color: #333333;"><span class="s1">Let's ask: <em>"Fairies, what do we need to know right now about our joy?"</em></span></span></p>
<p class="p1"><span style="color: #333333;"><span class="s1"><strong>Visualization.</strong></span></span></p>
<p class="p1"><span style="color: #333333;"><span class="s1">This is where we'll leave off for the week.</span></span></p>
<p class="p1">Your joy is sacred, and it's important that you visualize things that bring you joy.</p>
<p class="p1">I just heard it loud in the energy, like they yelled it in my ear --</p>
<p class="p1"><strong>Mindset. There's negative thoughts.</strong></p>
<p class="p1">We've been beating ourselves up with the same old crusty&nbsp;self-doubt and worry, etc. patterns that we keep pummeling ourselves with in our minds.</p>
<p class="p1"><span style="color: #800080;"><strong>This week in particular, I double-dog-dare you&nbsp;to&nbsp;visualize once a day something that brings you so much joy.</strong></span></p>
<p class="p1">Try it at the beginning of the day because it'll set the tone for the day for more joy.</p>
<p class="p1">You will see how it will attract more joy throughout the day.</p>
<p class="p1"><strong><span class="s1">Comment below, post back, let me know how it goes, what did you find, and make sure you <a href="https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCHybBbWcVx_IAKX0DXF70SQ">subscribe on YouTube</a> so that you get your weekly love letters first.</span></strong></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">I'm sending you so much love. I believe in you, and I'm sending you joyful energy. Bye. See you next week.</span></p>
<p class="p1"><strong style="line-height: 1.5;">In Love and Light,</strong></p>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 19 Sep 2016 12:00:23 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p>Do you have a big vision for your life and business? Ready to make a quantum leap and experience exponential growth? Think it's impossible to make your dream a reality because it's too much work for you? You're right; it is impossible if you try to do it all by yourself! Source says that there's [&#8230;]</p>
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<h2><span style="color: #800080;"><em>Do you have a big vision for your life and business?<br />
</em></span></h2>
<h2><em>Ready to make a quantum leap and experience exponential growth?<br />
</em></h2>
<h2><em>Think it's impossible to make your dream a reality because it's too much work for you?<br />
</em></h2>
<p><span style="line-height: 1.5;">You're right; it is impossible if you try to do it all by yourself!</span></p>
<p><span style="line-height: 1.5;">Source says that there's infinite abundance waiting for you right at your fingertips — all you have to do is reach out and take it.<br />
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<p><span style="color: #008080;"><strong>Watch this week's 8-minute Love Letter video to learn a technique to receive more abundance in an exponential way — the Shiva Ask!</strong></span></p>
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<p style="text-align: right;"><em><span style="color: #800080;"><b>"<em>Should I be sharing my vision with others?</em>"</b></span></em></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">This week the technique that's coming through the energy for us to share with you, Source wants you to know about the Shiva Ask. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1"><strong>The Shiva Ask and this is really an incredible, divine feminine, although Lord Shiva is male, a divine feminine practice for inviting, conjuring and activating abundance, all right?</strong> </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">In depictions of Shiva Nataraja, he is in his divine dance, right? Where he is destroying the weary universe and creating the new one, right? Multiple, multiple arms in the process of creation, right, breaking down, breaking open, breaking through and creating newness.</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Now, I'm not going into too much who Shiva is, he's a Hindu god, I'll leave that up to you.</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1" style="color: #800080;"><strong>In particular this week, Source is telling me to share with you what is a Shiva Ask?</strong> </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">This week, in particular, it's going to be up to you to implement this technique. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><strong><span class="s1">The components of a Shiva Ask are:</span></strong></p>
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<li class="p1"><span class="s1">Vision</span></li>
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<li class="p1">Community</li>
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<li class="p1">Opening</li>
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<p class="p1"><strong><span class="s1"><span style="color: #800080;">Firstly, the vision of what it is you desire most.</span> </span></strong></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">What is the new world, new life, new universe, new situation, new thing that you desire to create in your life? You have a vision of it and, in fact, that vision is bigger than who you are and where you are right now.</span></p>
<p class="p1"><strong><span class="s1">Second component is community.</span></strong></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Around you there are people who love you, people who champion you, people who do not judge you or criticize you but instead leap at the opportunity to be your cheerleader, to support you in any way. They tend to be very similar to you because you're a natural giver at heart, you're naturally sensitive and there are people who are around you that you just love who have that open mind, similar kind of vibration as you, right? </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span style="color: #800080;"><strong><span class="s1">First is vision, second is community, three, the third part of the Shiva Ask is opening.</span></strong></span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">In the opening, what you do is you open your vision to be shared with that community. The reason why Source is calling this a Shiva Ask is because god, goddess, universe, life, whatever you call it, right? Your higher self has so much abundance, so much support for you ready for you to receive right now that you are going to need more than two hands to catch it.</span></p>
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<h2 class="p1"><a href="http://ctt.ec/nL25c"><strong><span class="s1">Know this:&nbsp;God has so much abundance ready for you that you're going to need more than two hands to catch it. @SenseiWhitfield http://bit.ly/2cdE26J</span></strong></a></h2>
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<p class="p1"><span class="s1">As Shiva Nataraja has multiple arms, multiple hands, all these different representations on each hand too if you look at the artwork. Incredible, so it is that we need to have multiple arms, multiple hands in order to create that which we are envisioning. Now, you might be thinking to yourself,<em> "Wouldn't it be nice if I had like extra hands to create it?"</em> Guess what, you're missing step three is the opening.</span></p>
<p class="p1"><strong><span class="s1">Opening has to do with sharing your vision with step two that community of like-minded, loving individuals that are around you. Essentially saying I had this vision and I wanted to know what you think about it, <em>"I need your help, can I share it with you?"</em> </span></strong></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Then you tell them about your vision and passion. Maybe they might be able to be that extra set of hands that can help you capture the vision, right? Or they may know someone who can do that for you in their stead. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span style="color: #800080;"><strong><span class="s1">I'm hearing the oracle cards calling in the energy&nbsp;this week to weigh in on the topic.</span></strong></span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">It's the Goddess Guidance Oracle Cards deck to really vibrate with that feminine energy of opening and I mean this whether you are male or female. This means engaging vulnerability, it takes a lot courage to open.</span></p>
<p class="p1"><strong><span class="s1">To do that third step of the Shiva Ask and really share the vision because you risk having someone say no, you risk having someone see your vision and hear it, like there's so much risk opening but there's so much more to gain if you go for it.</span></strong></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Goddesses, what do we need to know right now about opening this week in particular? I'm hearing this card, ooh, White Tara. Let's do it, sensitivity. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1"><em>"You are becoming increasingly sensitive. Avoid harsh relationships, environments, situations and chemicals."</em> </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">And here's where we are going to end this week. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1" style="color: #800080;"><strong>You know how part two is that the people that you are identifying, are like-minded, loving, caring, champions, positive, not judge-y or crusty cooties in any way?</strong> </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">You already know who does not fall in that category, so in order to really capture the vision that you've been seeing you have to make sure that you are sharing it with people who are sensitive like you.</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Be kind to yourself if you want to tell everybody, that's not what we're saying here. That would really add some arms that aren't going to be with you, instead, they may working against you. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1"><strong>I don't know who this is for this week, but somebody out there is being called to realize the vision in a big way and needed to know what technique to really get that vision going, grounding, manifesting.</strong> </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Comment below, send me an email back at senseivictoriawhitfield@gmail.com&nbsp;and let me know what do you think? </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1" style="color: #800080;"><strong>What's coming up for you around doing the Shiva Ask? Have you done it? What was the outcome?</strong> </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Make sure you subscribe on YouTube so that you get your Love Letters every week, first, and I'll see you next week, right? Bye.</span></p>
<p class="p1"><strong style="line-height: 1.5;">In Love and Light,</strong></p>
<p><strong>Victoria.</strong></p>
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<p><strong><em>Just for Today...</em></strong></p>
<p><strong>Practice The Shiva Ask with at least one other person that is a natural champion of you.<br />
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<p><strong>Open up and ask them to share in helping you realize your big vision.</strong></p>
<p><strong><em>Notice how you feel at that moment - you're already healing!</em></strong></p>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 12 Jun 2016 12:00:57 +0000</pubDate>
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<h2><span style="color: #800080;"><em>Are you too quick to say yes when others ask you for anything?<br />
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<h2><em>Finding yourself overscheduled, overwhelmed and overbooked lately?<br />
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<h2><em>Scared to say "No" because you don't want to hurt their feelings?</em></h2>
<p>It's natural to love helping people and being involved -- heck, you're known for being the helper, healer and leader!</p>
<p>But what happens when you feel like you can't say "No" because you're afraid they'll think you're selfish for taking time for yourself?</p>
<p><span style="color: #008080;"><strong>Watch this week's 9-minute Love Letter video to stop over-committing yourself to others.</strong></span></p>
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<p style="text-align: right;"><em><span style="color: #800080;"><b>"But I'm the helper. That's what I do."</b></span></em></p>
<p class="p1"><strong><span class="s1">This week, Source&nbsp;</span><span class="s1">says, "Don't commit. In fact, stop it. Don't commit. Don't do it."</span></strong></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Now, for all those of you out there who are thinking, <em>"Yes! I don't have to put in work"</em>&nbsp;— this message is not what you would expect, so hold your horses. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span style="color: #800080;"><strong><span class="s1">Instead, Source is saying don't commit because you need to stop over-committing. </span></strong></span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">This is for all of us out there in the tribe who love to say, <em>"Yes, sure I will. Oh! I'll help you. Yeah, no problem. I can clear my schedule to do this random thingy for you at the drop of a hat, sure."</em> Or, <em>"Oh! I didn't have plans this weekend, even though I wanted to spend time with myself. Sure, I'll go out to your party and help you with all the blah blah..."</em> </span></p>
<p class="p1"><strong><span class="s1">Don't! Stop! Don't commit. If only just for now, if only just for this week, give yourself some space.</span></strong></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">I know you want to rescue everybody, and you feel like that's your role, telling yourself:&nbsp;<em>"Oh, I'm the helper, I'm the healer. I heal people, I help people. That's what I do."</em> </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Slow your roll. This week in particular, Source is resounding very strongly with this message, and don't commit. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span style="color: #800080;"><strong><span class="s1">Practice saying this:&nbsp;<em>"I can't."</em>&nbsp;or this one ... ready for it? <em>"No."</em></span></strong></span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Did you know that you're capable of still beaming love, healing, compassion, acceptance, support, kindness and generosity while saying no, and not committing. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Amazing, right? Who would've thought? 🙂</span></p>
<p class="p1"><strong><span class="s1">If only just for now, Source wants you to know that your time is valuable, just as much as those who are coming to you for your time, or for your advice, or for your hands as an extra set of hands in helping.</span></strong></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">I don't know who I'm speaking to, but I feel like I'm speaking to someone very specific right now. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">This&nbsp;is who you are. You're the helper, you're nurturer, you're the backbone, you're the go-to girl, the go-to guy. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span style="color: #800080;"><strong><span class="s1">This week you've got to flex that muscle of, <em>"No."</em> Or, <em>"I can't."</em> Or try saying, <em>"Thank you.&nbsp;I'm going to take some time for myself instead."</em> </span></strong></span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Never say, <em>"Thank you, but ..."</em> everyone only hears the "but" so say "and".</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Be kind to yourself if this is really shaking you to the core. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">This week you've got to flex that&nbsp;<em>"No"</em> muscle. This happens when you say,<em> "No, I would like to do this instead. Thank you, though."</em> </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Always be generous; always be loving. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1"><strong>Now the guides are saying, it's time for the oracle card of the week—</strong></span><span class="s1"><strong>in particular we're going to be using the, "Talking to Heaven" oracle cards deck that was donated to the dojo.</strong> </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">This is specifically about receiving guidance from our loved ones who have passed away, or ancestors who are on the other side, and hearing intuitive wisdom that they have and that they would like to share with us.</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">There are a lot of people out there who would love to send us a message or two. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Asking: What do you guys have to share with us around, <em>"Don't commit"</em>? Is there anything that you could offer?</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1"><strong>"We are so connected."</strong>&nbsp;</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">It's a beautiful quantum image there of bubbles within bubbles just going off into infinity in this card. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">There's this inter-dimensional depiction of what being connected and what all our lives look like as plurality in the energy. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span style="color: #800080;"><strong><span class="s1">The guides are telling me to read this entry in particular to you.&nbsp;</span></strong></span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Now these readings are channeled by a medium, so it's as if the person on the other person is speaking:</span></p>
<p class="p1"><em><strong><span class="s1">"I've been able to review my life here in heaven and I've seen how perfectly everything we do is woven together. There are no accidents or wrong turns, everything makes sense now. I wanted to give you the exciting news that in my life review I saw that you and I have a strong soul connection through many lifetimes.</span></strong></em></p>
<p class="p1"><em><strong><span class="s1">We've been each other's teachers, sometimes in unpleasant ways, &nbsp;several times. In this lifetime we were magnetically drawn together because we had mutual work to do for ourselves personally and for others, and now that I'm here our connection remains strong, just like when I was living in my body, our thoughts are in sync with one another. We often think of each other simultaneously, so think of me and know that I'm doing the same always with love."</span></strong></em></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Grandma. Thank you.</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Our loved ones on the other side want us to know that we are intimately, intimately connected no matter what. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Not even death could separate our bond. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span style="color: #800080;"><strong><span class="s1">On this scale then, be kind to yourself i</span></strong><span class="s1"><strong>f you are afraid that disagreement or declining will sever ties.</strong> </span></span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Not even death can sever ties between you and those that Source has put you together with in this lifetime. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Give yourself permission to not commit. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1"><strong>The people that are there for you will respect your choice to say&nbsp;<em>"no"</em>. They will&nbsp;respect your decision. Don't be afraid of severing ties or hurting anyone's feelings.</strong> </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Here's a ninja trick: if you're afraid of hurting someone's feelings, just say so:&nbsp;<em>"I want you to know I'm afraid I'm going to hurt your feelings, but I can't."</em> Or, <em>"Thank you for telling me this. I feel uncomfortable, but I have to be honest, I don't want to."</em></span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Be genuine, be open; it's all right. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">This is a bit of a sticky situation. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1" style="color: #800080;"><strong>It's tough for us who are highly sensitive intuitive individuals to really speak up and decline, right? It takes a bit of courage and some extra energy.</strong> </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Send me an email back or a&nbsp;</span><span class="s1">comment below to share what's coming up for you? What do you feel hearing this? Is this resonating? </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Okay, make sure that you share this video for someone that you know who really needs to tone the over-commitment down, and subscribe on YouTube so that you get your love letters first every week.</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1"><b>By the way, this Saturday I will see you in New York City for the Love Tour, right? Saturday June 18th from 2 to 5pm, send me an email back at senseivictoriawhitfield@gmail.com if you'd like to join us, it's free.</b></span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Hopefully I'll see you there. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">If not, see you next week here. Bye!</span></p>
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<h2 class="p1"><strong><span class="s1">Know this:&nbsp;<a href="http://ctt.ec/81cAb" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">You can be generous and loving while declining someone's offer. Your time matters, too. @SenseiWhitfield</a></span></strong></h2>
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<p><strong style="line-height: 1.5;">In Love and Light,</strong></p>
<p><strong>Victoria.</strong></p>
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<p><strong><em>Just for Today...</em></strong></p>
<p><strong>Prepare and practice saying your own loving decline phrase, such as: "No, I won't able to do that; thanks for thinking of me, though."</strong></p>
<div><strong>Write it out on a sticky note for and say it out loud to yourself a few times.</strong></div>
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<div><strong><em>Notice how you feel at that moment - you're already healing!</em></strong></div>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 06 Jun 2016 12:00:57 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p>Waiting for the right moment to present itself? Wondering when you should make that move you've been thinking of for some time now? Want to go for your goal, but don't know if you're ready yet? Source says you have permission to proceed this week! But there's more to moving forward with your plans than [&#8230;]</p>
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<h2><span style="color: #800080;"><em>Waiting for the right moment to present itself?</em></span></h2>
<h2><em>Wondering when you should make that move you've been thinking of for some time now?<br />
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<h2><em>Want to go for your goal, but don't know if you're ready yet?</em></h2>
<p>Source says you have permission to proceed this week!</p>
<p>But there's more to moving forward with your plans than you think.</p>
<p><span style="color: #008080;"><strong>Watch this week's 7-minute Love Letter video to better understand how to get going on that new opportunity the Universe is sending you!<br />
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<p style="text-align: right;"><em><span style="color: #800080;"><b>"When do I tell them that I care about them?"</b></span></em></p>
<p class="p1"><strong><span class="s1">This week, Source wants to let you know, that you have permission to proceed. </span></strong></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">You've got it. You ready? Incoming permission slip, right through the screen to you right now.&nbsp;</span><span class="s1">You have permission to proceed. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span style="color: #800080;"><strong><span class="s1">The Guides are saying that it's been a long&nbsp;time coming, that you've been wondering:</span></strong></span></p>
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<li class="p1"><em><span class="s1">"When do I get to know if I'm ready yet?"</span></em></li>
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<li class="p1"><em><span class="s1">"When do I get to know if this is the right time for me to move forward with that vision that I've been having?"</span></em></li>
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<li class="p1"><em><span class="s1">"When do I move forward with the goals that I've been setting for myself?" </span></em></li>
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<li class="p1"><em><span class="s1">"When do I start that new cleanse program or exercise program?" </span></em></li>
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<li class="p1"><em><span class="s1">"When do I tell them that I care about them, and express my feelings?"</span></em></li>
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<li class="p1"><em>"When do I buy into that program or treatment package that I have been thinking about?"</em></li>
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<li class="p1"><em>"When do I set up that vacation, or a conference ticket? When do I book my flight?"</em></li>
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<p class="p1"><span class="s1">You have permission to proceed. This is what the Guides want to transmit to you, in particular today.</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1"><strong>We want to be specific: you have permission to proceed for yourself. This has to do with only you.</strong> </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Make sure&nbsp;to temper a bit of that enthusiasm you're getting:&nbsp;<em>"All right, yes, I can change him."</em> No, no, no!&nbsp;That is not what we're talking about. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">The Energy says though YOU have permission to proceed. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">If you're feeling like you've been holding back a compulsion whether or not you should give that suggestion to that person or give them that constructive criticism feedback, etc.&nbsp;Source says, you can only proceed forward if you get their explicit permission.</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span style="color: #800080;"><strong><span class="s1">If you have a push to really want to tell someone, <em>"You need to do this"</em> or <em>"You need to do this better,"</em> the reason why you have that push, is because that advice is for you.</span></strong></span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">The reason why that's happening is because that is meant for you to heal your life. People are sacred mirrors of your own spiritual energy.</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Have you asked yourself why you're so worried about the suggestion that you're trying to give that other person? Are you really living it yourself yet?</span></p>
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<h2 class="p1"><a href="http://ctt.ec/3Zf2f"><strong><span class="s1">Know this:&nbsp;Worry will die when you increase your faith. Go for it this week and trust yourself! @SenseiWhitfield</span></strong></a></h2>
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<p class="p1"><span class="s1">This message is especially to those of you who are friends, spouses coaches, mentors, managers; it's for those in an authority role who are reading right now, who give incredible, insightful, awesome advice, that can sometimes be given unwarranted. Be kind to yourself if that's you. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><strong><span class="s1">It's time that you step out first in that direction rather than just tossing your advice or your suggestions on someone without getting that person's permission first. </span></strong></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">You have permission to proceed forward with the advice that you desire to give.&nbsp;</span><span class="s1">Go ahead and implement it. </span></p>
<p class="p1">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><span style="color: #800080;"><strong><span class="s1">For the rest of us who are&nbsp;not necessarily about giving advice, this message is different because it pertains to a new goal or initiative that you've been working on;&nbsp;yes, you're worthy, you're okay, move forward. </span></strong></span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">The Guides are telling me now to pull from the Oracle Cards deck. "Angel Answers" is a yes-no deck, one of many donated decks here at the Dojo. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">(You can always send donations to The Dojo by</span><span class="s1">&nbsp;emailing me at senseivictoriawhitefield@gmail.com if you would like to donate an oracle card &nbsp;deck&nbsp;that you just don't really use anymore.)</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Angels, what do we really need to know right now about permission to proceed? This feels strong. <em>"No Need to Worry;" </em>this is so big. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">This basically hits the nail on the head and this is why we're going to leave off. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1"><strong>The reason why we need permission to proceed is because we're worrying ourselves into a tizzy.</strong> </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">It's okay. You can go forward, let go of worry. Worry only happens when you are trying to control something that is outside of your energy. Trust your gut. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span style="color: #333333;"><span class="s1">Worry will die when you increase your faith. If only just for now, believe that there's no need to worry. </span></span></p>
<p class="p1"><span style="color: #800080;"><strong><span class="s1">Let it go, and take a step of faith forward in the direction of whatever Source is guiding you towards.</span></strong></span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">I'm curious to hear what's coming for you hearing this week's message. If it spoke to you, let me know. I love feedback. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Make sure you subscribe on YouTube so that you get your Love Letters first every week.</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">See you next time. Bye!</span></p>
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<p><strong style="line-height: 1.5;">In Love and Light,</strong></p>
<p><strong>Victoria.</strong></p>
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<p><strong><em>Just for Today...</em></strong></p>
<p><strong>Take your own advice; the guidance you're getting is meant for you.</strong></p>
<div><strong>If you're itching to change someone's behavior and "coach" them on what they should be doing, try doing your suggestion yourself first before telling them.</strong></div>
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<div><strong><em>Notice how you feel at that moment - you're already healing!</em></strong></div>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 30 May 2016 12:00:50 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p>Curious about crystal healing? Love trying new holistic therapies? Trouble focusing during meditation? Crystal therapy is a powerful tool for keeping you focused and disciplined, believe it or not! Our gem friends are natural tools for rebalancing your health on a vibrational, energetic level. Watch this week's 9-minute Love Letter video to learn how to [&#8230;]</p>
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<h2><span style="color: #800080;"><em>Curious about crystal healing?</em></span></h2>
<h2><em>Love trying new holistic therapies?</em></h2>
<h2><em>Trouble focusing during meditation?</em></h2>
<p>Crystal therapy is a powerful tool for keeping you focused and disciplined, believe it or not!</p>
<p>Our gem friends are natural tools for rebalancing your health on a vibrational, energetic level.</p>
<p><span style="color: #008080;"><strong>Watch this week's 9-minute Love Letter video to learn how to start doing crystal meditation for yourself!</strong></span></p>
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<p style="text-align: right;"><em><span style="color: #800080;"><b>"<em>How do I meditate with a crystal?</em>"</b></span></em></p>
<p class="p1"><strong>This week, in particular, Source is asking that you get started meditating with crystals. </strong></p>
<p class="p1">What do I mean by crystals?</p>
<p class="p1">There are, of course, lead crystals like the Swarovski crystals and things that are shiny, and pretty. Wonderful to look at.</p>
<p class="p1"><span style="color: #800080;"><strong>But the crystals that I'm talking about, and the crystals Source is talking about, are minerals. Mineral specimens that could be tumbled, or ruff cut, or even particularly shaped. </strong></span></p>
<p class="p1">We have few different crystal specimens here at the dojo, so I want to explain to you why crystals are awesome.</p>
<p class="p1"><strong><span class="s1">First off, they are libraries of healing information. </span></strong></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Picture this. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span style="color: #800080;"><strong><span class="s1">There's a philosophy called stone tape theory, which basically states that all stones are record keepers. They are constantly keeping record of all the energy that they have been exposed to. </span></strong></span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Stone tape theory, therefore, explains paranormal experiences, like if you've ever been in a house where at a certain time of the day you start smelling a certain perfume, or cigar smoke, or footsteps start happening repeatedly. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">It's because the natural energy of the house has recorded the emotional and physical life energy that has occurred there.</span></p>
<p class="p1"><strong><span class="s1">All stones, in particular, are capable of doing this, but they also have healing knowledge. </span></strong></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">They're basically the natural computers of the earth. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">If you have a crystal skull, for example, they are the natural internet. (I mean, if you want to take a deep dive on Google go ahead. Crystal skulls, meditation, enjoy.)</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span style="color: #800080;"><strong><span class="s1">Two in particular here at the dojo, two of our crystal friends here wanted to come forward to talk to you. </span></strong></span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">This is rose quartz. His name is Pepe. He was a gift, and he's been charging for quite sometime here. Rose quartz. This is a wonderful example of a ruff cut barrel that you could meditate with.</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Or down here is Jeff. Now how do my crystals have names? I just ask them and they tell me. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><strong><span class="s1">Pepe and Jeff here wanted to illustrate to you with me how to meditate with a crystal.</span></strong></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">You can simply have one in your purse, or display one on your table, or your desk at work, or your bed side table, etc., to bring more healing energy. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span style="color: #800080;"><strong><span class="s1">Every stone has meaning. </span></strong></span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">By the way, this is rose quartz, which is good for the heart. In healing your heart, your inner child, feeling safe. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Jeff here, is fluorite in particular. What he works with is clarity, mental clarity, being organized, disciplined, focused, systems, creating systems, and really staying on your game on a regular basis. He's all about consistency.</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">I'm going to hold Jeff in particular. Peppy is down here sending you lots of love. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><strong><span class="s1">When you are meditating with a crystal, what you want to do is: </span></strong></p>
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<li class="p1"><span class="s1">You hold your crystal in your hands&nbsp;</span></li>
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<li class="p1"><span class="s1">You imagine that the energy of that crystal is flowing up your arms. Cycling through with your breath.</span></li>
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<li class="p1">Feeling that energy go through you, and exhaling going back into the stone creating a circuit of energy is one way to meditate with your crystal.</li>
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<p><span style="color: #800080;"><strong>Another way, and I'm going to use Peppy for this illustration, is to look at all of the facets in great detail. </strong></span></p>
<p>Really allowing your eye to go into all of the different quarks, nooks, and crannies. Perhaps rubbing your finger as well. Your thumb over the ridges activates more of the healing information.</p>
<p class="p1"><strong><span class="s1">Now all of this is to say that spending time with your crystals helps their healing information attune to your aura. </span></strong></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Your aura and their energy begin to talk to each other and harmonize. We are all, all living beings are harmonic. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">The same way if you're singing in a choir, it's best to be in tune. Nature does that naturally. She creates harmony. Bring some crystals into your life. Crystal people such as Jeff and Pepe.</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span style="color: #800080;"><strong><span class="s1">I'm hearing the oracle cards for the week. </span></strong></span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">It's the Crystal Oracle. Another gift deck. Thank you for your support.&nbsp;</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1"><strong>What do we need to know right now? I'm hearing this card.</strong> </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Jeff is right here, and look what card came out. Fluorite. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">You can't make this stuff up. Wow. Thanks Jeff. I think you really want to get through to people. How crazy. You know that's normal here. Get out.</span></p>
<p class="p1"><strong><span class="s1">All right. They're telling me to read, in particular:</span></strong></p>
<p class="p1"><em><span class="s1">Concentration, psychic protection, and emotional stability. Fluorite emanates a highly spiritual vibration that can shield you from a negative influence, or a negative person that is causing you to be emotionally imbalanced. Knowing that you are being surrounded by love and light and trust in the protection you are now receiving. Let go of your fears and concerns, and allow this wondrous healing to occur.&nbsp;</span><span class="s1">Start to focus on the things that bring joy to your life. Focus on all you would love to be doing rather than worrying about what others think. You are safe and eternally loved. Nothing can harm you except for your own fears. Trust! </span></em></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Here's where we'll leave off. It's time to bring in some crystal energy to really help anchor your aura, and make you feel more safe and grounded as you continue forward.</span></p>
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<h2 class="p1"><strong><span class="s1">Know this:&nbsp;<a href="http://ctt.ec/81cAb" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">#Crystal energy will help #anchor your #aura and make you feel more #safe and #grounded. @SenseiWhitfield</a></span></strong></h2>
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<p class="p1"><strong><span class="s1">They come from the earth, so bringing more earth energy can really help you.</span></strong></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Send me an email back. Comment below. Let me know what's coming up for you. If you're curious about crystals. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">By the way, size does not matter. Relax. Pepe&nbsp;is just as awesome as Jeff. Don't feel like I got to get a gigantic&nbsp;one.</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span style="color: #800080;"><strong><span class="s1">What matters most is how you feel when you're with your crystal. </span></strong></span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Bring more earth energy so that you can feel more grounded and protected this week in particular. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Send me pictures. I want to see your crystals, okay? </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Sending you so much love. We all are, and get ready.</span></p>
<p><strong style="line-height: 1.5;">In Love and Light,</strong></p>
<p><strong>Victoria.</strong></p>
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<p><strong>Do a 3-5 minute crystal meditation to raise your personal vibration.</strong></p>
<div><strong>Find a stone -- yes, even from your backyard -- and practice breathing in its natural energy.</strong></div>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p>Have you been secretly feeling down and depressed lately? Feeling like you've lost the joy you once had, or wish you had more? Think that joy and feelings are irrelevant to your work? &#160; Keeping up with the demands of professional life -- or "adulting" as I call it -- can really drain your joy [&#8230;]</p>
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<h2><span style="color: #800080;"><em>Have you been secretly feeling down and depressed lately?</em></span></h2>
<h2><em>Feeling like you've lost the joy you once had, or wish you had more?</em></h2>
<h2><em>Think that joy and feelings are irrelevant to your work?</em></h2>
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<p>Keeping up with the demands of professional life -- or "adulting" as I call it -- can really drain your joy sometimes.</p>
<div>Yes we have responsibilities, and yes it gets monotonous, but deep down, you know that right now there's more to life than being dull and grey.</div>
<p><span style="color: #008080;"><strong>Watch this week's 7-minute Love Letter video to find out the power of joy and how to rekindle yours!</strong></span></p>
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<p style="text-align: right;"><em><span style="color: #800080;"><b>"Today I want to do something that brings me joy."</b></span></em></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Source wants you to know, this week in particular, that your joy is sacred.</span></p>
<p class="p1"><strong><span class="s1"> Your joy, your happiness, your peace, how you feel, is sacred. </span></strong></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">One of the most common things that I say here to all my students at the Dojo, is that "what matters most is how you feel"; but your joy in particular is sacred. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">In the energy I'm seeing that in a previous video, we had covered that your joy is actually a way of protecting yourself. It's your vortex, right? </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span style="color: #800080;"><strong><span class="s1">Being in your vortex keeps you energized -- and you're in it when you're feeling good.</span></strong></span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">When you're feeling joyful, it also keeps you open to new solutions and strategies for solving different issues that come through your life; also it does protect your heart and it protects your energy. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">It's especially helpful&nbsp;when you're out in the world interacting with others, because sometimes news and things or issues at work can come up, or your family members or teammates may be having a challenge. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><strong><span class="s1">Your joy is sacred for protecting you from absorbing any of the healing journeys that they're on. Did you know that?</span></strong></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Joy is such a powerful thing to connect to, and especially when we are post-school-age. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">So to all my students who are "studenting", awesome; but for those who are post being in school and you're now "adulting", as opposed to just "studenting" in your life right now, joy can become smaller and smaller and lesser and lesser. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">The more we "adult" the more we get serious or monotonous, the more we curb our enthusiasm for life.</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1"> I'm using "adult"&nbsp;as a verb on purpose -- I was an English Major in college, so to all my grammarians out there, I know you're cringing, but I know what I'm doing, here ;).</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Let me be direct with you --</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span style="color: #800080;"><strong><span class="s1">What happened to your joy? </span></strong></span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">What happened to the things that made you come alive and inspired you, and made you want to be "frisky", as Abraham Hicks says, made you want to be mischievous or fun, sexy and silly?</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">What happened to your joy? </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">It energized you. It moved mountains in life so many times. When you've been joyful time flew and synchronicities came together, right?</span></p>
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<h2 class="p1"><strong><span class="s1">Know this:&nbsp;<a href="http://ctt.ec/mwbN5" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">Your #joy is #sacred.&nbsp;</a></span></strong><a href="http://ctt.ec/mwbN5" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer"><span class="s1">This week start each day by #visualizing things that bring you joy @SenseiWhitfield</span></a></h2>
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<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Your joy is sacred. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span style="color: #800080;"><strong><span class="s1">Source in particular this week wants you to know that you joy is sacred, though, because it is contagious. </span></strong></span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Your joy is contagious. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><strong><span style="color: #333333;"><span class="s1">God, Goddess,&nbsp;the Holy Spirit, Source consciousness, the human spirit and human potential that is around us and within us desires for more joy and more happiness to be on the planet -- and i</span></span><span class="s1">t's got to start with you. </span></strong></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Your joy is sacred because you're the only one who can access it for you. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">I'm hearing the Oracle cards calling in the energy on this, but it's important that in this week, you prioritize first and foremost that&nbsp;<em>"Today I want to do something that brings me joy."</em></span></p>
<p class="p1"><span style="color: #800080;"><strong><span class="s1">I want to hear in the comments what brings you joy. </span></strong></span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">You know me. I love bubbles, I love dancing, I love rainbows, glitter and emojis. Shiny things and playfulness. Those bring me joy.</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1"><strong>These things bring me joy and light me up, and it's because of my joy practice that I have so much energy.</strong> </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">What I want to hear from you is how do you generate joy in your life? </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">What makes you joy-filled? </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span style="color: #333333;"><span class="s1">We're using the <em>Healing with the Fairies</em>&nbsp;oracle cards deck by Doreen Virtue. </span></span></p>
<p class="p1"><span style="color: #333333;"><span class="s1">Let's ask: <em>"Fairies, what do we need to know right now about our joy?"</em></span></span></p>
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<p class="p1"><span style="color: #333333;"><span class="s1"><strong>Visualization.</strong> </span></span></p>
<p class="p1"><span style="color: #333333;"><span class="s1">This is where we'll leave off for the week.</span></span></p>
<p class="p1">Your joy is sacred, and it's important that you visualize things that bring you joy.</p>
<p class="p1">I just heard it loud in the energy, like they yelled it in my ear --</p>
<p class="p1"><strong>Mindset. There's negative thoughts. </strong></p>
<p class="p1">We've been beating ourselves up with the same old crusty&nbsp;self-doubt and worry, etc. patterns that we keep pummeling ourselves with in our minds.</p>
<p class="p1"><span style="color: #800080;"><strong>This week in particular, I double-dog-dare you&nbsp;to&nbsp;visualize once a day something that brings you so much joy. </strong></span></p>
<p class="p1">Try it at the beginning of the day because it'll set the tone for the day for more joy.</p>
<p class="p1">You will see how it will attract more joy throughout the day.</p>
<p class="p1"><strong><span class="s1">Comment below, post back, let me know how it goes, what did you find, and make sure you <a href="https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCHybBbWcVx_IAKX0DXF70SQ">subscribe on YouTube</a> so that you get your weekly love letters first. </span></strong></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">I'm sending you so much love. I believe in you, and I'm sending you joyful energy. Bye. See you next week.</span></p>
<p class="p1"><strong style="line-height: 1.5;">In Love and Light,</strong></p>
<p><strong>Victoria.</strong></p>
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<p><strong><em>Just for Today...</em></strong></p>
<p><strong>Mind your mindset, strategically.&nbsp;</strong></p>
<div><strong><strong>When you feel fearful or anxious, decide to actively visualize something that brings you joy.</strong></strong></div>
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<div><strong><em>Notice how you feel at that moment - you're already healing!</em></strong></div>
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<h2><span style="color: #800080;"><em>Wish you could speak up for yourself in difficult situations?</em></span></h2>
<h2><em>Constantly trying to make everyone else happy while you're drained and exhausted?</em></h2>
<h2>Worried that if you aren't "nice" enough that people won't accept you as you are?</h2>
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<p>Being able to resolve conflicts is an important skill in life.</p>
<p>However there's a fine line between being helpful and being a people-pleaser -- and we often tend to blur that line.</p>
<p><span style="color: #008080;"><strong>Watch this week's 6-minute Love Letter video to find out if you're being "too nice" and what you can do about it!</strong></span></p>
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<p style="text-align: right;"><em><span style="color: #800080;"><b>"<em>How can I tell if I'm being 'too nice?'</em>"</b></span></em></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">This week, Source wants to ask you:<em> Are you being too nice? </em></span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">This a rhetorical question by the way!&nbsp;</span><span class="s1">It's more to raise your awareness around the fact that you are being too nice. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><strong><span class="s1">Let's just cut to the chase. </span><span class="s1">Recently, maybe you've been feeling some of the following scenarios:</span></strong></p>
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<li class="p1"><span class="s1">You want to speak up in a certain situation and you just don't because you want to "play nice," &nbsp;"keep the peace" or make sure everyone feels okay. </span></li>
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<li class="p1"><span class="s1">There's something that you want, but because you want someone else, or everyone else, to feel comfortable and have what they want or because you don't want to hurt anybody's feelings, you keep it to yourself or hide it.</span></li>
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<li class="p1"><span class="s1">Or better yet, you don't freely express what you want in general, so when people innocently ask what you want because they want to support you, you've been holding back expressing what you want for so long that you don't even know what you want, and so you just draw a blank.</span></li>
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<p class="p1"><span class="s1">When someone you care about asks, <em>"What do you want?" or "</em></span><span class="s1"><em>Where do you want to eat tonight?" or "What would you like to do?"</em>&nbsp;for example, you shut down.</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span style="color: #800080;"><strong><span class="s1">Perhaps we were raised or socialized to "politely" shut down like this, or perhaps you just decided at some point to believe that when you're a nice person, you make concessions and let others go ahead and make the decisions, always. </span></strong></span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">It could be under the guise of having a servant's heart. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">It could be under the guise of being gentle, compassionate, giving, loving, even. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><strong><span class="s1">But here's the thing: what matters most is how you feel.</span></strong></p>
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<h2 class="p1"><strong><span class="s1">Know this: <a href="http://ctt.ec/DT7HV" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">You can tell if you're being too #nice according to how you feel. #motivation #feelings @senseiwhitfield</a></span></strong></h2>
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<p class="p1">How do making concessions and being indecisive feel?</p>
<p class="p1">How does hiding your true wants and desires feel?</p>
<p class="p1">How does holding back like this feel?</p>
<p class="p1"><strong>Source is saying you're hiding your anger.</strong></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Here's the thing: hiding your true feelings&nbsp;to be "polite" is only hiding from yourself, and that's a sure-fire recipe for anger and resentment.</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">When you want to be a good person, that doesn't necessarily mean that your blood should be boiling in the background all the time, putting on a nice front in order to make others feel comfortable and more safe in your presence. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span style="color: #800080;"><strong><span class="s1">That is inauthentic and moreover a symptom of being ungrounded. </span></strong></span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">It's about becoming aware of the difference between:</span></p>
<p class="p1" style="padding-left: 30px;"><strong><em><span class="s1">Not knowing what you want because you're hiding it from yourself, and by extension hiding it from others and appearing politely indecisive</span></em></strong></p>
<p class="p1" style="padding-left: 30px;"><strong><em><span class="s1"> versus </span></em></strong></p>
<p class="p1" style="padding-left: 30px;"><strong><em><span class="s1">Knowing what you want and how you feel, and having the communication skills and courage to be truthful and meet others halfway </span></em></strong></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">They're completely different arenas, completely different emotional experiences.</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1" style="color: #800080;"><strong>Especially when we're sensitive, empathic, intuitive beings, we tend to take on others' emotions. And we absorb the energies of environments and that will even more push us to want to be extra nice.</strong> </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Because if we can only contribute positive energy and only appease (read: people-please) others, then that will create a comfortable exterior environment which then, once that happens, then we can on the interior feel comfortable. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1"><strong>So, as empaths we're unfortunately used to being defined by our circumstance.</strong> </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span style="color: #800080;"><strong><span class="s1">That's a</span>&nbsp;serious problem, because this<span class="s1">&nbsp;complex issue of being "too nice" sets you up for Enabling codependency, disempowerment, self-sabotage and living a very small, confused life. </span></strong></span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">So Source in the energy, She is simply asking for you to notice if you are being too nice at all this week. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">She wants you to notice if you are losing your point of view and your identity in order to appease others. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1"><strong>This week in particular -- you clicked on this video blog now, so you need to be vigilant <em>this week in particular.</em></strong> </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">I'm not talking about all the time, but Source says something's going on this week where you're going to need to be extra vigilant. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span style="color: #333333;"><span class="s1">And I'm hearing the Oracle Cards calling. It's the Indigo Angel Oracle Cards deck.</span></span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Let's ask the angels, "what do we need to know right now about possibly being too nice? Could we be being too nice?"</span></p>
<p class="p1"><strong>Archangel Michael.</strong></p>
<p class="p1">Archangel Michael comes forward with his fiery sword.</p>
<p class="p1">If you notice, that's his back on the card. The message is: he's got your back.</p>
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<p class="p1"><span class="s1"><strong>Sometimes we can be overly nice in people-pleasing as a protection and a coping mechanism.</strong> </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Don't sacrifice your personality, your preferences, your desires, to simply fit in or appease others. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span style="color: #800080;"><strong><span class="s1">Your point of view is worthy. YOU are worthy.</span></strong></span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Send me an email back, comment below, tell me what's coming up for you around if you're being too nice or being curious about it. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">If you want to ask me about a situation, I always respond. Let me know, and I'm happy to mastermind with you through this situation, okay? </span></p>
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<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Until next time, don't be too nice. 😉&nbsp;</span></p>
<p class="p1">See you next week. Bye!</p>
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<p><strong>Stop being "nice" at the expense of your integrity and inner truth.&nbsp;</strong></p>
<div><strong>Boldly ask yourself, "How can I be kind&nbsp;AND&nbsp;lovingly honest right now?"&nbsp;</strong></div>
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<div><strong><em>Notice how you feel at that moment - you're already healing!</em></strong></div>
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<h2><span style="color: #800080;"><em>Can't seem to move things along in your love life lately?</em></span></h2>
<h2><em>Struggling to open your Third Eye?</em></h2>
<h2>Wondering why you're having trouble getting clients or that next level of income?</h2>
<p>Most people in these situations explain it away as "It's not working; I must be blocked."</p>
<p>But Source wants you to know that you are not blocked; in fact, you may instead be 1 of 3 other things actually!</p>
<p><span style="color: #008080;"><strong>Watch this week's 8-minute Love Letter to learn more about what's actually happening to you, so you can shift out of being "blocked."</strong></span></p>
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<p style="text-align: right;"><em><span style="color: #800080;"><b>"<em>I'm feeling blocked. What do I do?</em>"</b></span></em></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">This week Source wants you to know that you are not blocked.</span></p>
<p class="p1"><strong><span class="s1"> You are not blocked. </span></strong></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">In fact, there are three other things that Source has channeled for us to share with you. Instead of seeing yourself blocked, actually it could be one of these following three things, so keep reading.</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">On a side note, I did a previous love letter months ago about blocks as well, but just to summarize overall what came through last time: there's no such thing as being blocked. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1" style="color: #800080;"><strong>Absolutely nothing in the universe energy-wise is ever stationary.</strong> </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">If you zoom into molecules and into atoms there is constantly a state of movement and motion in All That Is. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><strong><span class="s1">The status of being blocked or feeling stagnant is only a mental illusion that we create.</span></strong></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">In the meantime though, you're still feeling that and thinking, <em>"Ok! I'm in the illusion, Victoria, of feeling blocked! </em></span><em><span class="s1">What do I do? What could actually be happening?" </span></em></p>
<h2 class="p1"><span class="s1">Instead of being blocked what could be happening is that you have 1) a blind spot. </span></h2>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Let's say, perhaps you're working on cultivating your natural intuition skills. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">You want to see colors. You want to go on vision journeys or you want to speak to your loved ones on the other side. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1" style="color: #800080;"><strong>You've been cultivating that and despite your efforts, you just can't see or you just can't hear or you just can't get in to it.</strong> </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">It's not that you're blocked, as most people explain this away to themselves as <em>"My third eye's blocked."</em> </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">No, not necessarily. It could be that you have a mental blind spot.</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1"><strong>Everyone is born with different energetic affinities.</strong> </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">For some they have more of an affinity for clairaudience so they can hear energy better. For others they have clairvoyance. They're able to see visions easier. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">For others there's the psychic cognition, the thoughts that come to them from the higher plane. Even phantom smells come naturally for some people. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span style="color: #800080;"><strong><span class="s1">The same way that some people are just born with a natural talent for playing the piano than others, they just have that natural talent or affinity and discover it through practice, is the same with energetic sensing and visioning. </span></strong></span></p>
<p><span class="s1">It's not that you're blocked, it's just that you're not born with an affinity for seeing on that level. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">It's cultivatable, but it's not your number one affinity or talent. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1"><strong>Additionally, you might be born with a blind spot, but also you may not have the vocabulary to describe and recognize that what's occurring is something spiritual or energetic happening right now.</strong> </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">A lack of vocabulary can also contribute to reinforcing or creating a blind spot for you -- but it's not a block.</span></p>
<h2 class="p1"><span class="s1">2) Congestion. You're not blocked, instead there's a congestion gathered at the moment. </span></h2>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">It's not that there's nothing happening. Instead, there's so much happening that you can't even handle it!<br />
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<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Let's talk about abundance. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Perhaps you've been saying to yourself lately: <em>"I feel like I'm financially blocked."</em> </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">No, it's actually more likely that you're financially and emotionally overloaded right now. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span style="color: #800080;"><strong><span class="s1">There could be so much going on in your abundance energy and your financial energy that you're just processing too much that it looks like it's blocked.</span></strong></span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">A good example of that is that you have a lot that you need to confront about your finances. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">There's a ton going on there, but for fear, procrastination and emotion we're not engaging and working it out. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><img decoding="async" class="aligncenter wp-image-2049 size-full" src="https://victoriawhitfield.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/11/TWEETOFTHEWEEK.png" alt="TWEETOFTHEWEEK" width="462" height="86" srcset="https://victoriawhitfield.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/11/TWEETOFTHEWEEK.png 462w, https://victoriawhitfield.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/11/TWEETOFTHEWEEK-300x56.png 300w, https://victoriawhitfield.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/11/TWEETOFTHEWEEK-460x86.png 460w" sizes="(max-width: 462px) 100vw, 462px" /></p>
<h2 class="p1"><strong><span class="s1">Know this:&nbsp;<a href="http://ctt.ec/9flZO" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">You are not #blocked. You're just #overwhelmed and #suffering from #tunnelvision. http://bit.ly/1SQ5bLk via @SenseiWhitfield</a></span></strong></h2>
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<p class="p1"><strong><span class="s1">In all honesty, we're resistant to really being open and vulnerable, and to avoid that we create emotion and excuses which create congestion.</span></strong></p>
<p class="p1">Self-sabotage slows you down so you don't have to confront your finances.</p>
<p class="p1">We associate more pain with being clear, and more pleasure with being comfortable.</p>
<p class="p1">Deciding that comfort is more important than being clear can really clog up your energy, by the way. And t<span class="s1">his leads into the third one that comes from the energy this week.</span></p>
<h2 class="p1"><strong><span class="s1">3) There's been a decision made.</span></strong></h2>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">We formulated a story or limiting belief, a self-limiting agreement with ourselves that <em>"No way, no how, I am not comfortable with being vulnerable. I am not comfortable with crossing that terror barrier in my life."</em> </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">For example when we're dealing with the unknown, trying something new like: <em>"This person's doing some Reiki&nbsp;hoodoo voodoo on me. I don't know what the heck that is. I don't see it. I don't get it. I don't want it."</em></span></p>
<p class="p1"><span style="color: #800080;"><strong><span class="s1">Somewhere in your mind there's this clear decision that's been made as a protective mental ring of fire around yourself&nbsp; to&nbsp;cognitively protect from you experiencing whatever that new feeling or viewpoint may be. </span></strong></span></p>
<p class="p1">You made that decision consciously or unconsciously to protect yourself, but it's also limiting you.</p>
<p class="p1">Honestly, this is the most frustrating because limiting beliefs are just decisions you made at the site of an old trauma in life.</p>
<p class="p1">On the bright side, once you realize you made that decision with yourself, you realize you created your prison and locked yourself inside but you have been holding on to the key the whole time -- that means you can let yourself out!</p>
<p class="p1"><strong><span class="s1">So, to summarize, there's the blind spot, the congestion or the decision instead of being blocked.</span></strong></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">I'm hearing the oracle cards calling in the energy now... </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">By the way, this is an open discussion. I invite you to comment below, email me back at <a href="mailto:SenseiVictoriaWhitfield@gmail.com" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">SenseiVictoriaWhitfield@gmail.com</a> what's coming up for you on this topic? </span></p>
<p class="p1"><strong><span class="s1">If you were to replace that concept of being blocked with either having a blind spot, feeling like there's a congestion overload or a decision, does it feel softer?</span></strong></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">This week's gorgeous oracle cards deck is <em>Angel Answers</em> by Doreen Virtue, and this deck in particular is a yes-no oracle, so the answers are very straightforward. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">What we're going to ask the cards is simply: "Are you blocked?"</span></p>
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<p class="p1"><span style="color: #800080;"><strong><span class="s1">Unlikely. </span></strong></span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">WOW! Talk about straightforward! Talk about validation. I feel the chills!<br />
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<p class="p1"><span class="s1">They're telling me to read the book on this one. Interesting. There are yes cards, by the way, in this deck, so this is definitely not a coincidence -- the angels want you to know that YOU ARE NOT BLOCKED.</span></p>
<p class="p1">Here's the reading:</p>
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<p class="p1"><em><span class="s1"><strong>The situation you have asked about it unlikely to occur as you are imagining it.</strong> </span></em></p>
<p class="p1"><em><span class="s1">There may be a different version of events that will take place or it may be that what you've asked about is simply not in your highest, greatest good. </span></em></p>
<p class="p1"><em><span class="s1"><strong>Place your focus on an alternative possibility. Open your eyes to different opportunities.</strong> </span></em></p>
<p class="p1"><em><span class="s1">Be willing to experience a unique and more uplifting outcome than what you had planned for yourself.</span></em></p>
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<p class="p1"><span class="s1">This is where we're going to leave off this week. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1" style="color: #000000;"><strong>If you're telling yourself the story that you are blocked remember this message from your angels: It is highly unlikely!</strong></span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">It is highly unlikely that you are blocked. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Instead you may have a blind spot to the energy that's flowing through you. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">There may be so much going on that you're overloaded and you're just processing a lot of energy, more than you're used to processing. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Or you have made a decision inwardly that you are not going any further.</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1" style="color: #800080;"><strong>Whenever you start up with telling yourself negative stories, and apparently this week that's what you're going to do or you may be doing right now, "unblock" yourself by saying <em>"IT'S UNLIKELY!"</em></strong> </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">It's unlikely. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">I'll see you next week. Subscribe on YouTube to get the Love Letters first. Comment below and show some love.<br />
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<div><strong>Finish this sentence: "Even though I'm feeling XYZ right now, I know this is temporary and things are getting better for me." </strong></div>
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<h2><span style="color: #800080;"><em>Feel like there's never enough time in the day?</em></span></h2>
<h2><em>Can't do the things you'd like to lately because you're too busy?</em></h2>
<h2><em>Worried that you're missing out on enjoying life because time flies?</em></h2>
<p>Being busy is both a blessing and a curse.</p>
<p>We work hard and give our all, but the price we pay is feeling overworked and crunched for time when we want to do what really matters most to us.</p>
<p><span style="color: #008080;"><strong>Watch this week's 8-minute Love Letter&nbsp;to learn exactly why you don't have time, and what to do about it!</strong></span></p>
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<p style="text-align: right;"><em><span style="color: #800080;"><b>"<strong><span class="s1"><span style="color: #800080;"><em>How do I create more time for myself?</em></span></span></strong>"</b></span></em></p>
<p>Source is say so strong&nbsp;in the energy right now,&nbsp;<em>"Stop saying you don't have time."</em></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">One of the most common reasons or excuses that I hear from my students in response to "why I can't mediate on a daily basis," or "why I don't get to workout as much as I would like to," or "why I'm not focusing on doing things that I love, or developing my crafts, my talents, my intuition" is, <em>"I don't have time. I don't have time for that. Ain't nobody got time for that mess." 🙂</em></span></p>
<p class="p1"><strong><span class="s1">Source is saying loud and clear, <em>"Stop it, because time is a hologram."</em> </span></strong></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Time is a hologram. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">It is a image built out of refracted light, and refracted color, and refracted choices. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span style="color: #800080;"><strong><span class="s1">Time is a hologram because it's based on decisions. </span></strong></span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">It's not that you don't have time. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Whenever we have that as a prevailing excuse, Source says it's actually not that you don't have time -- as if you have less of the twenty-four hours in a day that we all get. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><strong><span class="s1">It's actually because you're not a very decisive person, and it's coming from a lack of boundaries.</span></strong></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1"> Feeling like you have no time, or rushing all the time, or feeling like there's no time for self-care or space is a lack of decisiveness, and a lack of boundaries. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Why in the world then does Source say time is a hologram? </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1" style="color: #800080;"><strong>If it's just a hologram, it means that you can shift it simply by altering the base image or your base beliefs -- the building blocks of your boundaries -- around how you operate, and how you show up within the twenty-four hours that you have been allotted within each day.</strong> </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Eight, hopefully, of which you are sleeping. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">We still have a limited amount of time, let's say around twelve hours to play with then. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">So that's about half the day to play with how we are going to show up for ourselves within this current day. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Let's talk boundaries. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1"><strong>How do you create boundaries? By deciding what matters most to you, and then being first in line to honor and be the bodyguard of that.</strong> </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Having healthy boundaries doesn't necessarily mean shutting people out, or shutting people down, or cutting things off, necessarily. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1"><span style="color: #800080;"><strong>Boundaries, instead, make sacred containers of exactly what you expect and value within every given experience.</strong> </span></span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">However, being decisive does mean cutting off. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">De-cision is incision, right? </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Cutting off from one stream of consciousness to another, entirely and completely.</span></p>
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<h2 class="p1"><strong><span class="s1">Know this: <a href="http://ctt.ec/r2M1V">The excuse "I don't have time for that" is a #lie we tell ourselves to avoid being decisive.</a></span></strong></h2>
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<p class="p1"><span class="s1"><strong>It's okay to be decisive. </strong></span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">It's okay to be clear that you want to spend your time in this way that you've chosen, because that creates a sense of focus, productiveness, and clarity. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span style="color: #800080;"><strong><span class="s1">You have to be decisive and have clear boundaries if you want to have time for the things that matter to you.</span></strong></span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1"> In the energy, I'm hearing the oracle cards for the week calling, and it's Doreen Virtue's Life Purpose oracle cards deck, one of the sixteen decks and counting here at the dojo. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">As we shuffle the cards we're asking the angels, <em>"Well, how do I get clear on creating more time for myself? Is there a certain thing that I'm supposed to pay attention to? And, how in the world does one become more decisive? How can we create more time by carving out what's important to us?"</em></span></p>
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<p style="margin: 8px 0 0 0; padding: 0 4px;"><a style="color: #000; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal; line-height: 17px; text-decoration: none; word-wrap: break-word;" href="https://www.instagram.com/p/BCDLh4cLAHv/" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">This week's oracle card is "Author. You have a book inside of you. Make time to write it." Really? A book? Yes, really! And it's not what you think--watch the full reading on #YouTube at http://youtu.be/Zi2woB0v2zY ???????? #doreenvirtue #reiki #entrepreneur #love #happy #healing #manifest #motivation #angels #author #book #spreadlove #selfcare</a></p>
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<p class="p1"><span class="s1">The card that came out is:&nbsp;<em>Author.</em>&nbsp;"<em>You have a book inside of you. Take time to write it."</em> </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Make the time. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1"><strong>The angels are saying that they're bringing up from the life purpose deck the word "book" because there is so much inside of you around what's valuable to you, what you desire, what's important to you, who you really are, and who you would like to be.</strong> </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">There's a whole book on that. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">You could write the book on it, and you want to know what it's called? </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1"><strong>An operation's manual.</strong> </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span style="color: #800080;"><strong><span class="s1">This is your assignment for this week: sit down, and write an operation's manual on how to own and operate a you, for you.</span></strong></span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1"> This is not for anybody else. Write down:</span></p>
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<li style="list-style-type: none;">
<ul>
<li class="p1"><span class="s1"> what are your likes</span></li>
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<li class="p1"><span class="s1">what are your dislikes</span></li>
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<li style="list-style-type: none;">
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<li class="p1"><span class="s1">how you would like to spend your day</span></li>
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<li class="p1"><span class="s1">how you would like to express yourself professionally, sexually, socially, physically, spiritually, and emotionally</span></li>
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<p><span class="s1">Write down your operation's manual, because there's a whole book in there, according to the angels, within you. </span></p>
<p><strong><span class="s1">When you sit down and make time for your manual -- making it priority -- it will come pouring and through you, and express naturally. </span></strong></p>
<p><span class="s1">Your intuition has got it. It's inside of you already. Got it?</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1"> Comment below. Tell me what's coming up for you. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Share this with someone who says, "I don't have time. I don't have time." </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1"><strong>Let them know, "Yes you do have time. You're just not decisive. You're just not clear on what your priorities are, and you don't have boundaries."</strong> </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Be kind to yourself. This isn't accusation. It's just reality. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><strong>That's this week's message. By all means, please go to <u><a href="https://victoriawhitfield.com/freegift" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">victoriawhitfield.com/freegift</a></u> and make sure that you subscribe so that you're getting your weekly Love Letters if you haven’t already.</strong></p>
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<p>Sending you so much love 🙂</p>
<p class="p1"><span style="line-height: 1.5;">See you next time. Bye!</span></p>
<p><strong style="line-height: 1.5;">In Love and Light,</strong></p>
<p><strong>Victoria.</strong></p>
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<p><strong><em>Just for Today...</em></strong></p>
<p><strong>Start your operations manual to yourself, for yourself.</strong></p>
<div><strong><strong>Set a timer for 15 minutes, and during that time write out all the things that you would find in an owner's manual if YOU were the "car" -- how to turn you on, speed you up or slow you down, maintenance schedule and so on.</strong></strong></div>
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<div><strong><em>Notice how you feel at that moment - you're already healing!</em></strong></div>
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