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Love Letters | At A Crossroads

Sensei Victoria Whitfield — Mon, 19 Dec 2016 12:00:52 +0000

Getting ready to make a big decision this week?

Unclear on what is the right course to take?

Feeling confused because both choices appear really good on paper?

Sometimes opportunities come that bring us to a crossroads in life, and it can get really stressful.

If you embrace the process properly, it can also be a defining moment in your life.

Watch this weeks 12 minute love letter video to learn how to successfully and lovingly navigate your crossroads and create a life you love!

"Who do I want to be?"

This week, Source is saying that you are going to come to a crossroads in your life.

There's a big event coming up, one where you're going to need to be decisive, clear, and moving in alignment.

You're coming to a crossroads where you'll have a choice between option A, to proceed along that route, and option B, to proceed along that route. Both have plenty of pros and cons stacked against them.

I'm getting this sense from the energy, in particular, this week, in particular, for some reason, that the crossroads that you're going to come to, if you don't do what we're about to talk about in the channeling right now, if you don't do it, it could be a stalemate.

The A and B are equally good and equally bad. It could be people that are A and B. It could be jobs that are A and B. It could be clients that are A and B. It could be schools that are A and B or houses. There's a higher level decision that's coming this week, in particular, that is distinctly going to feel like a crossroads in the energy.

First and foremost, when we're dealing with crossroads energy, it's important to create time. Create time for yourself. If this is an investment, to invest or not to invest or to invest in this program versus that program, create time. Carve it out.

Often times, when we're in the process of decision making we forget that we have the ability to create time. First and foremost, assert to yourself, "Wait a minute. I can create some time for myself to really settle into this decision making process."

The last thing that you want to do when you're at a crossroads is be rushed. No rushing allowed. Don't do it. Don't do it. Don't do it.

First and foremost, create time. If it's someone asking you to do something, there's options A, do it, or option B, don't do it.

Do this other thing, or someone asking you to come to an event. Option A versus going to this other event. The way that you create time, instead of saying, "Yeah, okay," jump into the yes or, "No, no, I don't do anything," jumping, "Let me get back to you on that," and kindly asking them, "When do you need to know by?"

Create, I'm not saying buy yourself some time. Create time because you are a creator. Remember that. Create time first and foremost.

Secondly, when you have that time and space where you're not being interrupted and you've written out, this is the second part, in this time that you've given yourself, you've written out your pros and your cons list.

What are the pros and cons of option A? What are the pros and cons of option B? Maybe the pros are choosing A and the cons are choosing B. To do it or not to do it. It depends on your situation.

Remember, I'm channeling across multi-levels here. We're speaking to multiple people in multiple different situations. Bear with us.

You write out your pros and cons list. You're super clear on what are the reasons that you wouldn't want to go with this, and what are the reasons why you would?

What are the reasons why you would want to go with this option, option B, versus what are the reasons why you wouldn't want to? What are the effects?

You've created time. You've done your pros and cons list. When it comes down to it, the decision comes along. Knowing that you can always change your mind, you can always create a new future whenever you have now.

As long as you know that you have now, you can always create a new future.

Know this: As long as you have Your "now", you can create Your future. Be present. Be decisive. @SenseiWhitfield http://bit.ly/2hCTg9s

As long as you know that you have now, that are in the now, you can always create a new future. If you're not in now, if you don't have your now right now, you can forget about being creative, but once you are clear that you've made time, you've made your pros and cons lists, we now go into the decision making.

The decision will come on the heels of this question. Who do you want to be?

Who do you want to be? If you choose option A, you will write a story of your life. You'll tell the story of your life, of an option A life, whatever that looks like for you, whereas if you choose option B, you will create a story of your life. You'll tell the story of your life where it's an option B life. Who do you want to be?

Which side is really in alignment with who you want to be, the life that you desire to create?

Sometimes the life that we desire to create may feel a little bit more outside or grasp or our ability, but that's where you call in your positive thinking and really deepen your spirituality and connect to guidance so that you can manifest exactly what is necessary to be and create that life.

You can do it. You can create whatever you want, but here's the transformative question. If you don't ask this, you're going to come to a stalemate.

(Respectfully, I don't want to cast that kind of a spell on you, but this is what I'm hearing to tell you.) If you don't ask that question: "who do I want to be?", you will come to a stalemate because you'll get lost in the gathering research for the pros and cons list.

"I got to read every article about this thing over here. I got to research this person, this coaching program," or "I got to find all about the town where we're moving in and every single nook and cranny." You'll get lost in the minutia of the research process.

Come into your body, into your heart, and answer from your heart or lower if you can answer even from your gut, who do I want to be?

If you can't do that, just organically, think of telling your children, even if you don't have any yet, telling your children the story of your life. Which story, A or B, is the one that resonates more with this is who I want, this is who I want to be, this is the legacy that I want to create, this is the story that I want to write and if I told it to my kids I'd be super proud. Really help yourself anchor into that.

I'm hearing the oracle cards calling in the energy. It's the fairies to send some high vibrational love and fun to what could be a very serious situation, crossroads. This is intense energy, very intense energy.

Fairies, what do we need to know about being at a crossroads and creating our life this week, in particular?

I can't shuffle any further. They're saying it's this card. Eww. This deepens what we just channeled. Family harmony. Definitely use that visualization with speaking to your inner child or telling the story that you would want to be told of your life, but also what's coming up around the crossroads.

They're saying it's not so much going to be in your business, but it's going to have to do with your point of view and your desires mixing with and moving alongside, I'm getting this parallel vision, your family's point of view and their desires, what their needs are. Be kind to yourself.

That question of who do I want to be is going to help resolve the tension between your point of view and your family's point of view. It can be who do I want to be to my family, as well. Ask that question. Really take some time to journal into it.

Someone in the energy I just heard said, "I'm afraid to rock the boat. I really am. I don't know if we can handle me rocking the boat like this again." Again, I'm being encouraged by the guides to ask you, and it's got to come from you this time, who do you want to be?

Sometimes rocking the boat can be a healing experience. Also, sometimes rocking the boat can be a selfish experience.

If you're coming from this space of, "Well, I got to be me and it doesn't matter what anyone else feels. I'm just going to go, and you're all going to come in line with me," that's one thing, but it's another if you choosing the path that may be a leap of faith, that makes the family uncomfortable, this week, in particular, if that means that you're reaching towards healing yourself, healing the family, healing the legacy, you're reaching for expansion, you're believing, you're in that positive vortex, then you know in your gut, you're in alignment, go for it.

Go for it. Do not be small. Do not shrink yourself to maintain family harmony. That's not what this card is about.

There's some things coming up around family coming to a crossroads this week, in particular. Send me an email back. Comment below if this is you. Let me support you. Let us at the dojo support you in this process. We're here for you. That's why these Love Letters are going out. Don't forget it.

Email me at SensaiVictoriaWhitfield@gmail.com so we can send more healing energy to your situation.

And if you do need a session, I'm telling you, you need to get in as soon as possible. I'm very booked up, but I'd be happy to respond to your email and create time for you so that we can send more clarity to your decision making process, get you past that crossroads.

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In Love and Light,

Victoria.

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Love Letters | Name Your Fear

Sensei Victoria Whitfield — Mon, 12 Dec 2016 12:00:03 +0000

Have a hard time knowing what you want lately?

Tired of being known as an indecisive person?

Wish there was a way to heal yourself and gain more clarity?

Indecision is actually a manifestation of unexpressed fears.

In an effort to avoid dealing with our truth, we can hide ourselves behind the phrase "I don't know" as a filler for conversation.

Watch this weeks 10 minute love letter video to gain clarity by naming your fear!

"I don't know what I want."

The phrase that source is sending for you this week in particular is "name your fear." Name your fear.

Oftentimes, we will hold ourselves in, pull back our enthusiasm so far that we forget what we really wanted to manifest or what we really want in the first place because we're just sucking ourselves back, right?

We're just hiding, hiding, hiding, and we have this sense ... It can manifest as a sense of apathy, boredom, fatigue, and you'll really know that this is happening to you when you say, "I don't know" as a knee-jerk reaction or almost like a tick when you're speaking.

You'll be speaking to someone, and they just, like their automatic answer's, "I don't know." There's an "I don't know" that comes forth.

It just shoots out every single time, every single time when we have sucked our energy so far back inside of ourselves that we lose a sense of what our real concerns are, our real goals and desires are, our real passions are.

We just suck ourselves inside, and usually, this is motivated, unfortunately, by fear. Fear of rejection. Fear of being seen, right? Fear of visibility.

Not only that but also fear of failure, fear of having to work hard and put in effort, like a fear of effort. We suck ourselves in, so we don't have to deal with or process what we're afraid of.

Know this: Overusing "I don't know" in everyday #communication is a sign you're hiding unresolved fears. @SenseiWhitfield

The next time you catch yourself saying or you hear someone saying, "I don't know," or if you ask, "How do you feel about us," if you're having the grown-up conversation around relationships, right, and this person says, "I don't know." What do you want in life? What do you want for dinner? "I don't know. I don't know." They're sucking their energy back.

We're not sharing. You aren't sharing yourself when you say, "I don't know."

We did a previous channeling video I don't know how many months ago. I just said, "I don't know." I'm afraid that I don't have all of my love letters memorized, people. I can't. I channel each one. They just flow out of me, but several months ago, we did a channeling on how "I don't know"... If anything, you can put it in YouTube and do a search for, "I don't know." We channeled on the fact that that's always a lie. We say that to hide. We say that to dodge the truth or dodge the reality of it because sharing ourselves fully is much too vulnerable and open.

This week, in particular, Source is saying, "name your fear," so when "I don't know" shows up this week, turn that around by asking yourself, "What am I afraid of right now?"

If someone asks me, super mundane, "what do you want to eat tonight?" "I don't know? What do you want?" Turning that around on myself, I would ask, "Well, what am I afraid of right now? Why do I say, 'I don't know.' What am I afraid of?"

Let me name my fear.

I'm afraid of making a decision. I'm afraid of being decisive. I'm afraid of making a decision and choosing something that I don't like. I'm afraid if I make a decision, the other person's going to have something else in mind. I'm afraid of rocking the boat by having my own point of view.

There's just so many things that could come out of that.

If you name your fear, it dispels that energy. It disperses it. It gets it out.

It takes it from feeling blocked and closed like a finite book or event being shut down, closed. "There's no way that I'm going to know what I want to eat tonight, ladies and gentlemen. It's no way. I don't know. There's no way I will ever know. I've blocked from knowing what I want."

You can shift that by naming your fear, so this is really for someone who's watching this who wants to know what they want.

If that's you, my love, I'm here for you. We are here. The energy is here for you. The angels are on your side. We're here to tell you, "Yes, you do know what you want."

The way that you find out is actually by going underneath what you want as as in, "Dig into your fear." Go there. Go there. It takes courage. You can do it, and there's so much love and clarity that comes out from naming your fear. The minute you do name your fear, it disperses fear's power.

"I'm afraid of the dark." Okay, it's just the dark. "I'm going to go into my bedroom, and I'm not going to imagine a giant arm reaching out and trying to grab me." (Thanks, Ma, for that horrible vision.) I'm just going to be with the darkness. Why is the dark afraid, fearful? What am I afraid of about the dark that I don't know what's going on, okay? Be with that. Be with that uncertainty.

Get the clarity from your fear rather than running from it.

I'm hearing the oracle cards calling and the energy. It's The Indigo Angel Oracle Cards Deck, another Doreen Virtue deck here at the dojo, one of 16 decks and counting. We're always open to receiving donation decks too. If there is one that you would like to donate to the tribe, we'd be happy to receive it. Also, if you have any recommendations. "Victoria, I saw this really great deck." Send me an email at senseivictoriawhitfield@gmail.com. I'd be happy to look into that, maybe even get it.

Angels, what do we need to know right now about naming our fear?

Two cards just came forward. Interesting ... This hasn't happened in a while.

Believe in yourself and Archangel Metatron.

Now, the angels are saying the believe-in-yourself card is coming forward around naming your fear because naming your fear takes courage.

By doing so, you take a stand to say, "You know what? I'm worth the exploration. I'm worth taking a minute to ask and investigate. I really am worth it. I believe that I'm capable of receiving the clarity from this question." Right? Believe in yourself.

Sometimes we avoid ourselves because we don't have that belief or inherent trust that it's going to be okay or that you're even worth the time.

If that's you, you need some extra love. We're here to support you.

Archangel Metatron is also here to support you, so this is the archangel of intuition, revelation and spiritual energy. You can ask for his help, in particular, with this clearing process. Ask him, "Archangel Michael, please help me to name my fear. Please give me the courage. Please heal me so that I'm able to move through this issue."

Wait and watch for the sensations that you get, any visions that you receive or advice that comes through, not just sudden thoughts, ideas and impulses that come to you or people and songs.

I'm searching for the word. People, songs, billboards ... There's going to be spiritual guidance that comes to you as soon as you ask, and that's what Archangel Metatron, in particular, is in charge of.

He also clears your aura. If you feel blocked, there's no such thing as being blocked, but if you feel blocked, you're creating it.

Ask him, "Archangel Michael, please release any blocks that I believe are on me or that are in me, and allow the experience."

Send me an email back at senseivictoriawhitfield@gmail.com. Post below so that I can hear, what are your experiences?

This week in particular. This is a big week, and it takes some courage to do it, but you can. You've got to believe in yourself because I believe in you.

Make sure you subscribe on YouTube so that you get your love letters first every week, and we'll see you next time. Bye.