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		<title>How to Show Victoria Some Love and Support</title>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p>First of all, if you clicked on this page you are FREAKIN' AWESOME. You're awesome for several reasons: You want to give back You are loving and supportive You love giving gifts for fun and for special occasions (Victoria's birthday is March 11th) And... you want to see if and how you can do this [&#8230;]</p>
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<h2>First of all, if you clicked on this page <strong><span style="color: #008080;">you are</span> <span style="color: #008080;">FREAKIN' AWESOME.</span></strong></h2>
<p>You're awesome for several reasons:</p>
<ol>
<li>You want to give back</li>
<li>You are loving and supportive</li>
<li>You love giving gifts for fun and for special occasions (Victoria's birthday is March 11th)</li>
<li>And... you want to see if and how you can do this on your website, too! (lol, <em>we&nbsp;know youuu...</em>)</li>
</ol>
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<p><strong>So... if you've been feeling loved and touched by on or more of Sensei Victoria Whitfield's:</strong></p>
<p><em>Love Letter videos</em></p>
<p><em>Love Letters in the mail</em></p>
<p><em>Meditations on Youtube</em></p>
<p><em>Group Guided Meditation classes</em></p>
<p><em>Workshops</em></p>
<p><em>Weekend or 3-Day Retreats</em></p>
<p><em>Visionary Shaman Circle Group Program</em></p>
<p><em>Abundant Business Group Program</em></p>
<p><em>Outreach Facebook Lives on her fanpage or Master Manifestor Challenge</em></p>
<p><em>Love Tour Stops</em></p>
<p><em>Natural Intuition Now book</em></p>
<p><em>Understanding Energy e-Course</em></p>
<p><em>Or other magical fabulousness...</em></p>
<p><strong><img decoding="async" class="size-medium wp-image-5359 alignright" src="https://victoriawhitfield.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/03/Screen-Shot-2018-03-10-at-2.03.18-PM-300x283.png" alt="" width="300" height="283" srcset="https://victoriawhitfield.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/03/Screen-Shot-2018-03-10-at-2.03.18-PM-300x283.png 300w, https://victoriawhitfield.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/03/Screen-Shot-2018-03-10-at-2.03.18-PM-768x724.png 768w, https://victoriawhitfield.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/03/Screen-Shot-2018-03-10-at-2.03.18-PM-1024x965.png 1024w, https://victoriawhitfield.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/03/Screen-Shot-2018-03-10-at-2.03.18-PM-1080x1018.png 1080w, https://victoriawhitfield.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/03/Screen-Shot-2018-03-10-at-2.03.18-PM.png 1182w" sizes="(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px" />You may be wondering how you can send her some love back and support her in keeping up the good work.</strong> She's a human being and needs all the love and support she can get, so she can keep uplifting spiritual entrepreneurs around the world.</p>
<p><span style="color: #008080;"><strong>So if you'd like to send her some love, support and gifts, here's a wish list from free to $$$:</strong></span></p>
<ul>
<li><strong>Financial love donations</strong> to appreciate and support her work and/or to infuse your business with more wealth and abundance through strategic giving <a href="https://www.paypal.me/victoriawhitfield">online here</a>&nbsp;and send checks made out to "Victoria Whitfield" to 153 Central Avenue, P.O. Box 2192, Westfield NJ 07090</li>
<li><strong>Professional service donations</strong> to support her business or her personal / spiritual wellness (she'd be happy to review your work and share about it on social media)</li>
<li><strong>Positive reviews of her work</strong> on <a href="https://www.google.com/maps/place/Sensei+Victoria+Whitfield/@40.6473439,-74.3590715,15z/data=!4m5!3m4!1s0x0:0x41e341d8954b8235!8m2!3d40.6473439!4d-74.3590715">Google</a>, <a href="https://www.yelp.com/biz/sensei-victoria-whitfield-westfield-2">Yelp</a>, <a href="https://www.facebook.com/pg/senseivictoriawhitfield/reviews/?ref=page_internal">Facebook</a>, <a href="https://www.amazon.com/Natural-Intuition-Now-awakening-spiritual/dp/1534731660/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&amp;qid=1520707457&amp;sr=8-1&amp;keywords=natural+intuition+now">Amazon</a>, <a href="https://www.linkedin.com/in/senseivictoriawhitfield/">LinkedIn</a>, <a href="https://www.alignable.com/westfield-nj/victoria-whitfield-llc">Alignable</a></li>
<li><strong>Invite her out to dinner or out for drinks</strong>&nbsp;- she doesn't drink alcohol, but loves virgin mixed drinks, fresh pressed juice, decaf tea and decaf coffee; her favorite kinds of food are Japanese, Thai, Korean, organic, and farm-to-table</li>
<li><strong>Fresh cut bouquets of flowers</strong> - she loves blush pink, pastel pink, yellow, white and rainbow roses</li>
<li><strong>Letters and cards in the mail</strong> - she especially loves to see your handwriting and receive poetry</li>
<li><strong>Chocolate</strong> to make sure she gets all her essential nutrients 😉 - she prefers milk chocolate, and also likes fruit dipped in milk chocolate, or milk chocolate with caramel, mocha, cappuccino or crunchies</li>
<li><strong>Office supplies</strong> that are pink, purple, glittery, gold, rose gold, and/or with crystals, glitter, rainbows and unicorns</li>
<li><strong>Anything that makes bubbles!!</strong>&nbsp;- no dyed or colored bubbles, please</li>
<li><strong>Bath bombs, Epsom salts, bubble bath,</strong> and anything spa and massage related, including massage/spa service gift cards</li>
<li><strong>Crystals, oracle or tarot card decks,</strong> and healing candles, sprays, etc.</li>
<li><strong>Gift cards</strong> to: Amazon, TD Bank, Staples, Apple, Whole Foods, Trader Joe's, Lush, Ulta, CVS, Target, etc.</li>
<li><strong>Gift of services</strong> from personal assistant, personal chef, or in-home massage&nbsp;companies</li>
<li><strong>Frequent Flyer miles</strong> or Hotel points you're not using</li>
<li><strong>Stays at your rental properties</strong> or airbnb, condo or VRBO properties</li>
<li><strong>Get fancy</strong> and get her <a href="https://www.penboutique.com/cross-peerless-125-platinum-plate-medalist-ballpoint-pen.html">THIS ABSOLUTELY FABULOUS&nbsp;PEN</a>&nbsp;(she's a geek about pens, and well, this one appeared to her in a vision once)</li>
<li><strong>Tickets to live concerts,</strong> drag and burlesque shows, dance parties, or events by Simon Sinek (her man-crush), Tony Robbins, Abraham Hicks, Mamagena, Doreen Virtue, Caroline Myss, TD Jakes, Danielle LaPorte, Lisa Nichols, Gina Devee, or any wellness / positive personal development event</li>
</ul>
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<p><strong><img decoding="async" class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-5357" src="https://victoriawhitfield.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/03/bubbleheadshotHD-212x300.jpg" alt="" width="212" height="300" srcset="https://victoriawhitfield.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/03/bubbleheadshotHD-212x300.jpg 212w, https://victoriawhitfield.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/03/bubbleheadshotHD-768x1086.jpg 768w, https://victoriawhitfield.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/03/bubbleheadshotHD-724x1024.jpg 724w, https://victoriawhitfield.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/03/bubbleheadshotHD-1080x1528.jpg 1080w, https://victoriawhitfield.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/03/bubbleheadshotHD.jpg 1588w" sizes="(max-width: 212px) 100vw, 212px" /></strong></p>
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<p><strong>Sensei Victoria Whitfield's&nbsp;mailing address for gifts is: <span style="color: #008080;">153 Central Avenue, P.O. Box 2192, Westfield, NJ 07090&nbsp;</span></strong></p>
<p>And her birthday is March 11th at 8:39AM EST - she is a Pisces Sun with a Taurus Rising and Aries Moon, and born in the Chinese Zodiac Year of the Tiger.</p>
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If you read this far, you must know, again,</p>
<p><strong>YOU ARE SO AWESOME!! THANK YOU!</strong></p>
<p>XOXO</p>
<p>#<span style="text-decoration: underline;">sharingisabundant</span></p>
<p>#<span style="text-decoration: underline;">spreadlove</span></p>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p>Do you think that you're not good enough? Thought that you'd be further ahead in life than you are right now? Going through a difficult time of arguments and disagreements? When the going gets tough, our knee-jerk reaction can often be to think "why me?" or "what's wrong with me?" Believe it or not, no [&#8230;]</p>
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<h2><span style="color: #800080;"><em>Do you think that you're not good enough?<br />
</em></span></h2>
<h2><em>Thought that you'd be further ahead in life than you are right now?</em></h2>
<h2><em>Going through a difficult time of arguments and disagreements?<br />
</em></h2>
<p><span style="line-height: 1.5;">When the going gets tough, our knee-jerk reaction can often be to think "why me?" or "what's wrong with me?"<br />
</span></p>
<p><span style="line-height: 1.5;">Believe it or not, no matter how ugly it gets, Source says you need to remember that it's not about "me", instead it's about "we".</span></p>
<p><span style="line-height: 1.5;"><br />
</span><span style="color: #008080;"><strong>Watch this week's 9-minute Love Letter video to find the courage to be compassionate!</strong></span></p>
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<p style="text-align: right;"><em><span style="color: #800080;"><b>"What is wrong with me?"</b></span></em></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">This week, you must know that it is not about you.</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1"><strong>It's not about you. It never has been, it never will be, so from this point forward in time, you have got to stop taking it so seriously.</strong></span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">They told me, be more specific. You have got to stop taking him so seriously. You've got to stop taking her and what she does in her life and in her business, so personally, because it's not about you. It never has been, and it never will be.</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span style="color: #800080;"><strong><span class="s1">Now perhaps someone has really been getting under your skin lately, or they've been throwing their anger your way, or getting very emotional, and clogging up your joy with all of their crusty crap.</span></strong></span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Perhaps they talk stuff about you, or hating. (I don't really believe in hating.) But perhaps you feel like you may be getting hated on, or people writing smear stuff about you.</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1"><strong>There's this insidious, internal, pre-programmed response that we have, unfortunately, to these interactions of: </strong></span></p>
<ul>
<li class="p1"><span class="s1"><em>"What did I do to deserve this?"</em></span></li>
<li class="p1"><span class="s1"><em>"What's wrong with me, that I can't get ahead, like so-and-so?"</em></span></li>
<li class="p1"><span class="s1"><em>"What's wrong with me, that I am not married, yet?"</em></span></li>
<li class="p1"><span class="s1"><em>"What's wrong with me, that I can't have kids?"</em></span></li>
<li class="p1"><span class="s1"><em>"What's wrong with me, that I'm not financially stable?"</em></span></li>
</ul>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1" style="color: #800080;"><strong>Our ego turns us in on ourselves, because she's actually trying to protect you from stepping out when you're feeling vulnerable.</strong></span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">The reason why she brings you inward, blaming inward, <em>"What's wrong with me? There's something wrong with me,"</em> taking everything outside of us, personally or very seriously, turning it inward, is a way, a shadow way, a dark way of centering you. Let me explain.</span></p>
<p class="p1"><strong><span class="s1">It's never been about you. Someone says, <em>"You're doing this and the other thing, and I can't believe that this ..."</em> They're throwing all that drama around and on you. That's actually them and their stuff.</span></strong></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">If someone comments on your posts, and craps all over your sunshine parade, that is their problem. It's nothing that you did.</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1" style="color: #800080;"><strong>Maybe you did drop the ball. I just heard in the energy, perhaps you might have said something offensive, etc., but everyone chooses how to react, and how to respond to life.</strong></span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">That's their choice. It's on them. </span><span class="s1">You don't have to take responsibility for how they feel.</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">You do need to own up to who you are and how you show up in this world, absolutely. Clean it up, if you made a mess. That's your mess, but you made that.</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Whereas, if someone else makes a mess and starts blabbing about it or spewing all over you about it, that's their stuff.</span></p>
<p class="p1"><strong><span class="s1">I really don't know why the guides are having me say this in particular, this week. I know that I'm talking to someone, so I'm going to keep going with it, but this week, it's not about you.</span></strong></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Your business, by the way, if you're an entrepreneur, and you're thinking to yourself:</span></p>
<ul>
<li class="p1"><em><span class="s1">"Why aren't I doing any better?"</span></em></li>
<li class="p1"><em><span class="s1">"Maybe I need to implement more, work harder."</span></em></li>
<li class="p1"><em><span class="s1">"Why don't people like me?"</span></em></li>
<li class="p1"><em><span class="s1">"Why isn't so-and-so buying in?"</span></em></li>
</ul>
<p><span class="s1" style="color: #800080;"><strong>It's not about you. Come out of the ego cave and cage.</strong></span></p>
<p><span class="s1">The shadow side of centering is reinforcing an identity, so that you can feel and create a sense of stability in your personal ... no, put it that way. The ego she'll bring you in, and be like, something that I did.</span></p>
<p><span class="s1"><strong>Whereas, this is about me, or what's wrong with me? Come out of that cave. There's more outside.</strong></span></p>
<p><span class="s1">Instead, to flip that, where we're feeling not good enough, it's time to give more. There's so much more love, so much more value, so much more creativity and insight that you're capable of giving. It's about serving.</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1" style="color: #800080;"><strong>Tony Robins, I love his quote. <em>"The secret to living is giving absolutely."</em> That's the way to come out of an ego cave.</strong></span></p>
<p class="p1"><img decoding="async" class="aligncenter wp-image-2049 size-full" src="https://victoriawhitfield.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/11/TWEETOFTHEWEEK.png" alt="TWEETOFTHEWEEK" width="462" height="86" srcset="https://victoriawhitfield.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/11/TWEETOFTHEWEEK.png 462w, https://victoriawhitfield.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/11/TWEETOFTHEWEEK-300x56.png 300w, https://victoriawhitfield.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/11/TWEETOFTHEWEEK-460x86.png 460w" sizes="(max-width: 462px) 100vw, 462px" /></p>
<h2 class="p1"><a href="http://ctt.ec/eX0cm"><strong><span class="s1">Know this: </span></strong><strong><span class="s1">If you're not feeling "good enough," then give more to those less fortunate. Focus on WE, not me.</span></strong></a></h2>
<h2 class="p1"><a href="http://ctt.ec/eX0cm"><img decoding="async" class="alignnone wp-image-2243" src="https://victoriawhitfield.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/02/tweetbutton-300x129.gif" alt="tweetbutton" width="150" height="64" /></a></h2>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">The guides are telling me to pull an Oracle card now. The deck that came forward in this week, is the crystal Oracle cards, in particular, to really weigh in on the topic of this situation.</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">It's really not about you. It's not about me. It's we. This week, in particular.</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1"><strong>Someone just said, pull this card. Amber.</strong></span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Look at how gorgeous. I love this deck, because it's all pictures. Juicy, juicy amber shot. They're telling me to read.</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span style="color: #800080;"><strong><span class="s1">The words that they've associated with Amber are transparency, calm, purification, and creativity. Here's the reading: <em>"An issue that is causing tension and friction in your life will soon erupt and come to a head."</em></span></strong></span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">I'm starting to get the chills. <em>"You are being urged to stay calm during this emotionally-charged event. Express how you feel, but don't be drawn into saying things that you don't mean. This event is, in fact, a blessing. One that is perhaps well overdue."</em></span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">You can't make this stuff up, people. This is amazing.</span></p>
<p class="p1"><em><span class="s1">"Through it, you will realize where you stand, and how others truly feel. As the air clears, you will uncover a hidden agenda and find creative ways of handling this type of situation in the future. Stay calm, and don't allow yourself to be dragged further into chaos by others. You will emerge from this situation, feeling purified of all the negative emotions and thoughts that have weighted you down recently. Trust and remember it. This event is a blessing."</span></em></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Here's where we're going to leave off.</span></p>
<p class="p1"><strong><span class="s1">Whatever disagreement, argument, or provocative conversation you are about to have this week, remember, it's not about me. This is about we.</span></strong></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Look for the lesson. There's always a dark gift, especially in difficult situations. They always teach us.</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span style="color: #800080;"><strong><span class="s1">Keep your eyes open for the gift. </span></strong><span class="s1"><strong>Stay focused on the we. Don't be pulled into that ego cave.</strong></span></span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Send me an email back. Comment below. Let me know what's coming up for you around this.</span></p>
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<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Sending you so much love. I'll see you next week. Bye.</span></p>
<p class="p1"><strong style="line-height: 1.5;">In Love and Light,</strong></p>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p>Do you think that you're not good enough? Thought that you'd be further ahead in life than you are right now? Going through a difficult time of arguments and disagreements? When the going gets tough, our knee-jerk reaction can often be to think "why me?" or "what's wrong with me?" Believe it or not, no [&#8230;]</p>
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<h2><span style="color: #800080;"><em>Do you think that you're not good enough?<br />
</em></span></h2>
<h2><em>Thought that you'd be further ahead in life than you are right now?</em></h2>
<h2><em>Going through a difficult time of arguments and disagreements?<br />
</em></h2>
<p><span style="line-height: 1.5;">When the going gets tough, our knee-jerk reaction can often be to think "why me?" or "what's wrong with me?"<br />
</span></p>
<p><span style="line-height: 1.5;">Believe it or not, no matter how ugly it gets, Source says you need to remember that it's not about "me", instead it's about "we".</span></p>
<p><span style="line-height: 1.5;"><br />
</span><span style="color: #008080;"><strong>Watch this week's 9-minute Love Letter video to find the courage to be compassionate!<br />
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<p style="text-align: right;"><em><span style="color: #800080;"><b>"<em>What is wrong with me?</em>"</b></span></em></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">This week, you must know that it is not about you. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1"><strong>It's not about you. It never has been, it never will be, so from this point forward in time, you have got to stop taking it so seriously.</strong> </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">They told me, be more specific. You have got to stop taking him so seriously. You've got to stop taking her and what she does in her life and in her business, so personally, because it's not about you. It never has been, and it never will be. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span style="color: #800080;"><strong><span class="s1">Now perhaps someone has really been getting under your skin lately, or they've been throwing their anger your way, or getting very emotional, and clogging up your joy with all of their crusty crap.</span></strong></span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Perhaps they talk stuff about you, or hating. (I don't really believe in hating.) But perhaps you feel like you may be getting hated on, or people writing smear stuff about you. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1"><strong>There's this insidious, internal, pre-programmed response that we have, unfortunately, to these interactions of:&nbsp;</strong></span></p>
<ul>
<li style="list-style-type: none;">
<ul>
<li class="p1"><span class="s1"><em>"What did I do to deserve this?"</em></span></li>
</ul>
</li>
</ul>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<ul>
<li style="list-style-type: none;">
<ul>
<li class="p1"><span class="s1"><em>"What's wrong with me, that I can't get ahead, like so-and-so?" </em></span></li>
</ul>
</li>
</ul>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<ul>
<li style="list-style-type: none;">
<ul>
<li class="p1"><span class="s1"><em>"What's wrong with me, that I am not married, yet?"</em></span></li>
</ul>
</li>
</ul>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<ul>
<li style="list-style-type: none;">
<ul>
<li class="p1"><span class="s1"><em>"What's wrong with me, that I can't have kids?"</em></span></li>
</ul>
</li>
</ul>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<ul>
<li class="p1"><span class="s1"><em>"What's wrong with me, that I'm not financially stable?"</em></span></li>
</ul>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1" style="color: #800080;"><strong>Our ego turns us in on ourselves, because she's actually trying to protect you from stepping out when you're feeling vulnerable.</strong> </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">The reason why she brings you inward, blaming inward, <em>"What's wrong with me? There's something wrong with me,"</em> taking everything outside of us, personally or very seriously, turning it inward, is a way, a shadow way, a dark way of centering you. Let me explain. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><strong><span class="s1">It's never been about you. Someone says, <em>"You're doing this and the other thing, and I can't believe that this ..."</em> They're throwing all that drama around and on you. That's actually them and their stuff.</span></strong></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">If someone comments on your posts, and craps all over your sunshine parade, that is their problem. It's nothing that you did. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1" style="color: #800080;"><strong>Maybe you did drop the ball. I just heard in the energy, perhaps you might have said something offensive, etc., but everyone chooses how to react, and how to respond to life.</strong> </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">That's their choice. It's on them. </span><span class="s1">You don't have to take responsibility for how they feel. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">You do need to own up to who you are and how you show up in this world, absolutely. Clean it up, if you made a mess. That's your mess, but you made that. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Whereas, if someone else makes a mess and starts blabbing about it or spewing all over you about it, that's their stuff. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><strong><span class="s1">I really don't know why the guides are having me say this in particular, this week. I know that I'm talking to someone, so I'm going to keep going with it, but this week, it's not about you.</span></strong></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Your business, by the way, if you're an entrepreneur, and you're thinking to yourself:</span></p>
<ul>
<li style="list-style-type: none;">
<ul>
<li class="p1"><em><span class="s1">"Why aren't I doing any better?"</span></em></li>
</ul>
</li>
</ul>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<ul>
<li style="list-style-type: none;">
<ul>
<li class="p1"><em><span class="s1">"Maybe I need to implement more, work harder."</span></em></li>
</ul>
</li>
</ul>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<ul>
<li style="list-style-type: none;">
<ul>
<li class="p1"><em><span class="s1">"Why don't people like me?"</span></em></li>
</ul>
</li>
</ul>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<ul>
<li class="p1"><em><span class="s1">"Why isn't so-and-so buying in?" </span></em></li>
</ul>
<p><span class="s1" style="color: #800080;"><strong>It's not about you. Come out of the ego cave and cage.</strong> </span></p>
<p><span class="s1">The shadow side of centering is reinforcing an&nbsp;identity, so that you can feel and create a sense of stability in your personal ... no, put it that way. The ego she'll&nbsp;bring you in, and be like, something that I did. </span></p>
<p><span class="s1"><strong>Whereas, this is about me, or what's wrong with me? Come out of that cave. There's more outside.</strong> </span></p>
<p><span class="s1">Instead, to flip that, where we're feeling not good enough, it's time to give more. There's so much more love, so much more value, so much more creativity and insight that you're capable of giving. It's about serving.</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1" style="color: #800080;"><strong>Tony Robins, I love his quote. <em>"The secret to living is giving absolutely."</em> That's the way to come out of an ego cave.</strong> </span></p>
<p class="p1"><img decoding="async" class="aligncenter wp-image-2049 size-full" src="https://victoriawhitfield.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/11/TWEETOFTHEWEEK.png" alt="TWEETOFTHEWEEK" width="462" height="86" srcset="https://victoriawhitfield.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/11/TWEETOFTHEWEEK.png 462w, https://victoriawhitfield.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/11/TWEETOFTHEWEEK-300x56.png 300w, https://victoriawhitfield.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/11/TWEETOFTHEWEEK-460x86.png 460w" sizes="(max-width: 462px) 100vw, 462px" /></p>
<h2 class="p1"><a href="http://ctt.ec/70JpV"><strong><span class="s1">Know this: If you're not feeling "good enough," then give more to those less fortunate. Focus on WE, not me.</span></strong></a></h2>
<h2 class="p1"><a href="http://ctt.ec/70JpV"><img decoding="async" class="alignnone wp-image-2243" src="https://victoriawhitfield.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/02/tweetbutton-300x129.gif" alt="tweetbutton" width="150" height="64"></a></h2>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">The guides are telling me to pull an Oracle card now. The deck that came forward in this week, is the crystal Oracle cards, in particular, to really weigh in on the topic of this situation. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">It's really not about you. It's not about me. It's we. This week, in particular. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1"><strong>Someone just said, pull this card. Amber.</strong> </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Look at how gorgeous. I love this deck, because it's all pictures. Juicy, juicy amber shot. They're telling me to read.</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span style="color: #800080;"><strong><span class="s1">The words that they've associated with Amber are transparency, calm, purification, and creativity. Here's the reading: <em>"An issue that is causing tension and friction in your life will soon erupt and come to a head."</em></span></strong></span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">I'm starting to get the chills. <em>"You are being urged to stay calm during this emotionally-charged event. Express how you feel, but don't be drawn into saying things that you don't mean. This event is, in fact, a blessing. One that is perhaps well overdue."</em> </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">You can't make this stuff up, people. This is amazing. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><em><span class="s1">"Through it, you will realize where you stand, and how others truly feel. As the air clears, you will uncover a hidden agenda and find creative ways of handling this type of situation in the future. Stay calm, and don't allow yourself to be dragged further into chaos by others. You will emerge from this situation, feeling purified of all the negative emotions and thoughts that have weighted you down recently. Trust and remember it. This event is a blessing."</span></em></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Here's where we're going to leave off. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><strong><span class="s1">Whatever disagreement, argument, or provocative conversation you are about to have this week, remember, it's not about me. This is about we. </span></strong></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Look for the lesson. There's always a dark gift, especially in difficult situations. They always teach us.</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span style="color: #800080;"><strong><span class="s1">Keep your eyes open for the gift. </span></strong><span class="s1"><strong>Stay focused on the we. Don't be pulled into that ego cave.</strong> </span></span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Send me an email back. Comment below. Let me know what's coming up for you around this. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1"><strong>Subscribe on youtube, so that you get your love letters first, and make sure you share this with someone who may be going through something right now, and could really use some positive encouragement.</strong> </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Sending you so much love. I'll see you next week. Bye.</span></p>
<p class="p1">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><strong style="line-height: 1.5;">In Love and Light,</strong></p>
<p><strong>Victoria.</strong></p>
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<p><strong><em>Just for Today...</em></strong></p>
<p><strong>Look for the love and learning in a difficult conversation or argument.</strong></p>
<p><strong style="line-height: 1.5;"><strong>See the difference and disagreement from a third party perspective, considering the pros and cons of the opinions of everyone involved.</strong></strong></p>
<p><strong style="line-height: 1.5;"><em>Notice how you feel at that moment - you're already healing!</em></strong></p>
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