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Love Letters | Done with Drama – Part 2 of 2

Sensei Victoria Whitfield — Mon, 16 Nov 2015 12:00:20 +0000

Overwhelmed by other people's energy lately?

Feeling overworked because you can't say "no" when other people ask you to do them a favor?

Scared that you're headed for burnout?

You can release yourself from this vicious cycle.

It's time to stop enabling other people's victim behavior, and let them start saving themselves for a change.

Watch the above 8-minute video to let go of managing other people's drama!

"I don't have to play this game anymore."

I'm hearing the Oracle cards calling in the energy right now.

This week, in particular, Source is telling you to be on the lookout for where are you allowing excessive energy for people to stomp all over you.

Or allowing them to bulldoze over your sense of personal calm with their emotions. Or their work - you're taking it and putting on your back from theirs. Transferring it to you.

They have a wonderfully low tolerance for how much work, or how much emotion, or how much silence in themselves they're willing to tolerate.

"Oh, I don't have to carry the work, you'll take it. Great. I don't have to sort through my emotions and my problems, you will. Great. I don't have to hold all of my thoughts within me and analyze them myself. Great you will."

Dump, dump, dump.

The only reason why you're catching the dump is because you're automatically saying, "Okay."

There's an agreement there.

This is not to shame or guilt you, by the way.

Source is saying you have all the power in this situation.

Drama and dramatic situations often can convince you, with all the shiny lights, bells and whistles of dramatic emotions, painful words, or frustrating circumstance, all those shiny shiny lights can distract you and make you think that, "I'm a victim. I am subject to what's happening to me. There's no way out."

That is not true.

You always have all power. This is a free will universe. You can choose to change your situation at any time, any time.

When you realize you're face deep in someone else's junk - face deep in their drama, their emotion, their story, their work - when you're at the office and you're doing way more than what your pay grade says that you're doing, just say this to yourself: "I don't have to play this game anymore," and step out of the drama sandbox they're playing in.

All right, get up. Stand up. Stand up and just say: "I'm not playing this game anymore." Step out.

The chills. You can do it. It really is that easy.

It really is that easy.

When you decide, the entire Universe changes. Why? Because the whole Universe herself was created by a decision.

Know this: You can #change your life; you just need to decide. Claim it: "My life is #drama free!"

This week's oracle card is "Divine Timing." Now is the perfect moment for you to act on your inspirations.

You can change your mind and change your entire situation, your entire life now.

This video is coming to you in perfect timing they're also saying.

The doors are open while you walk through them with us, the Angels, by your side.

Don't delay or procrastinate, as all the ingredients are ripe for your success.

They're saying right now, you have everything you need to shift your state right now. Right now. Literally, right now.

Everything and everyone is on your side supporting your positive outcome.

The energy I'm hearing is saying sometimes we convince ourselves that everyone is against us, that the world doesn't want us to succeed, that others around you are not on your level and it makes it very adversarial.

Granted, not everyone is on your vibration and you can't please everybody, but that doesn't mean you have to get tied up in that.

Let it go. If they're not on your level, let them go. You don't even have to think twice.

It's the same as if you ever worked in a multi-floor building.

If you're working on the 12th floor how often do you think about people on the 11th floor on a day-to-day basis?

Those of you out in New York City or out of Houston Texas, big tall buildings, how often do you think, "Well, I wonder what people on the 3rd and 4th floor are doing right now? Gosh, they're beneath me. Bwah haha har!"

No, you're just on another floor. That floor has nothing to do with you.

Let them be there. They're just living their lives one day at a time and the best the can, the same as you are.

Be kind to yourself. You don't even have to get involved with that drama.

Sending you so much love, confidence and transformative energy.

In Love and Light,

Victoria.

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Love Letters | Done with Drama – Part 1 of 2

Sensei Victoria Whitfield — Mon, 09 Nov 2015 12:00:49 +0000

Tired of dramatic people draining and hijacking your days?

Have you had it up to here with people dumping their problems on you?

Don't you just wish things could be easy, rather than putting out fires all the time?

This Love Letter is for all my awesome Mr./Ms. Fix-It's out there who are ready to put down their sword and cape.

It's about time we let other people clean up their messes and deal with their own drama on their own time!

Watch the above 8-minute video to start kicking drama out of your life for good!

"I'm tired of all the drama."

This week the phrase that Source is sending for us to talk about is, "I'm tired of all the drama."

Is that you?

Are you just sick and tired of things just being over the top?

Tired of being overwhelmed, tired of dramatic people, tired of everybody dumping their problems on you, and then you having to have to fix everything?

They think you're Mr. or Mrs. Fix-it, and it's exhausting. Is that you?

Everything has to be explosive.

Our relationships, our whirlwind romances, our arguments are explosive. Our exercise routines are maxed out, over the top, extreme.

And then we wonder why we're so tired, or so distracted lately.

Source is saying that distraction is another form of exhaustion.

It's imbalanced.

We're coping with a sense of fatigue and a need for rest and re-centering by avoiding it with distractions on cellphones, distracted, wandering conversations.

Distraction is a lack of centeredness.

When you are centered, being centered is different than being grounded, by the way. When you are centered you are in alignment. You are focused.

Being focused and in alignment is entirely different than being grounded.

For this topic in particular, Source is saying the reason why you're experiencing so much drama, or people are bringing you so much drama, is that this drama is a spiritual symptom manifestation of your lack of centeredness.

We're out of alignment, so in order to feel our center and in order for us to be motivated to respond, things have to shout at us at a certain level. Hence, the shouty drama energy.

For example, the Energy is bringing up a vision right now of some of the members of the tribe who may be watching, but have issues with their throat chakra.

When we have issues with our throat chakra, we cannot speak up for ourselves.

Put that person into a corner, however, or really egg them on and increase the stress level around them, box them in, and then they will lash out.

They will lash out and have no problem bringing out the stinger to defend their energy, but only when severely threatened. They'll blast people and things out of the way, because there's been so much expression held within and recoiled.

When we're holding within, recoiling and winding up, we're out of alignment because it's causing us to be reactionary, the Energy is saying.

But remember to be kind to yourself.

Know this: If you're knee-deep in #drama right now, put down your pride & decide to not solve other people's problems. Say it: "I'm done!"

If the drama is all around you, you're immersed in it.

And when you're knee-deep in drama, the only reason why that is happening is because Source notices that you are a little hard of hearing, so She's turning up the dial on the water that you're soaking in.

Imagine this. You're in a pot of water, and things are getting hotter, because you're on a stove. Now, at a certain temperature, you're cool, you're feeling all right.

But after a while, as She turns up the heat, you begin to notice it's getting warmer and warmer.

Source is waiting for you to jump out of the pot because you're not supposed to be boiled there. You're still alive and still conscious. She's not trying to boil you, but when are you going to decide to get out of the pot?

So, she continues turning up, turning up, turning up the heat and you say, "Okay, it's getting really hot in here. I'm starting to feel a little bit overwhelmed, but I can take it. I can take it."

Pride, ego, conditioning says, "I can take it. I can take it. I can stay and fix the water, and stop it from boiling all around me, and boiling me."

The boiling water and the temperature represent the amount of drama and agitation you're experiencing in life.

Source will turn that up, until you're fed up and screaming "All right! I'm done!" and out of the pot you jump.

So what's your tipping point? What's your boiling point?

We only experience the level of drama in life that we agree to.

In other words, you allow drama.

We are allowing this excessive, annoying, frustrating, overwhelming energy and interactions into our life.

We allow them mainly when we are out of alignment with what matters most. If we are out of alignment with what matters most to us, we cannot access the full clarity, the full focus of our feelings.

We're pinched. Think of a pinched nerve. When the nerve is pinched in your body, the feeling there is numb. It is out of alignment, not blocked because it's just really squished there.

You're not blocked, you're just pinched.

It's not like your energy turned off, per se. There is still some sort of feeling there, but it pales in comparison to say the completely unpinched side.

Let someone adjust you -- or even better, you can adjust yourself -- so the energy, the warmth, the sensation, the feeling returns to that entire area of your body, and that entire area of your life.

Stay tuned for part 2 of this topic, coming next week...