Scared of sticking out from the crowd?

Do you put yourself down to make other people feel comfortable?

Lacking confidence, especially when introducing yourself others?

Sensitive empaths are often taught to put other people first, and to never brag because it’s rude.

But sometimes being able to celebrate yourself is essential, especially when introducing yourself and your business, to connect deeply and convey confidence to potential clients and partners.

Watch this week’s 11-minute love letter video, part 3 of our 5-week deep dive on living life Unapologetically, to learn exactly how to start celebrating how freakin’ awesome you are, even if you’re not used to it!

"My goes blank when I try to tell people about myself."

It's week three of our five week deep dive.

This is so good. A really juicy topic of living life unapologetically.

Now, I've been getting so much response off of this topic, oh my gosh. To those of you who get the mail, like the real ones, the real love letters, you've been writing me back and saying, "Thank you so much. I love this topic. This is my word for the year, too. Let's do this," or "Here's my word," I'm loving it.

I'm loving it and I'm really curious to hear more from you, so go ahead, email me back.

Write me back. Post me back. Tell me all the things that are coming up for you around living life unapologetically.

Last week, we covered Sorry, Not Sorry, right? Deleting the word "sorry" from our vocabulary.

This week in particular, we're going to cover with the technique of the week is celebrating yourself. Whoa! Isn't it just the most frightening thing that we could possibly talk about? Oh my goodness.

So, maybe you're like me in that when someone asks you, "So tell me about yourself," I especially used to be this way, it was like a blank slate just completely wiped over my mind, and I'm like, "What in the world do I say to this person?" "Tell me about yourself," or "What's new and good," or "Tell me something good," the kind of open-ended questions that a confident person, I'm sure we all know them, who would jump right in with like how great their workout regimen is, or how much money they made, or how in love they are, or how much they love their kids, or this one time when they threw the football all the way across the yard, or something way back in high, or whatever.

Confident people celebrate themselves, but for those of us that are more sensitive naturally, this can be a bit of a dilemma because we think of celebrating ourselves as being egocentric, selfish, self-serving, getting too full of yourself. In Australia we call it tall poppy, right? Cut that poppy down to size so that you look like the rest of the fold.

For us, as empaths, we're also afraid of feeling the uncomfortable emotional sensation, ambient emotional sensation of visibility and judgment, like, "Oh. Well, if I really celebrate myself, I'm going to sense this person judging me and I don't want those cooties in my head. Ew, I can feel their jealousy."

Is this you? Are you afraid of celebrating yourself because of what other people will think? If that's you, sending big love, and that's going to stop this week.

For those of you who work with me privately, you know that I have a group support program called the Visionary Shaman Circle, and in that we practice, I'm going to introduce you to this if you haven't heard of this before, the technique of the week is called a C2R2. In the Shaman Circle, we really work on standing in our brilliance as spiritual entrepreneurs, healers and empaths. We work on standing in our brilliance.

One of the techniques that we use in the Shaman Circle for doing this effectively is called the C2R2. Not the R2D2, to all my Star Wars fans. The C2R2, it's two Cs and two Rs. What are you celebrating, what are you creating? What are you releasing, and what are you requesting?

It's a form to follow in reporting about yourself so that if you get that open-ended question of, "Oh, so tell me what you do," or "Tell me about yourself," say, "Okay. Well, I'm celebrating having come off my first two weeks of personal vacation. I'm really grateful for that. I'm creating more sacred space to be with my loved ones. Lately, I've been releasing fear around taking risks in my business, but what I'm requesting right now more than ever, from a source, from the universe, or maybe even from you is more support on how to make that happen."

Boom! All of a sudden, I just ran right through the format of a C2R2: what are you celebrating, what are you creating, what are you releasing, what are you requesting? There's no fifth thing.

So you run right through that, and when you get the hang of it, you'll be able to celebrate yourself authentically and with a sense of ease, it'll roll right off of you. But it starts with celebrating yourself because guess what? You're really freaking awesome! Has anyone told you that lately? You are really awesome. You do amazing things for everybody: for your boss, for your clients, for your family, for your kids, for so many people.

‪Know this: You are freakin’ awesome! And it’s time you started celebrating YOURSELF. #inspiration #entrepreneur @SenseiWhitfield

If you were to sit down and write all of the things that you are celebrating that you've accomplished let's just say within the last week, you would have a fit. In fact, that is this week's homework.

I'm hearing the Oracle cards calling in the energy as the action step for the week comes forward. Sit down, even if you can't do a complete C2R2, just write a list of at least ten things that you are celebrating you've accomplished within the last week. If you can't come up within the last week, try the last three months or six months, maybe even a year.

Really soak that in, that you are a powerful being. You are a powerful being. Source knows that about you. We're continuing with daily guidance from the Angels. Let's see. Angels, what do you have to tell our tribe? This is one of the many decks here, always open to receiving donations of additional Oracle card decks.

Angels, what do we need to know right now about celebrating ourselves to live an unapologetic life? Oh, hello. Yes! Release and surrender. This is so perfect.

"We shower you with blessings of our radiant love. Open your arms and release the challenges that you've held tightly gripped within your hands. Open your hands, arms and heart to our love and assistance." This is where we're going to leave off for the week. I'm getting de ja vu around this card. This is kind of interesting. Part of celebrating yourself is letting go of being small, letting go, surrendering the idea that the smaller you are the safer you will feel, or the less brilliant you are the better other people will feel. There's so much love inside of you, for you, coming from your source, coming from spirit, but coming from yourself, like a garden hose.

Up until now, you may have pinched that off, and that'll show up in different areas of your life, being pinched off financially, pinched off neurologically, pinched off romantically, pinched off socially, however you say. But if only just for now, we're going to release and surrender that pinched part of our energy to really open up and celebrate. You can do this. You can do this.

Send me an email back, and comment below what's your list of ten things, the ten things that you're going to celebrate that you've accomplished about yourself.

For all my Visionary Shamans, if you want to do a full-on C2R2, go ahead and post it below, send me an email back. By the way, if this speaks to you, join us in the Master Manifester Challenge. I'll put a link, and that's my five-day Facebook challenge. I know another one is coming up soon, whenever you're watching this.

We do them periodically where we will be doing C2R2s every single day and getting your vibrations super high, training you how to do that so that you can live life unapologetically and abundantly. So I will see you next week for week four of five. See you then. Bye!

(Original post 01/15/2018)

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Make it a point to acknowledge and celebrate at least 10 things you’ve accomplished.

Get a pen and pad and write them out: from the last week, quarter or even year.

Notice how you feel at that moment - you're already healing!

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Are you putting off living life unapologetically?

Do you believe others can pursue their passions and dreams now, but not you?

Feel like you'll have permission to be yourself "later" - like when you get the perfect job, spouse, baby, retirement, body, etc.?

Most sensitive entrepreneurs put off living life fully and openly for fear of criticism, shaming and judgement.

And these low-vibrational feelings distract us empathically from the reasons why we must show up in life and business unapologetically, now.

Watch this week’s 11-minute Love Letter, the first installment in our 5-week series, to remember why you must live your life unapologetically.

"Welcome to a brand new you!"

This is a brand new five-week deep dive series that we're going to be doing on the topic of living an unapologetic life. Every year, I pick a word that is the theme for the year for me personally. Last year, my theme was Supported; how I want to feel. This year in particular, Unapologetic Ease is actually the full intention and sensation that I'm going for this year in particular. My guide said, “Let's start off the year bringing in the entire tribe around what it looks like and what's at stake behind living life unapologetically.”

As you know, by now, when we do these multi-week deep dive series, it's so that you and I can have time to really get into the nuts and bolts of these topics. Also, we always begin with why. We start with why because we're conjuring energy, we're conjuring attention and focus around this new learning topic. If you're looking to start new projects and generate energy, you start with why. There are other reasons for you to start with why, such as: getting clear on what you're passionate about, clarifying focus and reeling in, honing in energy not just of your own but also of your team around you. So starting with why rocks!

This week, let's look at why you should live life unapologetically. Here's the thing: When we live life apologetically, we go throughout our days and go throughout our businesses, our meetings, our relationships, even the thoughts that we think in our heads going round and around thinking, “I'm sorry. I'm sorry. I'm so sorry,” or, “This is a really sorry circumstance,” or the wah-wah kind of energy is what follows us around when we live life apologetically. Even when we're trying to get to our seat in the movie theater, we say repeatedly:“I'm sorry, I'm sorry, I'm sorry.” Is this you? Is that just your automatic thing to say, "I'm sorry", when someone calls on you or when you have a question or when you call someone up or think … Is that the way that you meet the world, as "I'm sorry?"

If the way that you are meeting the world is leading with I'm sorry, then you are automatically blocking all the love, all the abundance, the support and healing that Source is pouring on you. Write this down: Saying I'm sorry means don't support me, I'm bad. Saying I'm sorry means don't support me because I'm bad.

Know this: Constantly saying I'm sorry blocks #abundance; the universe hears it as "don't support me because I'm wrong." @SenseiWhitfield

You should not be full of shame in the way that you meet the world. The reason why we want to live life unapologetically is so that you have all the energy that you need to meet life confidently and full of joy, full of radiance. We need your light.

Healers, you've got to meet the world unapologetically because you have a powerful, powerful purpose, and we need you now more than ever. Entrepreneurs, you're here to solve problems. You're a problem solver. You've seen an issue and you're like, “Oh, I have a solution.” We need you to come to life unapologetically because there's plenty of problems out there that if it wasn't for you, we wouldn't have the solution for.

It's time for you to come out of your shell and step into life unapologetically. Why? Because we need YOU.

Now, also, be kind to yourself if you think that you should stave off living life unapologetically until retirement or on, “When I get married, I'll be unapologetic about myself. That's when I can let myself go.” By the way, it’s not how that works, or, “Maybe when I get that big client, I can finally book a massage because I don't deserve self-care until I make a certain amount of money.” No. Oh my goodness. Be kind to yourself if you're pushing off living life unapologetically. "I'm not going to travel the world until I’ve retired at 67 or 72 or whenever the years are when I'm too tired to really be going around the world, yeah, that's when I'll live life unapologetically." Or "I’ll wait until I'm older to be taken seriously because I'm a female or I'm a young man or whatever, and that means because I'm young or because I'm female, that means you can't really take me seriously."

Stop apologizing. Why are you living life unapologetically? You have a purpose now. You can live life like you mean it. You can live life like you own it now, and we need you now. We needed you, as they say in New York. We needed you yesterday. Let's make a commitment this week in particular to invoke this concept of living life unapologetically. For the next five weeks, we're going to dive deep into it. Are you ready?

Accompanying us on our journey into living life unapologetically is the oracle cards deck Daily Guidance From Your Angels by Doreen Virtue, one of the many oracle cards decks. You can send in your donation deck to the dojo. Go ahead to naturalintuition.com and look for the Contact page, my mailing address is there. Thank you to all my loves who sent in donation decks. It's amazing. You should see how many people have been benefiting from your generosity. I’ll try to post more pictures. I'm not going to apologize though. Yes, yes. Okay. Angels, what do we need to know this week in particular about why we need to live life unapologetically? Oh, that felt strong.

Perfect Timing.

Perfect Timing: Now is the perfect moment for you to act on your inspirations. The doors are open while you walk through them with us by your side. Don't delay or procrastinate as all of the ingredients are ripe for your success. Everything and everyone is on your side supporting your positive outcome.

Where we're going to leave off this week is that why should you live an unapologetic life is because Now is the time. There are opportunities, the angels are saying, that, if you have the confidence and the presence and the energy to step into, your whole life would change, and so will the lives of all those around you, in your community, in your family, on your team. We need you now. Can you see that first word? Now is the perfect moment. Now more than ever.

Go ahead, type in the comments below how is this perfectly on time, this topic of living life unapologetically. We are walking into this as a new year - regardless of when you're watching or reading this, by the way. At the time that this airs, it will be a new year in 2018, but we are walking into this new year as if Now is when we're worthy, Now is when we can live life unapologetically.

What would that mean to you? Go ahead and type in the comments below. I want to hear it. I want to read it. Share, send me videos back, send me an e-mail back at info@victoriawhitfield.com. That comes straight to me. Make sure you subscribe on YouTube so that you get these love letters first every week and I will see you next time for part two of five. See you soon. Bye.

(Original post 01/01/2018)

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Decide to live life unapologetically, right now.

Go about your day assuming you are already worthy and have everything you ever wanted.

Notice how you feel at that moment - you're already healing!

SHARE THIS! You’d be surprised how many people you know right now are in desperate need of healing and could use this information to change their life. If you can read this, you know someone who needs this Love Letter!

Want spiritual support on your healing journey but don't know where to start? Let's work #together!

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This is our final week four of four in our exploration of healing sales, our sales scars and shame around asking for the sale. Healing the bad, crusty experiences that we've had in the past.

If this is the first video that you are seeing in this series, make sure you hit pause, and go back on my blog at victoriawhitfield.com so that you start from part one and are grounded in this process.

Without further ado, for week four of four, the guides have asked us to continue the conversation that we started last week, and specifically talk about sales as healing. Sales as healing? Holy tomato! For some people, that's about the most opposite possible thing that they could think of when they think of sales. “Are you kidding me? Sales is like you're raiding and pillaging everyone. It's like an attack.”

Sales can be perceived as an attack, and if we've had some negative experiences in the past, in those really powerful transformational moments that come up for us regarding a larger sale such as buying a house or a car, or a coaching program, or a new building, and so on and so forth. If someone's done you wrong in that level sale, that scar runs deep, but in the words of Robert Bly from Iron John- which is amazing if you haven't read it yet – “Every wound is a womb.” Every wound is a womb.

The wounds that we may have received in our past of sales not going very well for ourselves or being done to us - or even witnessing sales happening between others that aren’t ethical - every wound that we receive is actually a womb. And what is a womb? It's a place where new life is created, so that's why we're talking about sales as healing. These wounds that we've received over the course of engaging in commerce are sacred, whether you are an entrepreneur or not. You don't have to own a business to have engaged in the sale. Anything you have, the clothes on your back, glasses, the shoes, underpants on your butt (hopefully, you're not wearing any? No judgment.) you have that because someone sold it to you.

You live in this house because someone sold it. Be kind to yourself. Your education, you have it because someone sold you on having education. But at the same time some of those experiences of being sold, being brought from one paradigm to another through a sale - a sale bridges gaps - that paradigm shift can be a bit traumatic.

But I want to elevate to this vision that the guides are sending for us right now of sales as something entirely different: sales is healing. I really want to drop into my heart and be blunt right now with you, because a lot of my lists of people who are watching these videos, following on YouTube, Facebook, Instagram, Twitter, LinkedIn, Pinterest, or wherever you are, if it's just landed into your inbox or someone forwarded me to you: nine times out of 10 you're some sort of a teacher, coach, healer, or a caregiver of some sort, right? You support people. You offer a healing presence.

If you are watching or reading this right now, whether you're a hairdresser cutting hair, an accountant doing taxes, or a lawyer working through your cases, whether you're working in construction, or you're like a transformational women's divine feminine coach goddess, or some other service-based business in addition to all of the above. If you're watching and still reading this right now, what magnetized you is not just my lovely exciting shirt and sparkly energy, but it's the fact that you see a piece of you in me. By the way, likewise; I see a piece of myself in you, in that we are Healers. We're here to heal the world. We're here to bring healing presence.

If you are having a hard time receiving financial abundance, it's because you have not shifted your point of view yet around sales. You haven't shifted it yet to see sales as healing. Sales is healing. Now, I'm a Reiki Master, an alternative medicine energy healer. I'm a woo-woo person, and proudly wave my rainbow woo-woo flag. I’m down with unicorns and glitter and high vibrational multi-dimensional energy - all of that, 100%. And the only way that I am able to share all that woo-woo goodness juice with the people who are starving and dried out and like desperate for it – they’re spiritually dehydrated. They need the juice. - is if I get out there and share my gift. If I get out, open up and talk about who I am and what I do, and what I can do for you. That's the purpose of sales.

Sales is actually healing for the people who are thirsty for the juice that you have created. I'm not talking about selling people stuff that they don't need. That can actually turn more into an addiction. I mean, hey, I have an addictive personality. Let me pull myself out the closet and like flap that in the air for you, okay? So yeah, I can have an addictive personality where, oh my gosh, I just want to go, I want to buy a bunch of stuff to alleviate my frustration right now. I want to buy a bunch of information courses and a bunch of books, and a bunch of crystals, right? Maybe that's been you before, and to some extent the things that I'm drawn to are what I need in the moment.

And those people who are out there selling the crystals, the necklaces, the books, the audio courses, the things that are going to lift me back up, I thank the Goddess for them. But I'm not going to be going out there and buying like, you know, sprockets and light bulbs and tires and things when I'm in my emotional state searching for a certain thing. If I need energy, I'm going to go out there looking for things that are going to give me energy for what I'm looking for.
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That's the key for sales being healing. It's you putting out “what am I going to help people with? And here it is.” I really appreciate Russell Brunson, his concept of having a Bridge to help us get from that state of “Alright already! I'm in frustration and in trouble” to “here, let's talk about the sale.” Having a Bridge is what's going to help you engage more sales as the healing part of your business. It not only heals your bank account when you close successful sales, but it also is healing for the clients and customers who are receiving exactly what they need.

Having a Bridge, and this comes from Russell Brunson, is to have a phrase that helps anchor in the fact that you are here to help them, and you have something that you would like to help them with. So what is that phrase? It could be asking for permission of someone who, you know, if you're out sharing your gifts and you see they could really use what you are providing, say, "Hey, I see that you have this situation going on. Is it okay if I share with you something that I put together to make things easier for you?” Or, “I put something together to serve you, and I was wondering if you would want to hear more about it?"

Ask for permission. Sales is healing when you always ask permission, first.You want to get consent in guiding someone through their paradigm shift, because the worst thing is pushing someone into a paradigm shift who doesn't want it and isn't ready for it. Sales is healing because we raise the buyer’s vibration. We help people into a new, more empowered reality as long as you're doing it ethically. When done unethically, unfortunately it can become like what we've been talking about for the last few weeks: something that is much more of a scarring experience.

Now, you've got to remember to turn on your natural intuition. Tune into your body. Clear your energy. Listen to your heart. If you feel your heart opening towards someone, feeling compassionate and wanting to help them, listen to that desire, that sensation of oh my goodness, I really want to help them. I feel for them. That's a sign from the Universe to actually take out your bridge, bring it over to them and say, "Hey, I see you're going through this situation. I know about something that could help you”, or “I put this thing together that could really make it easier for you. Is it okay if I share it with you?" Get their consent, and then go ahead, honor them by giving them access to the thing that will help them the most. Sales is so incredibly, powerfully healing. Comment below, send me an email back at team@victoriawhitfield.com. Let me know what's coming up for you around this.

For now we're going to jump into the Oracle cards. The deck that we've been journeying with is Angels of Abundance by Doreen Virtue, these Oracle cards of Doreen with her son Grant. “Alright, Angels of Abundance, what do we need to know right now about sales as healing and how to activate our natural intuition now, other than reading Victoria's book?” ...Oh, snap. Throwing down some serious love bombs.

Face your financial fears. When you are honest with yourself about fears of success or failure, honest with yourself, they can no longer control you. Be free of hidden fears by exposing them to the light of awareness, and you'll realize that you in fact have nothing to fear, and that every successful person has struggled with and releases these self-doubts. This is where we're going to leave off for the week. The perfect landing point for this series.

You know, when you release fear around sales, receiving more or delivering more sales conversations, when you release that fear and you have faith that this is actually a healing going on, all of that momentum around blocking abundance lifts. Have faith that what you are sharing is healing. Focus on the healing. Don't focus on your fear or on your self-doubt. That'll sabotage you. You'll end up self-sabotaging.

Do the inner work first, though, to get yourself into a space of total faith in the work that you do or in the product that you're talking about. Do the inner work around understanding that when you go into a sales conversation, or when someone's trying to engage you in that, there's a healing going on. Be open to receiving or giving the healing more so than the money, okay? Be more focused on the healing work than the finances, and nine times out of 10 you'll end up closing the sale and the finances will come.

Be kind to yourself if you're afraid of focusing on the healing because you're so afraid of the money. If that's your case, please reach out to me at www.victoriawhitfield.com/contact You can hop on the phone with me and we'll be able to get you sorted and see how we can best support you moving through that fear of receiving.

I'm sending you so much love, blessings and abundance, and I'll see you in the next one.

May you feel loved and safe at work, and please: Enjoy the journey.

Bye for now.

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Commit to shifting your mindset around sales as healing instead of sales as an attack.

Face and take ownership of the parts that make you the most uncomfortable about sales, and see them as wounds where healing can grow.

Notice how you feel in that moment - you're already healing!

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Hello there. I am Sensei Victoria Whitfield, your business reiki master.  And it's my joy to get to support empathic entrepreneurs and business owners like you in getting and staying grounded and clear in mind, body and business.

Welcome back to another installment of your weekly love letter from the dojo at naturalintuition.com and victoriawhitfield.com, my blog. These are your sources for channeled holistic stress management techniques and guidance for developing your natural intuition. Whether you're looking to improve the quality of your personal and professional life, let this love letter be your reminder that you are not alone and that together we can make that happen.

Let's schedule a chat, and see how I can help you...

We are entering into another series of the Love Letters and I have to tell you, I'm fired up about this, personally.

Now, I've only been in business eight years, and I've only reached six figures, I've only been on two world tours and I've only published one book. I’m no expert and I don’t know everything. But after all of the hundreds of entrepreneurs that I have served, hugged and loved on and encouraged to glow, as they grow their businesses, I’ve noticed that this topic in particular comes up all the time and it's killing me! I'm so excited to get to talk to you about it.

So many people have this idea that money is not spiritual, and because of that assumption, they think X, Y and Z. Therefore, I can't buy this program. Therefore, I can't sell my services. Therefore, I shouldn't have more money than my husband. Therefore, as a healer, I should be struggling, or as I'm an artist, I should be struggling. It should be HARD, things should be HARD. I gotta work HARD in order to be acceptable, successful, respectable. Blah, blah, blah. 😉

I love you and in the next few weeks, we are going to be busting through this limiting belief. We have got to bust through this limiting belief. And it's all starting with: money is not spiritual.  Now I am only a Reiki Master Teacher four times over and I'm only the world's first business Reiki master (which means I ground and clear the energy of business owners in particular; their chakras, their energy centers, their flow of wealth and abundance and love and health through them). I don’t know everything. And however, I do know that money is absolutely essential. So much that we have got to talk about it. When you start doing yoga, when you start meditating, you start learning about the mind-body connection. You also start learning about something called Energy and how energy is everything.

“Your vibe attracts your tribe”, does that sound familiar to you? That phrase. Or “raise your vibrations”, “raise your standards”, “get into a peak state” as Tony Robbins would say, or “get into the vortex”, as Abraham Hicks would say, or “love and approve of yourself” as Louise Hay would say? All of these phrases convey that Energy is so important. How we manage our personal energy not only affects our physical health, our emotional health and wellbeing, but it also affects our attractiveness to love, relationships and even opportunities to make money. If you are not in alignment with receiving more wealth and abundance; if you perceive the acquisition of wealth and abundance as evil or not spiritual, and therefore repulsive, you repel it.

"Oh those rich people. They are so sinful. I am so righteous because I work hard and don’t rock the boat,"we are taught to think. If that’s what you’re saying to yourself, then with love and respect, I've gotta break this to you: you are saying that to get YOU off the hook from serving more people. We look down on, as a society, and demonize people who are highly successful, who are producers in the marketplace. We look down on and demonize sales people, to let ourselves off the hook, so that we feel more significant for Not getting in the game and serving more people.

The only reason that, Mark Zuckerberg, or Jeff Bezos, or Oprah, or Marie Forleo, or whoever has more money than you is because they serve more people. That’s it. Of course they make more money! The money is just a reflection of the impact that they are making out there in the world. Thank you, Fabienne Fredrickson, by the way, for making that crystal clear to me years ago - and if you haven't checked her out, I highly recommend her work: visit Boldheart.com for more info. But for all of those of you out there who are afraid to ask for help, to ask for donations for your non-profit, and who are afraid to ask for the sale or afraid to put yourself out there and share the things that you believe in, please know that money is deeply spiritual because money is energy. It is an amplifier.

Money is am amplifier. Who you were before you had the money is only going to become even bigger, once you do. So that's why there are people who have terrible personalities with tons of attention on them having a terrible personality as they are doing terrible things in the world; it’s because before they had all that energy, all of that resource of money behind them, they were already not so high vibe, they were already terrible (lol).

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But to the people who are good and loving, generous and excited to serve, or who are positive and ready to do awesome and bright things in the world: when they get more money, they just do more of it. They start building schools in the most challenged parts of the world. They start bringing water to the people who have no access to water. They build places where water can be brought to them. I read an article that Akon the singer has privately brought electricity to hundreds of millions of people in Africa using the proceeds from his songs. Good gets greater when you add in money, and is that not a beautiful, spiritualresult?

Allow yourself to anchor in that. Anchor in to WHY you should be making more money, receiving more money. Is it for your non-profit? For your business, or you purpose driven enterprise? Your mission-driven company, if you don’t own it but you work for one? Zero in 100% on your WHY so that you can serve people at a greater scale.

Now this NOT for you if you are doing something that you hate, for people who you hate, and you are completely grinding yourself to the bone, because money is your only way out of abject poverty and you will do anything to get it and you'll stomp on anyone to get it. This message is not for you. We don't wanna see more pain in the world. Remember: money is an amplifier. Let’s not amplify more pain and grinding and inauthenticity. But if you are doing good work, you've got to be more visible. I would love to see you shine bright. Open your heart, open your energy and allow more wealth. Not just money, but wealth of all kinds - and we'll be talking about that over the next few weeks. Allow different kinds of wealth to flow into your experience.

In accordance with that, we're going to be journeying with Angels of Abundance oracle cards deck by Doreen and Grant Virtue (that's her son, Grant). Alrighty, and by the way, this is the oracle cards deck that we pull from every month, during the monthly Abundant Business Circle financial energy healing sessions that we have for entrepreneurs here at the dojo. If you're interested in attending the next one, go ahead and send me an email back at team@victoriawhitfield.com. I'd be happy to tell you more. Angels of Abundance, what do we need to know right now about how our money is spiritual? Okay, let's do this... Here goes:

“Exercise to increase your energy and manifestation abilities. The key to manifesting quickly is to have very high energy levels and the easiest way to increase them is through physical exercise. Choose a fun and meaningful activity so that you'll look forward to exercising and it becomes its own reward.” And this is where we're going to leave off for the week.

My guides are telling me that the angles brought this card forward in particular, because someone who is watching right now is on the bright side, is one of the good women, one of the good guys out there, working for the light. You are doing good work. You are giving to charities. You are uplifting all those who come across your path, but you're frustrated. Frustrated because you don't have enough money in order to pay your bills, in order to pay your team, in order to take care of your family as well as to keep up with all of the commitments that you've made. So here's the thing. If you are a high-vibe person, that – meaning, not enough money – is not the real problem.

A lack of money, is a lack of energy. This card says, “exercise to increase your energy and manifestation abilities.” Here's what the real problem is: your physical energy levels, your emotional energy levels or your relational energy levels - it's one of those three. I'm gonna be talking about that over the next few weeks. Your physical energy levels, your emotional energy levels or your relational energy levels are not at the highest vibration possible. Something in one of those three areas is of a lower vibration. And you have got to find a way to raise it by any means necessary. That’s the real problem.

The fastest way to get through all of that is ecstatic exercise. It covers all three. Especially if you do it with other people. When you’re able to turn on your physical capital, turn on your emotional capital and also your relational capital, abundance is guaranteed.

Comment below or send me an email back at team@victoriawhitfield.com. What's coming up for you around that. Which one of those three areas - physical, emotional or relational (and that means relationships and how you are in the vibration of your relationships) - what one of those three is what's really low vibe and sucking the energy out of your wealth and abundance, and by extension, affecting your finances? I'd love to hear that and support you in raising that vibration, if you’d like help with that.

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May you feel loved and safe at work, and please: Enjoy the journey to ascension.

Bye for now!

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Hello there. I am Sensei Victoria Whitfield, your business reiki master. And it's my joy to get to support empathic entrepreneurs and business owners like you in getting and staying grounded and clear in mind, body and business.

Welcome back to another installment of your weekly love letter from the dojo at naturalintuition.com and victoriawhitfield.com, my blog. These are your sources for channeled holistic stress management techniques and guidance for developing your natural intuition. Whether you're looking to improve the quality of your personal and professional life, let this love letter be your reminder that you are not alone and that together we can make that happen.

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Who is more trustworthy: you, others or neither?

Are you tired of paddling upstream every day in your business, yet?

Still can't seem to grasp what it would be like for others to help you with certain tasks?

It's ok if you're still struggling to transition from a "Me Mindset" to "We Mindset" in life and business: it ain't easy, bay-bay!

So, to help you along, the guides want to share a very familiar and very large example of what a We Mindset looks like in action: NATURE! 🙂

Watch this week's 13-minute Love Letter video, the final installment in our 5-week series on transitioning from "Me Mindset" to a "We Mindset" in your business, to start going with the flow of Nature in your business.

 

"I tend to have trouble going with the flow."

This is week five of five, we made it through our deep dive into transitioning from a me mindset to a we mindset in life and business.

I've been talking to so many of you over the course of these weeks, this month, and then in the emails, in the posts, this has really touched a nerve because as an entrepreneur it's usually where the bootstrappers, right, doing it on our own and really drawing significance and empowerment from that. But if you remember, one of the previous weeks, we talked about that as an ego trap, right, the do it yourself ego trap.

Now by the way, if this is the first time you are seeing me or any of the series, stop now, go back on YouTube, and make sure that you start from the beginning of our five part series, and also hit the subscribe button on YouTube so that you get these love letters first, every week. Let's get to it.

The topic of this week in particular comes from our guides, right? And our guides are specifically asking us to consider going with the flow, you gotta go with the flow in nature in order to harness the momentum from me to we, right?

So we have over the last few weeks covered transitioning from the competitive to the creative mind, right, releasing egoic attachment, knowing that we're ready for exponential impact, and so much more, right? We've covered so many amazing topics, but the final push in transitioning from me to we, if you haven't yet, if you're still holding on to the me-centric mindset, is nature. We've gotta come back to our foundation.

Nature source herself, the entire universe, is cooperative. That's what it means, going with the flow, this week in particular.

You know, if you look at a forest, a forest is not just trees living and growing in isolation. No, it's an intricate ecosystem that is interdependent upon each other, right?

The leaves from the trees fertilize the soil, and you know the droppings from the animals fertilize the soil and then the soil feeds the trees and the ferns and all the different, the air, sunlight, the rain, so many things, even forest fires, contribute to the ecosystem in essential, essential ways.

So being open to going with the flow of life, of nature in general, means being open to cooperation. It is natural for you to cooperate by nature, you are cooperative. That is the quotable, the Tweetable, of the week. Tweet of the week. By nature, you are cooperative. It's time for you to transition from the me mindset to the we mindset.

You know, there is a transition ... A transmission, rather, of energy between us as individuals, right, me as a me, there's a transmission of energy between me and you. You are a separate me outside of you, and when the two of us have an interaction, there is a transmission of energy, and how you deal with that, how you respond or react, how you digest and transmute, that energy transmission really dictates how successful you can be at cooperating.

In essence, what we're talking about is relationship mastery. We can't even begin to approach relating to others before we begin clearing our own and learning our own energy, and that's what we've been focusing on for the past few weeks.

But how things work in nature is that the transmission of energy between different entities is integrated and seamless. The masculine works with the feminine and together they create, right? They form creation. And it is a seamless, natural movement through all of nature, right?

The water cycle transmits water through so many different vehicles and venues, moving that resource, right, from one paradigm to another, seamlessly, in an integrated way. There's cooperation at every point along the line of the water cycle, right? So be kind to yourself.

If you are afraid of the transmission, this is an energy aware entrepreneur, right, as an empath, for short, we can get a bit traumatized because we've had negative transmission or we have not had sufficient education around how to receive as well as send, interpret, and transform the energy that was coming through us.

Energy in the form of money, energy in the form of emotions, energy in the form of other peoples' personalities, et cetera. This is relationship mastery, not just between me and you as your own me, but also between me and the others who are supporting me, me and my environment, right, and all of the different energy sources that I'm interacting with.

Suffice to say, you've got to learn how to cooperate. Go with the flow of nature. Nature is cooperative. You know, Tony Robbins once said that our greatest resource is resourcefulness. The feminine way of saying that is receptivity. If you are not receptive to all of the sources of support around you, it is the equivalent of dying of thirst while sitting in the middle of a freshwater lake because you just won't open your mouth to drink, right?

That mouth opening and allowing yourself to drink and digest the water is the act of cooperation.

Now I'm hearing the oracle cards calling in the energy to weigh in on this subject, all month we've been journeying with Life Purpose Oracle Cards Deck, so I'm gonna step where we can see a bit closer. Let's hear it, okay angels. Another Dorian Virtue deck, what else is new?

So many here at the dojo, thank you for your donations, always open to receiving. So angels, what do we need to know this week in particular about healing our fear of cooperation, right? Because we have this fear of that energy transmission, not knowing how to deal with that energy transmission, right, to receive it and not knowing how to send correctly. Angels, what do you have to say on that topic? Curious.

Well this is a bit redundant. Oracle cards! I'm like pulling an oracle card, that says oracle cards which I love. "You are able to discern answers and guidance for yourself and others," and this is where we're going to leave off for this week. This is pretty ninja, that the angels are bringing this up.

Cultivating your intuition, especially through researching divination, psychic self defense techniques, right, and energy transmutation can really help you to discern, right? Discerning answers and guidance for yourself and others, what the angels are talking about on this card, but discernment is what really gives us the courage to show up in relationship to others. Gives us the energy to cooperate with others, right, and really helps us with that transmission. Right?

I'm speaking to someone in particular, I know especially the empaths and energy-sensitives who are watching, this is the main thing. The last frontier between you transitioning from a me mindset to a we mindset, and lo and behold its your intuition that's going to help you bridge the gap, right, and having tools like oracle cards to help you discern how to communicate your desire, how to receive guidance as well as give guidance to others, what's the right direction to go in.

So I'm curious what's coming up for you hearing all of this? Go ahead, type in the comments below on YouTube or on my blog, wherever you're watching, right, this is meant to be a conversation, not just you sitting back and watching. I wanna hear, what's coming up for you hearing all of this, right?

And if you have any further questions about how you can transition from your me mindset to your we mindset in life or business, go ahead, reach out, grab a call with me at victoriawhitfield.com/contact. I'm here to support you.

And by the way, if this video, you're seeing, hm, this person that I love really needs to hear this, go ahead, hit the share button! Hit it, hit it, hit it! Let them know that you were thinking of them and that where the final frontier is between them transitioning from the me mindset to a we mindset is. I'd be happy to support them, and clear the energy so they can move forward for yourself too.

I'll see you next week for our next series of love letters, I can't wait to see what you have to say. Email me back, right? Lookin' forward to it. Bye!

Know this: By nature you are #cooperative. Go with the flow of nature and let others help you in life and #business.

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Feeling like you're carrying the world on your shoulders?

Burning out because the more money you make, the more stress you pile on yourself?

Can't seem to figure out how to fix the financial mess you're in, no matter how hard you try?

It's not uncommon for entrepreneurs to get caught up putting out fires day in and day out, because they've only had themselves to depend on to get things done.

But there comes a point in everyone's Healing Journey where it's time to let go of the reins and finally receive support.

 

Watch this week’s 11-minute Love Letter, the final installment in our 4-week series, to commit to your next level of health by receiving support.

 

"I've been putting off meeting with a financial advisor."

It's week four. Yay. We did it. We did it. This is week four of four in our four week deep dive on financial healing. So we're rounding off our four week walk through this topic, and honestly I feel like we've only scratched the surface. But this week's topic deals with that. Now if you haven't seen the previous weeks, go ahead, re-watch those videos. 

We covered why you need financial healing now, because you've got big work to do. We covered how to really start it on a deep level by going into your shadow.

And then last week we talked about having an abundant mindset, having that abundance mindset so that you can start giving from a space of joy, not just of money, but having an expanded view of what abundance really means.

And this week we are covering, fourth and final topic, receiving support. Receive support. If it's time for your financial healing, and you've been doing the work for the last three weeks, we're moving into a brand new era in your life where financial healing is financial health for you.

The same way that a brain surgeon, if he needs brain surgery, doesn't do it himself. He goes and gets booked for his surgery to have someone else open up his cranium and rummage around and do the things and put it back together safely so that he can heal.

Being able to receive support is essential for deep financial healing. Now every goddess has her own flavor, so your version of receiving support may look different than other people's, but I'm just going to rattle off a few and let's see, which ones resonate with you.

Could it be meeting with a financial planner? Could it be having a financial healing accountability partner, someone who keeps you accountable to your financial goals? Or perhaps it's having a CPS, or an accountant support you on another level, or it could even be a lawyer, someone who could go and do deep forensic accounting and give you advice. Could it be an investment advisor?

But at this juncture of your financial healing journey that you've been on, you are at the point where it's time to bring on a second set of hand, or several other sets of hands, to help you really create a new normal in your financial life.

If you want different results, you've got to do things differently, and figuring out your situation by yourself with love is not going to do it. That's what got you as far as you came before. But where you're going is into a communal healing experience.

This week in particular, it's time to reach out for financial healing support. There's those people, those different venues that might support you for financial healing, maybe a book keeper, or reevaluating your financial team, making sure that you are well supported by people that you feel safe around and supported by.

Knowing what matters most to you and knowing that you can feel openly is essential for receiving the right level of support on your financial healing journey. If you are in a situation financially where, for example, your income has been taking very shocking leaps, very shocking leaps, up, up, up, and you have this feeling like you don't trust the people that are supporting you or the people that are around you with that money.

Or maybe someone passed away and you came into an inheritance and it's causing money drama in the family. It's important to make sure that you get the support that you need and feeling openly.

Let me explain. When you are able to feel openly, and that means you are authentic in your expression and with your emotions. You're not holding back and there's no shame in how you feel. So if you honestly don't feel supported, you have a space and a place for voicing that. Or if you are honestly feeling afraid and vulnerable, you have a space and a place for feeling that, whether you are female, or male, masculine, or feminine. It doesn't matter.

We all have emotions around our financial healing journey. And maybe it's not the too much money experience. It might be there's not enough. But it's important that you have a space and a place where you can feel openly and be supported on the financial healing journey. It's not an event. It's a journey.

That is a tweetable. Go ahead. That's the tweet of the week. 

Know this: You are on a financial healing journey. Be kind to yourself. It's not an event, it's a journey.

You are on a financial healing journey. It's not an event. It's a journey. So team, go ahead and check that out. Put that in for the tweet of the week.

So be kind to yourself if you are feeling frustrated. I don't have it all together yet. You don't have to. Now here's where the rubber meets the road. Ding. Ding. That's where I come in.

Here at the Institute for Natural Intuition and at the dojo, we have programs for giving you the spiritual support you need on your financial healing journey, whether it's keeping your energy clear, or learning how to shift your mindset to be more abundant. And also learning other techniques for manifesting more money.

That's what we do here. That's our specialty here at the dojo. So this week is about receiving support, so I would invite you to go ahead and reach out.

You can always email us at info@naturalintuition.com if you have particular questions of your own. We have the abundant business circle. It's the first Wednesday at 7:00 PM Eastern Standard Time, whether you're coming remotely or in person. That's one way for you to receive support in a group environment here at the institute.

Of if you are more in need of private support, you can go ahead and set up your private sessions by booking them online. Again, check out info@naturalintuition.com for more information.

I'm hearing the oracle cards calling for this week about receiving support on your financial healing journey. It would be my honor to get to support you. We have fantastic resources and a big network here that can support you on your journey. Angels, what do we need to know? Angels of abundance.

Don't forget. We've been with this deck all month. Shouldn't be a surprise. Ooh. Unlimited ideas. Can you see that? Can you see that? Unlimited ideas.

Your mind is one with God's infinite mind, therefore you have complete access to unlimited ideas guaranteed to bring blessings. All you need to do is take divinely guided action to allow these ideas to come to fruition.

Here's where we're going to leave off for this week and land the plane for the month, our month of financial healing. Taking action is what creates results, and it's no small feat. So what you want to focus on this week in particular is receiving support around taking inspired actions to continue on your path to financial healing.

So whether it's the tactical support from your financial planner, or your CPA, your profit first coach, whoever you're going to see. Or if it's the emotional and spiritual support that you need that keeps you accountable and flowing and able to take action, coming here at the dojo for our programs and services.

So go ahead and comment below. Yes. Comment below this video.

Let me know what comes up for you. Go ahead and subscribe on YouTube so that you get these love letters first every week, and I'll see you next time.

Muah, muah, muah. To your abundance. Bye.

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Worried you'll never really have enough money?

Are you surrounded by "well meaning" cynics and skeptics who encourage you to play small to be safe?

Starting to think the idea of "financial freedom" is actually a pipe dream, or only meant for a lucky few?

Playing small to play it safe does not display an inherent belief in Abundance as the universal norm.

And activating your Abundance Mindset is the key to allowing and experiencing profound Financial Healing, now.

Watch this week’s 14-minute Love Letter, the third in our 4-week series, to find out how you can activate your Abundance Mindset ASAP!

"I'm sick of people asking me for money around the holidays."

This week is week three on our deep dive, our four week deep dive into financial healing.

If you missed weeks two and one, you want to go back. Go back on the website, go back on the YouTube, you can subscribe so you get these every week, go back and review it. This is powerful stuff.

This week in particular, we're going to be covering having an abundance mindset. You want to have an abundant mindset, rather than having a lack mindset. This is essential for your financial healing.

By the way, how you like my haircut? Yeah yeah yeah, so good.

This is essential for your financial healing, because as a man thinketh, so is he. As you think, so you become.

Your thoughts drive your behaviors, drive your actions, drive your results, so having an abundant mindset really begins to tip the scales and shift your life to have increasing financial health.

For the last two weeks, we really covered some heavy duty stuff.

We're talking about going into shame and the shadow, the fears around financial energy, honoring that, and in the week before that, we talked about why you need financial healing now now now, because the cat's out of the bag, you're a healer! You're a healer.

We need you abundant. We need you out there, sharing your gifts, or as my teacher says, "your brownies," as much as possible. Don't hoard them.

We need your light to shine in our dark world, but you've got to get financially healthy so that you can share abundantly.

Now, let's talk about this abundance mindset thing. I've done multiple day retreats on this before. By the way, that's coming up. Stay tuned. If you're not on the list, by the way, go to victoriawhitfield.com/freegift, so you can get a free gift from me and get weekly updates on when the next retreat is.

But I've done retreats on this, I've written about it, I've taught on this for years, and there's so much that goes into building a truly abundant mindset, but what it all boils down to is knowing that there is abundant supply, knowing that there is abundant supply.

If you sincerely believe that there is not enough to go around, chances are you also believe that, mmmmm, someone already took it, or already got married to them, or already came up with the idea.

Chances are you also believe that you're not original, you're not special. Chances are you'll also believe tons and tons of other things of lack lack lack mindset, so be kind to yourself. This is a hug I'm sending your way if that's you.

This week in particular, we've got to choose to believe that there is abundant supply. There's infinite supply. I believe Louise Hay, she gives the illustration of going to the ocean to get some water, an ocean of energy, and coming with a thimble.

If you need water to irrigate your land, if you need water to put out a house that's on fire, are you gonna come with a thimble, or are you gonna back that truck up and haul it in?

Be kind to yourself if you've been coming to life with a thimble in hand. It's time to upgrade your mindset in order to have deep financial healing, you've got to believe it for you as well as for your community, for your family, for your business, for your country, for your world. It starts up here. Mindset shapes reality.

There's another whole can of worms on quantum physics that we could open up, where your perspective actually alters reality, and if you want to check into more of that, that's outside the bounds of today love letter, but go ahead and Google "observer effect in quantum physics."

There is an effect that your observation has, and if you are gazing at something, reality will shift to accommodate your gaze. Isn't that interesting?

What happens if you come with a perspective that expects lack, expects that there is not enough, expects that it's hard out there, expecting that you're never going to make enough money, or no one's going to pay for that, or how could I charge that, that's ridiculous. "I can't do it like she does it."

You may be looking at me thinking that ... And by the way, mwah, there is no difference than you and I, by the way. I'm just taking action. There's no difference between you and I. I'm not better than you, I'm not smarter than you, I'm not anything other than right there with you. The only difference in my results is that I'm taking action. Let me get a whoop whoop for those of us who are about implementation. The results show it.

Have an abundant mindset, and the way that you can begin shifting your abundance mindset, this week in particular, the guides say, is to give. Now, I just got a pushback in the energy. For those of you who are like, "What? I'm listening for financial healing so that I can receive, child! I'm not here to give anything. I'm over giving. I'm overstretched..." 

Here's the thing: adjust how you give. Respect, love always for you, but adjust how you're giving. If you're giving with anger, or if you are giving begrudgingly, like, "I'm so sick and tired of all these people asking me for money around this time of the year. Fine! Take your check," or "I hate my bills! I hate opening them up. Ugh, fine, I'm gonna pay ..." Whoa!

What goes around comes around. If you're sending out that kind of crusty heavy compressed energy, notice it is all I'm saying.

That's not very healthy financially. Money likes to move and circulate, just like water. Think of money like water, and this week in particular, soften your perspective on giving. I do give to charities regularly. I do give to my community regularly.

Am I going to tell you where to give? No. However, here's how you begin giving more joyfully. Look in your community, even in your own household. Start near. You don't have to go far. You don't have to give to Africa or all these other places and stuff like that. You can start right here in your community.

Know this: Adjust how you're giving. If you're giving with anger, you're attracting negative energy. If you're giving with joy, you're attracting positive energy.

Look to find someone or something that inspires you, and then go ahead and give to them. Did I say money? No! Part of your financial healing is having an abundance mindset. What could you give other than money to causes that feed your heart, that are in alignment with your purpose?

It could be time. It could be positive energy. It could be sending cards and writing letters. It could be giving attention or bringing attention to things that matter to you. Financial energy has more to do than money. There are some things that are worth even more than money.

And by the way, let me give you a hint: people and your humanness, your humanity, your love, your presence is worth way more than money, and you're looking at me like, "What are you talking about? We're talking about financial healing, Victoria." Yes!

Your abundance mindset though, as soon as you turn that on by having a giving heart, a joyful giving heart, money loves that.

Your money loves that. It will stay with you. It will come to you. It will go where you need it to go, and it will grow as it's needed to grow. It will be in the hands that need it the most if you have a giving heart from a joyful space. I'm hearing the oracle cards calling in the energy.

We're still journeying with Angels of Abundance. Giving with a joyful heart is what we're being called to, and it's not just about the money. These cards are, again, another one of your more ... I know it's over.

I've lost count, but we're always receiving donations here, so if you'd like to send your cards, go ahead and send it to the dojo. Check us out at naturalintuition.com for the mailing address.

Angels, what do I need to know about giving joyfully?

Hmmm, "Exercise to increase your energy and manifestation abilities. The key to manifesting quickly is to have very high energy levels, and the easiest way to increase them is through physical exercise. Choose a fun and meaningful activity so that you'll look forward to exercising, and it becomes its own reward."

This is where we're going to leave off this week, in particular. This is get up, get out, and contribute.

Even if it's writing "Thank you" with a smiley face on every bill and receipt that you pay, that's a wonderful place to start, but for giving and contributing in your community, this is get up and get out of your office, get up and get out of your house, and get physically involved with places that inspire and love on you, and that, you being in that abundant-hearted mindset, that will increase your financial healing in speed.

There's nothing more fulfilling than giving abundantly. Try it! I know you're like "ugh" listening to it, some of you. I can feel the ... coming back in the energy, but this is gonna raise your manifestation level, getting up and giving.

Send me an email back. Comment below. What comes up for you around this topic in particular?

Make sure you subscribe on YouTube so that you get these love letters first every week, and I'll see you next week for our fourth and final installment of financial healing.

Ready for it? Mwah! See you then. Bye!

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Get out and GIVE to someone or something that inspires you, joyfully.

When you give abundantly - of your time, attention, positivity - you raise your Abundance Mindset and deepen your financial healing.

Notice how you feel at that moment - you're already healing!

SHARE THIS! You’d be surprised how many people you know right now are in desperate need of healing and could use this information to change their life. If you can read this, you know someone who needs this Love Letter!

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Ashamed of your family’s “money drama”?

Avoiding opening the mail, because you’re too scared to look at your account statement?

Do money or sales conversations give you anxiety and make you feel insecure?

Deep healing starts with awareness and transparency.

This is not for the faint of heart, but you’re worth it!

Watch this week’s 12-minute Love Letter, the second of our 4-part series, to find out exactly where to begin on the path to deep financial healing.

"I have so much fear around investments."

This is week two of four of our deep dive into financial healing. It's about time we talked about financial healing.

By the way, go ahead and type in the comments below, type that in.

Go ahead and type in the comments below, what does financial healing look like for you, because that's what we're really going to be talking about this week in particular.

How we're going to do it, however, is let's take a little bit of a journey to the shadow, to your shadow side. This is where we hold shame and fear, the dark side.

Whenever we're going through a healing process, we want to bring our healing gaze as in the healing awareness, healers for those of you who are listening, holistic healers, therapists, etc. You understand how this works.

You bring the healing gaze, holistic healing, loving, presence and awareness to the dark side and we wait for health to emerge because it always does naturally. Wherever your awareness goes, energy flows. Wherever your gaze goes is where healing goes.

So be kind to yourself if when it comes to money, whether it's receiving, saving, or sharing, all of that, the life cycle of money or even thinking about your finances in general, if that gives you anxiety, we talked about that last week of why we really need you financially healthy now.

I'm here to provide spiritual support for entrepreneurs. That's what I do. That's what we do here at the institute and at the dojo as an extension of her. So it's important for you to give yourself the space for this spiritual healing, yes, around your finances. We covered that last week. If you missed it, go ahead and rewatch that video and then come back to this one.

This week we want to honor what shame and fear you have in your shadow around financial healing. When I say that, what comes up for you? Perhaps there are certain people that have influenced the way that you feel about financial energy, such as your parents or guardians, mentors or different celebrities or figures that you attribute authority to.

Now, as we discussed last week, what's really underneath this is your sense of safety. That's why we're talking about financial healing. So those who work to provide safety really imprinted on your blueprint for financial health. Did you catch that?

The people who you depended on for feeling safe in life, they affect, they imprinted on your blueprint for financial health so this week in particular your goal is to bring your eyes back to your blueprint for financial health and look at it.

Know this: The people who you depended on to feel safe left an imprint on your blueprint for financial health.

I'm not saying, "Go in and tear it apart. You got to get an accountant. You got to get the bookkeeper. You got to do an audit. You got to give a million dollars to these charities." No, no, no.

Healing starts with awareness, so I want you right now, right now, as you and I are holding this space together, pause for a moment and name your greatest fear. Name your greatest shame around financial healing, your relationship with your finances. Where do you carry ...

I want you to name it. You can say it out loud, or if you want to write it down to anchor it or think it in your mind, get super clear.

Where is your greatest fear and your greatest shame in relationship to finances in your life?

Is there a story that you tell yourself as a man for example that, "I'm the provider and it's a shame that I can't provide for my family at the level that I'm expected to," or as a woman, "I have so much fear around investments and making sure that everything is saved up and everything is paid. I have so much fear of knowing all of the numbers, being all the detailedness," or vice versa. What comes up for you around that?

"I have so much shame that I've made this much money and these other members of my family or social circles are at this level of money, so I hide myself from people," or "I have so much fear," healers, "Of sharing what I do that people are going to judge me. 'How dare you charge for doing what you love,' so afraid of what people are going to think of me," or, "I have so much fear of giving to charities because I got burned in the past or I've heard about this example of them completely misusing funds, so I'm just not going to give to anybody because what's the use anyway?" What's your greatest fear and what's your greatest shame?

Our big why, our life purpose, so that usually comes from our pain, and fear and shame are big pain points for us. So what's powerful about healing and bringing your awareness to what's your biggest fear and what's your biggest shame around your relationship with finances in life is that in can actually fuel you.

Once you know, once you set eyes on it, this can actually become a huge part of your passion and purpose as you heal first, then you're going to be able to inspire and enable others to heal the shame, but you first. You first.

So get clear. That's your assignment for this week.

I'm hearing the Oracle cards coming forward in the energy. This month we are journeying with the Angels of Abundance.

Check them out. One of the over 20 decks that have been donated here at the dojo, and I'm open to receive. If you have a deck that you'd like to share with the tribe here at the dojo, send me an email back or comment below. I'd be happy to receive that. Angels, what do we need to know about really owning our shadow side? Whoa. Did you see that? Hey. Okay.

"Pay yourself first. Make yourself your most important financial obligation."

Who's afraid of that? As I read that, someone feels ashamed to make themselves their most important financial obligation, like, "I should be ashamed of myself paying myself first. No, I got to pay all my employees first." "What? Pay me first? No, no, no, no. I got to do all the other things."

You can run down the list. I'm not going to. We don't have enough time for that. Ain't nobody got time for that. Mwah. You matter. I didn't even finish reading the card.

"Make yourself your most important financial obligation by setting aside a portion of your income every time you are paid."

By the way, throw it in there, Profit First, fabulous book. That's having those accounts. Make sure that you are paying yourself first.

That's a book, by the way, Mike Michalowicz wrote, Profit First. Great book. He's a great guy too. Met him. He's awesome, and what he's doing in the world is amazing.

"This loving form of self-care ensures that you'll have savings to invest in your present and your future." So this Oracle card, the Angels are bringing forward this Oracle card in particular to lift shame away from valuing yourself first. First, first, first, first, first. Fear of doing that first.

"Well, what about the taxes and the accounting and blah, blah, blah?" "What if I don't have enough? What if I don't have enough?" That doesn't sound like a very abundant mindset. We will talk about that in the upcoming weeks this month, but pay yourself first. What fear and shame comes up around that?

I just want you to be with the dark side by the way this week in particular. Don't try to fix it. Just acknowledge it. This is our acknowledgement week.

We're going to continue through your financial healing process. I'm sending you so much love. Make sure you comment below. Send me an email back what came up for you.

Subscribe on YouTube so that you get these love letters first every week and get ready for it. Mwah. See you next time. Bye.

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Honor what shame and fear you have in your shadow around money.

Make it a point to name your fears and spell out what you are resisting.

Notice how you feel at that moment - you're already healing!

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Money stressing you out these days?

Find yourself obsessing about getting more of it, since there’s never enough?

Want the next era of your life to be a time of increasing financial health and abundance?

Money is a touchy subject.

Entrepreneurs, and especially holistic healers, get massively triggered by the topic of money, value and receiving support.

Watch this week’s 14-minute Love Letter, the first in our 4-week series, to discover why your financial healing matters now more than ever.

"I would not talk about money."

This month, I'm so excited to talk to you about something that spirit has put on my heart very intensely, very intensely. It's been coming up with my clients and students, here at the dojo, right?

It's been a commons source of conversation and focus in workshops and retreats that I've done over the last, we're going on 6 years in business.

It's amazing to say that out loud, by the way. This is a very sensitive topic, some of the most intense healing that I've done myself, as well as held space for others here at the dojo, and in her other incarnations, whether online or in former locations, or over the phone, etc.

This topic is heavy duty stuff. We are going to do a four week deep dive into, drum roll please, financial healing, financial healing.

At the filming of this love letter, it is currently the beginning of December. In the US, most of the US, we regard this as the beginning of the end of the year, and we're ramping up to a new year, right?

We're getting ready for ... I'm here in New Jersey, so we watch the ball drop in New York City, and the fireworks, and so on and so forth. It's our arbitrary, let's get in alignment time. Tie up all your loose ends because we're going into a brand new epoch, a brand new year.

Regardless of the time that you're actually watching this love letter, I want you to invoke that same sense of ... I am now 4 weeks away from an entirely new era in my life, right? I am only 4 weeks away, right now, from entering an entirely new era in my life.

You get the chills? I'm getting them.

This is powerful. I desire for you to enter, the next era of your life is a financial healing, and being a financial healer. Not just for yourself, of course for yourself first, but for your family, your community, your team, your state, your country, right?

Your hemisphere, your world. This is really powerful. If we heal our relationship with our finances, what we're really doing is healing the sense of safety on Earth.

Now, I know that was like a big statement. Dial it back, in our four week deep dives, if you've been following them now, you understand that our first week, right? Week one, is all about why?

You know I'm a Simonite, I love Simon Sinek. We start with why. If you don't know why you're doing what you're doing, or why we're talking about what we're talking, or why we're doing financial healing, you're not going to have the juice necessary to carry it through.

Be kind to yourself, if you're someone who ... Money and finances is a very touchy subject, right? And you'd rather be listening to more spiritually stuff, or something other than money, don't talk to me about money, because you have strong triggers around that.

This is actually for you, especially, for you especially. Because, if you have funky reactions around financial energy, that means that funkiness or that disgust, or frustration, or anger, or triggeredness, that means it's time for some healing work, right?

Your discomfort is a growth edge. That's a writer downer, or a Tweetable. To my team who's watching this, put that in for the Tweetable of the week. Your discomfort Is a growth edge.

Let's talk about why it's so important for us to walk into the discomfort around finances, so that we can create financial healing.

First in our own lives, and then for our community and world at large. That's our intention.

Know this: Your discomfort is a growth edge. #entrepreneur #healing @SenseiWhitfield

The reason was, when it comes to finances and abundance, it's not about the money. It's not about the money. What's underneath financial healing, is healing safety.

Healing our relationship with feeling safe and trusting that we are going to be safe moving forward, think about it. Think about it.

Think about someone in particular, maybe it's not you, right? We love to take examples from outside of ourselves, because it's easier, yes. With love, mwah, if that's you. Sending you big hearts.

Think of someone who you know, who has maybe a money addiction, or has a hard time keeping money, or can't seem to increase their sales, or make and sales in the first place.

I cannot tell you how many healers I have met over my few years in business. I can't say I have all the answers and I've met everybody on the planet, but I have been on a national tour, and I have been on a world tour, and I have treated hundreds of people, who most of which are healers.

If you're watching this, chances are you're a healer or you're an entrepreneur, because we resonate, yes, yes.

Healers in particular, when it comes to financial energy, maybe it's not you, right? We're thinking of another healer who...

They don't wanna do sales, they don't wanna look at the finances, it's gross, it's creepy, it's scary, it's hard, it's hard work.

No, I wanna communicate with the guides and fly with the platypus in mid air while I'm meditating, all the good things, yes, yes. It's gorgeous, right? I wanna feel the energy, and the white light, and the Reiki ... I'm saying this as a Reiki Master and all of that. I say this with big love, but I'm calling you out.

Healers need the most healing around financial energy, and the relationship with finances, because we need you feeling safe and strong so that you can get out there and heal more people, because our world needs you. If you don't know whether or not you're a healer, yet.

If you don't know if you're a healer just yet, chances are you serve others, right? You support people in your community, you support your team at work, you support your family, we need you to feel safe and grounded, confident in your relationship with wealth and abundance, so that you can continue to serve and uplift the community with all of that love and brilliance that you bring, I know you do, I know you do. This one is for you, this is your month.

Why are we going in for a financial healing, four week deep dive into it? Because you've got work to do, and it's not just about the money, this is not, we're not gonna be talking, I'm not an accountant, I'm not an accountant, right?

We may talk about ways for you to receive for money, and we also may talk about ways for you to give more money, as well as save more money, and to honor your finances, and to really clear out your energy. Sure, but what we're really looking at, is your relationship to safety.

Now, I'm hearing the Oracle cards calling in the energy, and we're gonna be with this deck all month. Angels of Abundance, by the way, came from my financial healer, Julie Shopa at clarityfinances.com. Thank you for this gift, mwah, one of the over 20 decks now and counting at the dojo to play with.

Most of which are donations, just like coming from Julie, so thank you for your love my dear friend, all your support of me and our tribe.

Let's see here, come on out. Okay. Angels of Abundance, Angels of Abundance, what do we need to know right now about beginning a four week deep dive? This is very intense energy, four week deep dive into financial healing. All right now, this is interesting.

Now, regardless of whether your New Years starts in January, or February, or September, right? Regardless of what you're looking at, as far as religious beliefs, or beliefs about the calendar and dating. Not like relationship dating, but as in dates on the calendar.

It's interesting, but this guy's coming up, Santa Claus here. In America, we're a predominantly Christina country, although it is different from time to time, so different Muslim beliefs, Jewish, etc. But, it's interesting that we're got winter scenes, and animals, and presents and things.

The angels are seeing exactly where we are at in time and space and honoring that.

Windfall of abundance.

An increase in abundance is arriving in many different forms, some of them unexpected. Be open to receiving, and know that this abundance comes to you to support your life purpose, health, and charitable work. Check this out.

What we're going to be looking at, is being open to receiving, right? In the next four weeks. For support of your life purpose, health, and charitable work. There's your why. Why you need financial healing, right?

We need to turn up the volume on your life purpose, turn up the volume on your level of help, and health ... I love that, I said help instead of health, so good. And turn up the volume on your charitable work, right? This makes it a lot more specific, but I think it's hilarious that it's Santa Clause, what in the world?

So good. Is this resonating for you? Send me an email back, comment below, by the way text me, who do you think just walked in the door back there?

I'm curious to see, we're about to have a group meeting here at the dojo, we're a community here. Take a guess, I'd be curious to hear who you think just popped in back there, if you caught that Easter egg. But, send me an email back, is this resonating for you?

What in your life do you feel, and your financial, is ready for healing? Is this timely? Tell me, tell me.

Make sure you subscribe on Youtube, so that you get these love letters first every week, and get ready for it, mwah. I'll see you next week, let's do this. Bye.

VictoriaWhitfield.com
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Decide to be a Financial Healer, starting with yourself.

Throughout the day, act as if a new era of increasing financial health has begun for yourself and your community.

Notice how you feel at that moment - you're already healing!

SHARE THIS! You’d be surprised how many people you know right now are in desperate need of healing and could use this information to change their life. If you can read this, you know someone who needs this Love Letter!

Want spiritual support on your healing journey but don't know where to start? Let's work #together!

Click the pink button below to book your Private Support Sessions with Victoria and jumpstart your healing journey, today!