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					<description><![CDATA[<p>Are you a worry-wart? Do you believe that when you love someone, you should worry about them to show you care? Wish your life was less stressful? Worry has been said to be a negative form of prayer for something you don't want. So why do we worry so much? Watch this week's 10-minute Love Letter [&#8230;]</p>
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<h2><span style="color: #800080;"><em>Are you a worry-wart?</em></span></h2>
<h2><em>Do you believe that when you love someone, you should worry about them to show you care?</em></h2>
<h2>Wish your life was less stressful?</h2>
<p>Worry has been said to be a negative form of prayer for something you don't want.</p>
<p>So why do we worry so much?</p>
<p><span style="color: #008080;"><strong>Watch this week's 10-minute Love Letter video to understand what worry really is, and why you can't seem to stop doing it!</strong></span></p>
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<p style="text-align: right;"><em><span style="color: #800080;"><b>"I'm a worry wart."</b></span></em></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">This week, the question is: Why so worried?</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1"><strong>Why are you so worried? It would be really easy for me to just tell you, <em>"Stop worrying! Don't worry anymore. Let it go. Release it. Release the hounds of your worry,"</em> but that's not what I've been guided to relay to you this week in particular.</strong></span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Instead, this is a digging week, a journaling week, a self-reflection, internal, introspection week.</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Why so worried? Perhaps you are someone who other people have called, or you self-identify as, <em>"I'm a worry wart. I worry about my kids. I worry about my business. I worry about the economy. I worry about my health. I worry about my boyfriend,"</em> or <em>"I worry about my pets. I worry about what I'm going to make for dinner tonight."</em></span></p>
<p class="p1"><span style="color: #800080;"><strong><span class="s1">Perhaps you self-identify as, <em>"I'm a worry wart,"</em> or other people might have said, <em>"Oh she's always worrying all the time."</em></span></strong></span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Maybe your husband or your wife, your significant other has said that about you, you know, your partner. Maybe, in business, the other person is like the visionary, creative risk-taker, and you're the worrier. <em>"How are we going to do this? Let me look at all the metrics and get into the nuts and bolts of things."</em></span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1"><strong>Worry is suffering.</strong></span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">I'm sorry to have to be the one to break that to you, but worrying is a form of suffering, so the more that you identify with being a worry wart, or being someone who worries a lot, the more you identify with having a life that is driven by your suffering, by the way you identify that.</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span style="color: #800080;"><strong><span class="s1">It's not something that anybody else puts on you. I know this is a little bit tough to hear, but I want you to know this because I care about you.</span></strong></span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">The guides are also saying worse yet, you may be someone who associates worry with caring. If worry, under our definition currently, is suffering, that means you associate suffering with caring, or better yet, love with suffering. There's this sense of, <em>"Oh gosh,"</em> fear of being in intimate relationships because, <em>"What if I care too much? What if it ends?"</em> And we begin to worry about that.</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Suffering before anything has happened, or before there is any proof of something to legitimately take care of and respond to.</span></p>
<p class="p1"><img decoding="async" class="aligncenter wp-image-2049 size-full" src="https://victoriawhitfield.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/11/TWEETOFTHEWEEK.png" alt="TWEETOFTHEWEEK" width="462" height="86" srcset="https://victoriawhitfield.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/11/TWEETOFTHEWEEK.png 462w, https://victoriawhitfield.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/11/TWEETOFTHEWEEK-300x56.png 300w, https://victoriawhitfield.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/11/TWEETOFTHEWEEK-460x86.png 460w" sizes="(max-width: 462px) 100vw, 462px" /></p>
<h2 class="p1"><a href="http://ctt.ec/i0Ol8"><strong><span class="s1">Know this: Worry is suffering. The more you identify as a "worry wart," the more you ask for a life driven by suffering. #letitgo</span></strong></a></h2>
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<p class="p1"><strong><span class="s1">Be kind to yourself. If this is you, I know this is tough to hear if this is you. I'm feeling a lot of tense energy coming through as we're channeling.</span></strong></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">When we are worrying, we are actually managing and creating a sense of felt control and influence on an object, or a person, or something, a situation that it's impossible to control or manage.</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1" style="color: #800080;"><strong>Take, for example, love. When we worry, we create this connection through the management of how we feel and how we think things are going to go for them.</strong></span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Like, <em>"Oh what if this happens, and what if this happens, and what if this happens?"</em> Because you've suffered your way through all of the imaginary possible situation and scenarios. Get ready for this.</span></p>
<p class="p1"><strong><span class="s1">It gives you a sense of significance, whereas without that, all that suffering and imagining all of that, you wouldn't feel, for some reason, secure or significant to that person that you care about.</span></strong></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Did you know that you are so special that, in fact, you don't have to be responsible for figuring out every future by yourself, especially if you're worrying about somebody else. Include them. Hello? </span><span class="s1">Share what's on your heart.</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span style="color: #800080;"><strong><span class="s1">Why so worried? Why do you associate and root your sense of significance as a human being, or as a mother, or as a lover, or as an owner? Why do you associate your significance with worry, and your ability to envision and create possible negative outcomes?</span></strong></span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Don't blame it on anybody. I just heard somebody say, <em>"Well, my mother worried all the time, or my father."</em> Oh my God. <em>"He was always worried about the next thing."</em> What next? Resist the urge to blame it on someone. This is a journaling opportunity. The guides, now, are calling, <em>"Read the oracle cards."</em></span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1"><strong>Angel Therapy is the oracle cards deck for this week. I know this is a touchy, kind of squishy subject, but you've got to hear it.</strong></span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">This is what they said. Angels, please tell us. What do we need to know about worrying? Why? Why do we worry so much? What do we need to know? Get ready for this. Heal away addictions.</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">The guides just said, <em>"This is a big reason why you cannot blame your parents, your society, or your community for your identity as a worrier."</em> That's your addiction.</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span style="color: #800080;"><strong><span class="s1">This is not to blame the victim. Instead I want you to know you have power to shift the story of your life, and the story of who you are. You don't have to be worried all the time. You don't have to be <em>"the worrier."</em> There's more to life than suffering through her.</span></strong></span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1"><em>"It's time to let go of behaviors that are blocking you from your heart's desire. Ask Archangel Raphael to help you with this healing."</em></span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">I'm just going to do this in behalf of you.</span></p>
<p class="p1"><em><span class="s1">Archangel Raphael, for whoever is watching right now- Whoo, the energy. For whoever is watching right now who is filled with worry, or who identifies as being a worrier, I ask that you surround this person, or people, with your healing green light and infuse their heart with your healing energy. Thank you. I feel your presence so strong right now. Lift the worry out of them. Take it away, and we give all of our worries over to you, over to Source, over to God, knowing that we are never alone in that which concerns us. We ask that you heal the identity around worry, and that we be released to a higher vibration, from being the worrier to being the communicator, the connector. Let us come out of our caves and into the world to shine our light in the way that we have been built to in this lifetime, and so it is.</span></em></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1"><strong>Comment below or send me an e-mail back. What's coming up for you around worrying? Did you need to hear that? What did you feel during that sequence just now? Perhaps it was a prayer or meditation for you. Let me know.</strong></span></p>
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<p class="p1"><span class="s1" style="color: #800080;"><strong>By the way, share this with the worrier in your life. If you know who it is, don't let them continue on this path of self-imposed suffering. There's so much more to life than that. Okay?</strong></span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Sending you so much love and blessings, and I'll see you next week. Bye.</span></p>
<p class="p1"><strong style="line-height: 1.5;">In Love and Light,</strong></p>
<p><strong>Victoria.</strong></p>
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<p><strong><em>Just for Today...</em></strong></p>
<p><strong>Journal about why you worry or why you connect worry with caring or loving.</strong></p>
<p><strong>Make sure to really write out how worrying makes you feel significant and how it gives you an emotional sense of "felt control" as you worry.</strong></p>
<p><strong><em>Notice how you feel at that moment - you're already healing!</em></strong></p>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 26 Sep 2016 12:00:44 +0000</pubDate>
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<h2><span style="color: #800080;"><em>Are you a worry-wart?</em></span></h2>
<h2><em>Do you believe that when you love someone, you should worry about them to show you care?</em></h2>
<h2>Wish your life was less stressful?</h2>
<p>Worry has been said to be a negative form of prayer for something you don't want.</p>
<p>So why do we worry so much?</p>
<p><span style="color: #008080;"><strong>Watch this week's&nbsp;10-minute Love Letter video to understand what worry really is, and why you can't seem to stop doing it!</strong></span></p>
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<p style="text-align: right;"><em><span style="color: #800080;"><b>"<em>I'm a worry wart.</em>"</b></span></em></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">This week, the question is: Why so worried? </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1"><strong>Why are you so worried? It would be really easy for me to just tell you, <em>"Stop worrying! Don't worry anymore. Let it go. Release it. Release the hounds of your worry,"</em> but that's not what I've been guided to relay to you this week in particular.</strong> </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Instead, this is a digging week, a journaling week, a self-reflection, internal, introspection week.</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Why so worried? Perhaps you are someone who other people have called, or you self-identify as, <em>"I'm a worry wart. I worry about my kids. I worry about my business. I worry about the economy. I worry about my health. I worry about my boyfriend,"</em> or <em>"I worry about my pets. I worry about what I'm going to make for dinner tonight."</em> </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span style="color: #800080;"><strong><span class="s1">Perhaps you self-identify as, <em>"I'm a worry wart,"</em> or other people might have said, <em>"Oh she's always worrying all the time."</em> </span></strong></span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Maybe your husband or your wife, your significant other has said that about you, you know, your partner. Maybe, in business, the other person is like the visionary, creative risk-taker, and you're the worrier. <em>"How are we going to do this? Let me look at all the metrics and get into the nuts and bolts of things."</em></span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1"><strong>Worry is suffering.</strong> </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">I'm sorry to have to be the one to break that to you, but worrying is a form of suffering, so the more that you identify with being a worry wart, or being someone who worries a lot, the more you identify with having a life that is driven by your suffering, by the way you identify that. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span style="color: #800080;"><strong><span class="s1">It's not something that anybody else puts on you. I know this is a little bit tough to hear, but I want you to know this because I care about you.</span></strong></span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">The guides are also saying worse yet, you may be someone who associates worry with caring. If worry, under our definition currently, is suffering, that means you associate suffering with caring, or better yet, love with suffering. There's this sense of, <em>"Oh gosh,"</em> fear of being in intimate relationships because, <em>"What if I care too much? What if it ends?"</em> And we begin to worry about that. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Suffering before anything has happened, or before there is any proof of something to legitimately take care of and respond to.</span></p>
<p class="p1"><img decoding="async" class="aligncenter wp-image-2049 size-full" src="https://victoriawhitfield.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/11/TWEETOFTHEWEEK.png" alt="TWEETOFTHEWEEK" width="462" height="86" srcset="https://victoriawhitfield.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/11/TWEETOFTHEWEEK.png 462w, https://victoriawhitfield.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/11/TWEETOFTHEWEEK-300x56.png 300w, https://victoriawhitfield.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/11/TWEETOFTHEWEEK-460x86.png 460w" sizes="(max-width: 462px) 100vw, 462px" /></p>
<h2 class="p1"><a href="http://ctt.ec/0VUiN"><strong><span class="s1">Know this:&nbsp;Worry is suffering.&nbsp;The more you identify as a "worry wart," the more you ask for a life driven by suffering. #letitgo</span></strong></a></h2>
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<p class="p1"><strong><span class="s1">Be kind to yourself. If this is you, I know this is tough to hear if this is you. I'm feeling a lot of tense energy coming through as we're channeling.</span></strong></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">When we are worrying, we are actually managing and creating a sense of felt control and influence on an object, or a person, or something, a situation that it's impossible to control or manage. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1" style="color: #800080;"><strong>Take, for example, love. When we worry, we create this connection through the management of how we feel and how we think things are going to go for them.</strong> </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Like, <em>"Oh what if this happens, and what if this happens, and what if this happens?"</em> Because you've suffered your way through all of the imaginary possible situation and scenarios. Get ready for this. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><strong><span class="s1">It gives you a sense of significance, whereas without that, all that suffering and imagining all of that, you wouldn't feel, for some reason, secure or significant to that person that you care about.</span></strong></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Did you know that you are so special that, in fact, you don't have to be responsible for figuring out every future by yourself, especially if you're worrying about somebody else. Include them. Hello? </span><span class="s1">Share what's on your heart. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span style="color: #800080;"><strong><span class="s1">Why so worried? Why do you associate and root your sense of significance as a human being, or as a mother, or as a lover, or as an owner? Why do you associate your significance with worry, and your ability to envision and create possible negative outcomes?</span></strong></span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Don't blame it on anybody. I just heard somebody say, <em>"Well, my mother worried all the time, or my father."</em> Oh my God. <em>"He was always worried about the next thing."</em> What next? Resist the urge to blame it on someone. This is a journaling opportunity. The guides, now, are calling, <em>"Read the oracle cards."</em></span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1"><strong>Angel Therapy is the oracle cards deck for this week. I know this is a touchy, kind of squishy subject, but you've got to hear it.</strong> </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">This is what they said. Angels, please tell us. What do we need to know about worrying? Why? Why do we worry so much? What do we need to know? Get ready for this. Heal away addictions. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">The guides just said, <em>"This is a big reason why you cannot blame your parents, your society, or your community for your identity as a worrier."</em> That's your addiction. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span style="color: #800080;"><strong><span class="s1">This is not to blame the victim. Instead I want you to know you have power to shift the story of your life, and the story of who you are. You don't have to be worried all the time. You don't have to be <em>"the worrier."</em> There's more to life than suffering through her.</span></strong></span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1"><em>"It's time to let go of behaviors that are blocking you from your heart's desire. Ask Archangel Raphael to help you with this healing."</em> </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">I'm just going to do this in behalf of you. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><em><span class="s1">Archangel Raphael, for whoever is watching right now- Whoo, the energy. For whoever is watching right now who is filled with worry, or who identifies as being a worrier, I ask that you surround this person, or people, with your healing green light and infuse their heart with your healing energy. Thank you. I feel your presence so strong right now. Lift the worry out of them. Take it away, and we give all of our worries over to you, over to Source, over to God, knowing that we are never alone in that which concerns us. We ask that you heal the identity around worry, and that we be released to a higher vibration, from being the worrier to being the communicator, the connector. Let us come out of our caves and into the world to shine our light in the way that we have been built to in this lifetime, and so it is.</span></em></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1"><strong>Comment below or send me an e-mail back. What's coming up for you around worrying? Did you need to hear that? What did you feel during that sequence just now? Perhaps it was a prayer or meditation for you. Let me know.</strong> </span></p>
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<p class="p1"><span class="s1" style="color: #800080;"><strong>By the way, share this with the worrier in your life. If you know who it is, don't let them continue on this path of self-imposed suffering. There's so much more to life than that. Okay?</strong> </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Sending you so much love and blessings, and I'll see you next week. Bye.</span></p>
<p class="p1">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><strong style="line-height: 1.5;">In Love and Light,</strong></p>
<p><strong>Victoria.</strong></p>
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<p><strong><em>Just for Today...</em></strong></p>
<p><strong>Journal about why you worry or why you connect worry with caring or loving.</strong></p>
<p><strong>Make sure to really write out how worrying makes you feel significant and how it gives you an emotional sense of "felt control" as you worry.</strong></p>
<p><strong><em>Notice how you feel at that moment - you're already healing!</em></strong></p>
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										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<h1 style="text-align: center;"><span style="color: #ff0000;">THIS RETREAT IS SOLD OUT</span></h1>
<h2 style="text-align: center;"><span style="color: #800080;">Love &amp; Relationships Healing Blisswork Retreat</span></h2>
<p style="text-align: center;"><span style="color: #ff6600;"><strong>Sunday, January 31<sup>st </sup> 2016   10:00am - 3:00pm</strong></span></p>
<p><strong><em>Are you</em></strong><span style="color: #800080;"><strong><em> ready to receive more love </em></strong></span><strong><em>in 2016?</em></strong></p>
<p><strong><em>Want to</em></strong><span style="color: #800080;"><strong><em> let go of past disappointments </em></strong><strong><em>and hurts</em></strong></span> <strong><em>so you can</em></strong><span style="color: #800080;"><strong><em> heal your love life? </em></strong></span></p>
<p><strong><em>Is this the year you want to</em></strong><strong><em><span style="color: #800080;"> raise the vibration of bliss, romance and fun</span> </em></strong><strong><em>in your life?</em></strong></p>
<h3 style="text-align: center;"><span style="color: #ff6600;">If so, then this retreat is for YOU!</span></h3>
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<p><span style="color: #800080;"><strong><em>If you're reading this, then you've been </em></strong><strong><em>burned in the past. </em></strong></span><em>And it was probably by</em><em> someone you </em><em>loved and trusted.</em></p>
<p><strong>Perhaps you may have even been </strong><strong>abused.</strong> Abuse can be verbal, emotional, mental, energetic, sexual, spiritual, physical, financial, social…</p>
<p><strong>Since our past negative experiences were the norm for us, we come to expect people to abuse us now</strong> – our Subconscious projects the past on the present when certain triggers come up, creating pain from a normally “harmless” exchange…</p>
<p>Maybe your experience was <strong>so bad</strong> that it shaped and <strong>stunted</strong> the way that you look at everyone else. Take a look and see if you recognize some of your hidden beliefs:</p>
<p><em><img decoding="async" class="size-full wp-image-2193 alignleft" src="https://victoriawhitfield.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/01/baggage.jpg" alt="baggage" width="361" height="500" srcset="https://victoriawhitfield.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/01/baggage.jpg 361w, https://victoriawhitfield.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/01/baggage-217x300.jpg 217w" sizes="(max-width: 361px) 100vw, 361px" />“Love hurts.”   “Trust no one.”   “All men are dogs.”   “All women are crazy.”   “Nobody loves me.”   “I’m afraid to be alone.”   “Everybody leaves me anyway.”   “Maybe I should just settle for less.”    “All the good ones are already taken.”   “They can’t handle the real me.”          “I can’t do any better than this.”    “I need someone to save me.”   “I need to fix her / him; then it’ll be perfect.”   “I’m too [fat, poor, busy, short, ugly, etc.] to be loved.”   "My parents are divorced / I am divorced, so I'll never find love that lasts."   "I don't receive the love I want, so I'll give all I’ve got to everyone and hope they recognize it."    “I can’t speak up for myself so I’ll wait until they figure out I’m not happy.”   “What’s the point? Why try?”   “I always end up alone.”   “Nobody wants me.”</em></p>
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<h3><span style="color: #ff6600;"><strong><em>Sound familiar?</em></strong> </span></h3>
<p><span style="color: #800080;"><strong><em>If so, then you need to join us at this month's retreat, Love! </em><em>&lt;</em><em>3</em></strong></span></p>
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<p><strong>Singles and couples are equally welcome</strong> – but for those of you who are in a relationship, know this: you do NOT have to bring your partner to change your relationship. <strong><em>They don’t even have to know!</em></strong> <em>Why?</em></p>
<p>Because it’s YOUR private healing journey. <strong><em>ONLY YOUR energy needs to be healed!</em></strong></p>
<p>This day is about healing the parts of our spirit that were lost at the scenes of trauma and heartbreak in a safe, nonjudgmental and loving environment.</p>
<p><em>It’s time to </em><strong><em>get rid of that baggage</em></strong> <em>that’s weighing you down.</em></p>
<h2><span style="color: #ff6600;"><strong>WHAT YOU'LL GET:</strong></span></h2>
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<li><strong>5 Hours of Reiki &amp; Channeled Guidance at The Dojo with Sensei Victoria Whitfield (Value $625)</strong></li>
<li><strong>Discussion: We Are All Sacred Mirrors &amp; The Healing Power of Divine Intimacy and Relationships (Value $150)</strong></li>
<li><strong>Holy Fire Karuna Reiki Deep Meditation: The Holy Love Experience for Soul Retrieval and Interdimensional Heart Chakra Healing (Value $200)</strong></li>
<li><strong>Cleansing &amp; Grounding Vegan Lunch with Live Juicing (Value $50)</strong></li>
<li><strong>Training in Identifying, Cultivating and Receiving R.E.A.L. Love (Value $150)</strong></li>
<li><strong>Training in Microcosmic Orbit and Manifestation Magick for Attracting Love (Value $200)</strong></li>
<li><strong>Training in Raising The Vibration of Your Sacred Temple with Spiritual Assertiveness and Blisswork (Value $200)</strong></li>
<li><strong>Ample Time for Practice, Journaling and Sharing</strong></li>
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<h4 class="null"><span style="color: #800080;"><em>Total Value = $1,575, but you pay less than $200 for the entire workshop!</em></span></h4>
<h4 class="null" style="text-align: right;"><span style="color: #800080;"><em>Why?<br />
Because I love ya! 😉</em></span></h4>
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<h2><span style="color: #800080;"><strong><span style="color: #ff6600;">LOGISTICS:</span>  <em>               </em></strong></span></h2>
<p><strong><span style="color: #333333;"><u>Date</u>: Sunday, January 31st 2016</span></strong></p>
<p><strong><span style="color: #333333;"><u>Time</u>: 10:00am - 3:00pm (5 hours)</span></strong></p>
<p><strong><u>Bring</u>: Dress to impress / for a romantic date (but clothes you can lounge in), 1 dozen roses or your favorite flowers, a candle to dedicate to Love and Joy, scarf or eye cover, pen and pad for journaling.</strong></p>
<p><strong><u>Location</u>: Sensei Victoria Whitfield's Reiki Dojo at 922 South Avenue West, First Floor (Porch Right Door), Westfield, NJ 07090 (Free street parking. In-person only; no online attendance at this time. No-shoes facility; please bring socks.)</strong></p>
<p><span style="color: #800080;"><strong><u>Tickets</u></strong><strong>: NEW YEAR NEW YOU JANUARY SPECIAL $147 Earlybird (rec. by Jan. 15th), $197 Songbird (rec. by Jan. 27th) required to reserve your space -- prices go up to $197 / $247 starting February 1st 2016, so don't miss this chance to jumpstart your healing 2016! </strong></span><strong>Sorry, no verbal or emailed RSVP's accepted because space is VERY limited: 10 person max; first come, first serve.</strong></p>
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<h3 style="text-align: center;"><span style="color: #ff0000;"><strong>FAST ACTION BONUS:</strong></span></h3>
<p style="text-align: center;"><em><span style="color: #800000;"><strong>BRING A FRIEND BONUS. </strong><strong>Register by 11:59pm with your friend on January 10th and get TWO Group Guided Meditation Class Passes FOR FREE -- A $40 VALUE!!!</strong></span></em></p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><em><span style="color: #800000;">(Please put "Friend of ..." in notes on your payment for tracking purposes.)</span></em></p>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p>Overwhelmed by other people's energy lately? Feeling overworked because you can't say "no" when other people ask you to do them a favor? Scared that you're headed for burnout? You can release yourself from this vicious cycle. It's time to stop enabling other people's victim behavior, and let them start saving themselves for a change. [&#8230;]</p>
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<h2><span style="color: #800080;"><em>Overwhelmed by other people's energy lately?</em></span></h2>
<h2><em>Feeling overworked because you can't say "no" when other people ask you to do them a favor?</em></h2>
<h2><em>Scared that you're headed for burnout?</em></h2>
<p><em>You can release yourself from this vicious cycle.</em></p>
<p><em>It's time to stop enabling other people's victim behavior, and let them start saving themselves for a change.</em></p>
<p><span style="color: #008080;"><strong>Watch the above 8-minute video to let go of managing other people's drama!</strong></span></p>
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<p style="text-align: right;"><em><span style="color: #800080;"><b>"I don't have to play this game anymore<em>.</em>"</b></span></em></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">I'm hearing the Oracle cards calling in the energy right now. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1"><strong>This week, in particular, Source is telling you to be on the lookout for where are you allowing excessive energy for people to stomp all over you.</strong> </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Or allowing them to bulldoze over your sense of personal calm with their emotions. Or their work - you're taking it and putting on your back from theirs. Transferring it to you. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1"><strong>They have a wonderfully low tolerance for how much work, or how much emotion, or how much silence in themselves they're willing to tolerate.</strong> </span></p>
<p class="p1"><em><span class="s1">"Oh, I don't have to carry the work, you'll take it. Great. I don't have to sort through my emotions and my problems, you will. Great. I don't have to hold all of my thoughts within me and analyze them myself. Great you will." </span></em></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Dump, dump, dump. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span style="color: #800080;"><strong><span class="s1">The only reason why you're catching the dump is because you're automatically saying, <em>"Okay."</em></span></strong></span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1"> There's an agreement there. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">This is not to shame or guilt you, by the way. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><strong><span class="s1">Source is saying you have all the power in this situation. </span></strong></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Drama and dramatic situations often can convince you, with all the shiny lights, bells and whistles of dramatic emotions, painful words, or frustrating circumstance, all those shiny shiny lights can distract you and make you think that, <em>"I'm a victim. I am subject to what's happening to me. There's no way out."</em> </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">That is not true. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span style="color: #800080;"><strong><span class="s1">You always have all power. This is a free will universe. You can choose to change your situation at any time, any time.</span></strong></span></p>
<p class="p1"><span style="line-height: 1.5;">When you realize you're face deep in someone else's junk - face deep in their drama, their emotion, their story, their&nbsp;work - when you're at the office and you're doing way more than what your pay grade says that you're doing, just say this to yourself:&nbsp;</span><span style="line-height: 1.5;"><em>"I don't have to play this game anymore,"</em> and step out of the drama sandbox they're playing in. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><strong><span style="line-height: 1.5;">All right, get up. Stand&nbsp;up. Stand up and&nbsp;just say: "<em>I'm not playing this game anymore."&nbsp;</em>Step out. </span></strong></p>
<p class="p1"><span style="line-height: 1.5;">The chills. You can do it. It really is that easy. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span style="line-height: 1.5;">It really is that easy. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span style="color: #800080;"><strong><span style="line-height: 1.5;">When you decide, the entire Universe changes. </span><span style="line-height: 1.5;">Why? Because the whole Universe herself was created by a decision.</span></strong></span></p>
<p class="p1"><img decoding="async" class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-2049" src="https://victoriawhitfield.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/11/TWEETOFTHEWEEK.png" alt="TWEETOFTHEWEEK" width="462" height="86" srcset="https://victoriawhitfield.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/11/TWEETOFTHEWEEK.png 462w, https://victoriawhitfield.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/11/TWEETOFTHEWEEK-300x56.png 300w, https://victoriawhitfield.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/11/TWEETOFTHEWEEK-460x86.png 460w" sizes="(max-width: 462px) 100vw, 462px" /></p>
<h2 style="text-align: center;"><strong>Know this:&nbsp;<a href="http://ctt.ec/85af1" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">You can #change your life; you just need to decide. Claim it: "My life is #drama free!"</a></strong></h2>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">This week's oracle card is "Divine Timing." Now is the perfect moment for you to act on your inspirations. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><strong><span class="s1">You can change your mind and change your entire situation, your entire life now. </span></strong></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">This video is coming to you in perfect timing they're also saying. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">The doors are open while you walk through them with us, the Angels, by your side. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span style="color: #800080;"><strong><span class="s1">Don't delay or procrastinate, as all the ingredients are ripe for your success. </span></strong></span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">They're saying right now, you have everything you need to shift your state right now. Right now. Literally,&nbsp;right now. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><strong><span class="s1">Everything and everyone is on your side supporting your positive outcome.</span></strong></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1"> The energy I'm hearing is&nbsp;saying sometimes we convince ourselves that everyone is against us, that the world doesn't want us to succeed, that others around you are not on your level and it makes it very adversarial. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Granted, not everyone is on your vibration and you can't please everybody, but that doesn't mean you have to get tied up in that. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span style="color: #800080;"><strong><span class="s1">Let it go. If they're not on your level, let them go. You don't even have to think twice. </span></strong></span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1"> It's the same as if you ever worked in a multi-floor building. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">If you're working on the 12th floor how often do you think about people on the 11th floor on a day-to-day basis? </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Those of you out in New York City or out of Houston Texas, big tall buildings, how often do you think, "<em>Well, I wonder what people on the 3rd and 4th floor are doing right now? Gosh, they're beneath me. Bwah haha har!"</em> </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">No, you're just on another floor. That floor has nothing to do with you. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Let them be there. They're just living their lives one day at a time and the best the can, the same as you are. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><strong><span class="s1">Be kind to yourself. You don't even have to get involved with that drama.</span></strong></p>
<p class="p1">Sending you so much love, confidence and transformative energy.</p>
<p><strong style="line-height: 1.5;">In Love and Light,</strong></p>
<p><strong>Victoria.</strong></p>
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<p><strong><em>Just for Today...</em></strong></p>
<p><strong><strong>Declare that today is "Drama-Free Day" -- it's your own national holiday.</strong></strong></p>
<div><strong>In observance of this holiday, you are on vacation from listening to, solving or reading about other people's, businesses' or countries' problems or negativity; everyone has to be an uplifting person today, including you. </strong></div>
<p><strong><em>Notice how you feel at that moment - you're already healing!</em></strong></p>
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<p><span style="color: #008000;"><strong>SHARE THIS! You’d be surprised how many people you know right now are in desperate need of healing and could use this information to change their life. If you can read this, you know someone who needs this Love Letter!</strong></span></p>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p>Tired of dramatic people draining and hijacking your days? Have you had it up to here with people dumping their problems on you? Don't you just wish things could be easy, rather than putting out fires all the time? This Love Letter is for all my awesome Mr./Ms. Fix-It's out there who are ready to [&#8230;]</p>
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<h2><span style="color: #800080;"><em>Tired of dramatic people draining and hijacking your days?</em></span></h2>
<h2><em>Have you had it up to here with people dumping their problems on you?</em></h2>
<h2><em>Don't you just wish things could be easy, rather than putting out fires all the time?</em></h2>
<p>This Love Letter is for all my awesome Mr./Ms. Fix-It's out there who are ready to put down their sword and cape.</p>
<p>It's about time we let other people clean up their messes and deal with their own drama on their own time!</p>
<p><span style="color: #008080;"><strong>Watch the above 8-minute video to start kicking drama out of your life for good!</strong></span></p>
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<p style="text-align: right;"><em><span style="color: #800080;"><b>"<em>I'm tired of all the drama.</em>"</b></span></em></p>
<p class="p1">This week the phrase that Source&nbsp;is sending for us to talk about is, "I'm tired of all the drama."</p>
<p class="p1">Is that you?</p>
<p class="p1">Are you just sick and tired of things just being over the top?</p>
<p class="p1"><strong>Tired of being overwhelmed, tired of dramatic people, tired of everybody dumping their problems on you, and then you having to have to fix everything?</strong></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">They think you're Mr. or Mrs. Fix-it, and it's exhausting. Is that you? </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span style="color: #800080;"><strong><span class="s1">Everything has to be explosive. </span></strong></span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Our relationships, our whirlwind romances, our arguments are explosive. Our exercise routines are maxed out, over the top, extreme. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">And then we wonder why we're so tired, or so distracted lately. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span style="color: #800080;"><strong><span class="s1"><span style="color: #333333;">Source is saying that distraction is another form of exhaustion.</span> </span></strong></span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">It's imbalanced. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">We're coping with a sense of fatigue and a need for rest and re-centering by avoiding it with distractions on cellphones, distracted, wandering conversations. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Distraction is a lack of centeredness.</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1"> When you are centered, being centered is different than being grounded, by the way. When you are centered you are in alignment. </span><span class="s1">You are focused. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Being focused and in alignment is entirely different than being grounded. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span style="color: #800080;"><strong><span class="s1">For this topic in particular, Source is saying the reason why you're experiencing so much drama, or people are bringing you so much drama, is that this drama is a spiritual symptom manifestation of your lack of centeredness. </span></strong></span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">We're out of alignment, so in order to feel our center and in order for us to be motivated to respond, things have to shout at us at a certain level. Hence, the shouty drama energy.</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1"> For example, the Energy is bringing up a vision right now of some of the members of the tribe who may be watching, but have issues with their throat chakra.</span></p>
<p class="p1"><strong><span class="s1">When we have issues with our throat chakra, we cannot speak up for ourselves. </span></strong></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Put that person into a corner, however, or really egg them on and increase the stress level around them, box them in, and then they will lash out. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">They will lash out&nbsp;and have no problem bringing out the stinger to defend their energy, but only when severely threatened.&nbsp;</span><span class="s1">They'll blast people and&nbsp;things out of the way, because there's been so much expression held within and recoiled. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">When we're holding within, recoiling&nbsp;and&nbsp;winding up, we're out of alignment because it's causing us to be reactionary, the Energy is saying.</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1" style="color: #333333;"> But remember to be kind to yourself.</span></p>
<h2><strong>Know this: <a href="http://ctt.ec/HWfzF" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">If you're knee-deep in&nbsp;#drama&nbsp;right now, put down your pride &amp; decide to not solve other people's problems. Say it: "I'm done!"</a></strong></h2>
<p class="p1"><strong><span class="s1">If the drama is all around you, you're immersed in it.</span></strong></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">And when you're knee-deep in drama, the only reason why that is happening is because Source notices that you are a little hard of hearing, so She's turning up the dial on the water that you're soaking in. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Imagine this. You're in a pot of water, and things are getting hotter, because you're on a stove. Now, at a certain temperature, you're cool, you're feeling all right. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">But after a while, as She turns up the heat, you begin to notice it's getting warmer&nbsp;and&nbsp;warmer. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span style="color: #800080;"><strong><span class="s1">Source is waiting for you to jump&nbsp;out of the pot because you're not supposed to be boiled there. You're still alive and still conscious. She's&nbsp;not trying to boil you, but when are you going to decide to get out of the pot? </span></strong></span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">So, she continues turning up, turning up, turning up the heat and you say, <em>"Okay, it's getting really hot in here. I'm starting to feel a little bit overwhelmed, but I can take it. I can take it." </em></span></p>
<p class="p1"><strong><span class="s1">Pride, ego, conditioning says, <em>"I can take it. I can take it. I can stay and fix the water, and stop it from boiling all around me, and boiling me."</em></span></strong></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">The boiling water and the temperature represent the amount of drama and agitation you're experiencing in life. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Source will turn that up, until you're fed up and screaming&nbsp;<em>"All right! I'm done!"</em> and out of the pot you jump. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span style="color: #800080;"><strong><span class="s1">So what's your tipping point? What's your boiling point? </span></strong></span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">We only experience the level of drama in life that we agree to. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><strong><span class="s1">In other words, you allow drama. </span></strong></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">We are allowing this excessive, annoying, frustrating, overwhelming energy and interactions into our life. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span style="color: #333333;"><span class="s1">We allow them mainly when we are out of alignment with what matters most.&nbsp;</span></span><span class="s1">If we are out of alignment with what matters most to us, we cannot access the full clarity, the full focus of our feelings. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><strong><span class="s1">We're pinched. Think of a pinched nerve. </span><span class="s1">When the nerve is pinched in your body, the feeling there is numb. It is out of alignment, not blocked because it's just really squished there.</span></strong></p>
<p class="p1"><span style="color: #800080;"><strong><span class="s1"> You're not blocked, you're just pinched.</span></strong></span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1"> It's not like your energy turned off, per se. </span><span class="s1" style="color: #333333;">There is still some sort of feeling there, but it pales in comparison to say the completely unpinched side. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Let someone adjust you -- or even better, you can adjust yourself -- so&nbsp;the energy, the warmth, the sensation, the feeling returns to that entire area of your body, and that entire area of your life.</span></p>
<p class="p1"><em>Stay tuned for part 2 of this topic, coming next week...</em></p>
<p><strong style="line-height: 1.5;">In Love and Light,</strong></p>
<p><strong>Victoria.</strong></p>
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<p><strong><em>Just for Today...</em></strong></p>
<p><strong>Decide that today's the day you'll stop participating in other people's problems and drama.</strong></p>
<div><strong>The next time someone starts to get you involved, affirm to yourself repeatedly "This is a NO DUMPING ZONE!"</strong></div>
<p><strong><em>Notice how you feel at that moment - you're already healing!</em></strong></p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p><span style="color: #008000;"><strong>SHARE THIS! You’d be surprised how many people you know right now are in desperate need of healing and could use this information to change their life. If you can read this, you know someone who needs this Love Letter!</strong></span></p>
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<h2><span style="color: #008080;">Want to de-stress and clear&nbsp;your energy&nbsp;but don't know where to start? Tell me!</span></h2>
<h3><strong>Give me a call at&nbsp;<a href="tel:+1-732-903-8573">+1 (732) 903-8573</a>&nbsp;or click on the blue&nbsp;BOOK NOW&nbsp;button to start your healing journey, today!</strong></h3>
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