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Love Letters | Living an Unapologetic Life – Part 1 of 5

Sensei Victoria Whitfield — Mon, 30 Nov 2020 05:00:30 +0000

Are you putting off living life unapologetically?

Do you believe others can pursue their passions and dreams now, but not you?

Feel like you'll have permission to be yourself "later" - like when you get the perfect job, spouse, baby, retirement, body, etc.?

Most sensitive entrepreneurs put off living life fully and openly for fear of criticism, shaming and judgement.

And these low-vibrational feelings distract us empathically from the reasons why we must show up in life and business unapologetically, now.

Watch this week’s 11-minute Love Letter, the first installment in our 5-week series, to remember why you must live your life unapologetically.

"Welcome to a brand new you!"

This is a brand new five-week deep dive series that we're going to be doing on the topic of living an unapologetic life. Every year, I pick a word that is the theme for the year for me personally. Last year, my theme was Supported; how I want to feel. This year in particular, Unapologetic Ease is actually the full intention and sensation that I'm going for this year in particular. My guide said, “Let's start off the year bringing in the entire tribe around what it looks like and what's at stake behind living life unapologetically.”

As you know, by now, when we do these multi-week deep dive series, it's so that you and I can have time to really get into the nuts and bolts of these topics. Also, we always begin with why. We start with why because we're conjuring energy, we're conjuring attention and focus around this new learning topic. If you're looking to start new projects and generate energy, you start with why. There are other reasons for you to start with why, such as: getting clear on what you're passionate about, clarifying focus and reeling in, honing in energy not just of your own but also of your team around you. So starting with why rocks!

This week, let's look at why you should live life unapologetically. Here's the thing: When we live life apologetically, we go throughout our days and go throughout our businesses, our meetings, our relationships, even the thoughts that we think in our heads going round and around thinking, “I'm sorry. I'm sorry. I'm so sorry,” or, “This is a really sorry circumstance,” or the wah-wah kind of energy is what follows us around when we live life apologetically. Even when we're trying to get to our seat in the movie theater, we say repeatedly:“I'm sorry, I'm sorry, I'm sorry.” Is this you? Is that just your automatic thing to say, "I'm sorry", when someone calls on you or when you have a question or when you call someone up or think … Is that the way that you meet the world, as "I'm sorry?"

If the way that you are meeting the world is leading with I'm sorry, then you are automatically blocking all the love, all the abundance, the support and healing that Source is pouring on you. Write this down: Saying I'm sorry means don't support me, I'm bad. Saying I'm sorry means don't support me because I'm bad.

Know this: Constantly saying I'm sorry blocks #abundance; the universe hears it as "don't support me because I'm wrong." @SenseiWhitfield

You should not be full of shame in the way that you meet the world. The reason why we want to live life unapologetically is so that you have all the energy that you need to meet life confidently and full of joy, full of radiance. We need your light.

Healers, you've got to meet the world unapologetically because you have a powerful, powerful purpose, and we need you now more than ever. Entrepreneurs, you're here to solve problems. You're a problem solver. You've seen an issue and you're like, “Oh, I have a solution.” We need you to come to life unapologetically because there's plenty of problems out there that if it wasn't for you, we wouldn't have the solution for.

It's time for you to come out of your shell and step into life unapologetically. Why? Because we need YOU.

Now, also, be kind to yourself if you think that you should stave off living life unapologetically until retirement or on, “When I get married, I'll be unapologetic about myself. That's when I can let myself go.” By the way, it’s not how that works, or, “Maybe when I get that big client, I can finally book a massage because I don't deserve self-care until I make a certain amount of money.” No. Oh my goodness. Be kind to yourself if you're pushing off living life unapologetically. "I'm not going to travel the world until I’ve retired at 67 or 72 or whenever the years are when I'm too tired to really be going around the world, yeah, that's when I'll live life unapologetically." Or "I’ll wait until I'm older to be taken seriously because I'm a female or I'm a young man or whatever, and that means because I'm young or because I'm female, that means you can't really take me seriously."

Stop apologizing. Why are you living life unapologetically? You have a purpose now. You can live life like you mean it. You can live life like you own it now, and we need you now. We needed you, as they say in New York. We needed you yesterday. Let's make a commitment this week in particular to invoke this concept of living life unapologetically. For the next five weeks, we're going to dive deep into it. Are you ready?

Accompanying us on our journey into living life unapologetically is the oracle cards deck Daily Guidance From Your Angels by Doreen Virtue, one of the many oracle cards decks. You can send in your donation deck to the dojo. Go ahead to naturalintuition.com and look for the Contact page, my mailing address is there. Thank you to all my loves who sent in donation decks. It's amazing. You should see how many people have been benefiting from your generosity. I’ll try to post more pictures. I'm not going to apologize though. Yes, yes. Okay. Angels, what do we need to know this week in particular about why we need to live life unapologetically? Oh, that felt strong.

Perfect Timing.

Perfect Timing: Now is the perfect moment for you to act on your inspirations. The doors are open while you walk through them with us by your side. Don't delay or procrastinate as all of the ingredients are ripe for your success. Everything and everyone is on your side supporting your positive outcome.

Where we're going to leave off this week is that why should you live an unapologetic life is because Now is the time. There are opportunities, the angels are saying, that, if you have the confidence and the presence and the energy to step into, your whole life would change, and so will the lives of all those around you, in your community, in your family, on your team. We need you now. Can you see that first word? Now is the perfect moment. Now more than ever.

Go ahead, type in the comments below how is this perfectly on time, this topic of living life unapologetically. We are walking into this as a new year - regardless of when you're watching or reading this, by the way. At the time that this airs, it will be a new year in 2018, but we are walking into this new year as if Now is when we're worthy, Now is when we can live life unapologetically.

What would that mean to you? Go ahead and type in the comments below. I want to hear it. I want to read it. Share, send me videos back, send me an e-mail back at info@victoriawhitfield.com. That comes straight to me. Make sure you subscribe on YouTube so that you get these love letters first every week and I will see you next time for part two of five. See you soon. Bye.

(Original post 01/01/2018)

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Just for Today...

Decide to live life unapologetically, right now.

Go about your day assuming you are already worthy and have everything you ever wanted.

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Love Letters | Permission to Proceed

Sensei Victoria Whitfield — Mon, 05 Jun 2017 12:00:12 +0000

Waiting for the right moment to present itself?

Wondering when you should make that move you've been thinking of for some time now?

Want to go for your goal, but don't know if you're ready yet?

Source says you have permission to proceed this week!

But there's more to moving forward with your plans than you think.

Watch this week's 7-minute Love Letter video to better understand how to get going on that new opportunity the Universe is sending you!

"When do I tell them that I care about them?"

This week, Source wants to let you know, that you have permission to proceed.

You've got it. You ready? Incoming permission slip, right through the screen to you right now. You have permission to proceed.

The Guides are saying that it's been a long time coming, that you've been wondering:

- "When do I get to know if I'm ready yet?"

- "When do I get to know if this is the right time for me to move forward with that vision that I've been having?"

- "When do I move forward with the goals that I've been setting for myself?"

- "When do I start that new cleanse program or exercise program?"

- "When do I tell them that I care about them, and express my feelings?"

- "When do I buy into that program or treatment package that I have been thinking about?"

"When do I set up that vacation, or a conference ticket? When do I book my flight?"

You have permission to proceed. This is what the Guides want to transmit to you, in particular today.

We want to be specific: you have permission to proceed for yourself. This has to do with only you.

Make sure to temper a bit of that enthusiasm you're getting: "All right, yes, I can change him." No, no, no! That is not what we're talking about.

The Energy says though YOU have permission to proceed.

If you're feeling like you've been holding back a compulsion whether or not you should give that suggestion to that person or give them that constructive criticism feedback, etc. Source says, you can only proceed forward if you get their explicit permission.

If you have a push to really want to tell someone, "You need to do this" or "You need to do this better," the reason why you have that push, is because that advice is for you.

The reason why that's happening is because that is meant for you to heal your life. People are sacred mirrors of your own spiritual energy.

Have you asked yourself why you're so worried about the suggestion that you're trying to give that other person? Are you really living it yourself yet?

Know this: Worry will die when you increase your faith. Go for it this week and trust yourself! @SenseiWhitfield

This message is especially to those of you who are friends, spouses coaches, mentors, managers; it's for those in an authority role who are reading right now, who give incredible, insightful, awesome advice, that can sometimes be given unwarranted. Be kind to yourself if that's you.

It's time that you step out first in that direction rather than just tossing your advice or your suggestions on someone without getting that person's permission first.

You have permission to proceed forward with the advice that you desire to give. Go ahead and implement it.

For the rest of us who are not necessarily about giving advice, this message is different because it pertains to a new goal or initiative that you've been working on; yes, you're worthy, you're okay, move forward.

The Guides are telling me now to pull from the Oracle Cards deck. "Angel Answers" is a yes-no deck, one of many donated decks here at the Dojo.

(You can always send donations to The Dojo by emailing me at senseivictoriawhitefield@gmail.com if you would like to donate an oracle card deck that you just don't really use anymore.)

Angels, what do we really need to know right now about permission to proceed? This feels strong. "No Need to Worry;" this is so big.

This basically hits the nail on the head and this is why we're going to leave off.

The reason why we need permission to proceed is because we're worrying ourselves into a tizzy.

It's okay. You can go forward, let go of worry. Worry only happens when you are trying to control something that is outside of your energy. Trust your gut.

Worry will die when you increase your faith. If only just for now, believe that there's no need to worry.

Let it go, and take a step of faith forward in the direction of whatever Source is guiding you towards.

I'm curious to hear what's coming for you hearing this week's message. If it spoke to you, let me know. I love feedback.

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See you next time. Bye!

In Love and Light,

Victoria.