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Love Letters | Stop Performing

Sensei Victoria Whitfield — Mon, 12 Jun 2017 12:00:08 +0000

Tired of keeping up with the Joneses?

Wish you could just be yourself with people, but are too scared of what they'll think?

Hiding your pain and exhaustion behind your smile more than you'd like to admit?

Popular culture and educational systems teach us that it's our level of performance that determines our worth.

Unfortunately, living a life of high-performance doesn't lead to self-acceptance and fulfillment; instead, quite the opposite happens.

Watch this week's 10-minute Love Letter video to explore why we overperform so much, and how you can start to break free from this vicious cycle!

"I am so drained. I feel like everything is falling apart."

This week, Source has got two words for you.

Stop performing. Stop it. This is not a performance. You're not putting on a show. Your life is meant to be lived authentically, okay?

Let's get into this. When we are performing, we feel like we're pushing to get others' approval, or pushing to be productive, or pushing to get recognition, or pushing to be accepted, or we're trying to be good, or we're trying to be healthy, or we're trying to make everyone feel comfortable. There's this sense of artifice, and energy that's expounded, and really shoved out of us, this performance. It's go time.

Performance is really meant for spurts. It's not meant to be a lifestyle.

I'm telling you, who's watching right now, you've created a lifestyle of performing:

You perform for your kids, as mother.
You perform for your clients.
You perform for your boss, as star employee.
You perform for your parents as the perfect son.
You perform for your community as the perfect person, or the best, the go-to guy.
As grandma, you're just always there, filling this role that either you've created for yourself, that you have to live up to, or it's been placed upon you.

Oh, you're really good at this. Let's put you on this pedestal, so that you have to always operate at that level.

I'm vibing very specific with you right now. I feel it very strongly, of how tired you are performing, performing, performing, trying to be someone that at the end of the day, you're just drained, pushing at that level, or really trying to make something work that is falling apart.

Maybe you're trying to make it work, and you're the only one trying to make it work, and putting on a happy face for others, so that no one knows all of the pain that is behind that performance mask, that has become your face.

There's so much more for you. Beaming love and acceptance at you. And this week in particular, we have to accept who we are, is what Source is saying, specifically by stopping the performance.

Know this: Worry will die when you increase your faith. Go for it this week and trust yourself! @SenseiWhitfield

Performance is over. Curtain call. Yay. Everyone's clapping. Okay, you're done. What happens?

I'm starting to hear the oracle cards calling in the energy about who are you when you're not performing?

This is a journaling. This is a conversation having kind of topic. This is not one specific, one love letter, and you're going to figure this one all out. No.

This is a journey in and of itself, finding out, who are you when you're not performing, into the role, or the mask, right, that you've created for yourself, or that you've inherited.

The Oracle Cards that want to weigh on this, so who are you when you're not performing is the life purpose oracle cards deck by Doreen Virtue.

Can you even imagine? Angels, help us imagine, who are we when we stop performing, and really start stepping into being authentic?

Maybe at work, maybe even in our homes, and our private lives, who are we? Hmm.

School. The answer that you're seeking involves going to school, and this is where we're going to leave off this week in particular.

This is about learning more about yourself, so perhaps you are currently in school right now, or you've been to school in the past, you've studied before, majored in a certain area, or have had certifications in a certain area.

Look to what inspires you the most in your self education. At school, there are certain subjects that you vibrate with the most.

If you're currently in school, maybe art class is something that really just flows out of you. You don't have to perform when you're drawing. You're just in the moment, or writing, or theater, or perhaps in debate, you're just flowing. You don't even have to perform. It's just part of you. You love that intellectual stimulation, right, of debate, or history.

If you are not currently in school, what have you been looking at going back to school for recently?

What would you study simply for the love of it, where you know that at 3AM, if you had to do a project for that specific field of study, you'd be over the moon. "Oh, my gosh. I would love to be up at 3AM writing about this, or studying and practicing for this."

The guides are pushing you towards education to really help you see, who are you when you're not performing?

It's a bit ironic, because we tend to associate school with performance, right? If you get an A, then you're acceptable. A does not mean acceptable. Wrong, so if that's what's coming up for you, by the way, if you're watching, let that one go.

Instead, what would you study simply for the love of it, if there was no grade, if you were just in school for the love of it?

For me, it's meditation and Reiki, world religions, parapsychology, metaphysics, manifestation, and all of that yummy, juice, vortex-y goodness. Right? That's who I am when I'm not performing, and I happen to have integrated that personally into my work. What is it for you? Look to your education.

Post below in the comments. Let me know, what do you find out? What would you study for the love of it? What are you doing in your free time, and studying in your free time, Googling constantly about? That might be a clue as to who you are when you're not performing. I'm here for you.

Contact me if you want to set up a session, so that we can clarify that. I do hour long sessions, as well as half hour sessions on a regular basis, because having regular accountability makes all the difference, okay?

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In Love and Light,

Victoria.

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Just for Today...

Make time to get clarity: journal about what you do simply for the love and pleasure of it, especially listing things that no one knows.

Then write down how it feels when you're doing these things, versus when you feel like you're performing or trying to appease others.

Notice how you feel at that moment - you're already healing!

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Love Letters | Flower Power

Sensei Victoria Whitfield — Mon, 06 Mar 2017 07:00:22 +0000

Looking for an energy boost?

Does the vibe of your home or office feel kinda drab and stagnant?

Feeling like you could use a chakra tuneup or space clearing?

Nature can have a really powerful healing affect on balancing and revitalizing our vital energy.

When we feel "blocked" or "stuck" is when we need more natural energy than ever.

Watch this week's 11-minute love letter video to discover the natural healing power of flowers!

"My office feels so drab and boring lately!"

This week Source wants you to know about flower power. Flower power! Yes!

There is such a thing as flower therapy and we're going to invoke that for you this week in particular because apparently you need a lot more beauty and a lot more joy and energy in your life, and flowers are actually one way that you can bring that to you. The safe yet influential supplements are http://thebustboosters.com/total-curve-full-product-review/ that start working its enchantment and then plump up the cells inside your breasts, lifting and also firming them.

Here's the thing, when it comes to working and doing energy work with flowers, I want to right out the gate let you know that it's important to allow them to die.

I'm holding this gorgeous pink rose, came from that bunch back there on the altar which was a gift from one of my students today. I knew that I was going to channel this message for you. I didn't tell anybody but magically she shows up with a bouquet of pink roses for me so this is perfect.

There's no such thing as coincidence, especially when you're vibrating high so it's perfect that I get to share this with you some live roses.

Pink roses are my personal favorite. They always put me in a bright happy mood, but when we're working with the energy of flowers to do healing and clearing on our lives, what's at work the Guides say 1) is the color which has to do with the chakra, right, that you are aligning with and then 2) the life force energy of the plant.

I've done a previous video on crystal energy and working with crystals. This is similar where you are using a natural or living object to radiate healing energy and clearing in a space or to radiate a certain intention in a space and also within yourself.

When it comes to flowers in particular they're really good if your space, your physical space has had heavy or intense emotion or maybe the energy is just a bit stagnant.

Also if you're working with different Feng Shui corners of the room, it's good to put flowers in the money corner to speed up and accelerate that flow of abundance to you but especially according to what chakra.

This, I don't know if you can see the color properly on the screen, which is a pink and white rose.

Pink is the color of our higher heart chakra so that connects us to our higher selves, receiving clear visions and staying in alignment with who you really are and living authentically according to your spirit's purpose.

Now all of our chakras have different colors.

There's the crown chakra which has to do with spirituality and receiving spiritual communication and protection, the presence of the Angels, that's white. The third eye is purple, this is mental clarity, intuition and psychic understanding, opening up your intuition.

Your throat chakra, is blue, vibrant, vibrant blues and this is for communication and hearing as well as speaking your truth and really allowing truth in.

Your higher heart is up by your clavicular dip, but your heart chakra down here is green so this is love and relationships. It's also abundance in all her forms including money. Hello green.

Here is your solar plexus which is yellow. Your sacral chakra which is orange, and then down there the base of your tailbone and radiating downward is red, your root chakra.

Your solar plexus has to do with confidence, personal power, and your belly. Your sacral chakra is creativity, passion and sensuality, your inner fire.

Then your root chakra at the base has to do with feeling safe, grounded and protected, rooted on the Earth as well as your physical body's health.

Now displaying flowers helps to send vital energy to that area of not only your energetic system but because it's in your space, it sends it to your entire life.

What happens is though it's important that you allow them to die because they radiate their vital energy according to that color's vibration and then as their life cycle progresses they'll start to wilt and then die.

That's when you have got to take them out and get rid of them because they've sealed in any lower negative or slow vibrational energy that would be holding you back from manifesting more of the good higher vibrations. They've locked it into their selves, so what you do is you take them out and you burn the dried flowers, you compost them, you throw them out.

You release them and allow the cycle to continue because it frees up that energy letting it circulate. Universal love circulation, anybody? That's abundant, allowing things to circulate.

Never have dried flowers around. Let them go, burn them, throw them out, let them continue their life cycle.

This week in particular the Guides say you need fresh cut flowers in your life.

What will you send energy to? You know, if you white roses, that's for clearing negative energy and raising the spiritual vibration. It's the equivalent of burning white sage, is displaying white roses or white flowers. That's one.

Deep red is connection to your body, feeling safe, grounded, protected and rooted. It could be deep red roses or tulips. Yellow, sunflowers, right? Personal power, confidence and joy also for your stomach and intestines, this detoxification of the body so display yellow flowers.

What flowers will you pick?

Know this: Displaying fresh cut flowers is a form of personal chakra balancing.

Now I know we're going a little bit longer this week but I'm full of energy with all these yummy flowers around. Can you feel it?

The Oracle Cards of the week are Healing with the Fairies by Doreen Virtue, one of 19 decks and counting so far at the Dojo, but the fairies popped up and said, "Let us talk to you about flower therapy."

What do we need to know right now? Fairies, they sent this card, woo hoo, problem resolved.

Problem resolved and this is where we'll leave off.

The Guides say that if you're ready for that problem to be done and done whether it's a physical, mental, emotional, social, financial, legal problem, whatever it is. Allowing the flowers to be in the environment and accelerate the realization of that process can really help that problem resolve.

Bring the flowers with the intent of letting them radiate their vital energy to infuse it with positive, natural energy.

Let them die and then take them and throw them out so that you can throw out that problem.

Yes, okay, comment below. Send me an email back. Let me know what kind of flowers are you going to display.

By the way, you can do a Google search for spiritual meaning of, and you put in whatever kind of flower such as pink roses. What do pink roses mean? Spiritual meaning, not just like the romantic or popular one but spiritual meaning of white roses or spiritual meaning or irises or stargazer lilies, etc.

Comment below. Let me know what flowers you're going to display, okay? I'm so excited, even send me pictures of your bouquets.

It's amazing to see all of the energy that the flowers are readily radiating in service of all, in service of the higher good of all. I'm sending you so much love.

Make sure you subscribe on YouTube so that you get your love letters first every week, and I'll see you next time. Bye. Bye.