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Love Letters | Use Your Other Eyes – Part 4 of 4

Sensei Victoria Whitfield — Mon, 24 Feb 2020 12:00:00 +0000

Are you stuck at an indecision impasse?

Can’t see the way forward out of a certain persistent issue in your business?

Struggling to stay positive while seeing little to no results no matter how hard you try?

Believe it or not, you’re actually stuck because you’ve been only using your own two eyes to look at the situation.

It’s time you learned to use your other eyes!

Watch this week’s 9-minute Love Letter video, the final installment in our 4-week series on Awakening Your Shaman Within in Business, to open your mind to receive your “other” eyes’ insight!

"I can't seem to make progress on that project."

This week, without further ado, the guides want you to know, it's time for you to use your other eyes. Use your other eyes. Did you know that you have more than just one set of eyes to look at your situation with?

At your life, at your business and the issues that come up on a day-to-day basis? Did you know you have more than just two eyes?

I don't mean like you're a potato. In the shamanic journey meditation practice there's a technique in particular called The Mind Meld where we merge our mindset with that of our power animal or our spirit guide.

In doing that we literally see and feel our experience and our lives through a totally different perspective. For example, one of my power animals is a white falcon, and when I merge with her I'm able to see things from a much more expanded perspective because she can fly and I feel weightless. With that, that's what we're talking about using your other eyes.

Now, this is a shamanic philosophy and concept like for you this week in particular to apply, using your other eyes, to your business, to your work.

If you don't have a business just yet, maybe you're in a startup, maybe you're moonlighting, etc., just watching this for the love. Mwah! Happy to give it to you, of course. We want you to use your other eyes.

Maybe there's a problem or a situation that's been coming up and really confounding you, frustrating you, you're feeling stuck, right? Not really able to get a headway on this one project in particular, or what to do about your client and customers, or for decisions in general.

And I'm specifically saying in your work like, and of course everything we talk about you can apply naturally to your personal life. But we want to focus on raising the vibration of your experience at work applying shamanic philosophy.

If you were to use your other eyes, how would you see the situation? If you were your dog, for example. Would your dog be really this stressed out about the thing that's been on your mind and crazy? Or how would the tree watching you through the window of your office perceive this if the tree had eyes? So that's the nature-based way of approaching it.

But also, if you don't have as creative an imagination, or as in tune of an intuition, you can borrow other people's eyes. Yes, yes? Especially that's a really great practice for writing, for emails, applications, proposals and presentations, etc. having a personal policy that nothing goes out unless another two sets of eyes look at this and really see what's going on in the situation so that you have backup.

How will you, this week in particular, implement what the guides are suggesting from shamanic philosophy using your other eyes? How are you going to implement that in your business, or in your workplace?

Know this: You always have more than two eyes to see you through any obstacle.

I'm curious to hear that. I'm hearing the oracle guides. Oracle cards. There's guidance everywhere. Whoops! That was last week's topic. Yeah. Oracle cards this week. Earth magic. Let me come in closer so that you can see. Yes, yes? Don't you just love how I'm using dimension? So good! Switching it up.

Earth Magic by Steven D. Farmer. One of the 20+ decks that we have here at the dojo. I would have to say around 90% of the decks that I have are by donation, and I'm always open to receiving more.

Thank you for those of you who sent them in. Okay, guides, what do we need to know in particular this week about using our other eyes? Wind: Activation. Check it out, this is a gorgeous card. Wind: Activation.

What I'm hearing from my guides in particular with this card around using our other eyes is two bring fresh energy and movement to a situation that you thought, or feel even right now, is absolutely immovable or completely stagnant. Wind is movement and activation.

Also, as a side note: If you've been feeling depressed lately, or something has got you feeling grief stricken or low vibration, get out. Go outside and let the wind hit you. Wind is very clearing and it helps emotional clearing as well.

That's just a side note for a health and wellness tip for those of you who needed that. At work in particular the reason why you need to use your other eyes is so that you can activate and bring fresh energy and movement to a project, a problem, and issue, a situation that you feel completely stuck on. It's time to use your other eyes.

Whether you're doing it in a meditative state, right? For those of you who want to use spiritual practice, or if you're using it in a relational state, and bringing in physical people here in this physical plane to help you see the way forward. I'd love for you to comment below or send me an email back at info@victoriawhitfield.com.

Let me know what comes up for you around using your other eyes. I'm curious to hear how did you do it? What happened? What came up for you this week in particular?

And make sure that you subscribe on YouTube or on victoriawhitfield.com. There you'll get a free gift of not one, but two deep guided meditations from moi, mwah, for you. Go ahead, make sure that you subscribe so that you get your love letters first every single week, that you don't miss any single one of them. I look forward to seeing you again next week for our new series, but I can't tell you what it is yet. Just focus on using your other eyes this week in particular. Mwah, I'll see you then. Bye-bye.

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Use your other eyes to get greater perspective and support.

Raise your standards at work and implement always having 2 extra sets of eyes review your work, so you always have backup.

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Love Letters | There’s Wisdom in Everything – Part 3 of 4

Sensei Victoria Whitfield — Mon, 17 Feb 2020 12:00:00 +0000

Do you find pennies on the ground or have vivid dreams when you ask for a sign that you’re on the right path?

Or perhaps you see certain repeating numbers or kinds of animals right when you need assurance at work?

Wondering what’s the meaning behind the “coincidences” you’re experiencing?

There’s no such thing as coincidence.

Source works with Nature here on Earth to constantly communicate with you.

Watch this week’s 9-minute Love Letter video, the third of a 4-week series to Awaken your Shaman Within, to explore the shamanic perspective that all of life has wisdom!

"I keep seeing that animal everywhere."

We are on week three of our four-week journey, learning about awakening our inner shaman in business. And if you have not seen the past few videos, go ahead and hit pause and go back so that you can be all caught up.

But this week, week three in particular, the guides want you to know, and begin embracing and practicing, this concept of wisdom in everything. There is wisdom in everything. There is wisdom in everything. This week in particular, they're bringing that out.

Now, in the shamanic journey, meditation practice, there is the assumption and the philosophy that everything that you encounter during your meditative journey is conscious, and is there for you, for a reason. If you were to interact with it, such as asking the acorn, or asking the stone, or asking the mountain a question, it will respond to you, right, because there's wisdom in there.

This is part of the shamanic mindset, where we are open and receptive to interacting with our environment and our world, our universe, with love and respect, because we are all part of nature.

At the same time, this is the shamanic mindset, you can think of it as, this is my spirituality, or this is just my religion. It's not a religion. It's a set of beliefs. Or this is just something that's interesting, that I do in a meditative state.

However, this week in particular, we're going to take that shamanic philosophy, that visionary assumption of there is wisdom in everything, and apply it to your professional life. What the guides are telling me to relay to you, this week in particular, is be on the lookout for a bird or a deer that you may see driving to and from work. What animals do you encounter? The certain color of things. Stones, people.

Everything ... And this is a writer-downer.

Everything is happening for you, not to you.

‪Know this: Everything is happening FOR you, not to you. #mindsetiseverything @SenseiWhitfield

When we assume that everything is happening for me, or has wisdom for me, our receptivity to manifestations and abundance increases exponentially. And then secondly, our wisdom, our ability to expand our mindset, accelerates in its expansion, because it's not just a dependence on our own.

We're not just having a dependence on our own point of view, and our own experience. But instead, we are open, and constantly in search of the wisdom that is all around us.

Someone coming up to you and saying something that you may feel uncomfortable with at work, for example, is happening for you, this week in particular.

There is a bit of wisdom in there. There is a learning, a growth opportunity. There is something good. There is always a positive aspect. This is where we're going to leave off for the week.

One of my most famous videos, by the way, over the years, and the saying that I say all the time, we explained way back, a couple years ago, there's no such thing as coincidence. There's no such thing as coincidence. I highly recommend that video if you want even more on this topic. But in this week in particular, adopt the shamanic mindset of there is wisdom in everything.

I'm hearing miracle cards calling in the energy. Let me come a little bit closer, so we can get in on this together, a little bit more intimately. Again, Stephen D. Farmer's Earth Magic oracle cards. This is a shamanic deck that we've been journeying with all month.

And if you want to donate cards, I'm happy to receive them always. On my About Me page, now, there is donation and support information there, so go ahead and click on that. Thank you, team, for making that available to everyone.

Guides, what do we need to know this week, in particular about wisdom in everything? All right, full moon, completion. Full moon, completion.

What I'm hearing, and here's where we'll leave off in the teaching for this week, is that in the lunar manifesting, the full moon is where we have reached the apex of energy, and we are receiving what we have asked for in the new moon.

So, 13, 14 days before is usually when the new moon happens, and when you're doing new moon manifesting, lunar cycle manifesting, you ask during the new moon, and you receive what you asked for on the new moon during the full moon. And then afterward, release. You release ll of that energy.

Completion is, this week in particular, you have been asking for guidance. And it's going to come to you through your environment. Through the things, the people, the places, the animals, the plants, the experiences that you are having.

It's not going to be "bam!" Hitting you right over the head. It's soft. Instead, you want to be on the lookout for what wisdom is being sent to you.

I highly recommend, just as a resource, google any animal or plant that you encounter that kind of comes across your path. Not just anything that you see, but one that really interrupts your path, or stands out to you.

Google, insert the name of the animal, for example, let's say chipmunk. Insert the type of animal, and then put "spirit animal" or "spiritual meaning" into Google, and you can get wonderful readings on that.

This week in particular, the guides are sending this card in particular to say, your request is complete and ready for you to receive. There are signs in your environment for you to notice that, but you've got to be open to receiving them, noticing them, and of course, taking action on them.

So, go ahead, comment below. Type it in in YouTube, or if you're on the blog at VictoriaWhitfield.com, and NaturalIntuition.com. What comes up for you?

What's been crossing your path? What wisdom have you received from your experiences, and from nature around you?

Lastly, make sure that you subscribe on YouTube, so that you get these love letters first every week, and we will see you next week for the fourth and final installment of awakening your shaman within. Are you ready for it? It'll see you then. Bye-bye.

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Be on the lookout for what Source is trying to tell you through Nature and your environment.

Look up on google the spiritual meaning of animals you encounter or repeating numbers and ask yourself “how can this be happening FOR me right now?”

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Love Letters | Let’s Have A Reunion Party

Sensei Victoria Whitfield — Mon, 29 Oct 2018 05:00:29 +0000

This is a special announcement Love Letter. Yay!

I'M INTERESTED! NOTIFY ME 🙂

So I wanted to let you know that I am so, so thankful for all your years of support. Being in this line of work has really changed my life and changed the lives of hundreds of entrepreneurs around the world. Tribe, I want to thank you, thank you, thank you for all your support over the years and because of that, my work has grown. This is my special announcement, if you didn't get it in the mail: oh my goodness, we're moving!

I wanted to take this week in particular to inspire you, as well as inform you, around the shifts that are happening here at the dojo. Here's what's going to happen. My work has grown so much that my guides have asked me to focus more on serving you and your teams in particular. We have manifested a gorgeous space that you'll be seeing more of come this December onward. My guides have shown me it's time for us to gather more as a tribe in person, and heal together as a group.

For the last three years in particular, the dojo space where I have been presenting to you from, as well as seeing you if you've been coming for sessions and for meditation classes, is really set up for more one-on-one work. When we throw a party there, we're practically sitting on each other's laps. There's nothing wrong with that, however, gathering together in general is where the juice is at. Right? I'm sure you'd agree with me, for those of you who know what I'm talking about -- when we get to see each other as a group in person, this is so powerful.

For those of you who are members of my Visionary Shaman Circle, of my Abundant Business Circle and who come to group guided meditations, you already know, or for those who attend our solstice parties at the dojo, you know it is so enriching to get to see your tribe in person. Because of that, the location that we've manifested is capable of holding 10 times the amount of visitors. Before I could only maybe have like six to 10 people, maybe 12 in the room if we're sitting on each other's laps. Where we're going has between 60 to 100 people in on-site capacity. It's gorgeous, it's a historic home, maybe about seven minutes away from where we are currently. And I would really love to get to share that with you.

So, we're not just throwing a winter solstice party this year. It's a brand new dojo, and I desire for us to have a reunion, and YOU are invited! Want to come? CLICK HERE if you want to be notified as soon as possible for when and where we're going to be throwing our very first Winter Solstice Tribe Reunion Party.

This week in particular, I’m being guided to tell you to ask YOUR guides. Normally, I'm telling you what my spirit guides are telling me. Absolutely. I've been journeying on this for quite some time. But this reunion is actually a personal desire of my own: I desire a reunion. Ask your own spirit guides, ask your own higher self. What would it look like for me to throw a reunion party for all of my beloved peeps? If it's for your clients, if it's a reunion for your family, if it's a reunion for your friends, try it, and for no particular reason other than a reunion.

Because here's the thing: together is better. You have to ask if you want to receive. I know for me personally, I find that the more I think about it, the more I desire to be in the presence of the people that I love. Right? I've made that decision in my own living situation. I will never live alone. I will always live with someone who loves me and who I love dearly. However that works out, whatever it takes. Because I have lived alone before, and I discovered that I personally don't like the way that that feels.

I've also changed my business lifestyle as well with that same value: I will always work with someone who loves me and who I love dearly, too. I will never work alone. That has changed the level of abundance that I get to experience and enjoy in my life as well as in my business. What matters most is how I feel, and I live that with passion!

With that, let's call it in. I know I'm calling YOU in to come to our Winter Solstice Tribe Reunion Party this December, so make sure you click here to say, "I'm interested. I'm there!” Click here if that speaks to you.
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And, this week in particular, I would challenge you to ask your spirit guides, what kind of reunion party should I throw? This doesn't mean that you have to cook, by the way. I never cook at my parties. All of them are potluck style! Baby, bring it, bring it. Whatever you bring. That's awesome. And also, this doesn't mean that you have to chase people down and charge. When I throw a party I never charge, this is just to see you come, hug and spend quality time together.

Now, if you want to contribute, or leave a donation to cover the cups, plates and the space and party supplies, of course I'm grateful and always open to receive support if it brings you pleasure to give. Or for myself I know that when I'm going to a party the hostess is saying, "Hey, could you help us spot five, 10, 30, 50, however for the space, et cetera, et cetera?" I'm happy to oblige, because I have an abundant mindset and I get to be in the party with people I love. Let it be easy.

Ok! I'm hearing my own, personal, Oracle cards deck calling in the energy. This is the very first deck that I ever got for myself, it's the Goddess Guidance Oracle Cards deck by Doreen Virtue. This is the actual deck that is only mine and I'm at my home office right now; this deck changed my life when I bought it and I encourage you to get this one (BUY ON AMAZON).

For this week in particular, goddesses, what do we need to know right now about throwing a reunion party, up-leveling our quality of life, and welcoming in more of the tribe? ...Hey, I love it. This is a bit counterintuitive. And I love that. The goddess card that’s coming to us is “Bast: Independent. Your independence is a foundation for your strength and success.”What I'm hearing right now, coming from my guides about throwing a reunion party and welcoming people back into your space, and with me inviting you to come see the new dojo, is let's celebrate, let's have some fun together.

Bast, the Goddess Bast is coming forward about independence. Now, I know you. You are a “strong, independent, insert word here.” Strong independent woman, strong independent man, strong independent girl, strong independent boy. Strong independent business owner. Strong independent entrepreneur. Strong independent artist. Strong independent musician. Strong independent mother. Strong independent father. So on and so forth.

Be kind to yourself. Your independence is a foundation for your strength and success. AND there is more to a house than just the foundation. I do believe it's powerful to be strong and independent. Right there with you! I'm an achiever. Achievers unite, haha! And, that's our foundation. What fills in the rest of the house is the power of positive community. Your ability to be resourced and resourceful. Call it in, ask for what you desire.

If you've been feeling lonely at work, ask for people to come by and visit. If you've been feeling like you're not hanging out with, or seeing enough of your friends and family, ask for them to come by. Don't wait for somebody else to ask you. I just felt a chill in the energy like someone who's watching this right now, maybe it's you, or maybe it's whoever you're going to share this with, because you got to make sure that this word gets out to our tribe. Someone who's watching this right now, could be you, has been waiting to be invited and has been angry or frustrated that they haven't been asked to come out, or everybody else is going out, or everybody else is having parties and things to celebrate, blah, blah, blah. Instead, take a deep breath, and accept that – if only just for today – it’s officially on you this time to make it happen.

It's official: Happy Everything Week! Okay? Got it? Declare happy everything. Join me in this.

And by the way, click here and make sure that you join us, so that you get on that notifications list to be there for our winter solstice party. Our reunion this time will be at the new space, and let's enjoy being together. We can be independent, absolutely, and be powerful in that independence. And then let's enjoy our lives together. Two strong independent people come together, and they become interdependent, and create this amazing life full of love, fulfillment and togetherness. Doing it alone is great, but together is better.

Comment below, send me an email back at info@victoriawhitfield.com, that comes straight to me, or you can email my team at team@victoriawhitfield.com. Let me know what comes up for you around this. Make sure that you subscribe on YouTube so that you get these Love Letters first every week, and I will see you next week with our next series. Bye for now!

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Declare that it's "Happy Everything Week" and call in people you miss seeing.

Take a deep breath, center yourself, and ask someone you miss to come visit you or to meet up to reconnect in person.

Notice how you feel in that moment - you're already healing!

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Love Letters | It’s Not About You

Sensei Victoria Whitfield — Mon, 21 Aug 2017 12:00:16 +0000

Do you think that you're not good enough?

Thought that you'd be further ahead in life than you are right now?

Going through a difficult time of arguments and disagreements?

When the going gets tough, our knee-jerk reaction can often be to think "why me?" or "what's wrong with me?"

Believe it or not, no matter how ugly it gets, Source says you need to remember that it's not about "me", instead it's about "we".

Watch this week's 9-minute Love Letter video to find the courage to be compassionate!

"What is wrong with me?"

This week, you must know that it is not about you.

It's not about you. It never has been, it never will be, so from this point forward in time, you have got to stop taking it so seriously.

They told me, be more specific. You have got to stop taking him so seriously. You've got to stop taking her and what she does in her life and in her business, so personally, because it's not about you. It never has been, and it never will be.

Now perhaps someone has really been getting under your skin lately, or they've been throwing their anger your way, or getting very emotional, and clogging up your joy with all of their crusty crap.

Perhaps they talk stuff about you, or hating. (I don't really believe in hating.) But perhaps you feel like you may be getting hated on, or people writing smear stuff about you.

There's this insidious, internal, pre-programmed response that we have, unfortunately, to these interactions of:

"What did I do to deserve this?"
"What's wrong with me, that I can't get ahead, like so-and-so?"
"What's wrong with me, that I am not married, yet?"
"What's wrong with me, that I can't have kids?"
"What's wrong with me, that I'm not financially stable?"

Our ego turns us in on ourselves, because she's actually trying to protect you from stepping out when you're feeling vulnerable.

The reason why she brings you inward, blaming inward, "What's wrong with me? There's something wrong with me," taking everything outside of us, personally or very seriously, turning it inward, is a way, a shadow way, a dark way of centering you. Let me explain.

It's never been about you. Someone says, "You're doing this and the other thing, and I can't believe that this ..." They're throwing all that drama around and on you. That's actually them and their stuff.

If someone comments on your posts, and craps all over your sunshine parade, that is their problem. It's nothing that you did.

Maybe you did drop the ball. I just heard in the energy, perhaps you might have said something offensive, etc., but everyone chooses how to react, and how to respond to life.

That's their choice. It's on them. You don't have to take responsibility for how they feel.

You do need to own up to who you are and how you show up in this world, absolutely. Clean it up, if you made a mess. That's your mess, but you made that.

Whereas, if someone else makes a mess and starts blabbing about it or spewing all over you about it, that's their stuff.

I really don't know why the guides are having me say this in particular, this week. I know that I'm talking to someone, so I'm going to keep going with it, but this week, it's not about you.

Your business, by the way, if you're an entrepreneur, and you're thinking to yourself:

"Why aren't I doing any better?"
"Maybe I need to implement more, work harder."
"Why don't people like me?"
"Why isn't so-and-so buying in?"

It's not about you. Come out of the ego cave and cage.

The shadow side of centering is reinforcing an identity, so that you can feel and create a sense of stability in your personal ... no, put it that way. The ego she'll bring you in, and be like, something that I did.

Whereas, this is about me, or what's wrong with me? Come out of that cave. There's more outside.

Instead, to flip that, where we're feeling not good enough, it's time to give more. There's so much more love, so much more value, so much more creativity and insight that you're capable of giving. It's about serving.

Tony Robins, I love his quote. "The secret to living is giving absolutely." That's the way to come out of an ego cave.

Know this: If you're not feeling "good enough," then give more to those less fortunate. Focus on WE, not me.

The guides are telling me to pull an Oracle card now. The deck that came forward in this week, is the crystal Oracle cards, in particular, to really weigh in on the topic of this situation.

It's really not about you. It's not about me. It's we. This week, in particular.

Someone just said, pull this card. Amber.

Look at how gorgeous. I love this deck, because it's all pictures. Juicy, juicy amber shot. They're telling me to read.

The words that they've associated with Amber are transparency, calm, purification, and creativity. Here's the reading: "An issue that is causing tension and friction in your life will soon erupt and come to a head."

I'm starting to get the chills. "You are being urged to stay calm during this emotionally-charged event. Express how you feel, but don't be drawn into saying things that you don't mean. This event is, in fact, a blessing. One that is perhaps well overdue."

You can't make this stuff up, people. This is amazing.

"Through it, you will realize where you stand, and how others truly feel. As the air clears, you will uncover a hidden agenda and find creative ways of handling this type of situation in the future. Stay calm, and don't allow yourself to be dragged further into chaos by others. You will emerge from this situation, feeling purified of all the negative emotions and thoughts that have weighted you down recently. Trust and remember it. This event is a blessing."

Here's where we're going to leave off.

Whatever disagreement, argument, or provocative conversation you are about to have this week, remember, it's not about me. This is about we.

Look for the lesson. There's always a dark gift, especially in difficult situations. They always teach us.

Keep your eyes open for the gift. Stay focused on the we. Don't be pulled into that ego cave.

Send me an email back. Comment below. Let me know what's coming up for you around this.

Subscribe on youtube, so that you get your love letters first, and make sure you share this with someone who may be going through something right now, and could really use some positive encouragement.

Sending you so much love. I'll see you next week. Bye.

In Love and Light,

Victoria.

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Love Letters | You Don’t Owe Anybody Anything

Sensei Victoria Whitfield — Mon, 03 Jul 2017 12:00:54 +0000

Is helping others hurting you?

Worried that if you say "no" to others' requests that people won't like you?

Struggling to keep up with your overcommitted schedule, because you "have to" do it all?

As natural givers, we love to help others and jump at opportunities to serve.

But what happens when we actually don't know how to say "no" with ease and grace?

Watch this weeks 8-minute love letter video to start standing in the truth that you don't know anybody anything.

"I have to do this."

This week's source wants you to know you don't owe anybody anything.

You do not owe any one any thing. You are free.

"Why would this be coming up, Victoria? What? Guides, what are you trying to say?"

In the energy I'm hearing to tell you that this week, in particular, you are going to feel pulled or obligated to reciprocate, to agree, and to commit to someone or something out of a sense of an impulse, or like a, "I have to. I have to."

All right. Maybe you've been going through this recently, where you've been pulled by your have-tos, pulled by your obligations. Pulled apart, not just pulled towards. Right?

Compulsion, and trying to keep up with everything, but you're being pulled apart at the seams where you're over-committed. Right? Or overbooked, or overwhelmed, overextended, et cetera.

What's underneath all of that, the Guides want you to know, is that you don't owe any one anything, but for now, you believe that you do.

So if someone has paid you a compliment or supported your business, or loved you in the past, or asked you a question, there's this compulsion within you, and I'm talking to you. I'm talking to you directly. Just you, to say, "Yes," or "Oh, I want to support you," or "Oh, I'm here for you no matter what. No matter how crazy they get. No matter how difficult things are."

No matter what's going on with you, right? There's the sense of I have to help other people. Right?

Because that's my purpose. That's all that I am is helping other people, but guess what? If all that you are is helping other people respectfully, who are you without other people?

Know this: If all you are is helping other people, then who are you without other people's problems? @SenseiWhitfield

That's a big question and I'm asking that with big love for you. I'm not saying that there's anything wrong with you, but there's a pattern of give, give, give, giving, and what happened to receiving? What happened to it? Is it uncomfortable, right, for you to receive?

Do you feel like you owe it to them? If the guy says, "Oh, you look really good today." Do you have to pay attention to him as he tells you the rest of his life story? If he offers you a drink, do you have to drink it?

Even if it's not in like that kind of dating situation. If you're at the party, right, maybe it's someone's birthday or a holiday, or something is going on right now as you're watching. Do you have to drink that alcohol? Do you owe it to them? To look like you're having a good time, right, but drinking.

Underneath, especially, our addictive parts of our personality, there's a sense of, "I owe it. I owe it to them."

Now this is not all addictive personality, but quite a few. If this has to do with some sort of a social situation, there is a sense of, "I have to fit in. I have to. I have to. I must," and that, is not the case. You always, always, always have a choice.

The phrase that you say to release yourself from this is, "Thank you and I choose not to."

Like if someone asks, "Hey, can you come move the furniture, and my kids, and my foot, and my house?" "Thank you. Thanks for thinking of me. I choose not to," or "Thank you. No. No, I can't." It stops there.

Don't give excuses. You don't owe anybody any excuse. You don't owe anybody any explanations. No is sufficient, because it's a choice.

There's a difference between, okay, reciprocity, and being tied energetically and karmically into transactional relationships. There's a difference between that and choosing when and where you desire to participate.

You desire to contribute consciously, and this is where I'm hearing the oracle cards coming through in the energy.

This week is Archangel Michael Oracle Cards Deck. Brand new, are now 19 decks and counting, here at the dojo.

If you ever want to donate, send it on over. You can send me an email at senseivictoriawhitfield@gmail.com to find out exactly how you can donate your decks or just bring them in the next time you come and visit.

Okay, so Archangel Michael, what do we need to know right now?

I'm already hearing things in the energy. He's very, very, very vocal. Archangel Michael, what do we need to know right now about not owing anybody? What do we need to know?

You are on the right path.

You're on the right path, and each card in this deck comes with a prayer, so it says, and let's all close our eyes for a moment.

"Archangel Michael, I call upon you now. Thank you for giving me loud and clear guidance that I easily understand. Thank you for motivating me and filling me with the courage and confidence to make healthful life changes."

This is where we'll leave off.

It takes courage and confidence to be conscious. You can decide to participate or not. You're free to come and go as you please. Know that you're on the right path, and know you're alignment.

Know your healing journey, so that when someone comes in and invites you to participate in their stream, right, in their journey, you can tell the difference between yours and theirs.

If you need help seeing the difference, send me an email back, or a comment below. I'm happy to help you to get more clarity on that, or if we need to go for a deeper dive in a private session.

Know that you're on your right path. Find your inner alignment, and remember, you don't owe anybody any thing, so I'm sending you so much love.

Make sure you subscribe on YouTube so that you get these Love Letters every week first, and ready, muah! See you next week.

In Love and Light,

Victoria.

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Remember that you don't have to explain yourself — "no" is sufficient.

The next time you decide to decline, try leaving the excuses, apologies and explanations out.

Notice how you feel at that moment - you're already healing!

Want spiritual support on your healing journey but don't know where to start? Tell me!

Click the grey button below to book your complimentary 30-minute Share Your Story Call to start your healing journey, today!

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Love Letters | You Don’t Owe Anybody Anything

Sensei Victoria Whitfield — Mon, 02 Jan 2017 12:00:22 +0000

Is helping others hurting you?

Worried that if you say "no" to others' requests that people won't like you?

Struggling to keep up with your overcommitted schedule, because you "have to" do it all?

As natural givers, we love to help others and jump at opportunities to serve.

But what happens when we actually don't know how to say "no" with ease and grace?

Watch this weeks 8-minute love letter video to start standing in the truth that you don't know anybody anything.

"I have to do this."

This week's source wants you to know you don't owe anybody anything.

You do not owe any one any thing. You are free.

"Why would this be coming up, Victoria? What? Guides, what are you trying to say?"

All right. Maybe you've been going through this recently, where you've been pulled by your have-tos, pulled by your obligations. Pulled apart, not just pulled towards. Right?

Compulsion, and trying to keep up with everything, but you're being pulled apart at the seams where you're over-committed. Right? Or overbooked, or overwhelmed, overextended, et cetera.

What's underneath all of that, the Guides want you to know, is that you don't owe any one anything, but for now, you believe that you do.

No matter what's going on with you, right? There's the sense of I have to help other people. Right?

Because that's my purpose. That's all that I am is helping other people, but guess what? If all that you are is helping other people respectfully, who are you without other people?

Know this: If all you are is helping other people, then who are you without other people's problems? #bk2ys @SenseiWhitfield

Underneath, especially, our addictive parts of our personality, there's a sense of, "I owe it. I owe it to them."

The phrase that you say to release yourself from this is, "Thank you and I choose not to."

Don't give excuses. You don't owe anybody any excuse. You don't owe anybody any explanations. No is sufficient, because it's a choice.

You desire to contribute consciously, and this is where I'm hearing the oracle cards coming through in the energy.

This week is Archangel Michael Oracle Cards Deck. Brand new, are now 19 decks and counting, here at the dojo.

Okay, so Archangel Michael, what do we need to know right now?

I'm already hearing things in the energy. He's very, very, very vocal. Archangel Michael, what do we need to know right now about not owing anybody? What do we need to know?

You are on the right path.

You're on the right path, and each card in this deck comes with a prayer, so it says, and let's all close our eyes for a moment.

This is where we'll leave off.

It takes courage and confidence to be conscious. You can decide to participate or not. You're free to come and go as you please. Know that you're on the right path, and know you're alignment.

Know your healing journey, so that when someone comes in and invites you to participate in their stream, right, in their journey, you can tell the difference between yours and theirs.

If you need help seeing the difference, send me an email back, or a comment below. I'm happy to help you to get more clarity on that, or if we need to go for a deeper dive in a private session.

Know that you're on your right path. Find your inner alignment, and remember, you don't owe anybody any thing, so I'm sending you so much love.

Make sure you subscribe on YouTube so that you get these Love Letters every week first, and ready, muah! See you next week.

In Love and Light,

Victoria.

VictoriaWhitfield.com
Facebook.com/SenseiVictoriaWhitfield

Just for Today...

Remember that you don't have to explain yourself — "no" is sufficient.

The next time you decide to decline, try leaving the excuses, apologies and explanations out.

Notice how you feel at that moment - you're already healing!

Want spiritual support on your healing journey but don't know where to start? Tell me!

Click the grey button below to book your complimentary 30-minute Share Your Story Call to start your healing journey, today!

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Love Letters | It’s Not About You

Sensei Victoria Whitfield — Mon, 10 Oct 2016 12:00:56 +0000

Do you think that you're not good enough?

Thought that you'd be further ahead in life than you are right now?

Going through a difficult time of arguments and disagreements?

When the going gets tough, our knee-jerk reaction can often be to think "why me?" or "what's wrong with me?"

Believe it or not, no matter how ugly it gets, Source says you need to remember that it's not about "me", instead it's about "we".

Watch this week's 9-minute Love Letter video to find the courage to be compassionate!

"What is wrong with me?"

This week, you must know that it is not about you.

It's not about you. It never has been, it never will be, so from this point forward in time, you have got to stop taking it so seriously.

Perhaps they talk stuff about you, or hating. (I don't really believe in hating.) But perhaps you feel like you may be getting hated on, or people writing smear stuff about you.

There's this insidious, internal, pre-programmed response that we have, unfortunately, to these interactions of:

- "What did I do to deserve this?"

- "What's wrong with me, that I can't get ahead, like so-and-so?"

- "What's wrong with me, that I am not married, yet?"

- "What's wrong with me, that I can't have kids?"

"What's wrong with me, that I'm not financially stable?"