Feeling indecisive, like you’re life lacks direction?

Struggling to “find yourself” and feel like you belong?

Wondering if you’ll ever get the clarity you seek?

Indecision is a symptom of much deeper issues regarding your relationship with your own Spirit, aka your “spirituality.”

And everyone has a sense of spirituality, especially skeptics and realists.

Watch this week’s 12-minute love letter video, the final part in our four-part Deep Dive series on the Power of Loving Yourself, to redefine spirituality and use it to love yourself at work today.

"What is my value?"

This week is week four of four in our deep dive into loving yourself.

The power of loving yourself and this week, the guides are going to have us talk about loving your spirit. Let's define terms a little bit, right out the gate.

What is a spirit? What in the world are we talking about? The spirit for the bounds of this conversation, we're going to understand as the resource behind your decision making processes in life.

It is the force that determines the path that your life takes, right? It is that resource behind how you make decisions.

That's what your spirit is, so for those of us you are religious, we understand to be the holy spirit. For those of us that aren't creative or consider ourselves scientific, same thing, that you can understand to be your creative spirit, your spirit of innovation, growth and progress, that sort of a spirit.

This is the fuel behind your decision making processes and when you're learning how to love yourself on another level, so that you can better love others, right?

We're filling our cup at the faucet, the resource that we need, so that we can then hand that cup or pour from a full pitcher to others to love on them, as well. Showing up in service and loving others, abundantly.

With that, this week in particular, when we're learning how to love our spirit, it's important to then understand what your core values are, especially when you're at work. Now, there's a very professionalism and all those kinds of corporate sort of language. Mission, vision, values that comes up for us when we think of, what do we value? But instead, I want you to think of when it comes to loving yourself, what do you value?

When it comes to your life, what do you value? When it comes to being loving, what do you value? Remembering that your spirit is the force behind your decision making process.

With that, this week in particular, we want to pick one value in particular that is loving to you. One that nourishes you. If we could choose a more concrete word, whether than just loving can sometimes be a morphosis for those of us who are not used to being loving to oneself, right?

We're used to being loving to others, so think of a value that would be nourishing to you, even if you want to pick nourishment. My nourishment is something that I value.

Me personally, my top values are, number one, love. Obviously. Number two is safety and number three is honor. Honesty for me falls underneath honor, so when I have something more vulnerable that I need to share to a team member or someone that I'm in an intimate relationship with, maybe family or my partner and so on, I think of my value of honor and that, for me, is loving toward myself first and that gives me the courage to then speak from the heart about topics that might be a little bit more vulnerable making or feel uncomfortable to bring up.

That value gives me the courage to make a decision with my spirit to allow the spirit of honor to come through me and create more honorable experiences. Are you getting the picture here?

That's loving towards me because I'm bringing that spirit into my awareness in my decision making, which then effects my behavior and how I show up to others, how I serve others.

If I come with a spirit of honor or spirit of love or spirit of safety and honoring my safety, others safety and so on and so forth. What would be your value? How can you, but we want to make this very specific, this week in particular to work. How can you honor your spirit or how can you bring your spirit into your work experience?

Perhaps it is honoring your religion. I'm putting a lot of my value of honor. Perhaps it is bring your spirit's desire to be religious or to glorify God in all that you do and bring that to your work experience.

How would you work? How would you show up? How would you speak to others if the force behind your decisions and your behaviors is, I want to glorify God in whatever I do?

Know this: Your Spirit is the force behind how you make decisions in life and #business. And spirituality is your relationship with it.

On the flip side, what if your value was, I value my health. My health comes first. How would you show up at work today if your value is, my health comes first? This is the one value that I'm going to embody today.

How can you allow that to come forward in your work day? How would you speak to people? How would you sit at your desk? What food would you choose to put in your body if that was your value that you were going to honor today, this week?

Whether you're going all week or just for today, what would be different about the way that you conduct your behavior and the decisions that you make if you made value based decisions?

The power and the self-loving, self-nourishing aspect of making value based decisions is that you become responsive rather than reactive to life around you. When we're reactive, things happen and all right, I got to put out the fire over here and oh, so and so needs me.

Okay, I'll do this and oh my gosh, what about this and da da da da and you're working yourself up spiritually because there's no anchor, there's no value anchoring you down on a spiritual level. Your decisions are flying off at the handle, they're reacting to all of the circumstances that are around you versus making value based decisions.

You're able to ground and then respond with wisdom to the experiences that are coming toward you so that your life, you're building by design in a wise and spiritually grounded way.

Value based decisions, that's the challenge for this week, in particular. The mantra of the week is, what's my value? Remember it's one. I know some of you do core desired feelings and stuff like that and you pick several and all of this. What one? Just one. Simplify it. I value simplicity. Let's all value simplicity right now.

Bring the spirit of simplicity so that you can be kind to yourself and one, what's my value?

The next time someone asks you something, the next time you begin your work day, the next time you sit down to eat, what's my value? That is your mantra. Today, in particular, or for this week, in particular. Whatever you're ready to commit to.

I'm hearing the oracle cards calling and energy. Talk about spirit. Fairies. Ding, ding, ding. Yay. Healing with the fairies, another Doreen Virtue deck. Thank you so much for donating.

This is one of over 20 decks that we have here at the dojo that our clients and students play with as well as my co-op members. Between seeing their clients, they're reading their own oracle card readings. I love it. You're welcome to play. My cards are very social.

Fairies, what do we need to know, this week in particular about loving our spirit? What value? Oh, this loud is coming forward. New opportunity, This is so powerful. Check it out. Gorgeous.

What I'm hearing in the energy to tell you about new opportunity for this week, in particular, is that you've been loving yourself and opening up to honoring and heeling and loving, nourishing and nurturing those parts of yourself that have been under loved for the last few weeks.

We've been at that together and because of that, sources taken notice. There's a new opportunity coming your way that you want to use your value. You're going to need to have a set of values or one guiding light that gives you enough anchoring to receive that opportunity.

If you don't have it, you're going to miss this opportunity and it's because you're got to anchor first in order to receive the level of opportunity that's coming to you this week, in particular. Maybe even today. We want to make wise decisions, ones that are responding to life with elegance , with wisdom, with grounding, allowing spirit to come through and wash through our lives, blessing rather than rushing through and feeling unloved, especially by ourselves. Slow down, ground, make value-based decisions so that you can receive the next level opportunity that's coming to you.

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What's coming up for you hearing all of this? What opportunity, have you recognized it yet? I'd love to hear about it and how did you ground and make a value-based decision in order to receive that.

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Pick one Value to focus on that is loving and nourishing to YOU.

At work, choose to embody the spirit of that value in your communications, your time at your desk, your self-care, etc.

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Feeling scattered lately?

Can't seem to finish what you start?

Seduced by "shiny object syndrome" more often than not?

Being creative is a powerful gift, that comes with an infinite amount of inspiration and innovation.

The downside, however, is that we creative types end up with an abundance of half-done tasks, and not enough closure.

Watch this week's 7-minute Love Letter to learn what's more important: starting or finishing.

"I have a million ideas!"

This week Source wants to talk to you about starting versus finishing -- which one is more important in life, at least right now.

Then the energy, the message that I'm getting from the guides for you is:

Finishing is actually more important than getting started right now.

Let's explain and let's explore this for a little bit.

Chances are, if you've pressed play on this or are reading this article, you are a highly creative, intuitive and sensitive person.

Perhaps you bring that creativity and intuitive nature to your relationships or perhaps you even bring it to your business.

Either way, you're pretty good at getting inspired, feeling emotion, and really having things lift you up. You're comfortable following the energy, following intuitive guidance. 

Even if you don't follow it 100% of the time per se just yet, you do hear it; you hear that still, small voice that comes from down from above you or whispers in the back of your mind, wherever yours is, but it's quiet, and always tells you to do something really important.

It tells you to something important that you know that you should do, but then there's louder voices or louder impulses that say: "Hey, shiny object! Oh my God, look at this new initiative, new class, new certification. Look at this shiny new pretty purse, let me go talk to them instead!" 

Because we're creative and sensitive, sensual beings, that louder voice of impulse often gets the best of us.

But I've been told to tell you that this week in particular you have got to focus on finishing. It's not about getting started, it's about getting finished.

You are already working on 10 billion different things right now that are really wonderful ideas that you came up with before, or projects that you've started before, or relationships that you've began before. Right?

There's so many things that you've started momentum on and haven't finished.

With all due love and respect, I have to be the one to tell you: you've got to be a finisher.

High on the upstart, great with ideas, or when we come to meetings and masterminds you're the one that's, "Oh, we got a million ideas." But when it comes to implementation...crickets.

I feel you, I feel you on that.

This is also an entrepreneurial predicament. The issue here is the entrepreneur's wonderful journey of shiny object syndrome.

Know this: Let this be your mantra this week: "It's not about starting, it's about finishing."

Know this:Let this be your mantra this week: "It's not about starting, it's about finishing."

When we say that to you, finish what you've started already, what comes to mind?

What's coming up for you emotionally when you think about finishing?

This is a really powerful topic.

I'm hearing the Oracle cards coming forward in the energy.

I'm using Doreen Virtue's oracle cards deck "Angel Answers". Bright, rainbow, awesome. (It's as if they were designed by Lisa Frank except it's Radleigh Valentine and Doreen Virtue!)

Asking: Angels, what do we need to know right now about starting versus finishing? Do we really need to finish what we've started? What's going on?

This is a good one! Ask Your Angels. 

 

 

This weeks #oracle card is "Ask Your Angels" - in order for you to #achieve that next level or goal, you'll need to actively ask for #help this week. Watch the full readings on #YouTube at https://youtu.be/ELTktreJYYQ ???????? #empath #angels #doreenvirtue #spiritual #health #faith

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They're telling me to actually read to you what's written here:

"Your angels are always with you. However, you must ask for their assistance in order for them to provide you with the help that you're seeking because heaven respects your free will choices. State your questions to your angels clearly. You can do so either out loud or silently in your own mind.

Your angels will instantly help you according to God's will. Your angels may also have special messages for you about the situation you're asking about. Sit quietly in a peaceful place, indoors or out in nature, and ask for advice and guidance. Notice what messages come to you. It's possible the answers will come to you through your feelings, hearing or sight or perhaps you will just know the answer. You can also ask the angels for signs during the day to guide you onto the right path."

Here's where we're going to end.

In the energy, they're saying that at this point in time, in order for you to finish, you must honor the fact that you're going to have to ask for help.

Quit white knuckling! (I see white knuckles!)

Let it go. Let it go and offer it up for help. Open it up for receiving help.

Start by asking spiritually as a preparation for asking the energy.

Focus on finishing this week.

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Sending you so much love 🙂

See you next time. Bye!

In Love and Light,

Victoria.

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