Worried you'll never really have enough money?

Are you surrounded by "well meaning" cynics and skeptics who encourage you to play small to be safe?

Starting to think the idea of "financial freedom" is actually a pipe dream, or only meant for a lucky few?

Playing small to play it safe does not display an inherent belief in Abundance as the universal norm.

And activating your Abundance Mindset is the key to allowing and experiencing profound Financial Healing, now.

Watch this week’s 14-minute Love Letter, the third in our 4-week series, to find out how you can activate your Abundance Mindset ASAP!

"I'm sick of people asking me for money around the holidays."

This week is week three on our deep dive, our four week deep dive into financial healing.

If you missed weeks two and one, you want to go back. Go back on the website, go back on the YouTube, you can subscribe so you get these every week, go back and review it. This is powerful stuff.

This week in particular, we're going to be covering having an abundance mindset. You want to have an abundant mindset, rather than having a lack mindset. This is essential for your financial healing.

By the way, how you like my haircut? Yeah yeah yeah, so good.

This is essential for your financial healing, because as a man thinketh, so is he. As you think, so you become.

Your thoughts drive your behaviors, drive your actions, drive your results, so having an abundant mindset really begins to tip the scales and shift your life to have increasing financial health.

For the last two weeks, we really covered some heavy duty stuff.

We're talking about going into shame and the shadow, the fears around financial energy, honoring that, and in the week before that, we talked about why you need financial healing now now now, because the cat's out of the bag, you're a healer! You're a healer.

We need you abundant. We need you out there, sharing your gifts, or as my teacher says, "your brownies," as much as possible. Don't hoard them.

We need your light to shine in our dark world, but you've got to get financially healthy so that you can share abundantly.

Now, let's talk about this abundance mindset thing. I've done multiple day retreats on this before. By the way, that's coming up. Stay tuned. If you're not on the list, by the way, go to victoriawhitfield.com/freegift, so you can get a free gift from me and get weekly updates on when the next retreat is.

But I've done retreats on this, I've written about it, I've taught on this for years, and there's so much that goes into building a truly abundant mindset, but what it all boils down to is knowing that there is abundant supply, knowing that there is abundant supply.

If you sincerely believe that there is not enough to go around, chances are you also believe that, mmmmm, someone already took it, or already got married to them, or already came up with the idea.

Chances are you also believe that you're not original, you're not special. Chances are you'll also believe tons and tons of other things of lack lack lack mindset, so be kind to yourself. This is a hug I'm sending your way if that's you.

This week in particular, we've got to choose to believe that there is abundant supply. There's infinite supply. I believe Louise Hay, she gives the illustration of going to the ocean to get some water, an ocean of energy, and coming with a thimble.

If you need water to irrigate your land, if you need water to put out a house that's on fire, are you gonna come with a thimble, or are you gonna back that truck up and haul it in?

Be kind to yourself if you've been coming to life with a thimble in hand. It's time to upgrade your mindset in order to have deep financial healing, you've got to believe it for you as well as for your community, for your family, for your business, for your country, for your world. It starts up here. Mindset shapes reality.

There's another whole can of worms on quantum physics that we could open up, where your perspective actually alters reality, and if you want to check into more of that, that's outside the bounds of today love letter, but go ahead and Google "observer effect in quantum physics."

There is an effect that your observation has, and if you are gazing at something, reality will shift to accommodate your gaze. Isn't that interesting?

What happens if you come with a perspective that expects lack, expects that there is not enough, expects that it's hard out there, expecting that you're never going to make enough money, or no one's going to pay for that, or how could I charge that, that's ridiculous. "I can't do it like she does it."

You may be looking at me thinking that ... And by the way, mwah, there is no difference than you and I, by the way. I'm just taking action. There's no difference between you and I. I'm not better than you, I'm not smarter than you, I'm not anything other than right there with you. The only difference in my results is that I'm taking action. Let me get a whoop whoop for those of us who are about implementation. The results show it.

Have an abundant mindset, and the way that you can begin shifting your abundance mindset, this week in particular, the guides say, is to give. Now, I just got a pushback in the energy. For those of you who are like, "What? I'm listening for financial healing so that I can receive, child! I'm not here to give anything. I'm over giving. I'm overstretched..." 

Here's the thing: adjust how you give. Respect, love always for you, but adjust how you're giving. If you're giving with anger, or if you are giving begrudgingly, like, "I'm so sick and tired of all these people asking me for money around this time of the year. Fine! Take your check," or "I hate my bills! I hate opening them up. Ugh, fine, I'm gonna pay ..." Whoa!

What goes around comes around. If you're sending out that kind of crusty heavy compressed energy, notice it is all I'm saying.

That's not very healthy financially. Money likes to move and circulate, just like water. Think of money like water, and this week in particular, soften your perspective on giving. I do give to charities regularly. I do give to my community regularly.

Am I going to tell you where to give? No. However, here's how you begin giving more joyfully. Look in your community, even in your own household. Start near. You don't have to go far. You don't have to give to Africa or all these other places and stuff like that. You can start right here in your community.

Know this: Adjust how you're giving. If you're giving with anger, you're attracting negative energy. If you're giving with joy, you're attracting positive energy.

Look to find someone or something that inspires you, and then go ahead and give to them. Did I say money? No! Part of your financial healing is having an abundance mindset. What could you give other than money to causes that feed your heart, that are in alignment with your purpose?

It could be time. It could be positive energy. It could be sending cards and writing letters. It could be giving attention or bringing attention to things that matter to you. Financial energy has more to do than money. There are some things that are worth even more than money.

And by the way, let me give you a hint: people and your humanness, your humanity, your love, your presence is worth way more than money, and you're looking at me like, "What are you talking about? We're talking about financial healing, Victoria." Yes!

Your abundance mindset though, as soon as you turn that on by having a giving heart, a joyful giving heart, money loves that.

Your money loves that. It will stay with you. It will come to you. It will go where you need it to go, and it will grow as it's needed to grow. It will be in the hands that need it the most if you have a giving heart from a joyful space. I'm hearing the oracle cards calling in the energy.

We're still journeying with Angels of Abundance. Giving with a joyful heart is what we're being called to, and it's not just about the money. These cards are, again, another one of your more ... I know it's over.

I've lost count, but we're always receiving donations here, so if you'd like to send your cards, go ahead and send it to the dojo. Check us out at naturalintuition.com for the mailing address.

Angels, what do I need to know about giving joyfully?

Hmmm, "Exercise to increase your energy and manifestation abilities. The key to manifesting quickly is to have very high energy levels, and the easiest way to increase them is through physical exercise. Choose a fun and meaningful activity so that you'll look forward to exercising, and it becomes its own reward."

This is where we're going to leave off this week, in particular. This is get up, get out, and contribute.

Even if it's writing "Thank you" with a smiley face on every bill and receipt that you pay, that's a wonderful place to start, but for giving and contributing in your community, this is get up and get out of your office, get up and get out of your house, and get physically involved with places that inspire and love on you, and that, you being in that abundant-hearted mindset, that will increase your financial healing in speed.

There's nothing more fulfilling than giving abundantly. Try it! I know you're like "ugh" listening to it, some of you. I can feel the ... coming back in the energy, but this is gonna raise your manifestation level, getting up and giving.

Send me an email back. Comment below. What comes up for you around this topic in particular?

Make sure you subscribe on YouTube so that you get these love letters first every week, and I'll see you next week for our fourth and final installment of financial healing.

Ready for it? Mwah! See you then. Bye!

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Get out and GIVE to someone or something that inspires you, joyfully.

When you give abundantly - of your time, attention, positivity - you raise your Abundance Mindset and deepen your financial healing.

Notice how you feel at that moment - you're already healing!

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Are you known as "the giver" and backbone of your family or team?

Love sharing your art and work so much that you give it away for free more often than not?

Though you love the feeling of giving, are you secretly worried that you're being drained by what you love?

Giving always feels good to the giver because we feel abundant and connected to others when we do.

But what happens when no one gives to us or tries to connect with us, too -- what happens when we are surrounded by people who just smile, take and keep on taking?

Watch this week's 8-minute Love Letter to find out why you're surrounded by "sucklers" and what to do about it!

"When is someone going to fight for me?"

This week, I keep hearing this wonderful phrase that Lisa Marie Rosati from the Goddess Lifestyle Plan and Sugar Free Goddess coming through for you:

"No more sucklers!"

The guides really want to talk to you about this. 

Giving credit for the phrase where credit is due, I am happy to share this idea of "sucklers" with everyone, because I admire Lisa's work so much.

Women creative entrepreneurs are who I work with, and this comes up a lot.

We end up really giving away a lot of our energy because we are abundant, creative, flowing creatures.

That's who we are, whether or not you are a woman. It's for those of us who are highly creative people.

We care, and we love to create. We love to feel abundant and that sense of giving really gives to us.

It also gives us the sense of responsibility and being needed and connected, giving to others as a form of expressing our love and sharing that abundance.

And I love countering that with the unsettling image of "sucklers" sucking on us.

That's the uncomfortable truth that we live with every day.

This is different from energy vampires, too. Sucklers come upon us in a more sneaky way.

Sucklers are a bit more insidious, because it's those in our community and in our tribe who we want to uplift and see it further who, rather than taking our encouragement and running with it to go on their own journey, they are like, "Oh great," and they keep suckling on our energy.

Also, there is an ageist aspect to that phrase: you're overstaying your welcome, sucklers, because it's your time to get out there.

Source really wants you to know that there may be some people in your life right now, who rather than taking their own initiative are hanging on to you and weighing you down.

I don't know who I'm talking to or who I'm talking about in particular, but let's just explore this.

Rather than taking their own initiative and stepping up to the plate, they've learned from YOUR pattern of behavior reinforcing them staying in a receiving state from you.

Don't misunderstand the message here: Source is saying this AND honoring the fact that you are giving a lot.

You're an amazing nurturing being.

However, the question that you must ask yourself when you are feeling drained is, "what is the pattern IN ME that's creating this situation?"

Know this: YOU train people to be energy #vampires by having no self #respect or #selfcare. #loveyourself @SenseiWhitfield

Ouch...

Why would we be asking this question in the first place?

If you feel that a lot of people are taking, taking, taking from you, but you don't feel like anyone gives to you.

Now, we don't mean this in a selfish way, like we're keeping score, murmuring "Grr, when am I going to get mine?"

No, that's not what we're saying.

Instead, just consider: are you the only giver in town?

Or better yet, could giving and being The Giver or The Nurturer be a way that you control every one around you?

If that is so, it's counterproductive for you to be mad at people for continuing the paradigm that you've set up of control through receiving from you.

Also, this is for those of us that are secretly feeling, "Ugh! I advocate for everyone, lift up everyone so much. When is someone going to fight for me? When is someone going to advocate for me?"

That might be coming up because we're exhibiting a behavioral pattern that reinforces having sucklers around.

People are not taking initiative, because we're not giving them the space to take it.

Here are the oracle cards now. This is a bit of a tough love week. This topic kind of sucks. LOL!

It's important on the path of natural intuitive development to see how our energy drains, though.

That's one of the many forms of assessment that we do here at the dojo.

The Indigo Angel Oracle Cards deck, by Doreen Virtue is the deck of the week. 

So let's see what's coming up around this energy drain issue for those people who it started off beautifully, and really meant well to be nurturing and giving, but are now starting to feel drained and resentful.

Suddenly, we've become "mama" to grown men, grown women, and not in a good way, in a draining way.

Wow, look at the image, how the breasts of the angel are exposed to show giving, nurturing, mother energy!

 

 

This week's #oracle card is "You Are Special" -- the #Angels want you to know this week that you are worthy of #love, #support and recognition. Your #joy and #health are just as important as others'; especially if you go out of your way to make everyone else feel special, this week you need to remember that you are special, too. Full reading on #YouTube: https://youtu.be/mjXVG-1uCfM ????????✨????????✨ #reiki #meditation #healing

 

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You are special.

The reason why the angels are sending this card forward is this is showing what's the problematic pattern and behavior that you're exhibiting. 

You don't see yourself as special. Everyone else is special in your eyes.

That's so loving. That's beautiful. Humble.

However, it ends up leaving your needs, your boundaries, your standards, your values in the dust, because we place others above ourselves, because we assign everyone on the outside responsibility for making us feel happy.

What does that mean?

That means we're not happy and comfortable unless our entire environment is happy and comfortable. Right?

But making everyone happy doesn't make you special.

It just makes you really busy.

To change the pattern of behavior, for this week in particular, is to say to yourself, "How can I see myself as just as special as everyone else that I am pouring love into this week?"

Are you special?

What's a list of things that make you special?

Comment below, send me an email back. Tell me. I want to hear it.

I'm excited to see you celebrate yourself and begin to shift that pattern of behavior!

That's this week's message. By all means, please go to victoriawhitfield.com/freegift and make sure that you subscribe so that you're getting your weekly Love Letters if you haven’t already.

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Sending you so much love 🙂

See you next time. Bye!

In Love and Light,

Victoria.

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If you find yourself feeling drained by a person or situation, pause for a second. Ask yourself: "what is the pattern IN ME that is creating this situation?"

Allow any images, ideas, memories and guidance to come up for you in response to that question, and don't judge what you hear.

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