This is week two of four of our series on making room for you.

And if you didn't see part one, make sure you hit pause. Go back on my blog at Victoriawhitfield.com and start from part one so that you're grounded in the series.

For week two my guides have asked us to cover and discuss making room for yourself physically. Now, this is twofold, they pointed out to me. For one, this is in your physical space around you, like your environment, and this is also in your physicality, your physical body, making room for yourself.

What is coming through that we're making room for? Last week we had discussed that apparently you have been asking for stretch goals. This series is specifically for those of us in our tribe who are going big. Because we are entrepreneurs, we take big risks. For those of us who have been asking for a stretch goal - maybe the love of your life, maybe weight loss or maybe new clients, a whole new business, your marriage being overhauled or more travel, et cetera - whatever your ask, let it be a stretch. A stretch is something that is meant to open you up to step into another level of yourself and allowing that stretch is the one way that you're going to ground into receiving that manifestation in its totality.

The guides are saying with this series, you've got to make room and decide that you are making room. Especially in this week we're talking about making room physically. Ask yourself, as you look around the space around you - perhaps as you're manifesting new love in your life - ask “is there room for that love to join in bed? Is there room for that love to move into the closet? Is there room for your love to sit across from you at the table for dinner? Is there room for your love in your physical space or not?” This is not to say that you've got to have a ten-bedroom compound with a five car garage and yaddayadda. That's lovely. And that's more of a circumstance that is not necessarily applicable to you and your love specifically. Space is very emotional and in fact, the way that we fill our space is a sign of how open or closed we are to receiving.

The Study of Feng Shui tells us that a healthy space has energy that freely moves through it. There's free movement, especially in the center of the room, for open energy to be able to circulate. There shouldn't be clutter on the floor that you're tripping over. And the feeling of the physical space should give you a sense of movement and openness because the more your physical space reflects that, the more your behavior in that physical space will reflect it.

Did you catch that? The more open and flowing your physical space is, the more open and flowing your behavior becomes; they reflect one another. It's amazing how you can get new ideas if you just change which end of the bed you're sleeping on. I'm serious! Try it. Be kind to yourself if this is the one thing that's been kind of going on in the background of your mind, where you’re always worrying, “oh I really need to clean out my space. My drawers are a mess. My closet drives me crazy every single time.” This is not your pity party time. It's just a way to raise awareness for you. So that's the physical space around you.

But then there's this physical body that you occupy. Is there room for you to be your authentic self in this body? Now that may look like releasing weight, that may look like receiving weight and a little bit of extra juice for you to be your authentic self or the You that you see in that stretch goal vision. When you envision yourself relaxing on the beach, what does your body look and feel like when you are at that level of abundance and rest, or when you envision yourself speaking on a stage, for example, what does your body look and feel like? Does it feel energized or does it feel tired?--

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A tired body does not have physical room for the highest vibration of you to come through. You've got to generate energy. It's entirely up to you. You're on your own physical journey, though. I'm not your nutritionist or your personal trainer or anything. I'm your Business Reiki Master, and we're talking energy here. We're here to raise your awareness around the energy behind your productivity, in the energy behind your finances and your ability to move forward in life in business. That's my role.

I want you to look at if you are in the body that's going to take you to that vision you desire yet? I don't mean that you’ve got to get plastic surgery, or for you to think “I'll work out 24 hours a day and I'm going to stop eating.” No, that is not healthy. Instead, I invite you to consider if there is a relationship that you have with your body, a sense of contentedness, love, empowerment, agency and ease that you have in this beautiful body that you are occupying. And if so, is that is in alignment with the stretch vision?

I'm hearing the oracle cards calling in the energy. We're journeying with them all month. It's the Angels of Abundance oracle cards deck by Doreen Virtue and her son Grant Virtue. By the way, thanks Julie Shopa of www.ClarityFinances.com! She gifted me this deck. I love getting gifts from a client. Okay. Spirit guides, angels. What do we need to know right now about making physical room for ourselves so that we can receive all the abundance that we're asking for?

Ooh, interesting. “Donations, tithing and charitable work.” Okay. The first hit that I get in the energy around this is around The How: how you are going to make physical room involves donations, tithing and charitable work. The motivation to make physical room could be that joy of being able to give what no longer serves you to others. Whether it's giving your energy - getting out there and building a house, for example, that takes physical work and that burns calories. Get out there and do some charitable work so that you can get to into your body more, as well as get to giving. And donations may involve donating your excess stuff in your space - there's too much stuff. Give it away to somebody who's less fortunate or who doesn't have the luxury of having too much.

Okay, so let me read this to you: “Give joyfully to the organizations and people who spiritually support and inspire you and know that your generosity will be returned to you manyfold in miraculous ways. The time, supplies, money or other resources you donate will ensure that your positive energy multiplies.”

This is where we're going to leave off for the week. The motivation this week in particular for you making room for yourself physically is by giving to others from your excess. When we have too much going on in our space or in our body, that means we have some extra resource, and I'm saying that positively. We have some extra resource that we could certainly give to our community, especially those who are less fortunate. Let your joy of giving with gratitude and grace keep you accountable to making room for being the highest version of yourself.

Send me an email back team@victoriawhitfield.com. Let me know what comes up for you around this and make sure you subscribe on YouTube so that you get these love letters first every week. I'll see you next week for our next one. See you then.

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Just for today...

Give to others from your excess, so that you can make room to receive your next level.

Look at your life and find areas where your cup is overflowing, such as too much stuff, energy or wisdom, and give to someone from the overflow of abundance.

Notice how you feel in that moment - you're already healing!

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Having a hard time being consistent and focused?

Can't trust yourself to make good choices?

Wish you had more self-discipline?

Don't beat yourself up about it -- that won't help you get better!

In fact, there's a reason you are the way you are; you're just not able to see the "dark gift" in where you're at right now.

Watch the above 10-minute video to find out what's stopping your natural ability to generate results consistently!

"I've got to work. I don't have time to play the guitar anymore."

Because the number 3 is the presence of spiritual guidance, we want to put consistently at the beginning, during the meat of, and at the end of each day rituals that support you in staying consistent. Why?

Because the universe is consistent. 

When she's flowing, her energy continues and reverberates without end. Without end.

In order to set yourself up for success, Source is asking for 3 in particular: 3 points during the day where you have set up intention time.

In the middle is refocusing and refreshing time during the day, and then at the end of the day it's take down and appreciation time.

End of the day is great for gratitude journaling also.

I'm hearing in the energy of the Oracle cards also calling for the week to really help us weigh in on the topic of consistency is key.

Before we go to the Oracle cards deck, though, I just got a download from the energy saying that creative people by design are inconsistent. Let's take a moment to honor that.

I'm smiling because it's brutal and delicious at the same time!

I can't describe it any other way!

Being creative means that you are open to uncertainty. I mean that positively and I mean that as a disaster, lol!

Sometimes we make incredible new decisions. Yay!

Sometimes we make horrible new decisions. Yay!

By design though, we're meant, as creative-type individuals -- as visionary, intuitive, imaginative beings -- to mix things up.

This catalyzes the entire earth -- her evolution.

Source says we are catalysts for change.

So don't look at your sense of uncertainty and inconsistency like, "This is a character flaw and I'm screwed." No, that's not the case.

It's actually a blessing in disguise once you learn how to harness her.

The way that you harness this creative, inconsistent, chaotic, creative vibration is through creating a consistent container for it. And that's why Source is saying: beginning, middle and end of the day.

The Oracle cards this week is Healing with the Angels. The very first Oracle card of the deck by Doreen Virtue.

When we asked, "Who can really help us with this conversation about consistency is key?" This the deck that came through.

The card that immediately popped out is: Study.

Right off the bat, I'm hearing the angels talking about being a little bit more serious with your energy work.

To all my light workers, empaths, healers, therapists, body workers, all of my artists, all those of you out there who are working with the energy, or at least say you are, or you say you journal from time to time, the angels are calling you out and asking:

When was the last time you actually did that? 😉

Know this: #Now is a good time to re-commit to your #vision. And so is this now, and also this now, too. #focus #success @SenseiWhitfield

It's time to be a little bit more consistent with your studies, because the learning never stops. 

The development, the sharpening of the saw never stops.

It's funny, you know, when we get to of school, because no one's watching we'll slack a little bit on our studies and keeping up with our craft and I mean that with like a capital C.

I mean like our intuitive Craft, our Gift.

We pull back on that because, we tell ourselves: "Oh you know I got to work. I don't have time for that," or, "Oh I got to spend time with my husband and I don't have time for that." "Oh I got to take care of the kids I don't have time to play the guitar anymore."

Keep up on that because that's your gift. Your light work is your gift, so staying consistent with that and again - I'm just going to keep saying it because consistency is key:

"Repetition is the mother of skill." - Tony Robbins

So the beginning, during the meat of, and at the end of the day: Study.

Here's what the reading says:

 

You are engaged in learning and study right now.

Your angels guide you to take time to read, listen and grow. This card validates that this is an important time for you to learn new ideas or skills.

Perhaps you feel guided to enroll in a class and this card confirms that feeling. If you are currently attending school, the angels ask you to continue.

Sometimes when we are in a learning phase of our life, we become anxious to test our new knowledge. Instead of learning, we want to apply what we've learned...

They just stopped me in the energy.

We become more inconsistent, or we drop the ball on keeping our positive momentum going, because we're not honoring the process.

And we're not honoring being committed to the study, or committed to our energy work, or being committed to our self-care, or being committed to our new goal, our resolution or whatever we're trying to manifest and whatever we're creating in life.

We're getting ahead of ourselves by thinking, "I don't have to learn this anymore; I kind of got the gist of it so I'm just going to go for it," and then you wonder why you don't have enough momentum and kind of peter out, right?

Hm. Food for thought!

Let's keep reading:

 

However, timing is everything and this card guides you not to rush into action.

Instead enjoy the process of learning.

Of course they say process! Ha!

No coincidences...

 

The growth that accompanies an educational experience is enjoyable if we remind ourselves to stay focused in the here and now moment.

Consistency is key because it brings you into the present moment.

We may have long term visions and goals. We may have ideas and things that we want to start up and really achieve.

But the power to really step into and ground that vision here into physical reality, is in your moment by moment decisions.

I see you resonating with this right now in The Energy.

It's your moment by moment decisions.

So if you can set up yourself for success and consistency of reminding you about what your moment by moment decisions are through intending your decisions in the morning, refreshing yourself during the day, and then honoring and appreciating the decisions that you have made --

That triad of positive focus each day creates positive momentum.

Consistency is bound to happen.

It's organic when you have that kind of positive momentum.

Commit to your studies. You can do it.

Yes, you really can do it! Practice.

Do your practice. Go for it! 

In Love and Light,

Victoria.

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Tell yourself out loud: "I'm making good decisions today that push me toward my goals."

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Love starting new things?

Have you set a new, inspiring goal or resolution for yourself recently that you're worried you won't achieve?

Feeling secretly anxious because you know you usually have a hard time finishing what you start?

Being creative and excited about starting new initiatives is always awesome and inspiring.

However, seeing your ideas all the way from vision to fruition is a whole other can of worms -- and it involves seeking and tracking a magikcal and elusive little unicorn called: Consistency.

Watch the above 7-minute video to learn how to be more consistent!

"I have a lot on my plate, I'll put that on the back burner."

This week, Source wants you to know that consistency is key.

Key to what? The key to success in anything in life, is being consistent.

Of course, being creative is powerful because we're able to start new things and have grand visions and receive guidance creatively and intuitively from Spirit.

If you're anything like me, you tend to get a lot of inspiration and a lot of new ideas and start a lot of new creative projects.

And then all of a sudden you're on to the next thing.

We're on to opening another tab on Google Chrome or Mozilla.

And we're watching two different channels on the TV because we don't want to deal with the commercials, so we switch between a few channels.

Or on our cell phone, we have about 100 different windows open in the web browser. 

Or whenever it comes to meetings at work we're always a high idea generators, or we get excited about new ideas or new initiatives.

But you're drained and annoyed when things don't come out the way you initially envisioned -- this happens because we're high start up energy people.

And that's okay. It's not a bad thing!

The universe knows that about us, as spiritual, intuitive and sensitive individuals. She knows that.

So she's coming in to offer a bit of advice to say: consistency is key.

The way that we set ourselves up for success, instead of self sabotage, is by setting up rituals that support us in being consistent.

The first thing in the energy in order to do what Source is asking, is creating morning rituals, mid day rituals and evening rituals.

We've previously talked about having your non negotiable's with yourself.

And that's usually three to five things that you do to set your energy up off at the right pace first thing in the morning, and you can't negotiate.

You can not negotiate with yourself about those things.

We often sabotage our success in life because we negotiate whether or not we're allowed to take steps, healing steps, for ourselves:

"Okay, I really don't feel like it today", or "I have a lot on my plate, I'll put that on the back burner."

We begin negotiating and talking ourselves down from taking action steps.

Having and keeping up your "Non-negotiables" is just another teaching here at the Dojo that we share with students about how to really create positive momentum on their healing journey.

It's about having a set of standards, called non-negotiables, which are off limits for YOU to negotiate with yourself whether or not they get done.

This week in particular Source is saying you need a ritual for the beginning, middle and end of the day to create a vortex of consistency.

What does that look like?

At the beginning of the day we have our non negotiable that sets the intention, a positive focus and intention for the day at large, which is in and of herself very powerful.

On top of that, in the midday -- or throughout the "meat" of your day if we're looking at it like a sandwich -- we need rituals of getting up and moving to keep your vibration high.

Know this: You can create your own #vortex of consistency to put momentum behind achieving your #goals. #newyearnewyou #success

Habits of re-centering and looking again at "what are my goals for today?" build momentum behind the actualization of your goals.

Have a set time during the day where you check in with someone who keeps you accountable to what your goals are for the day and they're doing the same thing so you keep each other accountable.

Or you have a place that you go to that keeps you inspired and open, during the day.

For me, there's certain places -- we're in Westfield, NJ here. Nearby is the Watchung Reservation. There are certain places in the Watchung Reservation that I visit very regularly to keep myself open and in a state of flow.

That might not be the case for you environmentally, but it could be that you go to the bathroom and recenter your energy so that you're able to feel more refreshed.

(I don't just mean going potty! It could be just to clear your head, to get up and walk away from the computer or walk away from your office, walk away from the kitchen for a little bit so you can recenter and refocus.)

At the end of each day, Source is saying have an ending ritual where you look back on what happened throughout the day and appreciate it to help close down, have a sense of closure and achievement.

All of these, though, we want to tie into whatever your goal is.

Maybe you have a New Year's resolution, Source is asking to work in that New Years resolution to these rituals. Or maybe you have a new goal in mind.

Perhaps you have a affirmation or a goal card that you've been working on for some time.

Work it in at three points in the day, numeralogically speaking, three is the presence of spiritual guidance.

Stay tuned for part two next week!

In Love and Light,

Victoria.

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Set alarms on your phone that remind you about your goal.

Notice how you feel at that moment - you're already healing!

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Disappointment got you down?

Having a hard time forgiving yourself for messing up?

Wish you could just feel better already, instead of feeling like a failure all the time?

If this is you, believe it or not, you're on the verge of a breakthrough.

Every disappointment and seeming "failure" holds healing knowledge sent from Spirit to clean up your energy and move you to your next level.

Watch the above 10-minute video to learn how to shift your energy immediately to receiving healing and clearing spiritual knowledge! 

"I feel like a failure."

To help you find the Dark Gift in disappointment is like finding a needle in a haystack.

When we're really low-vibration in guilt and all those yucky, gooey sensations of resentment and self-unforgiveness, it's hard to see the light.

We're just keep saying to ourselves: "No! Everything's doom and gloom and I'm a piece of doody-pants."

One thing that helps shift your vibration fast -- and if you come to The Dojo you'll always see me do this -- is to celebrate when things don't work out.

I know you're watching, all of my students that this has happened to; when they come back out of meditation, they say: "Sensei, I didn't go anywhere. I didn't see anything, I was right here the whole time."

What do I do every time? My students know that every time they say this, I say: "Yay! Yes! Going nowhere, doing nothing! WOOHOO!!"

Why? Not because I'm a crazy-pants... well, maybe, but I'm a crazy-pants with good reason. 🙂 Everyone is crazy for a reason, just ask them!

The reason why we celebrate is not only because "Well, you tried," which is always positive, but also whenever you celebrate your brain re-orients herself to say "What am I celebrating?"

She is immediately looking to see what are the positives in this situation; she automatically reframes the situation to support positive outcomes. This is called Neuro-linguistic Programming, by the way.

When we're in celebration mode, our brain must support that with data. The new-aged version of this exact same phenomena is the Universal Law of Attraction.

What you need to know most right now is that the more you celebrate in the face of disappointment, the more you will immediately align with what there to celebrate.

You'll know. Seriously, it works like magic. It's like fairy dust.

Try it, you will see just how effective it is.

Know this: You can shift your state right now: celebrate in the face of disappointment & you'll discover why your failure is healing.

By all means clap and scream and celebrate over your perceived failure until you're able to find out what is celebratory in this.

Gratitude, admiration, adoration, joy and high vibrations are constantly present. They just don't show up out of nowhere and then disappear. Why?

Because everything is Now.

All that is, is right now.

The lowest vibrations you could possibly emanate are just as present as the highest vortexy, juicy, yummy woo thing you could possibly experience.

All vibrations are present now.

By being in celebration, choosing to celebrate disappointment, you will activate your ability to perceive and receive any Dark Gifts that are coming out of your experience.

It doesn't matter how dark or how painful the situation is, trust me, this always works.

And with that I'm hearing the Oracle cards loud and clear. The Healing with the Fairies oracle card deck is the one that said "We want to talk about disappointment and failure!" Yay!

Interesting. So the card that is coming up is "Vacation." Thank you, fairies!

So what I just heard in the energy is the reason why this card is coming up: a change of scenery.

If you've really been feeling like "I feel guilty," or "I feel like a failure," say you lost your job or the business tanked or the marriage is ending and going down divorce, then the fairies are sending you this message:

A change of environment can really help raise your vibration.

Once you're in that shifted environment, then look back with celebratory energy.

Sometimes things are so heavy, disappointing and immersive that the environment around us can really re-emanate that super low vibration, and your mind follows along with that.

The most stressful part of dealing with disappointment and failure is that we just keep turning it over and over.

But you have to understand that the room, the house, the building, the space that you are in reflects your mind and all of your mental, emotional vibrations.

She will continue to re-vibrate and replay all of what's been on your mind and on your heart, all that energy.

Energy of low-vibration emotions and thought, all of that that you've been putting out, she will continue to replay that and reverberate that back to you.

Changing your environment is really important if you've suffered a pretty serious failure or a big disappointment.

Go on a vacation. If you can't afford a vacation that's fine, go outside or go over to someone else's house, change the scenery and allow your space at home or at the office, to clear out.

It's cathartic always when we go through this clearing process after the business failed and we have to clear out the energy.

Clearing and rebooting is really good because it's clearing your mind.

Environment always effects and reflects the mind, and therefore shifting your environment from one space to another is really essential for dealing with disappointment.

The fairies want you to know that it's okay to give yourself permission to do that.

In the divorce, go over to your friends' or parents' house and spend some time with them. Allow someone to be nurturing to you who you know loves you no matter what.

If the term paper didn't go well and you have the wherewithal to do it, go down the shore (to the beach) and let the ocean wash away your pain.

Be in the mountains, get yourself in nature, or even go to the arcade and whack the mole. Delicious! I love playing Whack-a-mole when I'm pissed about something! LOL! 🙂

It's all about a change of scenery because that'll help you to shift out of that crappy, crusty vibration.

Don't wallow in the mud of the past, because it will just slow you down. 

I am sending you so much love, I'm surrounding you in the energy with white light and I will see you next week.

In Love and Light,

Victoria.

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Celebrate your disappointments and failures! Shout and be silly: "YAY! I DID IT!" And then wait for it.... ????

As you clap and rejoice the fact that you tried, stay open to Spirit showing you any lessons you can learn about yourself and your life.

Notice how you feel at that moment - you're already healing!

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Have you ever had a project not work out the way you expected it to, and that threw you for a loop?

Beating yourself up over a failed business or relationship?

Annoyed that you have to start at square one, AGAIN?

Periodically life lets us down or we ourselves drop the ball; we all know that disappointment is just a part of life.

But sometimes when this happens, we can get caught in a toxic never-ending cycle of self-loathing and self-punishment.

Watch the above 10-minute video to begin breaking out of this toxic cycle of self-sabotage! 

"What do I need to know right now? What am I supposed to learn in this moment?"

Have you ever had a project not work out the way you expect it to?

Maybe the business failed, the relationship failed. Or you asked someone to do something, where you delegated something to another person and it didn't work out, and they didn't do it the way that you wanted it to be done.

You put so much work and effort into this project or paper or exam, and it comes back or goes through and you see that it nope, totally doesn't look like what you were hoping the outcome to be at all.

You sent out your college essay and nope, you got a rejection. Working out, eating clean, as best as you can, get on the scale, nope! No weight lost.

Disappointment, oh yeah. Failure... delicious! Lol!

If you're feeling, "I'm struggling with that right now, Victoria" this is not to make fun of you. I'm laughing because I'm in the mud with you, feeling you strongly so my heart is so open to you right now.

We're going to dive right into this, and laugh our way through the crap of life, together. 🙂

Source says that we have a tendency to ruminate and really draw out the failure event with our guilt and disappointment, chewing on it like a cow chewing on cud.

Cud is the stuff that comes out of all of her stomachs--what is it like 8 of them or something like that?

She chews so that she can continue the experience of getting through all of the nutrients in that grass for hours and hours and hours on end.

You don't need to be in that slow, drawn-out process, is what the Spirit is saying.

It's one way to approach failure and disappointment: to draw it out and say "This is exactly why I suck."

Or waxing poetic: "How many ways can I be horrible? Let me count the ways," or "Let's get creative! How can I express how much failure I am in 60 seconds? Go!"

My love, let me count the ways. No Shakespeare, stop it! Just stop. STOP!

The way that we want to deal with disappointment is to embrace her.

Failure must be embraced. To cast her away or pull her out and torture yourself is to drag yourself thought the mud excessively.

It's when we go into that process of self-deprecating behavior and masochism, the "I'm guilty, I feel so bad. Oh my god you washed the dishes for me, I feel so bad, I'm a failure at being helpful..." etc.

Interesting, one of the Spirits just said "be kind to yourself, if that's what you're going through." Again, this is not to make fun of you, but to help you see yourself.

Know this: Guilt and negative self-talk are low-vibrational forms of centering meditation. Be kind to yourself; there are better ways.

The energy says that whenever we experience failure or that strong sensation of being out of alignment, we come out of our bodies.

This happens because all of the energy that we have put out into that project or relationship, or into whatever, didn't work out. We funneled ourselves into that identity that we formed, we put so much of our energy into that and when it doesn't go through, we find ourselves outside of our bodies and our truth.

Guilt, disappointment and all of that negative rumination is a mistaken and low vibrational way of centering: you're coming back to a sense of self through masochism.

We see that you're trying to come back to center and recreate your identity after failure through guilt, like "Oh I know who I am because of what I am not." Ok.

That's a fallacy though, because that's going to take you farther away from who you really are as a divine being; this is what I'm seeing in the energy right now.

Be kind to yourself if that's where you're at.

You're just mistaken.

You see, in the moment that you are trying to re-center and find your authentic energy, you're striving to get to the point where you're thinking positively: "Okay, this is me, this is me. Phew! I'm all solid again, I'm not pushed out into all of this stuff around me that's failing and being disappointing. That person didn't do it the way I would. That doesn't mean I'm horrible." Or, "That relationship didn't work out, but that doesn't mean I'm a failure."

You're identity, Source says, is spread out too thin so that act of guilt and the act of drawn out disappointment and holding onto that sense of self-unforgiveness (which is guilt and dragging ourselves through the mud and resentment) is just an inverse way of trying to re-center.

We tell you this for a reason: See the light, even in the darkness.

The way that we best deal with disappointment is for searching for The Dark Gift in it.

I don't mean dark gift, like Dracula spookypants boogadeyboo, etc dark gift, lol.

What I mean by dark gift is gifts that we find in our shadow, gifts that the spirit sends through experiences.

And by the way, the spirit is constantly sending gifts, infinite amount of gifts you are receiving now.

Not in the past, you got them. Not in the future, that didn't happen. Now.

There is an infinite amount of gifts that are present to you and latent in the dark side of what's happening, like disappointments.

Those gifts in the darkness or in uncertainty or in your shadow are what we mean by dark -- not like boogedy evil, we don't mean that.

Dark Gifts are learning gifts.

They're there to help you embrace the disappointment, embrace the distraction, embrace the failure. You embrace by saying "I screwed up and I GET to LEARN from it."

One of my students awakened me to a wonderful quote years ago.

A quote by John C. Maxwell, "We always fail forward. Why? Because you tried."

Failing forward is the ability to get back up after you've been knocked down and to learn from your mistakes.

It really embodies this concept of embracing the dark gifts that disappointment is trying to send us.

In the previous video we talked about acceptance and how that can kind of be lubricant to life if you're feeling blocked or static.

Being in a state of Acceptance can help you figure out where's the stepping stone for you to take in this experience you're having now.

That absolutely applies here because in our disappointments, when things don't work out, there's always a way to look back at the process and see how could that have gone better and if it couldn't have gone better, reflect on "What do I need to know right now? What am I supposed to learn in this moment?"

Check back next week for part 2 of this love letter!

In Love and Light,

Victoria.

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Just for Today...

Pay attention to how you talk about and describe yourself today, listening for negative and guilt-laden language that's focused on past failures, shortcomings and disappointments.

When you catch yourself doing this, finish the following sentence to yourself: "I accept that I can't change what happened and I know I can only change myself and how I feel; so what I am learning right now is..."

Notice how you feel at that moment - you're already healing!

SHARE THIS! You’d be surprised how many people you know right now are in desperate need of healing and could use this information to change their life. If you can read this, you know someone who needs this Love Letter!

Want to de-stress and clear your energy but don't know where to start? Tell me!

Give me a call at +1 (732) 903-8573 or click on the blue BOOK NOW button to start your healing journey, today!

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Feeling tired and low energy lately?

Need to lose some weight and improve your nutrition?

Struggling with addiction and always finding yourself craving more sweets, cigarettes, alcohol, etc.?

Did you know you can raise the vibration of your food and drink right now for FREE? You can!

There is a natural way to bring more positive energy and love to your relationship with food and your body, and it doesn't entail counting calories: Energy "Chi" Balls!

Watch the above video to learn to create an Energy Ball and use it to supercharge your food!

Wake up, sleepy head!

Can you feel it? Every day, there is a dip in the energy worldwide between 2:00PM and 4:00PM -- the infamous Afternoon Slump.

So, to respond to that slump, most of us end up reaching for foods and drinks we tend to have a bit of an addiction to: sweets, salty snacks, crunchy chips, sodas, and coffee.

We all do it, so be kind to yourself. It's a collective habit; a coping mechanism we all share.

Because we are feeling low-vibe, we are attracted to and reach for low-vibe fuel.

And since we have a habit of taking in low-vibe fuel, we find ourselves feeling tired, lacking motivation and struggling to keep our physical and emotional health, and even our sleep schedules, in balance. Sound familiar?

But it doesn't have to be this way.

As you read this blog, all around you right now is ambient, free-floating energy. It's not for sale, it has no calories or rules of any kind; it's just energy. The Chinese call this energy "chi," the Japanese call it "ki" and the Hindus call it "prana," but it's basically all the same thing: energy.

You see, Nature is abundant; in fact, her default state is abundance.

Once you understand this, you'll see that you are also a part of Nature, too.

Therefore: your natural state is that of abundance.

Right now, you have access to an infinite amount of energy. Every bit of potential energy you could possibly need -- to grow, to be "successful" as a natural being -- is actually floating around you, waiting to be activated.

All you have to do is just reach out and take it! But how do you start to do that?

Practicing forming and using Energy or "Chi" Balls.

This technique for harnessing and directing ambient energy is fun and quite easy.

Anyone can do it, at any age or stage of development. All it takes is practice!

An added bonus to forming chi balls is that is also a great centering meditation and it really helps you "empty your mind" and focus. The more you focus on the energy between your hands, the less you focus on annoying, stressful and negative thoughts -- not because you are trying, but just because!

Know this: Your natural state is abundance. Claim your power. #chi #energy #reiki

Here's the thing though: you have to do the work.

If you choose to practice this technique, you will already feel connected to the energy around you. However, if you choose to not only practice this technique, but also apply it to your food and body, you will feel a shift in your energy.

It all comes down to implementation and application.

As always, if you don't do the work, you won't get the benefit! Duh!

So, I encourage you stop, put down your things, and join me in this week's Love Letter video exercise, so you can connect to and feel the energy for yourself.

Watch this week's video for the Oracle Card of the Week, which reveals the spiritual issues weighing down your energy!

In Love and Light,

Victoria.

VictoriaWhitfield.com
Facebook.com/SenseiVictoriaWhitfield

Just for Today...

Try forming an energy ball.

Give yourself a good 5-10 minutes to really feel into the energy between your hands, and then once you do, close your eyes and bring your hands to your heart.

Notice how you feel at that moment - you're already healing!

SHARE THIS! You’d be surprised how many people you know right now are in desperate need of healing and could use this information to change their life. If you can read this, you know someone who needs this Love Letter!

Want to learn to increase your energy naturally?

Give me a call at 732-903-8573 or click on the blue BOOK NOW button to start your healing journey, today!

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LET'S DANCE!!

Lyrics:

"Beautiful People"
(Chris Brown feat. Benny Benassi)

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