Tired of being the only one actually getting things done?

Have you noticed that this is a pattern in your life, of being the responsible "finisher"?

Ever wonder why this keeps happening over and over again?

I have to be the one to break it to you, so that you can have your breakthrough: it’s not “them” or everybody else being lazy, it’s You.

The good news is, we’re going to spend the rest of the month shifting this, together.

Watch this weeks 9-minute Love Letter video, the first of a five-week series on “From Me to We Mindset”, to begin learning how to get out of your own way and stepping into exponential growth and impact.

"I'm so busy, I just can't take it anymore."

I'm excited to announce to you that we're beginning a new four-week series on From Me to We, the transition to living a tribal, cooperate lifestyle. So if you're watching this right now, stay tuned.

Make sure that you are getting these first, every single week, because this series is going to be absolutely transformational. Why? Because it's time for you to step into your calling.

This month, this time, this week, this day, in particular, you are going to learn exactly how to step into your calling in a way that leverages your unique brilliance and really optimizes the resources that you have gathered around you already.

We're gonna go through the exactly how, but you know me, if you've been following these Love Letters for a while now, you'll understand that we begin with the why.

Why is it time to transition from me to we? Well, I bet you could fill in the blank, but what my guides told me to tell you is that you are called to exponential growth this year.

You are called to exponential growth this year. Go ahead, type that in the comments below. Share that.

That's the notice for this week. Tweet it out, right? Put a blocky thing on Instagram. Let the world know that you are called to exponential growth this year.

The only thing that is standing between you and exponentiating your impact, exponentiating your income, and exponentiating your sense of wellness and sense of fulfillment in life is your mindset.

Know this: You are being called to exponential impact.

The main issue with your mindset is we have a me, I mindset that is dominating your life and your business, your career, if you don't have a business just yet, right?

So be kind to yourself. If you have the whole strong, independent insert here, right, I'm not just talking to the woman now. Come on, guys, right?

I know I have all the colors and fluffy things here, it's very feminine, and men understand these issues too. Shout out to all my guys who receive my Love Letters. Mwah. You guys rock.

But be kind to yourself. If you're the only one doing things, and you're getting frustrated because your plate goes from crickets empty, to, oh my God, I can't take it anymore full, back and forth, and back and forth, and back and forth, and back and forth.

I can barely even say that 'cause I'm so out of alignment with it. I understand where you're coming from. I've been working tooth and nail, right, with my intuitive healers, right, and my mentors, my team, to help me to wrench out of the, I do everything mindset, so that we can take this on an exponential weave.

But this month, in particular, I'm gonna start sharing what the guides have been sharing with me about how we can transition from me to we.

Or as I think of one of my private clients who is an amazing salon owner. She just inspires other salon owners from all over. We had this conversation around moving from the technician to the teacher, right? From technician to even leadership where we're so detailed and well-trained on exactly how to do the things, that we are driven to go and do the things. On a good day, maybe you could cut 10 heads of hair, but what if you have 100 walk-ins? It's time to transition from me to we. We're gonna be doing that this month because you are called to exponential growth.

Now, I'm hearing the oracle cards for the month calling in the energy. Let me come in a wee bit closer. Life purpose. Oracle cards deck by Doreen Virtue is who we're going to be journeying with all month.

Angels, what do we need to know about why it's time to transition from the me mindset to the we mindset? Let's see. Hmm. Career change. You're embarking upon a career that brings you the joy and abundance you desire and deserve. Oh my. That's a doozy. Couldn't have said it better myself.

It's more important now than ever for you to shift your mindset because you are stepping into receiving the joy and abundance that you deserve, right? Once you are open to receiving and being cooperative and collaborative, you can enjoy that abundance that you've visualized having and, no, it's not selfish to desire that because abundance, by the way, is just a reflection of how much impact you're having, right?

No shame in that.

It's also time for you to enjoy the journey. Enjoy the journey there. You don't have to be the hard work hero. We'll talk about that later this month, but that's not something that's going to win you a medal in war, or something. It's time for a career change.

Even if you're keeping the same business, and the same job, the light is going to turn on up top, right? You see the lighthouse? That is going to be you. There's even an angel in there. Check it out. Good stuff, right?

So let's turn on this month together. What's coming up for you hearing all that? That's it for this weeks' reading. Go ahead and comment below, right? Send me an email back, describe what's coming up for you.

Remember if there's any way that I can help you balance your mind, body and business, just let me know!

We'll see you next time.

(Original post 04/30/2018)

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Be on the lookout to see if you’re the only one getting things done that are impactful.

And if that’s true, ask yourself how can I shift from a Me mindset to a We mindset so I can increase my impact?

Notice how you feel at that moment - you're already healing!

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Money stressing you out these days?

Find yourself obsessing about getting more of it, since there’s never enough?

Want the next era of your life to be a time of increasing financial health and abundance?

Money is a touchy subject.

Entrepreneurs, and especially holistic healers, get massively triggered by the topic of money, value and receiving support.

Watch this week’s 14-minute Love Letter, the first in our 4-week series, to discover why your financial healing matters now more than ever.

"I would not talk about money."

This month, I'm so excited to talk to you about something that spirit has put on my heart very intensely, very intensely. It's been coming up with my clients and students, here at the dojo, right?

It's been a commons source of conversation and focus in workshops and retreats that I've done over the last, we're going on 6 years in business.

It's amazing to say that out loud, by the way. This is a very sensitive topic, some of the most intense healing that I've done myself, as well as held space for others here at the dojo, and in her other incarnations, whether online or in former locations, or over the phone, etc.

This topic is heavy duty stuff. We are going to do a four week deep dive into, drum roll please, financial healing, financial healing.

At the filming of this love letter, it is currently the beginning of December. In the US, most of the US, we regard this as the beginning of the end of the year, and we're ramping up to a new year, right?

We're getting ready for ... I'm here in New Jersey, so we watch the ball drop in New York City, and the fireworks, and so on and so forth. It's our arbitrary, let's get in alignment time. Tie up all your loose ends because we're going into a brand new epoch, a brand new year.

Regardless of the time that you're actually watching this love letter, I want you to invoke that same sense of ... I am now 4 weeks away from an entirely new era in my life, right? I am only 4 weeks away, right now, from entering an entirely new era in my life.

You get the chills? I'm getting them.

This is powerful. I desire for you to enter, the next era of your life is a financial healing, and being a financial healer. Not just for yourself, of course for yourself first, but for your family, your community, your team, your state, your country, right?

Your hemisphere, your world. This is really powerful. If we heal our relationship with our finances, what we're really doing is healing the sense of safety on Earth.

Now, I know that was like a big statement. Dial it back, in our four week deep dives, if you've been following them now, you understand that our first week, right? Week one, is all about why?

You know I'm a Simonite, I love Simon Sinek. We start with why. If you don't know why you're doing what you're doing, or why we're talking about what we're talking, or why we're doing financial healing, you're not going to have the juice necessary to carry it through.

Be kind to yourself, if you're someone who ... Money and finances is a very touchy subject, right? And you'd rather be listening to more spiritually stuff, or something other than money, don't talk to me about money, because you have strong triggers around that.

This is actually for you, especially, for you especially. Because, if you have funky reactions around financial energy, that means that funkiness or that disgust, or frustration, or anger, or triggeredness, that means it's time for some healing work, right?

Your discomfort is a growth edge. That's a writer downer, or a Tweetable. To my team who's watching this, put that in for the Tweetable of the week. Your discomfort Is a growth edge.

Let's talk about why it's so important for us to walk into the discomfort around finances, so that we can create financial healing.

First in our own lives, and then for our community and world at large. That's our intention.

Know this: Your discomfort is a growth edge. #entrepreneur #healing @SenseiWhitfield

The reason was, when it comes to finances and abundance, it's not about the money. It's not about the money. What's underneath financial healing, is healing safety.

Healing our relationship with feeling safe and trusting that we are going to be safe moving forward, think about it. Think about it.

Think about someone in particular, maybe it's not you, right? We love to take examples from outside of ourselves, because it's easier, yes. With love, mwah, if that's you. Sending you big hearts.

Think of someone who you know, who has maybe a money addiction, or has a hard time keeping money, or can't seem to increase their sales, or make and sales in the first place.

I cannot tell you how many healers I have met over my few years in business. I can't say I have all the answers and I've met everybody on the planet, but I have been on a national tour, and I have been on a world tour, and I have treated hundreds of people, who most of which are healers.

If you're watching this, chances are you're a healer or you're an entrepreneur, because we resonate, yes, yes.

Healers in particular, when it comes to financial energy, maybe it's not you, right? We're thinking of another healer who...

They don't wanna do sales, they don't wanna look at the finances, it's gross, it's creepy, it's scary, it's hard, it's hard work.

No, I wanna communicate with the guides and fly with the platypus in mid air while I'm meditating, all the good things, yes, yes. It's gorgeous, right? I wanna feel the energy, and the white light, and the Reiki ... I'm saying this as a Reiki Master and all of that. I say this with big love, but I'm calling you out.

Healers need the most healing around financial energy, and the relationship with finances, because we need you feeling safe and strong so that you can get out there and heal more people, because our world needs you. If you don't know whether or not you're a healer, yet.

If you don't know if you're a healer just yet, chances are you serve others, right? You support people in your community, you support your team at work, you support your family, we need you to feel safe and grounded, confident in your relationship with wealth and abundance, so that you can continue to serve and uplift the community with all of that love and brilliance that you bring, I know you do, I know you do. This one is for you, this is your month.

Why are we going in for a financial healing, four week deep dive into it? Because you've got work to do, and it's not just about the money, this is not, we're not gonna be talking, I'm not an accountant, I'm not an accountant, right?

We may talk about ways for you to receive for money, and we also may talk about ways for you to give more money, as well as save more money, and to honor your finances, and to really clear out your energy. Sure, but what we're really looking at, is your relationship to safety.

Now, I'm hearing the Oracle cards calling in the energy, and we're gonna be with this deck all month. Angels of Abundance, by the way, came from my financial healer, Julie Shopa at clarityfinances.com. Thank you for this gift, mwah, one of the over 20 decks now and counting at the dojo to play with.

Most of which are donations, just like coming from Julie, so thank you for your love my dear friend, all your support of me and our tribe.

Let's see here, come on out. Okay. Angels of Abundance, Angels of Abundance, what do we need to know right now about beginning a four week deep dive? This is very intense energy, four week deep dive into financial healing. All right now, this is interesting.

Now, regardless of whether your New Years starts in January, or February, or September, right? Regardless of what you're looking at, as far as religious beliefs, or beliefs about the calendar and dating. Not like relationship dating, but as in dates on the calendar.

It's interesting, but this guy's coming up, Santa Claus here. In America, we're a predominantly Christina country, although it is different from time to time, so different Muslim beliefs, Jewish, etc. But, it's interesting that we're got winter scenes, and animals, and presents and things.

The angels are seeing exactly where we are at in time and space and honoring that.

Windfall of abundance.

An increase in abundance is arriving in many different forms, some of them unexpected. Be open to receiving, and know that this abundance comes to you to support your life purpose, health, and charitable work. Check this out.

What we're going to be looking at, is being open to receiving, right? In the next four weeks. For support of your life purpose, health, and charitable work. There's your why. Why you need financial healing, right?

We need to turn up the volume on your life purpose, turn up the volume on your level of help, and health ... I love that, I said help instead of health, so good. And turn up the volume on your charitable work, right? This makes it a lot more specific, but I think it's hilarious that it's Santa Clause, what in the world?

So good. Is this resonating for you? Send me an email back, comment below, by the way text me, who do you think just walked in the door back there?

I'm curious to see, we're about to have a group meeting here at the dojo, we're a community here. Take a guess, I'd be curious to hear who you think just popped in back there, if you caught that Easter egg. But, send me an email back, is this resonating for you?

What in your life do you feel, and your financial, is ready for healing? Is this timely? Tell me, tell me.

Make sure you subscribe on Youtube, so that you get these love letters first every week, and get ready for it, mwah. I'll see you next week, let's do this. Bye.

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Decide to be a Financial Healer, starting with yourself.

Throughout the day, act as if a new era of increasing financial health has begun for yourself and your community.

Notice how you feel at that moment - you're already healing!

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Feeling indecisive, like you’re life lacks direction?

Struggling to “find yourself” and feel like you belong?

Wondering if you’ll ever get the clarity you seek?

Indecision is a symptom of much deeper issues regarding your relationship with your own Spirit, aka your “spirituality.”

And everyone has a sense of spirituality, especially skeptics and realists.

Watch this week’s 12-minute love letter video, the final part in our four-part Deep Dive series on the Power of Loving Yourself, to redefine spirituality and use it to love yourself at work today.

"What is my value?"

This week is week four of four in our deep dive into loving yourself.

The power of loving yourself and this week, the guides are going to have us talk about loving your spirit. Let's define terms a little bit, right out the gate.

What is a spirit? What in the world are we talking about? The spirit for the bounds of this conversation, we're going to understand as the resource behind your decision making processes in life.

It is the force that determines the path that your life takes, right? It is that resource behind how you make decisions.

That's what your spirit is, so for those of us you are religious, we understand to be the holy spirit. For those of us that aren't creative or consider ourselves scientific, same thing, that you can understand to be your creative spirit, your spirit of innovation, growth and progress, that sort of a spirit.

This is the fuel behind your decision making processes and when you're learning how to love yourself on another level, so that you can better love others, right?

We're filling our cup at the faucet, the resource that we need, so that we can then hand that cup or pour from a full pitcher to others to love on them, as well. Showing up in service and loving others, abundantly.

With that, this week in particular, when we're learning how to love our spirit, it's important to then understand what your core values are, especially when you're at work. Now, there's a very professionalism and all those kinds of corporate sort of language. Mission, vision, values that comes up for us when we think of, what do we value? But instead, I want you to think of when it comes to loving yourself, what do you value?

When it comes to your life, what do you value? When it comes to being loving, what do you value? Remembering that your spirit is the force behind your decision making process.

With that, this week in particular, we want to pick one value in particular that is loving to you. One that nourishes you. If we could choose a more concrete word, whether than just loving can sometimes be a morphosis for those of us who are not used to being loving to oneself, right?

We're used to being loving to others, so think of a value that would be nourishing to you, even if you want to pick nourishment. My nourishment is something that I value.

Me personally, my top values are, number one, love. Obviously. Number two is safety and number three is honor. Honesty for me falls underneath honor, so when I have something more vulnerable that I need to share to a team member or someone that I'm in an intimate relationship with, maybe family or my partner and so on, I think of my value of honor and that, for me, is loving toward myself first and that gives me the courage to then speak from the heart about topics that might be a little bit more vulnerable making or feel uncomfortable to bring up.

That value gives me the courage to make a decision with my spirit to allow the spirit of honor to come through me and create more honorable experiences. Are you getting the picture here?

That's loving towards me because I'm bringing that spirit into my awareness in my decision making, which then effects my behavior and how I show up to others, how I serve others.

If I come with a spirit of honor or spirit of love or spirit of safety and honoring my safety, others safety and so on and so forth. What would be your value? How can you, but we want to make this very specific, this week in particular to work. How can you honor your spirit or how can you bring your spirit into your work experience?

Perhaps it is honoring your religion. I'm putting a lot of my value of honor. Perhaps it is bring your spirit's desire to be religious or to glorify God in all that you do and bring that to your work experience.

How would you work? How would you show up? How would you speak to others if the force behind your decisions and your behaviors is, I want to glorify God in whatever I do?

Know this: Your Spirit is the force behind how you make decisions in life and #business. And spirituality is your relationship with it.

On the flip side, what if your value was, I value my health. My health comes first. How would you show up at work today if your value is, my health comes first? This is the one value that I'm going to embody today.

How can you allow that to come forward in your work day? How would you speak to people? How would you sit at your desk? What food would you choose to put in your body if that was your value that you were going to honor today, this week?

Whether you're going all week or just for today, what would be different about the way that you conduct your behavior and the decisions that you make if you made value based decisions?

The power and the self-loving, self-nourishing aspect of making value based decisions is that you become responsive rather than reactive to life around you. When we're reactive, things happen and all right, I got to put out the fire over here and oh, so and so needs me.

Okay, I'll do this and oh my gosh, what about this and da da da da and you're working yourself up spiritually because there's no anchor, there's no value anchoring you down on a spiritual level. Your decisions are flying off at the handle, they're reacting to all of the circumstances that are around you versus making value based decisions.

You're able to ground and then respond with wisdom to the experiences that are coming toward you so that your life, you're building by design in a wise and spiritually grounded way.

Value based decisions, that's the challenge for this week, in particular. The mantra of the week is, what's my value? Remember it's one. I know some of you do core desired feelings and stuff like that and you pick several and all of this. What one? Just one. Simplify it. I value simplicity. Let's all value simplicity right now.

Bring the spirit of simplicity so that you can be kind to yourself and one, what's my value?

The next time someone asks you something, the next time you begin your work day, the next time you sit down to eat, what's my value? That is your mantra. Today, in particular, or for this week, in particular. Whatever you're ready to commit to.

I'm hearing the oracle cards calling and energy. Talk about spirit. Fairies. Ding, ding, ding. Yay. Healing with the fairies, another Doreen Virtue deck. Thank you so much for donating.

This is one of over 20 decks that we have here at the dojo that our clients and students play with as well as my co-op members. Between seeing their clients, they're reading their own oracle card readings. I love it. You're welcome to play. My cards are very social.

Fairies, what do we need to know, this week in particular about loving our spirit? What value? Oh, this loud is coming forward. New opportunity, This is so powerful. Check it out. Gorgeous.

What I'm hearing in the energy to tell you about new opportunity for this week, in particular, is that you've been loving yourself and opening up to honoring and heeling and loving, nourishing and nurturing those parts of yourself that have been under loved for the last few weeks.

We've been at that together and because of that, sources taken notice. There's a new opportunity coming your way that you want to use your value. You're going to need to have a set of values or one guiding light that gives you enough anchoring to receive that opportunity.

If you don't have it, you're going to miss this opportunity and it's because you're got to anchor first in order to receive the level of opportunity that's coming to you this week, in particular. Maybe even today. We want to make wise decisions, ones that are responding to life with elegance , with wisdom, with grounding, allowing spirit to come through and wash through our lives, blessing rather than rushing through and feeling unloved, especially by ourselves. Slow down, ground, make value-based decisions so that you can receive the next level opportunity that's coming to you.

Comment below. Send me an email back.

What's coming up for you hearing all of this? What opportunity, have you recognized it yet? I'd love to hear about it and how did you ground and make a value-based decision in order to receive that.

Make sure you subscribe on YouTube so that you get these love letters every single week and ready for it? We did it. We made it through the four weeks. See you soon. Bye.

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Pick one Value to focus on that is loving and nourishing to YOU.

At work, choose to embody the spirit of that value in your communications, your time at your desk, your self-care, etc.

Notice how you feel at that moment - you're already healing!

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Are you really good at doubting yourself?

Always putting yourself down so no one else can, or to make others feel comfortable?

Waiting for the other shoe to drop, so you’re prepared when it does?

Over time we convince ourselves to be careful about not getting to happy or positive, because it leaves us more vulnerable when things don’t work out.

But sometimes this negative mindset takes the ball and runs with it, making sure we are next to never happy, so that we are always feeling “safe.”

Watch this week’s 12-minute love letter video, the third in our four-part Deep Dive on the Power of Loving Yourself, to discover how to start releasing our addiction to negative self talk.

"I'm not smart enough."

This week is week three of our four week deep dive into loving yourself. The power of loving yourself. Knowing how to build self love enables you to love others in a big way, and that's why we're talking about this.

You already want to show up and service, and give big in life. And we're here talking about exactly how to support you doing that for the long haul, by learning how to fill your cup, first and foremost.

So last week we talked about loving your body. And exactly how to take something that you don't like, and use that as inspiration to share love with yourself.

This week, we're talking about loving your mindset. Loving your mindset. Negative self talk ... Negative, fatalistic, perspective is super killer. The reason why it's killer is because negative mindset cuts your dreams off at the conceptual level, before they can even make it out of gestation, and the manifestation, and out in fruition here.

Out in physical reality. Before they can even get that far, at the conceptual level, negative mindset cuts them all off. The vision that I get from my guides is just someone coming and cutting all of the roses off of rosebushes as the buds are trying to come out.

So be kind to yourself, if your mindset is what's holding you back.

What it would look like if that has been happening to you, is that you're surrounded by all the resource that you could possibly need. Right, you have people that want to help. People are capable of supporting you. You're surrounded by all these great groups, where they have ideal clients of yours.

But because, up here you're saying, "I'm too fat. I'm not smart enough. Nobody will pay for that. No one will love me, I'm not lovable. I'm not enough, I'm not worthy. I'm not really supposed to be in business." All my entrepreneurs, I'm talking to you. Because mindset is everything in business.

But to all those who are leaders and caregivers in your own right, the healers out there. We stop ourselves from sharing our light. Or if we're talking in business terms, we stop ourselves from sharing our gifts, our work.

The wonderful services, or products and visions that we've created to make life easier, brighter, better for others. And we keep cutting those roses off before they can even bloom in our mindset we cut it off at conception. And you want to be kind to yourself.

If that's you, it's time to shine more love into your mindset. And the way that you have a more loving mindset, is to have an abundant mindset.

A mindset and a mental state, a point of view, that has abundance. And the assumption of abundance, as its foundation. Rather than the assumption of lack, or struggle, or competition, etc. holding you down. And that being your assumption of what's behind what's going on around you.

If we can get your mind right, if we can love your mindset. Shine more love, send more healing energy to your mindset. Honestly this week can change your life completely. Because Tony Robbins brilliantly says that, "The biggest resource is resourcefulness."

So if you're able to get your mind right, where you see that you have everything that you need. And you see that you have permission to utilize and mobilize everything that you need, for the greatest good. Not only your greatest good, but the greatest good of all. We all win.

So we want to have an abundance mindset. And abundant mindset is one that is based on faith, and positive expectation. It assumes universal abundance. The lack mindset, which is the opposite, is based on fear. And it assumes that negative things are coming.

That there's going to be more trouble. There's always something to do, there's always another fire to put out. The fear mindset of waiting for the other shoe to drop. And my guide said, the mantra for this week in particular, is going to come from embracing distraction.

Know this: The antidote to rampant negative self-talk is instead the cultivation of an #abundant mindset.

So, a natural part of life in general, is that you're going to get distracted. But there's one way to let distraction rule you from a fear mindset, and another way of looking at distraction as fuel. Fearing, or fueling you. Making you fearful, or making you feel fueled by this distraction.

And here it is ... So this is a reframe. The same way that we reframed last week, loving your body. Seeing the parts that you hate the most and saying to them directly, "Okay, this is my opportunity to love myself. I love you anyway." And challenging that self hatred, and using it instead as an opportunity for love. This week, we're going to use distraction as another opportunity to love yourself.

The next time you're feeling distracted ... And this is probably going to happen when you're avoiding some responsibility. Or maybe when you're just getting overwhelmed, and there's not enough awareness of your own boundaries. The next time you're feeling distracted, the mantra of the week is, breathe into the distraction.

Deep breath in, breathe into the distraction. Breathe into the distraction, breathe into the distraction. Deep breath in. Now this is loving to yourself in a myriad of ways. One, on a physical level it oxygenates your blood, which cleanses all of the physical systems of your body via the circulatory system. So we're building on last week's loving your body. But also, this is loving your mindset by helping you slow down and become present, and embrace the distraction as your training partner.

Now, it's important to see distraction, and things that would challenge your mindset, as a training partner. Because training partners are there to train you up. They're there to make you stronger, through resistance training. You have to push against it. And in the pushing against it, you become stronger in the process.

So the next time you have a client that sends you a text, or an email, or a call ... Throws you a curve ball. Breathe into the distraction. Deep breath in. Versus, "Oh my God, what am I gonna do?" Nourish yourself in that moment, breathe against it.

Assume that this is working out for you. Something good is about to happen. We're breathing into the distraction to prepare for something good that's about to happen. This is a challenge, it's easier said than done.

I'm hearing the oracle cards calling in the week to encourage us on our path. This deck of the week is angels of abundance, oracle cards deck. Thank you Julie Shopa, clarityfinances.com. She donated this lovely deck to the dojo. Thank you goddess. So let's check this out...

Angels, what do we need to know this week in particular, about loving our mindset? Beautiful, this is so juicy: Partnership.

Allow helpful, supportive partnerships into your personal life and career, and both parties benefit as a result. You are receiving help from heaven, and from a person who brings needed skills and resources. So this is super powerful, and this is where we're going to leave off this week.

If you're watching this, chances are you are a leader, manager, caregiver, healer of some sort, you're an entrepreneur and business owner. Partnering. There's this thing where amazing leaders think, "I can do it all by myself. I do things better by myself." No, breathe into the distraction. Something good is about to happen.

When these people are in your life, you've got to become resourceful, and look for the positive aspects.

As I work with teams and help them to heal together, we celebrate the diversity of opinions, and personalities, and viewpoints. We celebrate that, because that means we have diverse ways of problem solving, rather than just doing everything the same way, one way.

If you look at nature, we have biodiversity. And that what makes nature so powerful, and so strong, is that diversity of opinion. Allow others to help you. But breathe into the resistance that you may have this week in particular, to receiving that help, or that partnership.

Send me an email back, comment below. What's coming up for you around having an abundant mindset, and receiving help.

This is like ... I'm hearing bombs going off, and the energy.

Some people are like, "NO, no." So be kind to yourself if that's you. Breathe into the distraction. Something good is about to happen.

So make sure that you subscribe on YouTube, so you get your love letter videos every week. And I'll see you soon. Bye.

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Is helping others hurting you?

Worried that if you say "no" to others' requests that people won't like you?

Struggling to keep up with your overcommitted schedule, because you "have to" do it all?

As natural givers, we love to help others and jump at opportunities to serve.

But what happens when we actually don't know how to say "no" with ease and grace?

Watch this weeks 8-minute love letter video to start standing in the truth that you don't know anybody anything.

"I have to do this."

This week's source wants you to know you don't owe anybody anything.

You do not owe any one any thing. You are free.

"Why would this be coming up, Victoria? What? Guides, what are you trying to say?"

In the energy I'm hearing to tell you that this week, in particular, you are going to feel pulled or obligated to reciprocate, to agree, and to commit to someone or something out of a sense of an impulse, or like a, "I have to. I have to."

All right. Maybe you've been going through this recently, where you've been pulled by your have-tos, pulled by your obligations. Pulled apart, not just pulled towards. Right?

Compulsion, and trying to keep up with everything, but you're being pulled apart at the seams where you're over-committed. Right? Or overbooked, or overwhelmed, overextended, et cetera.

What's underneath all of that, the Guides want you to know, is that you don't owe any one anything, but for now, you believe that you do.

So if someone has paid you a compliment or supported your business, or loved you in the past, or asked you a question, there's this compulsion within you, and I'm talking to you. I'm talking to you directly. Just you, to say, "Yes," or "Oh, I want to support you," or "Oh, I'm here for you no matter what. No matter how crazy they get. No matter how difficult things are."

No matter what's going on with you, right? There's the sense of I have to help other people. Right?

Because that's my purpose. That's all that I am is helping other people, but guess what? If all that you are is helping other people respectfully, who are you without other people?

Know this: If all you are is helping other people, then who are you without other people's problems? @SenseiWhitfield

That's a big question and I'm asking that with big love for you. I'm not saying that there's anything wrong with you, but there's a pattern of give, give, give, giving, and what happened to receiving? What happened to it? Is it uncomfortable, right, for you to receive?

Do you feel like you owe it to them? If the guy says, "Oh, you look really good today." Do you have to pay attention to him as he tells you the rest of his life story? If he offers you a drink, do you have to drink it?

Even if it's not in like that kind of dating situation. If you're at the party, right, maybe it's someone's birthday or a holiday, or something is going on right now as you're watching. Do you have to drink that alcohol? Do you owe it to them? To look like you're having a good time, right, but drinking.

Underneath, especially, our addictive parts of our personality, there's a sense of, "I owe it. I owe it to them."

Now this is not all addictive personality, but quite a few. If this has to do with some sort of a social situation, there is a sense of, "I have to fit in. I have to. I have to. I must," and that, is not the case. You always, always, always have a choice.

The phrase that you say to release yourself from this is, "Thank you and I choose not to."

Like if someone asks, "Hey, can you come move the furniture, and my kids, and my foot, and my house?" "Thank you. Thanks for thinking of me. I choose not to," or "Thank you. No. No, I can't." It stops there.

Don't give excuses. You don't owe anybody any excuse. You don't owe anybody any explanations. No is sufficient, because it's a choice.

There's a difference between, okay, reciprocity, and being tied energetically and karmically into transactional relationships. There's a difference between that and choosing when and where you desire to participate.

You desire to contribute consciously, and this is where I'm hearing the oracle cards coming through in the energy.

This week is Archangel Michael Oracle Cards Deck. Brand new, are now 19 decks and counting, here at the dojo.

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Okay, so Archangel Michael, what do we need to know right now?

I'm already hearing things in the energy. He's very, very, very vocal. Archangel Michael, what do we need to know right now about not owing anybody? What do we need to know?

You are on the right path.

You're on the right path, and each card in this deck comes with a prayer, so it says, and let's all close our eyes for a moment.

"Archangel Michael, I call upon you now. Thank you for giving me loud and clear guidance that I easily understand. Thank you for motivating me and filling me with the courage and confidence to make healthful life changes."

This is where we'll leave off.

It takes courage and confidence to be conscious. You can decide to participate or not. You're free to come and go as you please. Know that you're on the right path, and know you're alignment.

Know your healing journey, so that when someone comes in and invites you to participate in their stream, right, in their journey, you can tell the difference between yours and theirs.

If you need help seeing the difference, send me an email back, or a comment below. I'm happy to help you to get more clarity on that, or if we need to go for a deeper dive in a private session.

Know that you're on your right path. Find your inner alignment, and remember, you don't owe anybody any thing, so I'm sending you so much love.

Make sure you subscribe on YouTube so that you get these Love Letters every week first, and ready, muah! See you next week.   

In Love and Light,

Victoria.

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The next time you decide to decline, try leaving the excuses, apologies and explanations out.

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Have you been secretly feeling down and depressed lately?

Feeling like you've lost the joy you once had, or wish you had more?

Think that joy and feelings are irrelevant to your work?

Keeping up with the demands of professional life -- or "adulting" as I call it -- can really drain your joy sometimes.

Watch this week's 7-minute Love Letter video to find out the power of joy and how to rekindle yours!

"Today I want to do something that brings me joy."

Source wants you to know, this week in particular, that your joy is sacred.

Your joy, your happiness, your peace, how you feel, is sacred.

One of the most common things that I say here to all my students at the Dojo, is that "what matters most is how you feel"; but your joy in particular is sacred.

In the energy I'm seeing that in a previous video, we had covered that your joy is actually a way of protecting yourself. It's your vortex, right?

Being in your vortex keeps you energized -- and you're in it when you're feeling good.

When you're feeling joyful, it also keeps you open to new solutions and strategies for solving different issues that come through your life; also it does protect your heart and it protects your energy.

It's especially helpful when you're out in the world interacting with others, because sometimes news and things or issues at work can come up, or your family members or teammates may be having a challenge.

Your joy is sacred for protecting you from absorbing any of the healing journeys that they're on. Did you know that?

Joy is such a powerful thing to connect to, and especially when we are post-school-age.

So to all my students who are "studenting", awesome; but for those who are post being in school and you're now "adulting", as opposed to just "studenting" in your life right now, joy can become smaller and smaller and lesser and lesser.

The more we "adult" the more we get serious or monotonous, the more we curb our enthusiasm for life.

I'm using "adult" as a verb on purpose -- I was an English Major in college, so to all my grammarians out there, I know you're cringing, but I know what I'm doing, here ;).

Let me be direct with you --

What happened to your joy?

What happened to the things that made you come alive and inspired you, and made you want to be "frisky", as Abraham Hicks says, made you want to be mischievous or fun, sexy and silly?

What happened to your joy?

It energized you. It moved mountains in life so many times. When you've been joyful time flew and synchronicities came together, right?

Know this: Your #joy is #sacred. This week start each day by #visualizing things that bring you joy. @SenseiWhitfield

Your joy is sacred.

Source in particular this week wants you to know that you joy is sacred, though, because it is contagious.

Your joy is contagious.

God, Goddess, the Holy Spirit, Source consciousness, the human spirit and human potential that is around us and within us desires for more joy and more happiness to be on the planet -- and it's got to start with you.

Your joy is sacred because you're the only one who can access it for you.

I'm hearing the Oracle cards calling in the energy on this, but it's important that in this week, you prioritize first and foremost that "Today I want to do something that brings me joy."

I want to hear in the comments what brings you joy.

You know me. I love bubbles, I love dancing, I love rainbows, glitter and emojis. Shiny things and playfulness. Those bring me joy.

These things bring me joy and light me up, and it's because of my joy practice that I have so much energy.

What I want to hear from you is how do you generate joy in your life?

What makes you joy-filled?

We're using the Healing with the Fairies oracle cards deck by Doreen Virtue.

Let's ask: "Fairies, what do we need to know right now about our joy?"

Visualization.

This is where we'll leave off for the week.

Your joy is sacred, and it's important that you visualize things that bring you joy.

I just heard it loud in the energy, like they yelled it in my ear --

Mindset. There's negative thoughts.

We've been beating ourselves up with the same old crusty self-doubt and worry, etc. patterns that we keep pummeling ourselves with in our minds.

This week in particular, I double-dog-dare you to visualize once a day something that brings you so much joy.

Try it at the beginning of the day because it'll set the tone for the day for more joy.

You will see how it will attract more joy throughout the day.

Comment below, post back, let me know how it goes, what did you find, and make sure you subscribe on YouTube so that you get your weekly love letters first.

I'm sending you so much love. I believe in you, and I'm sending you joyful energy. Bye. See you next week.

In Love and Light,

Victoria.

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Is helping others hurting you?

Worried that if you say "no" to others' requests that people won't like you?

Struggling to keep up with your overcommitted schedule, because you "have to" do it all?

As natural givers, we love to help others and jump at opportunities to serve.

But what happens when we actually don't know how to say "no" with ease and grace?

Watch this weeks 8-minute love letter video to start standing in the truth that you don't know anybody anything.

"I have to do this."

This week's source wants you to know you don't owe anybody anything.

You do not owe any one any thing. You are free.

"Why would this be coming up, Victoria? What? Guides, what are you trying to say?"

In the energy I'm hearing to tell you that this week, in particular, you are going to feel pulled or obligated to reciprocate, to agree, and to commit to someone or something out of a sense of an impulse, or like a, "I have to. I have to."

All right. Maybe you've been going through this recently, where you've been pulled by your have-tos, pulled by your obligations. Pulled apart, not just pulled towards. Right?

Compulsion, and trying to keep up with everything, but you're being pulled apart at the seams where you're over-committed. Right? Or overbooked, or overwhelmed, overextended, et cetera.

What's underneath all of that, the Guides want you to know, is that you don't owe any one anything, but for now, you believe that you do.

So if someone has paid you a compliment or supported your business, or loved you in the past, or asked you a question, there's this compulsion within you, and I'm talking to you. I'm talking to you directly. Just you, to say, "Yes," or "Oh, I want to support you," or "Oh, I'm here for you no matter what. No matter how crazy they get. No matter how difficult things are."

No matter what's going on with you, right? There's the sense of I have to help other people. Right?

Because that's my purpose. That's all that I am is helping other people, but guess what? If all that you are is helping other people respectfully, who are you without other people?

Know this: If all you are is helping other people, then who are you without other people's problems? #bk2ys @SenseiWhitfield

That's a big question and I'm asking that with big love for you. I'm not saying that there's anything wrong with you, but there's a pattern of give, give, give, giving, and what happened to receiving? What happened to it? Is it uncomfortable, right, for you to receive?

Do you feel like you owe it to them? If the guy says, "Oh, you look really good today." Do you have to pay attention to him as he tells you the rest of his life story? If he offers you a drink, do you have to drink it?

Even if it's not in like that kind of dating situation. If you're at the party, right, maybe it's someone's birthday or a holiday, or something is going on right now as you're watching. Do you have to drink that alcohol? Do you owe it to them? To look like you're having a good time, right, but drinking.

Underneath, especially, our addictive parts of our personality, there's a sense of, "I owe it. I owe it to them."

Now this is not all addictive personality, but quite a few. If this has to do with some sort of a social situation, there is a sense of, "I have to fit in. I have to. I have to. I must," and that, is not the case. You always, always, always have a choice.

The phrase that you say to release yourself from this is, "Thank you and I choose not to."

Like if someone asks, "Hey, can you come move the furniture, and my kids, and my foot, and my house?" "Thank you. Thanks for thinking of me. I choose not to," or "Thank you. No. No, I can't." It stops there.

Don't give excuses. You don't owe anybody any excuse. You don't owe anybody any explanations. No is sufficient, because it's a choice.

There's a difference between, okay, reciprocity, and being tied energetically and karmically into transactional relationships. There's a difference between that and choosing when and where you desire to participate.

You desire to contribute consciously, and this is where I'm hearing the oracle cards coming through in the energy.

This week is Archangel Michael Oracle Cards Deck. Brand new, are now 19 decks and counting, here at the dojo.

If you ever want to donate, send it on over. You can send me an email at senseivictoriawhitfield@gmail.com to find out exactly how you can donate your decks or just bring them in the next time you come and visit.

Okay, so Archangel Michael, what do we need to know right now?

I'm already hearing things in the energy. He's very, very, very vocal. Archangel Michael, what do we need to know right now about not owing anybody? What do we need to know?

You are on the right path.

You're on the right path, and each card in this deck comes with a prayer, so it says, and let's all close our eyes for a moment.

"Archangel Michael, I call upon you now. Thank you for giving me loud and clear guidance that I easily understand. Thank you for motivating me and filling me with the courage and confidence to make healthful life changes."

This is where we'll leave off.

It takes courage and confidence to be conscious. You can decide to participate or not. You're free to come and go as you please. Know that you're on the right path, and know you're alignment.

Know your healing journey, so that when someone comes in and invites you to participate in their stream, right, in their journey, you can tell the difference between yours and theirs.

If you need help seeing the difference, send me an email back, or a comment below. I'm happy to help you to get more clarity on that, or if we need to go for a deeper dive in a private session.

Know that you're on your right path. Find your inner alignment, and remember, you don't owe anybody any thing, so I'm sending you so much love.

Make sure you subscribe on YouTube so that you get these Love Letters every week first, and ready, muah! See you next week.   

In Love and Light,

Victoria.

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The next time you decide to decline, try leaving the excuses, apologies and explanations out.

Notice how you feel at that moment - you're already healing!

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Tired of "faking it 'til you make it"?

Secretly catching yourself feeling like a fraud?

Scared to share a certain part of your personality for fear of judgment, rejection or ridicule?

You don't have to be a member of the LGBTQ community to be hiding something about yourself in the closet — we ALL do it one way or another.

We lock key parts of our authentic selves up to cope, to survive or to fit in.

Watch this week's 9-minute Love Letter video to gain the courage to step out your closet and in to the light!

"I feel like a fraud."

This week, source is asking you to come out of the broom closet. Come out of the closet.

This may touch a nerve for some of you because we tend to associate coming out of the closet, especially with our LGBTQ community, love, but guess what?

They're not the only people that have to come out of the closet or something about them that it's important that they share in order to have an authentic and fully expressed life.

Guess what? Everybody has something that they've been hiding, back performing in front of so that no one can really get to know this authentic side of you.

I'm talking to you watching. What are you hiding in your closet? I call it the broom closet, in particular, to a little bit of magical energy to that. For me, I know that one of the things that I tend to hide in my closet quite a bit is my voice.

This is something that I've been working on for quite some time, being able to bring my voice forward and share. You know what? This is what I want or this is how I feel or this is what I'm thinking about, especially in my private relationships.

It takes a lot of courage to share what's really on your heart and what's really on your mind, especially if you tend to be like me.

I don't know if you're watching this because you're like me. If, like me, you tend to be in the supportive healer role in not only your business, but also in your private relationships tend to be the strong one, supportive, enacting, in fueling the realizations of dreams and feelings of others or having your loved ones, you want to see those realized because you get a sense of fulfillment being involved in that creative process and holding the space, but you've got to come out of the closet.

Come out of your broom closet.

Unleash that magic of your authentic energy.

This could be a journaling moment for you this week, in particular. The title of this journal entry is How I Am Hiding in the Closet or What I Am Hiding in My Closet in My Life.

It could be that there's a lot of things about your business or about your marriage or your relationship or your body or your diet that you've been tolerating. Tolerating, tolerating, tolerating, pushing to the back burner, procrastinating. "Maybe later I'll get to that. It's not really that important." That builds momentum over time.

What have you been tolerating? What have you been hiding about the truth of you? Could it be that there's a part of you that thinks that, "Oh, I feel like I'm not good enough. I feel like I'm not worthy or like I'm a fraud."

All of that, the guides are saying it's important to acknowledge that energy and begin to be willing to bring that out of the closet because when you do, all you have to be is willing, by the way, you don't have to clean house if you're not ready.

Being willing begins to open up your energy to a new level of expression, vulnerability, and receptivity.

Know this: Vulnerability & receptivity go hand-in-hand. Open to your power & come out your closet!

I want you to see vulnerability and receptivity as going hand in hand. Yes, it's intense. Yes, it's a higher calling, but this is the work.

The guides are saying pull the oracle cards for the week.

The fairies are sending joyful, loving, natural energy to our process of coming out of the broom closet.

Fairies, what do we need to know right now about coming out of our broom closets this week?

By the way, if you are one of my awesome members of the LGBTQ community, you know better than anybody that coming out of the closet is a process. We don't just come out once. "I came out as gay to my friends and family. All right. Now I'm with my partner and now I have to come out to my partner that I'm vegan. Not only that, but I have to come out to my partner if he still wants to be around me, I'm allergic to strawberries or something like that."

You can hide for so long. This is one example, but my LGBTQ friends are going to be like, "I know. When am I going to not be coming out of the closet, Victoria?"

Follow your dreams is the oracle card of the week from the fairies.

The guides are telling me about this card, in particular, not only are dreams at night because she's in sleep mode, but your visions - I got a chill up the back of my spine.

In order for you to ground and manifest your vision, what's hiding in your closet, your broom closet, is actually part of the process or part, a huge part, a foundational column.

If we're building a skyscraper, one of the columns that's a support beam for the entire structure is actually what's in your closet.

There's a previous video that we recorded earlier this year, Share Your Story. That elaborates more on exactly why that's a support beam.

But just to let you know, to fuel more of why you got to come out of the broom closet this week in particular, it's because in order for you to realize, as in actualize, ground and manifest that vision that you've been seeing for your life, your business, your relationship, your health, what's hiding in your broom closet, hiding in your closet, has got to come out.

That way, you can open up and really live your authentic life.

Send me an email back. Comment below what's coming up for you around this. If you want to send me a private email saying, "Victoria, this is what's in my broom closet. What do I do?"

I'm happy to respond. All of you know. I get emails constantly. I'm responsive, and I'm there for you.

I'm really excited to keep this conversation going. If you feel like you need a little bit more care and space to go through it, head over to my website, NaturalIntuition.com and VictoriaWhitfield.com so that you can book a private session so we can really dive deep and help you go through that coming out process first for yourself before anyone else.

I'm sending you so much love, honoring your process.

Make sure you subscribe on YouTube so that you get your Love Letters first every week. Are you ready for it? Muah. Bye. I'll see you next time.

In Love and Light,

Victoria.

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Be simply WILLING to come out your closet in one area of your life.

Consider being willing to let go of just one thing you've been tolerating and hiding at the expense of your happiness.

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Is procrastination your middle name?

Avoiding something very important because you're scared of confronting it?

Feeling insecure about a certain part of your body?

Source is sending you a wave of confidence and productivity right now.

It's time to step up and take responsibility for shifting your energy - no more waiting to be saved!

Watch this week's 10-minute Love Letter video to start taking ownership of yourself and your life!

"Why didn't I follow my gut feelings?"

This week in particular, Source is saying it's time for you to own it. Own it.

Whatever's coming up, when we say own it, it's time for you to take ownership.

This is about taking personal responsibility, about claiming and really accepting into you something that you may have been hiding, avoiding, or when it comes up, you push it to the side. Especially, the guides say, own your natural intuition.

What does that mean? What that means is develop, accept and cultivate your relationship with your natural intuition. Learn about her. Practice using her. Own it.

Don't dabble here and there or believe but then if someone asks kind of couch away or cower away from it. No, no, no. Own it.

You know, you know that that was the right decision for you and when you didn't make it you're kicking yourself in the face like: 

• • "I knew that I should have done this."

• • "Why didn't I follow my gut feelings?"

• • "Why didn't I follow my intuition?"

• "Why didn't I see the signs, or moreover, why didn't I accept the signs that I did see?"

This is a little bit of tough love, but it's because I believe in you. We believe in you here at the tribe at the dojo. Source is behind you always. Own it this week.

It's not just your natural intuitive sense, which by the way, which everyone has. I don't care how un-spiritual people want to say others are or how people want to say that they are. "I'm not into that woo woo stuff." Yeah, okay. You get hunches as if that is an intuition. I'm going to leave that there because I can go on a whole rant and we want to keep this to a reasonable amount of time, but it's time that you own it.

It's not just your natural intuition though. It may be that you messed up and because we are taught perform and perform at a high A level, right? A for awesome. Always get As. There's no other letters in the alphabet because there's only A.

We're taught to perform at a high level, and A means not just awesome, but acceptable. If you don't do an A performance or produce an A level product, then you're not acceptable. Own it.

If you have an ear that's out to the side or a chipped tooth or a gap in your teeth, right, or you have a mole or you know, a little bit of extra juice in your shape, own it. Rather than punishing, punishing, ignoring, down playing, hiding. Own it.

I myself, I used to have a lot of self-consciousness about the gap in my teeth, especially because from time to time it makes me whistle unexpectedly, but I wouldn't smile because I was so shy to do it. Right? To show that oh, I don't have perfect teeth. No, I've never had braces. It took a dentist who has a bit more of a spiritual mindset to say, "No, Victoria, your teeth come together so beautifully. God created them so beautifully. No, you don't need braces." For him to be so passionate about the natural shape of my smile, for me to say, "Wait a minute, maybe I don't have hideous teeth. Maybe it's okay for me to have a gap in my teeth." Then one of my aunt's just flat out said, "You know it's sexy. Madonna has a gap in her teeth."

Know this: Own your imperfections - they make you unique and give you depth!

Own your imperfections. Don't let them slow you down. In fact, the mistakes of our lives and the imperfections that we have and have to deal with not only color our lives and make you unique, but it also gives us depth.

If you have been able to make a mistake and come out on the other side of it, that means you have a depth of wisdom. You've gone another level knowing what not to do. You have a new depth of wisdom that wasn't there before. Accept, integrate, and own that wisdom.

Own the fact that it happened and that you can own this present moment being the best version of yourself, the highest vibrational version of yourself, the most present moment of yourself. Don't let it weight you down.

I'm hearing the Oracle Cards calling the energy. The deck this week in particular is life purpose oracle cards deck, so the angels are showing up more of our sense of direction as well as giving us inspiration if we feel a little bit stuck and crusty energetically.

Angels, what do we need to know right now about owning it? Is there something that we're not owning about our brilliance that maybe you could tell us? Oh my. Children.

Oh my goodness. Your life purpose involves helping, teaching, and healing children. This ... I'm being guided to speak to someone very much so in particular.

I won't say your name, but the guides are telling me you're going to watch this love letter when it airs or whenever you click on it. You know that you're supposed to be working with children, but you think because I don't have my masters of education with kids or because I don't have kids of my own or because my kids are a certain age, you have this story.

I really don't know who I'm talking to, but I'm going to stay specific. The guides are telling me to do so. I'm getting really warm right now.

You have a story that you keep telling yourself to avoid the fact that you are supposed to be working with children. Maybe you're afraid of what they may do.

Kids can smack you in the face or say the most rude things, or even simply by them being children can bring up scary parts of our own childhood. It's time for you to own it. This week in particular.

It may not be like, "Oh, I'm going to take that job working with kids or start that part of my business giving back to kids" or something like that. It may be just this week really journaling and saying, "You know what, I've been avoiding this about working with children and it's time for me to own that."

The minute you're aware of it, it starts to heal, but especially if you're called to work with children but you're having a fear around it, thinking that. Or telling yourself a story that you're not good enough, the guides are saying you need to reach out and get help with that.

Whether it's working on your energy here at the dojo to raise your vibration open enough to share with children and cultivate that vision that you see or if it's going to a therapist and really a psychotherapist, so you can process what aspects of your childhood are coming up for you when you see children.

You really have to own it this week in particular. It's time to take action.

Send me an email back. Comment below. Tell me what's coming up for you. I'm curious to hear, who out there am I talking to? Was it you?

You don't have to say what your situation is if it's quite private, but just give me a post below and say, "You're talking to me." I get those all the time and I love to see who source had be channel to in particular. I never know. I never know unless you tell me.

Make sure you subscribe on YouTube so that you get your love letter first and share this with someone. All right, I'm sending you so much love and blessings and you ready for it? I'll see you next week

 In Love and Light,

Victoria.

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Do you feel like you don't fit in?

Tired of standing out because you're so different from friends, family and colleagues?

Wonder when you'll figure out how to live your purpose?

Being unique can feel like a blessing and a curse at the same time.

This week, Source wants you to know that you're not weird, you're actually a PLATYPUS, and that means you're awesome!

Watch this weeks 8-minute love letter to embrace your platypus-ful magnificence and love yourself just as your are.

"I feel like I stick out like a sore thumb."

This weeks Source wants us to talk to you about the Platypus Complex.

I'm sure you've heard of different kinds of complexes such as the Platypus Complex and the Electra Complex. This is not that. This is a little bit different.

Platypus Complex is when you are feeling like you're out of bounds in your life right now.

Let's talk about that for a second.

Perhaps you've been feeling off lately, off your game, uncomfortable, like you don't fit in. Especially, maybe it isn't just recently, it might have been maybe all your life, or for quite a season. When things are going awry or don't feel like they fit together well, right, is the Platypus Complex.

We have all these wonderful gifts and nowhere to use them or we stick out like a sore thumb because in our family, or in our team at work, or in our team at school, or in our class, in our friend group because they're just so different.

You're not really one of the pack or part of a clique necessarily. Perhaps, you've even started your own groups because you're so much of a platypus.

I know that there's an another expression, you know I'm hearing in the energy around black sheep energy. However, a black sheep, although she stands out, she's still one of the sheep.

Whereas platypus, if you see her, you are like, "Oh my God. Are you a duck? Are you a beaver? Are you like a turtle? I don't know what you are, but you're so cute. I don't know what to do with you." Right?

This is speaking to people in particular, calling out in the energy. Those who have multiple interests and multiple goals, but are having a hard time staying focused because your energy is so creative.

I don't know who this is, but source wants you to know that having a Platypus Complex means that you're seeing your creative breadth as an issue when it's actually on purpose.

Know this: The message of the platypus is to honor & accept your sensitivities as they're your greatest gift. @SenseiWhitfield

You have a tremendous gift that you are here to bring the world with. Your built to synthesize your many different facets of who you are. Your many different talents. You're meant to synthesize them in the way that only you can.

That brings a healing gift to our community.

Now the guides are telling me particularly this week to read out of the Animal Spirit Guides book by Steven D. Farmer about platypus energy.

I didn't read this yet. I just turned to the page. See if this is talking about you:

"If platypus shows up, it means this is a time of heightened sensitivity, so pay close attention to the cues that your body gives you. Time to discover the layers of meaning behind any significant encounters you're having, rather than trying to adapt to others demands or their pace. Stay in tune with your own internal rhythms and move with those accordingly."

The guides are telling me to stop for a moment and say you may feel like because you're so different that you have a hard time keeping up with social conventions, expectations, or what you think you should be doing traditionally or homogeneously speaking.

You march to the beat of your own sacred drum.

"The situation before you, ahead of you requires you to have an absolute faith in the process and go with the flow, neither resisting, nor being passive or non-responsive. Your clairvoyance is increasing and you'll find that you're more readily trust your inner vision. When you do this, include food in your diet that's grown underground, such as potatoes and carrots."

Platypus energy is coming to you, this week in particular to say stay focused on your lane.

This is about pace and not race. You're meant to be unique. It's okay for you to standout and march to the beat of your own drum.

Also, go with the flow that you're feeling. Trust your gut because your unique view point and vision is what's needed to really bring the best outcome, this week in particular.

I'm going to pull an oracle card too, just as a bonus because the Goddess Guidance deck said that she wanted to encourage all our platypuses out there. From one platypus to another, I feel you. We all feel you here at The Dojo.

Goddesses, what do we need to know this week in particular?

Goddess Maeve comes forward to talk about cycles and rhythms. Again, reinforcing that you have your own beat and you need to honor the cycles of your body, energy levels, and emotions.

When you feel like it's time for a rest or that you need to have a schedule moving forward that allows more time for strategic rest, listen to honor and move forward with implementing that because when you're well-rested, when you're in your flow, you're able to bring us the gifts that only can come through you in this lifetime.

If you think you are a platypus, comment below. Send me an email back. Let me know if that's you.

Honor that Platypus Complex. Don't let it dominate you. Okay? This is a gift. I believe in you and I'll see you next week. Bye. Mwah.

In Love and Light,

Victoria.

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Imagine what would be possible if you merged your many talents under one umbrella for the greater good.

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