Wondering if you will ever make it big in life?

Feeling like your own worst enemy?

Wish there was a way to be your own best friend and biggest supporter instead?

You don't have to continue the cycle of self-sabotage; you can decide to end it, right now.

You're absolutely capable of Greatness and playing BIG, and Source believes in you.

Watch the above 7-minute video to learn how to step into your greatness and believe in yourself, for yourself!

"I got this. I can do this."

Source says you can do it.

Feed the good in you, if only just for today.

Just for today, feed the good, the positive, the uplifting, the champion, the one that champions you within you--if only just for today.

You don't have to solve all of your problems.

You don't have to have everything figured out and tied up in a nice little bow for you to still be feeding the good side of you, the positive side of you.

Bring your loving focus to the positive parts of you.

It's a conscious choice you make from a moment to moment basis.

Inwardly say, with me right now, "I got this. I can do this. I've got this. I can do this. I don't know how, but I can do this. I'll figure it out. Things are working out in my favor. Things are getting better, actually, with time. I can do this. I can do this."

I'm hearing the oracle cards calling in the energy right now to weigh in on this love injection that source is sending you this week.

The deck that came screaming through when we asked who wants to send love and encouragement this week in particular to the tribe to let them know that they can do this, is the Life Purpose oracle cards deck.

Your oracle card of the week is Speaking.

 

Your life purpose involves your skills or oration.

I'm going to read this to you because I'm hearing the guides say, "Read, Victoria." Okay.

 

This card indicates that your dream of being a professional speaker is more than a dream.

You have much to share with others and the best way to reach your audience is on the speaker's platform.

While it's normal to feel intimidated by the process of presenting your ideas in public, the angels see that your life purpose will help you overcome these fears.

In fact, you'll learn to enjoy being a public speaker according to this card.

You may have also received this card because your soul's profession involves some other aspect of teaching or entertainment. For example, you may be destined for acting, dancing, singing, or playing a musical instrument.

This card indicates that your purpose involves a public arena and that you're well suited to bring blessings to a wide audience.

The angels are totally validating and verifying that, yes you can do this.

You're meant for, as the reading says, a wide audience.

You're not meant just to please people--or moreover to people-please--just a few people by playing small.

Know this: You're not meant to play small. You can do it and do it BIG. 

We have got to just underline it: You can do it.

The angels are saying you can do this. Source is saying you can do this.

But, it is up to you to choose which part of yourself are you going to feed.

If everything around you; I'm telling you. Source is telling you. The angels are telling you.

If everything in surround sound is saying, "you can do this," then what is it going to take for you to join the consensus?

What will it take for you to believe that you actually DO have what it takes?

That you don't actually need anymore schooling?

That you don't need anybody's permission to do it?

In fact, did you know that if you take that jump, that leap of faith, that you'll be caught by Source, honored, validated and lifted up toward the vision, rather than crashing into a wall, failing and it being a disaster?

But which one of those stories are we telling ourselves, right now?

You can do this.

Believe it. Claim it. Say it: 

"I can do this!" 

Send me an email or comment below. Let me know what's going through your mind as your hearing this. Tell me what's coming up for you.

What's the positive challenge that you think, "I don't know if I can do this"? What do you think would happen if you DID believe you could?

Let me know and I'm happy to support you. Your TRIBE is here to support you one thousand percent.

In Love and Light,

Victoria.

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Decide to feed only the Good Wolf today.

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Scared to take the next step toward realizing your vision?

Think that you haven't got what it takes?

Worried that if you try, you'll fail?

Negative self-talk can often get the best of us, blocking us from taking big, positive steps toward changing our lives for the better.

But don't count yourself out -- you CAN do this.

Watch the above 6-minute video to understand why you think you can't do this, and how to change that now!

"I haven't got what it takes. I'm not enough."

Spirit this week is sending you a very direct message and it's this: "You can do this."

I get the chills as the message is flowing through me to you.

This week all Spirit wants you to know is that whatever vision that has been put in your heart, put before you, laid out in Shamanic reality, in what you've been seeing in your meditations and that you've been feeling is your real life path -- this is your real gift to enable you to have the life that you're supposed to be living.

The gifts that you're supposed to be sharing -- the joy, the creativity, the vision that's within you -- you really can do it.

It may seem above your ability right now.

It may seem frightening at times -- or it might be right at your fingertips now and you're about to sign on it!

For whatever reason, the angels are bringing me to those of us in our TRIBE, and to you right now, who are thinking to yourselves:

• • "I can't do this."

• • "I haven't got what it takes."

• • "I'm not enough."

• • "They won't pay for that."

• • "I can't afford this."

• • "This isn't me."

• • "I shouldn't reach this far."

• • "I need to play it safe."

• • "I've never done this before."

• • "How could I possibly do this?"

• • "How can I support this many people?"

• "How could that vision be real?"

I'm just inside our head right now with Spirit, and this is what we are hearing.

Know this: Source is rooting for you as your Universal cheerleader. You can do this!

There's a Shamanic story that we've told to many of our students and is often passed down in Shamanic practices: the story of the two wolves.

Perhaps you've heard this before but I'm hearing the angels retelling it again in the energy.

So here it is. In every man, and woman, there are two wolves that are constantly fighting. They are eternally fighting.

They are the good wolf and the bad wolf.

They are eternally fighting. This fight has had no beginning and will have no end.

They are always fighting.

One woman brings food to the bad wolf.

The bad wolf in her that says, "You are not good enough. You should be quiet. You need to play it safe. Who do you think you are? You're fat and you're stupid. What's wrong with you?"

She brings the "food" of her attention and energy to this wolf.

Day in and day out, the good wolf tries and tries to fight with the bad wolf, but without food of attention and positive focus, the good wolf keeps losing.

It's always trying though.

It'll always try and fight back, but because she's bringing her food to the bad wolf, guess who wins?

On the other hand, another woman brings food to the good wolf and starts ignoring the bad wolf.

She feeds the good wolf food as the good wolf says, "You can do it. You're positive. You're powerful. Anything's possible. You're loved. You're gorgeous. You're working hard and you're working smart, and learning more and more each day."

She feeds the good wolf and the good wolf gets stronger and stronger and stronger until, although the bad wolf never stops fighting, the good wolf starts winning because it has been fed her attention and focus.

Guess who wins the fight most of the time? The good wolf, because she fed it.

All of us have to choose which wolf we are going to feed in any given moment.

So which one will you choose right now? The bad wolf or the good wolf?

In Love and Light,

Victoria.

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Disappointment got you down?

Having a hard time forgiving yourself for messing up?

Wish you could just feel better already, instead of feeling like a failure all the time?

If this is you, believe it or not, you're on the verge of a breakthrough.

Every disappointment and seeming "failure" holds healing knowledge sent from Spirit to clean up your energy and move you to your next level.

Watch the above 10-minute video to learn how to shift your energy immediately to receiving healing and clearing spiritual knowledge! 

"I feel like a failure."

To help you find the Dark Gift in disappointment is like finding a needle in a haystack.

When we're really low-vibration in guilt and all those yucky, gooey sensations of resentment and self-unforgiveness, it's hard to see the light.

We're just keep saying to ourselves: "No! Everything's doom and gloom and I'm a piece of doody-pants."

One thing that helps shift your vibration fast -- and if you come to The Dojo you'll always see me do this -- is to celebrate when things don't work out.

I know you're watching, all of my students that this has happened to; when they come back out of meditation, they say: "Sensei, I didn't go anywhere. I didn't see anything, I was right here the whole time."

What do I do every time? My students know that every time they say this, I say: "Yay! Yes! Going nowhere, doing nothing! WOOHOO!!"

Why? Not because I'm a crazy-pants... well, maybe, but I'm a crazy-pants with good reason. 🙂 Everyone is crazy for a reason, just ask them!

The reason why we celebrate is not only because "Well, you tried," which is always positive, but also whenever you celebrate your brain re-orients herself to say "What am I celebrating?"

She is immediately looking to see what are the positives in this situation; she automatically reframes the situation to support positive outcomes. This is called Neuro-linguistic Programming, by the way.

When we're in celebration mode, our brain must support that with data. The new-aged version of this exact same phenomena is the Universal Law of Attraction.

What you need to know most right now is that the more you celebrate in the face of disappointment, the more you will immediately align with what there to celebrate.

You'll know. Seriously, it works like magic. It's like fairy dust.

Try it, you will see just how effective it is.

Know this: You can shift your state right now: celebrate in the face of disappointment & you'll discover why your failure is healing.

By all means clap and scream and celebrate over your perceived failure until you're able to find out what is celebratory in this.

Gratitude, admiration, adoration, joy and high vibrations are constantly present. They just don't show up out of nowhere and then disappear. Why?

Because everything is Now.

All that is, is right now.

The lowest vibrations you could possibly emanate are just as present as the highest vortexy, juicy, yummy woo thing you could possibly experience.

All vibrations are present now.

By being in celebration, choosing to celebrate disappointment, you will activate your ability to perceive and receive any Dark Gifts that are coming out of your experience.

It doesn't matter how dark or how painful the situation is, trust me, this always works.

And with that I'm hearing the Oracle cards loud and clear. The Healing with the Fairies oracle card deck is the one that said "We want to talk about disappointment and failure!" Yay!

Interesting. So the card that is coming up is "Vacation." Thank you, fairies!

So what I just heard in the energy is the reason why this card is coming up: a change of scenery.

If you've really been feeling like "I feel guilty," or "I feel like a failure," say you lost your job or the business tanked or the marriage is ending and going down divorce, then the fairies are sending you this message:

A change of environment can really help raise your vibration.

Once you're in that shifted environment, then look back with celebratory energy.

Sometimes things are so heavy, disappointing and immersive that the environment around us can really re-emanate that super low vibration, and your mind follows along with that.

The most stressful part of dealing with disappointment and failure is that we just keep turning it over and over.

But you have to understand that the room, the house, the building, the space that you are in reflects your mind and all of your mental, emotional vibrations.

She will continue to re-vibrate and replay all of what's been on your mind and on your heart, all that energy.

Energy of low-vibration emotions and thought, all of that that you've been putting out, she will continue to replay that and reverberate that back to you.

Changing your environment is really important if you've suffered a pretty serious failure or a big disappointment.

Go on a vacation. If you can't afford a vacation that's fine, go outside or go over to someone else's house, change the scenery and allow your space at home or at the office, to clear out.

It's cathartic always when we go through this clearing process after the business failed and we have to clear out the energy.

Clearing and rebooting is really good because it's clearing your mind.

Environment always effects and reflects the mind, and therefore shifting your environment from one space to another is really essential for dealing with disappointment.

The fairies want you to know that it's okay to give yourself permission to do that.

In the divorce, go over to your friends' or parents' house and spend some time with them. Allow someone to be nurturing to you who you know loves you no matter what.

If the term paper didn't go well and you have the wherewithal to do it, go down the shore (to the beach) and let the ocean wash away your pain.

Be in the mountains, get yourself in nature, or even go to the arcade and whack the mole. Delicious! I love playing Whack-a-mole when I'm pissed about something! LOL! 🙂

It's all about a change of scenery because that'll help you to shift out of that crappy, crusty vibration.

Don't wallow in the mud of the past, because it will just slow you down. 

I am sending you so much love, I'm surrounding you in the energy with white light and I will see you next week.

In Love and Light,

Victoria.

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Celebrate your disappointments and failures! Shout and be silly: "YAY! I DID IT!" And then wait for it.... ????

As you clap and rejoice the fact that you tried, stay open to Spirit showing you any lessons you can learn about yourself and your life.

Notice how you feel at that moment - you're already healing!

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Have you ever had a project not work out the way you expected it to, and that threw you for a loop?

Beating yourself up over a failed business or relationship?

Annoyed that you have to start at square one, AGAIN?

Periodically life lets us down or we ourselves drop the ball; we all know that disappointment is just a part of life.

But sometimes when this happens, we can get caught in a toxic never-ending cycle of self-loathing and self-punishment.

Watch the above 10-minute video to begin breaking out of this toxic cycle of self-sabotage! 

"What do I need to know right now? What am I supposed to learn in this moment?"

Have you ever had a project not work out the way you expect it to?

Maybe the business failed, the relationship failed. Or you asked someone to do something, where you delegated something to another person and it didn't work out, and they didn't do it the way that you wanted it to be done.

You put so much work and effort into this project or paper or exam, and it comes back or goes through and you see that it nope, totally doesn't look like what you were hoping the outcome to be at all.

You sent out your college essay and nope, you got a rejection. Working out, eating clean, as best as you can, get on the scale, nope! No weight lost.

Disappointment, oh yeah. Failure... delicious! Lol!

If you're feeling, "I'm struggling with that right now, Victoria" this is not to make fun of you. I'm laughing because I'm in the mud with you, feeling you strongly so my heart is so open to you right now.

We're going to dive right into this, and laugh our way through the crap of life, together. 🙂

Source says that we have a tendency to ruminate and really draw out the failure event with our guilt and disappointment, chewing on it like a cow chewing on cud.

Cud is the stuff that comes out of all of her stomachs--what is it like 8 of them or something like that?

She chews so that she can continue the experience of getting through all of the nutrients in that grass for hours and hours and hours on end.

You don't need to be in that slow, drawn-out process, is what the Spirit is saying.

It's one way to approach failure and disappointment: to draw it out and say "This is exactly why I suck."

Or waxing poetic: "How many ways can I be horrible? Let me count the ways," or "Let's get creative! How can I express how much failure I am in 60 seconds? Go!"

My love, let me count the ways. No Shakespeare, stop it! Just stop. STOP!

The way that we want to deal with disappointment is to embrace her.

Failure must be embraced. To cast her away or pull her out and torture yourself is to drag yourself thought the mud excessively.

It's when we go into that process of self-deprecating behavior and masochism, the "I'm guilty, I feel so bad. Oh my god you washed the dishes for me, I feel so bad, I'm a failure at being helpful..." etc.

Interesting, one of the Spirits just said "be kind to yourself, if that's what you're going through." Again, this is not to make fun of you, but to help you see yourself.

Know this: Guilt and negative self-talk are low-vibrational forms of centering meditation. Be kind to yourself; there are better ways.

The energy says that whenever we experience failure or that strong sensation of being out of alignment, we come out of our bodies.

This happens because all of the energy that we have put out into that project or relationship, or into whatever, didn't work out. We funneled ourselves into that identity that we formed, we put so much of our energy into that and when it doesn't go through, we find ourselves outside of our bodies and our truth.

Guilt, disappointment and all of that negative rumination is a mistaken and low vibrational way of centering: you're coming back to a sense of self through masochism.

We see that you're trying to come back to center and recreate your identity after failure through guilt, like "Oh I know who I am because of what I am not." Ok.

That's a fallacy though, because that's going to take you farther away from who you really are as a divine being; this is what I'm seeing in the energy right now.

Be kind to yourself if that's where you're at.

You're just mistaken.

You see, in the moment that you are trying to re-center and find your authentic energy, you're striving to get to the point where you're thinking positively: "Okay, this is me, this is me. Phew! I'm all solid again, I'm not pushed out into all of this stuff around me that's failing and being disappointing. That person didn't do it the way I would. That doesn't mean I'm horrible." Or, "That relationship didn't work out, but that doesn't mean I'm a failure."

You're identity, Source says, is spread out too thin so that act of guilt and the act of drawn out disappointment and holding onto that sense of self-unforgiveness (which is guilt and dragging ourselves through the mud and resentment) is just an inverse way of trying to re-center.

We tell you this for a reason: See the light, even in the darkness.

The way that we best deal with disappointment is for searching for The Dark Gift in it.

I don't mean dark gift, like Dracula spookypants boogadeyboo, etc dark gift, lol.

What I mean by dark gift is gifts that we find in our shadow, gifts that the spirit sends through experiences.

And by the way, the spirit is constantly sending gifts, infinite amount of gifts you are receiving now.

Not in the past, you got them. Not in the future, that didn't happen. Now.

There is an infinite amount of gifts that are present to you and latent in the dark side of what's happening, like disappointments.

Those gifts in the darkness or in uncertainty or in your shadow are what we mean by dark -- not like boogedy evil, we don't mean that.

Dark Gifts are learning gifts.

They're there to help you embrace the disappointment, embrace the distraction, embrace the failure. You embrace by saying "I screwed up and I GET to LEARN from it."

One of my students awakened me to a wonderful quote years ago.

A quote by John C. Maxwell, "We always fail forward. Why? Because you tried."

Failing forward is the ability to get back up after you've been knocked down and to learn from your mistakes.

It really embodies this concept of embracing the dark gifts that disappointment is trying to send us.

In the previous video we talked about acceptance and how that can kind of be lubricant to life if you're feeling blocked or static.

Being in a state of Acceptance can help you figure out where's the stepping stone for you to take in this experience you're having now.

That absolutely applies here because in our disappointments, when things don't work out, there's always a way to look back at the process and see how could that have gone better and if it couldn't have gone better, reflect on "What do I need to know right now? What am I supposed to learn in this moment?"

Check back next week for part 2 of this love letter!

In Love and Light,

Victoria.

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Pay attention to how you talk about and describe yourself today, listening for negative and guilt-laden language that's focused on past failures, shortcomings and disappointments.

When you catch yourself doing this, finish the following sentence to yourself: "I accept that I can't change what happened and I know I can only change myself and how I feel; so what I am learning right now is..."

Notice how you feel at that moment - you're already healing!

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