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		<title>Love Letters &#124; Dreamwork 101</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 10 May 2015 20:00:46 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p>Wish you could remember your dreams? Ever wondered what it would be like to lucid dream, or to finally understand that recurring dream or nightmare you had? Want to get advice from your dreams, but don't know where to start? Dreams are powerful guides to life; they hold the key to the infinite power of [&#8230;]</p>
<p>The post <a href="https://victoriawhitfield.com/love-letters-dreamwork-101/">Love Letters | Dreamwork 101</a> appeared first on <a href="https://victoriawhitfield.com">Sensei Victoria Whitfield</a>.</p>
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<h2><span style="color: #800080;"><em>Wish you could remember your dreams?</em></span></h2>
<h2><em>Ever wondered what it would be like to lucid dream, or to finally understand that recurring dream or nightmare you had?</em></h2>
<h2><em>Want to get advice from your dreams, but don't know where to start?<br />
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<p>Dreams are powerful guides to life; they hold the key to the infinite power of your Subconscious Mind.</p>
<p>In fact, in Shamanic spiritual traditions, dreams are regarded as the true reality, while this waking life is the real "dream."</p>
<p><span style="color: #008080;"><strong>Watch the above video to to get started remembering and interpreting your dreams!<br />
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<p style="text-align: right;"><strong><span style="color: #800080;">"I can barely remember I had this dream, and I'm not sure what it means..."</span></strong></p>
<p>I hear this a lot during <a href="https://senseivictoriawhitfield.fullslate.com/products/10" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">Sacred Space Sessions</a> here at The Dojo.</p>
<p>As naturally intuitive and creative people, we all have vivid dreams from time to time that we "just know" have some sort of spiritual meaning or message.</p>
<p><strong>Some of us have even had dreams that we found out later on were premonitions.</strong></p>
<p>And still more of us don't dream at all these days, although we used to as children.</p>
<p>So what are dreams exactly; what purpose do they serve?</p>
<p><img decoding="async" class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-1397" src="https://victoriawhitfield.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/05/JosephinePsychesDream.png" alt="JosephinePsychesDream" width="400" height="318" srcset="https://victoriawhitfield.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/05/JosephinePsychesDream.png 400w, https://victoriawhitfield.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/05/JosephinePsychesDream-300x239.png 300w" sizes="(max-width: 400px) 100vw, 400px" /></p>
<p><strong>Dreams are natural energywork, through communication with Source energy.</strong></p>
<p>As natural energywork, dreams serve a twofold purpose: to balance&nbsp;and clear our subtle (mental, emotional, spiritual) energies, and to open the lines to higher communication (with our community, our higher selves, and with Source).</p>
<p>What basically happens each time you sleep is that your body performs her nightly energywork on you to open your energy up to balance and Source.</p>
<p>She does this by shifting your brainwaves from Gamma/Beta (tight, fast and sharp waves; you are in a state of&nbsp;being focused and attentive) all the way down to Theta/Delta (long, slow and smooth waves; you are in a state of being creative and restorative).</p>
<p><strong>It's difficult to be open to receiving energy from Nature / Source -- such as the energies of guidance and healing -- when your body is emitting very tight, sharp waves.</strong></p>
<p>Therefore sleep naturally relaxes and balances your energy waves to be more open and receptive.</p>
<p>Dreams, however, are the next level of this energywork, because they happen only when you are "seeing" this energetic balancing happening firsthand -- well, only part of you can "see" it, and that part is the Subconscious Mind.</p>
<p>Your Subconscious Mind speaks in the language of images, colors and feelings (intuitive and emotional), and comprises 90% of your actual Self (your consciousness, your energy, your essence).</p>
<p><span style="color: #800080;"><strong>Since your Subconscious Mind is capable of&nbsp;picking up on or detecting spiritual guidance and subtle energy coming from Source, she organizes it all into her language and then relays it to your Conscious Mind -- in the form of dreams.<br />
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<p><img decoding="async" class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-1407" src="https://victoriawhitfield.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/05/subconscious_mind.gif" alt="subconscious_mind" width="250" height="277"></p>
<p>So your dreams are actually windows into your soul and it's connection to Spirit.</p>
<p><strong>Therefore, learning to remember, interact with and interpret your dreams can be quite enlightening.</strong></p>
<p>Now, there are online dream dictionaries, like <a href="http://www.dreammoods.com" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">dreammoods.com</a> for example, that offer interpretations; however we must remember that these interpretations are based on the writer's own personal perception and spiritual path, not our own.</p>
<h3>Know this: <span style="color: #008080;">Dreams speak the language of YOUR Spirit. Are you listening? #dreamwork #healing<br />
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<p>That being said, it is best to record your dreams and ask your spirit guides, or spiritual mentors and intuitive advisers, what your dreams mean for YOU, instead of basing your interpretation solely on what is online or in a book.</p>
<p>There are some general dream tropes that are universal -- clothes represent how you present yourself to the world, cars represent drive and personal agency, fighting represents repressed anger, chasing represents unexpressed anxiety, and so on.</p>
<p><span style="color: #800080;"><strong>But all the interpretations in the world won't help you, if you can't remember your own dreams! 🙂<br />
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<p>Learning to recall the images, events and details of your dreams is a skill that can be quite easily cultivated with regular practice.</p>
<p>You need to build momentum recalling your dreams over time, and as you do that, you're actually "working out the muscles" of your intuition as well! #bonus</p>
<p><em><strong>Watch this week's video for the Oracle Card of the Week, which explains why now is a good time for you to start doing dreamwork!</strong></em></p>
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<p><strong>In Love and Light,</strong></p>
<p><strong>Victoria.</strong></p>
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<p><strong><em>Just for Today...</em></strong></p>
<p><strong>Dedicate or re-dedicate a book as your dream journal and keep it under or next to your pillow.<br />
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<p><strong>Write on the first page at the top this affirmation: "Angels please help me. I am now open to receiving divine guidance through remembering and pursuing my dreams."<br />
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<p><strong><em>Notice how you feel at that moment - you're already healing!</em></strong></p>
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<p><span style="color: #008000;"><strong>SHARE THIS! You’d be surprised how many people you know right now are in desperate need of healing and could use this information to change their life. If you can read this, you know someone who needs this Love Letter!</strong></span></p>
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<h2><span style="color: #008080;"><strong>Want to know what your dreams mean with a private, channeled dream interpretation session?</strong></span></h2>
<h3><strong>Give me a call at 732-903-8573 or click on the blue <a href="http://senseivictoriawhitfield.fullslate.com">BOOK NOW</a> button to start your healing journey, today!</strong></h3>
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		<title>Retreats @ The Dojo &#124; Spirit Warrior Shamanic Healing Retreat 2015</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Sensei Victoria Whitfield]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 08 May 2015 17:28:52 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p>Spirit Warrior Shamanic Healing Retreat 2015 Are you ready to step into being a natural shamanic healer? Attracted to Native American aesthetic, music and ritual? Want to take charge of your own healing and clearing? If so, then this retreat is for you!   Join us at the Spirit Warrior Shamanic Healing Retreat on May [&#8230;]</p>
<p>The post <a href="https://victoriawhitfield.com/retreats-the-dojo-spirit-warrior-shamanic-healing-retreat-2015/">Retreats @ The Dojo | Spirit Warrior Shamanic Healing Retreat 2015</a> appeared first on <a href="https://victoriawhitfield.com">Sensei Victoria Whitfield</a>.</p>
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										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<h1><span style="color: #ff6600;">Spirit Warrior Shamanic Healing Retreat 2015</span></h1>
<p><span style="color: #008000;"><strong><em>Are you ready to step into being a natural shamanic healer?</em></strong></span></p>
<p><strong><em>Attracted to Native American aesthetic, music and ritual?</em></strong></p>
<p><strong><em>Want to take charge of your own healing and clearing?</em></strong></p>
<p><span style="color: #800080;"><strong>If so, then this retreat is for you!</strong></span></p>
<p><a href="http://senseivictoriawhitfield.fullslate.com/services/81"><img decoding="async" class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-830" src="https://victoriawhitfield.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/10/register-now.png" alt="register now" width="450" height="181" srcset="https://victoriawhitfield.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/10/register-now.png 450w, https://victoriawhitfield.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/10/register-now-300x120.png 300w" sizes="(max-width: 450px) 100vw, 450px" /></a></p>
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<p><span style="color: #008000;">Join us at the <strong>Spirit Warrior Shamanic Healing Retreat</strong> on May 31st! Continue or begin your <a href="https://www.spiritplantjourneys.com/">shamanic healing</a> training and deepen your spiritual connection to Earth!</span></p>
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<p><em><a href="http://senseivictoriawhitfield.fullslate.com/services/81"><img decoding="async" class="alignleft size-full wp-image-1401" src="https://victoriawhitfield.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/05/shaman.png" alt="shaman" width="176" height="261" /></a>“Humans have been using shamanic methods for healing and problem-solving for many thousands of years across all inhabited continents and in a wide variety of cultures—not because these people were naive or ignorant, but because they worked. […]</em></p>
<p><em>Many become shamanic healers and work to heal individuals suffering from physical, emotional, and spiritual illnesses. Others use shamanic methods to heal in their communities, bringing the power of the helping spirits to issues such as violence, conflict, or environmental pollution. Some use shamanic methods in a more personal way, to help improve their own lives, to be more at peace, resolve troubled relationships or past suffering—to bring freedom, creativity, and joy into their lives.”</em><em> </em></p>
<p><em>- Susan Mokelke, J.D., Foundation for Shamanic Studies</em></p>
<p>As a lightworker, you know and feel that there’s a spiritual war going on out there now, between the energy of love & light, and separation & confusion. The ancient earth-based spiritual practice of shamanic healing is resurging now during our technocentric time, to heal our connection to Earth and aid in restoring natural spiritual connection, communication and power.</p>
<p><a href="http://senseivictoriawhitfield.fullslate.com/services/81"><img decoding="async" class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-830" src="https://victoriawhitfield.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/10/register-now.png" alt="register now" width="450" height="181" srcset="https://victoriawhitfield.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/10/register-now.png 450w, https://victoriawhitfield.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/10/register-now-300x120.png 300w" sizes="(max-width: 450px) 100vw, 450px" /></a></p>
<p><strong><em>This month’s retreat builds on the power of the shamanic journey, upgrading it from simply being a divination tool that allows you to psychic read yourself, to a even more powerful tool for healing oneself and others! Don’t miss this one!</em></strong></p>
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<p><span style="color: #800080;"><strong>WHAT YOU'LL GET:</strong></span></p>
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<li>5 Hours of Reiki, Channeled Guidance and Counseling with Sensei Victoria Whitfield (Value $500)</li>
<li>Discussion: You Are A Spirit Warrior In This Lifetime (Value $100)</li>
<li>Holy Fire Karuna Reiki Deep Meditation: The Holy Love Experience for Deep Earth Grounding (Value $150)</li>
<li>Cleansing and Grounding Vegan Lunch & Live Juicing (Value $50)</li>
<li>Training in Self-Healing Shamanic Journeys & Spirit Guidance (Value $200)</li>
<li>Training in Shamanic Psychic Surgery (Value $200)</li>
<li>Training in Native American Self, Space & Object Clearing (Value $150)</li>
<li>Ample time for practice, journaling and sharing with kindred spirits...</li>
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<p><em>Total Value = Over $1300</em></p>
<p><em>But tickets for the day cost <strong>ONLY $147!</strong></em></p>
<p><strong><em>Why? Because I love you 🙂</em></strong></p>
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<p><span style="color: #800080;"><strong>LOGISTICS:</strong></span></p>
<p><span style="text-decoration: underline;">Date</span>: Sunday, May 31st</p>
<p><span style="text-decoration: underline;">Time</span>: 10:00am - 3:00pm (5 hours)</p>
<p><span style="text-decoration: underline;">Location</span>: Sensei Victoria Whitfield's Reiki Dojo at 523 Westfield Avenue, Third Floor in Westfield, NJ. (No-shoes facility; please bring socks. In-person attendance only.)</p>
<p><span style="text-decoration: underline;">Bring</span>: Pen and pad for journaling, scarf for meditation, and a rattle or something that makes a loud noise when shaken.</p>
<p><span style="color: #008000;"><strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;">Tickets</span></strong><strong>: $147 Seekers; $97 Students -- $97 deposit required to reserve your space, due by April 24th.</strong> (Limited space; 10 person max).</span></p>
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<p style="text-align: center;"><span style="color: #ff0000;"><strong>RSVP ONLINE by 11:59pm on Wednesday, May 20th and receive the retreat recording for FREE!</strong></span></p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><strong>Reserve your seat online NOW </strong></p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><a href="http://senseivictoriawhitfield.fullslate.com/services/81">http://senseivictoriawhitfield.fullslate.com/services/81</a></p>
<p style="text-align: center;"> <strong>CONTACT VICTORIA:</strong></p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><span style="text-decoration: underline;">Email</span>: <a href="mailto:SenseiVictoriaWhitfield@gmail.com">SenseiVictoriaWhitfield@gmail.com</a></p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><span style="text-decoration: underline;">Phone</span>: 732.903.8573</p>
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<p>The post <a href="https://victoriawhitfield.com/retreats-the-dojo-spirit-warrior-shamanic-healing-retreat-2015/">Retreats @ The Dojo | Spirit Warrior Shamanic Healing Retreat 2015</a> appeared first on <a href="https://victoriawhitfield.com">Sensei Victoria Whitfield</a>.</p>
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		<title>[Love Letter] Practice What You Teach #H2LYS</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 16 Sep 2014 14:45:25 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p>Do you give good advice &#38; enjoy mentoring people? Love helping others solve their problems? Have you always had a knack for finding that one thing others miss or lose right under their nose? If so, then you're a teacher. Not only are you a teacher, but you are also a healer at heart - [&#8230;]</p>
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<p><span style="color: #008080;"><em><strong>Do you give good advice &amp; enjoy mentoring people?</strong></em></span></p>
<p>Love helping others solve their problems?</p>
<p>Have you always had a knack for finding that one thing others miss or lose right under their nose?</p>
<h2><span style="color: #008080;"><strong>If so, then you're a teacher.</strong></span></h2>
<p><span style="color: #800080;"><strong>Not only are you a teacher, but you are also a healer at heart - teaching is a healing profession that heals the world with knowledge!</strong></span></p>
<p>Your creative mind is your strongest healing tool because you see what others overlook, and can help them live better lives by tieing up loose ends.</p>
<h2><span style="color: #008080;">This week's Love Letter video has tips and techniques to notice how your knack for teaching and helping is actually an opportunity for YOU to heal!</span></h2>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 27 Aug 2014 16:55:45 +0000</pubDate>
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<h1 style="text-align: center;"><span style="color: #008080;">FREE Monthly Internet Meditation Livestream - TONIGHT at 7:00pm EST! </span><br />
Meditate from the comfort of your own laptop, iPad or smartphone device.</h1>
<p style="text-align: center;">Click the above video link to join me on Google Hangout On Air for a Group Guided Meditation and Reiki Share</p>
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<p>Tonight's meditation will focus on letting go of emotions and stress by practicing the Tibetan Buddhist "Red Empty Body" meditation, which I personally learned from <a href="http://www.tulkulamalobsang.org/" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">Tulku Lobsang</a>.</p>
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<p><strong>This technique is very simple, yet effective mindfulness meditation that anyone can do - beginner or advanced!</strong> It's essential for empaths, lightworkers, healers, counselors and caregivers to know how to empty themselves of stress and emotion so you can feel calm from the inside, out and continue to help others without feeling drained or overburdened.</p>
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<p>We will begin with a brief introduction, followed by setting intentions as a group for the meditation, then we will enter the guided meditation, and we will end with group discussion of our experiences.</p>
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		<title>#BK2YS: Suffering from Martyrdom Addiction</title>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p>Be kind to your Self You only get One. #BK2YS Are You A Wounded Soldier of Love? THIRST, AND THE MARTYR, was a 2011 poignant street performance by J.J. McCracken. In the performance statement (read here), McCracken explains: "The Martyr is at once a hoarder and a provider. (S)he may be viewed as opposing sides [&#8230;]</p>
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										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<h2><strong>Be kind to your Self</strong></h2>
<h2><strong>You only get</strong></h2>
<h2><strong>One.</strong></h2>
<h1 style="text-align: right;"><span style="color: #800080;"><strong>#BK2YS</strong></span></h1>
<h1><span style="color: #008080;">Are You A Wounded Soldier of Love?</span></h1>
<p><em>THIRST, AND THE MARTYR, was a 2011 poignant street performance by J.J. McCracken. In the performance statement (<a href="http://jjmccracken.com/performance-installation/thirst-and-the-martyr/statement" target="_blank">read here</a>), McCracken explains: "The Martyr is at once a hoarder and a provider. (S)he may be viewed as opposing sides of the same character, at war with each other, or as two individuals at odds, refusing compromise and unable to work together. [...] Hope is challenged but not fully extinguished as the struggle drones on."</em></p>
<p><strong>Do you struggle with a constant need to people-please? </strong></p>
<p><strong>Find yourself resenting the people you support or work for, day in and day out?</strong></p>
<p><strong>Or perhaps you are compelled by a pressing desire to feel needed, and be the hero, because that's what you're known for, and you feel it gives life meaning?</strong></p>
<p><em>It's one thing to be kind, considerate, or even courageous for others. It becomes an Addiction, however, when you develop a "thirst" for others' approval.</em></p>
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<p>The picture above spoke to me and reminded me of the beautiful but broken Giver in us all - blindfolded by Love and driven by the thirst, the Giver searches for more and more to Give, while carrying the ever-increasing weight of resentment like those gourds in the picture.</p>
<p><strong>You can tell if you're addicted if you are making these two mistakes, over and over:</strong></p>
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<li>You just can't say no, and</li>
<li>You feel a rush as you say yes, but drained after you give (your time, money, attention), because secretly, you fell as if you are giving it all away...</li>
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<p>Why do you feel drained? This is happening because you don't honor your boundaries.</p>
<p>The little voice inside always says "No, I can't" or "No, I don't wanna this time" or "I really just need to rest / finish what I was doing" and you've trained yourself to stop listening to it, to keep up appearances.</p>
<h2>Know this:<strong><span style="color: #008080;"> The right people will respect your boundaries, if you respect them first.</span> <span style="color: #800080;">#BK2YS</span></strong></h2>
<p>The first step in healing your martyrdom addiction is that you have to admit this to yourself first: You don't always have to save the day. It's OK to say "No" or "I can't this time."</p>
<p>If you learn to protect and honor your own energy cycles - knowing clearly when you can give, and when you can't and need rest or focus time - then you can give support and love in a sustainable, healthy way.<br />
As a bonus, this builds a space in your heart to receive the same level of Love and care you give - first from yourself, and then from others.</p>
<div>You can do it. I believe in You.</div>
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<p>In Love and Light,</p>
<p><strong>Victoria</strong>.</p>
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