Do you think that you're not good enough?

Thought that you'd be further ahead in life than you are right now?

Going through a difficult time of arguments and disagreements?

When the going gets tough, our knee-jerk reaction can often be to think "why me?" or "what's wrong with me?"

Believe it or not, no matter how ugly it gets, Source says you need to remember that it's not about "me", instead it's about "we".

Watch this week's 9-minute Love Letter video to find the courage to be compassionate!

"What is wrong with me?"

This week, you must know that it is not about you.

It's not about you. It never has been, it never will be, so from this point forward in time, you have got to stop taking it so seriously.

They told me, be more specific. You have got to stop taking him so seriously. You've got to stop taking her and what she does in her life and in her business, so personally, because it's not about you. It never has been, and it never will be.

Now perhaps someone has really been getting under your skin lately, or they've been throwing their anger your way, or getting very emotional, and clogging up your joy with all of their crusty crap.

Perhaps they talk stuff about you, or hating. (I don't really believe in hating.) But perhaps you feel like you may be getting hated on, or people writing smear stuff about you.

There's this insidious, internal, pre-programmed response that we have, unfortunately, to these interactions of: 

• "What did I do to deserve this?"
• "What's wrong with me, that I can't get ahead, like so-and-so?"
• "What's wrong with me, that I am not married, yet?"
• "What's wrong with me, that I can't have kids?"
• "What's wrong with me, that I'm not financially stable?"

Our ego turns us in on ourselves, because she's actually trying to protect you from stepping out when you're feeling vulnerable.

The reason why she brings you inward, blaming inward, "What's wrong with me? There's something wrong with me," taking everything outside of us, personally or very seriously, turning it inward, is a way, a shadow way, a dark way of centering you. Let me explain.

It's never been about you. Someone says, "You're doing this and the other thing, and I can't believe that this ..." They're throwing all that drama around and on you. That's actually them and their stuff.

If someone comments on your posts, and craps all over your sunshine parade, that is their problem. It's nothing that you did.

Maybe you did drop the ball. I just heard in the energy, perhaps you might have said something offensive, etc., but everyone chooses how to react, and how to respond to life.

That's their choice. It's on them. You don't have to take responsibility for how they feel.

You do need to own up to who you are and how you show up in this world, absolutely. Clean it up, if you made a mess. That's your mess, but you made that.

Whereas, if someone else makes a mess and starts blabbing about it or spewing all over you about it, that's their stuff.

I really don't know why the guides are having me say this in particular, this week. I know that I'm talking to someone, so I'm going to keep going with it, but this week, it's not about you.

Your business, by the way, if you're an entrepreneur, and you're thinking to yourself:

• "Why aren't I doing any better?"
• "Maybe I need to implement more, work harder."
• "Why don't people like me?"
• "Why isn't so-and-so buying in?"

It's not about you. Come out of the ego cave and cage.

The shadow side of centering is reinforcing an identity, so that you can feel and create a sense of stability in your personal ... no, put it that way. The ego she'll bring you in, and be like, something that I did.

Whereas, this is about me, or what's wrong with me? Come out of that cave. There's more outside.

Instead, to flip that, where we're feeling not good enough, it's time to give more. There's so much more love, so much more value, so much more creativity and insight that you're capable of giving. It's about serving.

Tony Robins, I love his quote. "The secret to living is giving absolutely." That's the way to come out of an ego cave.

Know this: If you're not feeling "good enough," then give more to those less fortunate. Focus on WE, not me.

The guides are telling me to pull an Oracle card now. The deck that came forward in this week, is the crystal Oracle cards, in particular, to really weigh in on the topic of this situation.

It's really not about you. It's not about me. It's we. This week, in particular.

Someone just said, pull this card. Amber.

Look at how gorgeous. I love this deck, because it's all pictures. Juicy, juicy amber shot. They're telling me to read.

The words that they've associated with Amber are transparency, calm, purification, and creativity. Here's the reading: "An issue that is causing tension and friction in your life will soon erupt and come to a head."

I'm starting to get the chills. "You are being urged to stay calm during this emotionally-charged event. Express how you feel, but don't be drawn into saying things that you don't mean. This event is, in fact, a blessing. One that is perhaps well overdue."

You can't make this stuff up, people. This is amazing.

"Through it, you will realize where you stand, and how others truly feel. As the air clears, you will uncover a hidden agenda and find creative ways of handling this type of situation in the future. Stay calm, and don't allow yourself to be dragged further into chaos by others. You will emerge from this situation, feeling purified of all the negative emotions and thoughts that have weighted you down recently. Trust and remember it. This event is a blessing."

Here's where we're going to leave off.

Whatever disagreement, argument, or provocative conversation you are about to have this week, remember, it's not about me. This is about we.

Look for the lesson. There's always a dark gift, especially in difficult situations. They always teach us.

Keep your eyes open for the gift. Stay focused on the we. Don't be pulled into that ego cave.

Send me an email back. Comment below. Let me know what's coming up for you around this.

Subscribe on youtube, so that you get your love letters first, and make sure you share this with someone who may be going through something right now, and could really use some positive encouragement.

Sending you so much love. I'll see you next week. Bye.

In Love and Light,

Victoria.

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Facebook.com/SenseiVictoriaWhitfield

Just for Today...

Look for the love and learning in a difficult conversation or argument.

See the difference and disagreement from a third party perspective, considering the pros and cons of the opinions of everyone involved.

Notice how you feel at that moment - you're already healing!

SHARE THIS! You’d be surprised how many people you know right now are in desperate need of healing and could use this information to change their life. If you can read this, you know someone who needs this Love Letter!

Want spiritual support on your healing journey but don't know where to start? Tell me!

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Have you been secretly feeling down and depressed lately?

Feeling like you've lost the joy you once had, or wish you had more?

Think that joy and feelings are irrelevant to your work?

Keeping up with the demands of professional life -- or "adulting" as I call it -- can really drain your joy sometimes.

Watch this week's 7-minute Love Letter video to find out the power of joy and how to rekindle yours!

"Today I want to do something that brings me joy."

Source wants you to know, this week in particular, that your joy is sacred.

Your joy, your happiness, your peace, how you feel, is sacred.

One of the most common things that I say here to all my students at the Dojo, is that "what matters most is how you feel"; but your joy in particular is sacred.

In the energy I'm seeing that in a previous video, we had covered that your joy is actually a way of protecting yourself. It's your vortex, right?

Being in your vortex keeps you energized -- and you're in it when you're feeling good.

When you're feeling joyful, it also keeps you open to new solutions and strategies for solving different issues that come through your life; also it does protect your heart and it protects your energy.

It's especially helpful when you're out in the world interacting with others, because sometimes news and things or issues at work can come up, or your family members or teammates may be having a challenge.

Your joy is sacred for protecting you from absorbing any of the healing journeys that they're on. Did you know that?

Joy is such a powerful thing to connect to, and especially when we are post-school-age.

So to all my students who are "studenting", awesome; but for those who are post being in school and you're now "adulting", as opposed to just "studenting" in your life right now, joy can become smaller and smaller and lesser and lesser.

The more we "adult" the more we get serious or monotonous, the more we curb our enthusiasm for life.

I'm using "adult" as a verb on purpose -- I was an English Major in college, so to all my grammarians out there, I know you're cringing, but I know what I'm doing, here ;).

Let me be direct with you --

What happened to your joy?

What happened to the things that made you come alive and inspired you, and made you want to be "frisky", as Abraham Hicks says, made you want to be mischievous or fun, sexy and silly?

What happened to your joy?

It energized you. It moved mountains in life so many times. When you've been joyful time flew and synchronicities came together, right?

Know this: Your #joy is #sacred. This week start each day by #visualizing things that bring you joy. @SenseiWhitfield

Your joy is sacred.

Source in particular this week wants you to know that you joy is sacred, though, because it is contagious.

Your joy is contagious.

God, Goddess, the Holy Spirit, Source consciousness, the human spirit and human potential that is around us and within us desires for more joy and more happiness to be on the planet -- and it's got to start with you.

Your joy is sacred because you're the only one who can access it for you.

I'm hearing the Oracle cards calling in the energy on this, but it's important that in this week, you prioritize first and foremost that "Today I want to do something that brings me joy."

I want to hear in the comments what brings you joy.

You know me. I love bubbles, I love dancing, I love rainbows, glitter and emojis. Shiny things and playfulness. Those bring me joy.

These things bring me joy and light me up, and it's because of my joy practice that I have so much energy.

What I want to hear from you is how do you generate joy in your life?

What makes you joy-filled?

We're using the Healing with the Fairies oracle cards deck by Doreen Virtue.

Let's ask: "Fairies, what do we need to know right now about our joy?"

Visualization.

This is where we'll leave off for the week.

Your joy is sacred, and it's important that you visualize things that bring you joy.

I just heard it loud in the energy, like they yelled it in my ear --

Mindset. There's negative thoughts.

We've been beating ourselves up with the same old crusty self-doubt and worry, etc. patterns that we keep pummeling ourselves with in our minds.

This week in particular, I double-dog-dare you to visualize once a day something that brings you so much joy.

Try it at the beginning of the day because it'll set the tone for the day for more joy.

You will see how it will attract more joy throughout the day.

Comment below, post back, let me know how it goes, what did you find, and make sure you subscribe on YouTube so that you get your weekly love letters first.

I'm sending you so much love. I believe in you, and I'm sending you joyful energy. Bye. See you next week.

In Love and Light,

Victoria.

VictoriaWhitfield.com
Facebook.com/SenseiVictoriaWhitfield

Just for Today...

Mind your mindset, strategically. 

SHARE THIS! You’d be surprised how many people you know right now are in desperate need of healing and could use this information to change their life. If you can read this, you know someone who needs this Love Letter!

Want spiritual support on your healing journey but don't know where to start? Tell me!

Click the grey button below to book your complimentary 30-minute Share Your Story Call  to start your healing journey, today!

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Do you think that you're not good enough?

Thought that you'd be further ahead in life than you are right now?

Going through a difficult time of arguments and disagreements?

When the going gets tough, our knee-jerk reaction can often be to think "why me?" or "what's wrong with me?"

Believe it or not, no matter how ugly it gets, Source says you need to remember that it's not about "me", instead it's about "we".

Watch this week's 9-minute Love Letter video to find the courage to be compassionate!

"What is wrong with me?"

This week, you must know that it is not about you.

It's not about you. It never has been, it never will be, so from this point forward in time, you have got to stop taking it so seriously.

They told me, be more specific. You have got to stop taking him so seriously. You've got to stop taking her and what she does in her life and in her business, so personally, because it's not about you. It never has been, and it never will be.

Now perhaps someone has really been getting under your skin lately, or they've been throwing their anger your way, or getting very emotional, and clogging up your joy with all of their crusty crap.

Perhaps they talk stuff about you, or hating. (I don't really believe in hating.) But perhaps you feel like you may be getting hated on, or people writing smear stuff about you.

There's this insidious, internal, pre-programmed response that we have, unfortunately, to these interactions of: 

• • "What did I do to deserve this?"

• • "What's wrong with me, that I can't get ahead, like so-and-so?"

• • "What's wrong with me, that I am not married, yet?"

• • "What's wrong with me, that I can't have kids?"

• "What's wrong with me, that I'm not financially stable?"

Our ego turns us in on ourselves, because she's actually trying to protect you from stepping out when you're feeling vulnerable.

The reason why she brings you inward, blaming inward, "What's wrong with me? There's something wrong with me," taking everything outside of us, personally or very seriously, turning it inward, is a way, a shadow way, a dark way of centering you. Let me explain.

It's never been about you. Someone says, "You're doing this and the other thing, and I can't believe that this ..." They're throwing all that drama around and on you. That's actually them and their stuff.

If someone comments on your posts, and craps all over your sunshine parade, that is their problem. It's nothing that you did.

Maybe you did drop the ball. I just heard in the energy, perhaps you might have said something offensive, etc., but everyone chooses how to react, and how to respond to life.

That's their choice. It's on them. You don't have to take responsibility for how they feel.

You do need to own up to who you are and how you show up in this world, absolutely. Clean it up, if you made a mess. That's your mess, but you made that.

Whereas, if someone else makes a mess and starts blabbing about it or spewing all over you about it, that's their stuff.

I really don't know why the guides are having me say this in particular, this week. I know that I'm talking to someone, so I'm going to keep going with it, but this week, it's not about you.

Your business, by the way, if you're an entrepreneur, and you're thinking to yourself:

• • "Why aren't I doing any better?"

• • "Maybe I need to implement more, work harder."

• • "Why don't people like me?"

• "Why isn't so-and-so buying in?"

It's not about you. Come out of the ego cave and cage.

The shadow side of centering is reinforcing an identity, so that you can feel and create a sense of stability in your personal ... no, put it that way. The ego she'll bring you in, and be like, something that I did.

Whereas, this is about me, or what's wrong with me? Come out of that cave. There's more outside.

Instead, to flip that, where we're feeling not good enough, it's time to give more. There's so much more love, so much more value, so much more creativity and insight that you're capable of giving. It's about serving.

Tony Robins, I love his quote. "The secret to living is giving absolutely." That's the way to come out of an ego cave.

Know this: If you're not feeling "good enough," then give more to those less fortunate. Focus on WE, not me.

The guides are telling me to pull an Oracle card now. The deck that came forward in this week, is the crystal Oracle cards, in particular, to really weigh in on the topic of this situation.

It's really not about you. It's not about me. It's we. This week, in particular.

Someone just said, pull this card. Amber.

Look at how gorgeous. I love this deck, because it's all pictures. Juicy, juicy amber shot. They're telling me to read.

The words that they've associated with Amber are transparency, calm, purification, and creativity. Here's the reading: "An issue that is causing tension and friction in your life will soon erupt and come to a head."

I'm starting to get the chills. "You are being urged to stay calm during this emotionally-charged event. Express how you feel, but don't be drawn into saying things that you don't mean. This event is, in fact, a blessing. One that is perhaps well overdue."

You can't make this stuff up, people. This is amazing.

"Through it, you will realize where you stand, and how others truly feel. As the air clears, you will uncover a hidden agenda and find creative ways of handling this type of situation in the future. Stay calm, and don't allow yourself to be dragged further into chaos by others. You will emerge from this situation, feeling purified of all the negative emotions and thoughts that have weighted you down recently. Trust and remember it. This event is a blessing."

Here's where we're going to leave off.

Whatever disagreement, argument, or provocative conversation you are about to have this week, remember, it's not about me. This is about we.

Look for the lesson. There's always a dark gift, especially in difficult situations. They always teach us.

Keep your eyes open for the gift. Stay focused on the we. Don't be pulled into that ego cave.

Send me an email back. Comment below. Let me know what's coming up for you around this.

Subscribe on youtube, so that you get your love letters first, and make sure you share this with someone who may be going through something right now, and could really use some positive encouragement.

Sending you so much love. I'll see you next week. Bye.

In Love and Light,

Victoria.

VictoriaWhitfield.com
Facebook.com/SenseiVictoriaWhitfield

Just for Today...

Look for the love and learning in a difficult conversation or argument.

See the difference and disagreement from a third party perspective, considering the pros and cons of the opinions of everyone involved.

Notice how you feel at that moment - you're already healing!

SHARE THIS! You’d be surprised how many people you know right now are in desperate need of healing and could use this information to change their life. If you can read this, you know someone who needs this Love Letter!

Want spiritual support on your healing journey but don't know where to start? Tell me!

Give us a call at +1 (732) 903-8573 or click on the blue BOOK NOW button to start your healing journey, today!

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Have you been secretly feeling down and depressed lately?

Feeling like you've lost the joy you once had, or wish you had more?

Think that joy and feelings are irrelevant to your work?

Keeping up with the demands of professional life -- or "adulting" as I call it -- can really drain your joy sometimes.

Watch this week's 7-minute Love Letter video to find out the power of joy and how to rekindle yours!

"Today I want to do something that brings me joy."

Source wants you to know, this week in particular, that your joy is sacred.

Your joy, your happiness, your peace, how you feel, is sacred.

One of the most common things that I say here to all my students at the Dojo, is that "what matters most is how you feel"; but your joy in particular is sacred.

In the energy I'm seeing that in a previous video, we had covered that your joy is actually a way of protecting yourself. It's your vortex, right?

Being in your vortex keeps you energized -- and you're in it when you're feeling good.

When you're feeling joyful, it also keeps you open to new solutions and strategies for solving different issues that come through your life; also it does protect your heart and it protects your energy.

It's especially helpful when you're out in the world interacting with others, because sometimes news and things or issues at work can come up, or your family members or teammates may be having a challenge.

Your joy is sacred for protecting you from absorbing any of the healing journeys that they're on. Did you know that?

Joy is such a powerful thing to connect to, and especially when we are post-school-age.

So to all my students who are "studenting", awesome; but for those who are post being in school and you're now "adulting", as opposed to just "studenting" in your life right now, joy can become smaller and smaller and lesser and lesser.

The more we "adult" the more we get serious or monotonous, the more we curb our enthusiasm for life.

I'm using "adult" as a verb on purpose -- I was an English Major in college, so to all my grammarians out there, I know you're cringing, but I know what I'm doing, here ;).

Let me be direct with you --

What happened to your joy?

What happened to the things that made you come alive and inspired you, and made you want to be "frisky", as Abraham Hicks says, made you want to be mischievous or fun, sexy and silly?

What happened to your joy?

It energized you. It moved mountains in life so many times. When you've been joyful time flew and synchronicities came together, right?

Know this: Your #joy is #sacred. This week start each day by #visualizing things that bring you joy @SenseiWhitfield

Your joy is sacred.

Source in particular this week wants you to know that you joy is sacred, though, because it is contagious.

Your joy is contagious.

God, Goddess, the Holy Spirit, Source consciousness, the human spirit and human potential that is around us and within us desires for more joy and more happiness to be on the planet -- and it's got to start with you.

Your joy is sacred because you're the only one who can access it for you.

I'm hearing the Oracle cards calling in the energy on this, but it's important that in this week, you prioritize first and foremost that "Today I want to do something that brings me joy."

I want to hear in the comments what brings you joy.

You know me. I love bubbles, I love dancing, I love rainbows, glitter and emojis. Shiny things and playfulness. Those bring me joy.

These things bring me joy and light me up, and it's because of my joy practice that I have so much energy.

What I want to hear from you is how do you generate joy in your life?

What makes you joy-filled?

We're using the Healing with the Fairies oracle cards deck by Doreen Virtue.

Let's ask: "Fairies, what do we need to know right now about our joy?"

 

 

This week's oracle card is "Visualization" and the message is for you to get clarity and focus by envisioning your goals realized and envisioning things that make you happy and grateful on a daily basis. Full reading on YouTube at https://youtu.be/jscWye27Fyk ????????✨ #meditation #motivation #motivationmonday #instagood #instadaily #inspiration #focus #entrepreneur #spiritual #happy #healthy #joy #grateful

A photo posted by Sensei Victoria Whitfield (@senseiwhitfield) on May 16, 2016 at 4:14am PDT

Visualization.

This is where we'll leave off for the week.

Your joy is sacred, and it's important that you visualize things that bring you joy.

I just heard it loud in the energy, like they yelled it in my ear --

Mindset. There's negative thoughts.

We've been beating ourselves up with the same old crusty self-doubt and worry, etc. patterns that we keep pummeling ourselves with in our minds.

This week in particular, I double-dog-dare you to visualize once a day something that brings you so much joy.

Try it at the beginning of the day because it'll set the tone for the day for more joy.

You will see how it will attract more joy throughout the day.

Comment below, post back, let me know how it goes, what did you find, and make sure you subscribe on YouTube so that you get your weekly love letters first.

I'm sending you so much love. I believe in you, and I'm sending you joyful energy. Bye. See you next week.

In Love and Light,

Victoria.

VictoriaWhitfield.com
Facebook.com/SenseiVictoriaWhitfield

Just for Today...

Mind your mindset, strategically. 

Want spiritual support on your healing journey but don't know where to start? Tell me!

Give me a call at +1 (732) 903-8573 or click on the blue BOOK NOW button to start your healing journey, today!

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Can't seem to move things along in your love life lately?

Struggling to open your Third Eye?

Wondering why you're having trouble getting clients or that next level of income?

Most people in these situations explain it away as "It's not working; I must be blocked."

But Source wants you to know that you are not blocked; in fact, you may instead be 1 of 3 other things actually!

Watch this week's 8-minute Love Letter to learn more about what's actually happening to you, so you can shift out of being "blocked."

"I'm feeling blocked. What do I do?"

This week Source wants you to know that you are not blocked.

You are not blocked.

In fact, there are three other things that Source has channeled for us to share with you. Instead of seeing yourself blocked, actually it could be one of these following three things, so keep reading.

On a side note, I did a previous love letter months ago about blocks as well, but just to summarize overall what came through last time: there's no such thing as being blocked.

Absolutely nothing in the universe energy-wise is ever stationary.

If you zoom into molecules and into atoms there is constantly a state of movement and motion in All That Is.

The status of being blocked or feeling stagnant is only a mental illusion that we create.

In the meantime though, you're still feeling that and thinking, "Ok! I'm in the illusion, Victoria, of feeling blocked! What do I do? What could actually be happening?"

Instead of being blocked what could be happening is that you have 1) a blind spot.

Let's say, perhaps you're working on cultivating your natural intuition skills.

You want to see colors. You want to go on vision journeys or you want to speak to your loved ones on the other side.

You've been cultivating that and despite your efforts, you just can't see or you just can't hear or you just can't get in to it.

It's not that you're blocked, as most people explain this away to themselves as "My third eye's blocked."

No, not necessarily. It could be that you have a mental blind spot.

Everyone is born with different energetic affinities.

For some they have more of an affinity for clairaudience so they can hear energy better. For others they have clairvoyance. They're able to see visions easier.

For others there's the psychic cognition, the thoughts that come to them from the higher plane. Even phantom smells come naturally for some people.

The same way that some people are just born with a natural talent for playing the piano than others, they just have that natural talent or affinity and discover it through practice, is the same with energetic sensing and visioning.

It's not that you're blocked, it's just that you're not born with an affinity for seeing on that level.

It's cultivatable, but it's not your number one affinity or talent.

Additionally, you might be born with a blind spot, but also you may not have the vocabulary to describe and recognize that what's occurring is something spiritual or energetic happening right now.

A lack of vocabulary can also contribute to reinforcing or creating a blind spot for you -- but it's not a block.

2) Congestion. You're not blocked, instead there's a congestion gathered at the moment.

It's not that there's nothing happening. Instead, there's so much happening that you can't even handle it!

Let's talk about abundance.

Perhaps you've been saying to yourself lately: "I feel like I'm financially blocked."

No, it's actually more likely that you're financially and emotionally overloaded right now.

There could be so much going on in your abundance energy and your financial energy that you're just processing too much that it looks like it's blocked.

A good example of that is that you have a lot that you need to confront about your finances.

There's a ton going on there, but for fear, procrastination and emotion we're not engaging and working it out.

Know this: You are not #blocked. You're just #overwhelmed and #suffering from #tunnelvision. http://bit.ly/1SQ5bLk via @SenseiWhitfield

In all honesty, we're resistant to really being open and vulnerable, and to avoid that we create emotion and excuses which create congestion.

Self-sabotage slows you down so you don't have to confront your finances.

We associate more pain with being clear, and more pleasure with being comfortable.

Deciding that comfort is more important than being clear can really clog up your energy, by the way. And this leads into the third one that comes from the energy this week.

3) There's been a decision made.

We formulated a story or limiting belief, a self-limiting agreement with ourselves that "No way, no how, I am not comfortable with being vulnerable. I am not comfortable with crossing that terror barrier in my life."

For example when we're dealing with the unknown, trying something new like: "This person's doing some Reiki hoodoo voodoo on me. I don't know what the heck that is. I don't see it. I don't get it. I don't want it."

Somewhere in your mind there's this clear decision that's been made as a protective mental ring of fire around yourself  to cognitively protect from you experiencing whatever that new feeling or viewpoint may be.

You made that decision consciously or unconsciously to protect yourself, but it's also limiting you.

Honestly, this is the most frustrating because limiting beliefs are just decisions you made at the site of an old trauma in life.

On the bright side, once you realize you made that decision with yourself, you realize you created your prison and locked yourself inside but you have been holding on to the key the whole time -- that means you can let yourself out!

So, to summarize, there's the blind spot, the congestion or the decision instead of being blocked.

I'm hearing the oracle cards calling in the energy now...

By the way, this is an open discussion. I invite you to comment below, email me back at SenseiVictoriaWhitfield@gmail.com what's coming up for you on this topic?

If you were to replace that concept of being blocked with either having a blind spot, feeling like there's a congestion overload or a decision, does it feel softer?

This week's gorgeous oracle cards deck is Angel Answers by Doreen Virtue, and this deck in particular is a yes-no oracle, so the answers are very straightforward.

What we're going to ask the cards is simply: "Are you blocked?"

 

 

This week's gorgeous oracle card is "Unlikely" meaning that the situation is not likely to go as bad as you think because you're IMAGINING it as worse than it really is. Be #bold and #justdoit -- full reading on #youtube at https://youtu.be/PbJU9PRr8UY ???????????????? #spreadlove #travel #success #love #happy #joy #inspiration #business #entrepreneur #angel

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Unlikely.

WOW! Talk about straightforward! Talk about validation. I feel the chills!

They're telling me to read the book on this one. Interesting. There are yes cards, by the way, in this deck, so this is definitely not a coincidence -- the angels want you to know that YOU ARE NOT BLOCKED.

Here's the reading:

 

The situation you have asked about it unlikely to occur as you are imagining it.

There may be a different version of events that will take place or it may be that what you've asked about is simply not in your highest, greatest good.

Place your focus on an alternative possibility. Open your eyes to different opportunities.

Be willing to experience a unique and more uplifting outcome than what you had planned for yourself.

This is where we're going to leave off this week.

If you're telling yourself the story that you are blocked remember this message from your angels: It is highly unlikely!

It is highly unlikely that you are blocked.

Instead you may have a blind spot to the energy that's flowing through you.

There may be so much going on that you're overloaded and you're just processing a lot of energy, more than you're used to processing.

Or you have made a decision inwardly that you are not going any further.

Whenever you start up with telling yourself negative stories, and apparently this week that's what you're going to do or you may be doing right now, "unblock" yourself by saying "IT'S UNLIKELY!"

It's unlikely.

I'll see you next week. Subscribe on YouTube to get the Love Letters first. Comment below and show some love.

See you next time. Bye!

In Love and Light,

Victoria.

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Are you known as "the giver" and backbone of your family or team?

Love sharing your art and work so much that you give it away for free more often than not?

Though you love the feeling of giving, are you secretly worried that you're being drained by what you love?

Giving always feels good to the giver because we feel abundant and connected to others when we do.

But what happens when no one gives to us or tries to connect with us, too -- what happens when we are surrounded by people who just smile, take and keep on taking?

Watch this week's 8-minute Love Letter to find out why you're surrounded by "sucklers" and what to do about it!

"When is someone going to fight for me?"

This week, I keep hearing this wonderful phrase that Lisa Marie Rosati from the Goddess Lifestyle Plan and Sugar Free Goddess coming through for you:

"No more sucklers!"

The guides really want to talk to you about this. 

Giving credit for the phrase where credit is due, I am happy to share this idea of "sucklers" with everyone, because I admire Lisa's work so much.

Women creative entrepreneurs are who I work with, and this comes up a lot.

We end up really giving away a lot of our energy because we are abundant, creative, flowing creatures.

That's who we are, whether or not you are a woman. It's for those of us who are highly creative people.

We care, and we love to create. We love to feel abundant and that sense of giving really gives to us.

It also gives us the sense of responsibility and being needed and connected, giving to others as a form of expressing our love and sharing that abundance.

And I love countering that with the unsettling image of "sucklers" sucking on us.

That's the uncomfortable truth that we live with every day.

This is different from energy vampires, too. Sucklers come upon us in a more sneaky way.

Sucklers are a bit more insidious, because it's those in our community and in our tribe who we want to uplift and see it further who, rather than taking our encouragement and running with it to go on their own journey, they are like, "Oh great," and they keep suckling on our energy.

Also, there is an ageist aspect to that phrase: you're overstaying your welcome, sucklers, because it's your time to get out there.

Source really wants you to know that there may be some people in your life right now, who rather than taking their own initiative are hanging on to you and weighing you down.

I don't know who I'm talking to or who I'm talking about in particular, but let's just explore this.

Rather than taking their own initiative and stepping up to the plate, they've learned from YOUR pattern of behavior reinforcing them staying in a receiving state from you.

Don't misunderstand the message here: Source is saying this AND honoring the fact that you are giving a lot.

You're an amazing nurturing being.

However, the question that you must ask yourself when you are feeling drained is, "what is the pattern IN ME that's creating this situation?"

Know this: YOU train people to be energy #vampires by having no self #respect or #selfcare. #loveyourself @SenseiWhitfield

Ouch...

Why would we be asking this question in the first place?

If you feel that a lot of people are taking, taking, taking from you, but you don't feel like anyone gives to you.

Now, we don't mean this in a selfish way, like we're keeping score, murmuring "Grr, when am I going to get mine?"

No, that's not what we're saying.

Instead, just consider: are you the only giver in town?

Or better yet, could giving and being The Giver or The Nurturer be a way that you control every one around you?

If that is so, it's counterproductive for you to be mad at people for continuing the paradigm that you've set up of control through receiving from you.

Also, this is for those of us that are secretly feeling, "Ugh! I advocate for everyone, lift up everyone so much. When is someone going to fight for me? When is someone going to advocate for me?"

That might be coming up because we're exhibiting a behavioral pattern that reinforces having sucklers around.

People are not taking initiative, because we're not giving them the space to take it.

Here are the oracle cards now. This is a bit of a tough love week. This topic kind of sucks. LOL!

It's important on the path of natural intuitive development to see how our energy drains, though.

That's one of the many forms of assessment that we do here at the dojo.

The Indigo Angel Oracle Cards deck, by Doreen Virtue is the deck of the week. 

So let's see what's coming up around this energy drain issue for those people who it started off beautifully, and really meant well to be nurturing and giving, but are now starting to feel drained and resentful.

Suddenly, we've become "mama" to grown men, grown women, and not in a good way, in a draining way.

Wow, look at the image, how the breasts of the angel are exposed to show giving, nurturing, mother energy!

 

 

This week's #oracle card is "You Are Special" -- the #Angels want you to know this week that you are worthy of #love, #support and recognition. Your #joy and #health are just as important as others'; especially if you go out of your way to make everyone else feel special, this week you need to remember that you are special, too. Full reading on #YouTube: https://youtu.be/mjXVG-1uCfM ????????✨????????✨ #reiki #meditation #healing

 

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You are special.

The reason why the angels are sending this card forward is this is showing what's the problematic pattern and behavior that you're exhibiting. 

You don't see yourself as special. Everyone else is special in your eyes.

That's so loving. That's beautiful. Humble.

However, it ends up leaving your needs, your boundaries, your standards, your values in the dust, because we place others above ourselves, because we assign everyone on the outside responsibility for making us feel happy.

What does that mean?

That means we're not happy and comfortable unless our entire environment is happy and comfortable. Right?

But making everyone happy doesn't make you special.

It just makes you really busy.

To change the pattern of behavior, for this week in particular, is to say to yourself, "How can I see myself as just as special as everyone else that I am pouring love into this week?"

Are you special?

What's a list of things that make you special?

Comment below, send me an email back. Tell me. I want to hear it.

I'm excited to see you celebrate yourself and begin to shift that pattern of behavior!

That's this week's message. By all means, please go to victoriawhitfield.com/freegift and make sure that you subscribe so that you're getting your weekly Love Letters if you haven’t already.

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Sending you so much love 🙂

See you next time. Bye!

In Love and Light,

Victoria.

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If you find yourself feeling drained by a person or situation, pause for a second. Ask yourself: "what is the pattern IN ME that is creating this situation?"

Allow any images, ideas, memories and guidance to come up for you in response to that question, and don't judge what you hear.

Want to de-stress and clear your energy but don't know where to start? Tell me!

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