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		<title>Love Letters &#124; Technique for Emotional Clearing with Archangel Michael</title>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p>Do you suffer from chronic, free-floating anxiety? Stress and overwhelm draining your joy and ability to focus? Feeling emotionally "blocked" and wish there was a way to clear yourself? Carrying excessive emotional energy can be exhausting, and we often carry way more than we're even conscious of; it especially shows up in how you feel [&#8230;]</p>
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<h2><span style="color: #800080;"><em>Do you suffer from chronic, free-floating anxiety?</em></span></h2>
<h2><em>Stress and overwhelm draining your joy and ability to focus?</em></h2>
<h2><em>Feeling emotionally "blocked" and wish there was a way to clear yourself?</em></h2>
<p>Carrying excessive emotional energy can be exhausting, and we often carry way more than we're even conscious of; it especially shows up in how you feel during moments that should be quiet and peaceful (but are antsy or worry-filled, instead).</p>
<p>Over the years, I've researched and come across countless mental and spiritual exercises to alleviate stress and anxiety, and Spirit has asked us to share one with you this week.</p>
<p><span style="color: #008080;"><strong>Watch the above video to learn a fun and easy technique to clear your emotional energy now!<br />
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<p style="text-align: right;"><em><span style="color: #800080;"><b>"<strong>I just can't turn off. I'm always on! HELP!</strong>"</b></span></em></p>
<p><strong>This week’s video covers a technique for emotional clearing.</strong></p>
<p>As you know I love following a lot of Doreen Virtue's work as a new-age spiritual psychologist and intuitive channel.</p>
<p>In particular, Spirit said this week we should teach to the Tribe&nbsp;one of her methods called "The Archangel Michael Vacuuming" technique for clearing emotional energy.</p>
<p>There are thousands of techniques for clearing emotional energy, and they are helpful to those of us who are "always on," suffering from constant stress, anxiety and even insomnia.</p>
<p><strong>Always ready and in “fight or flight” mode? That’s because your adrenal glands are being overstimulated and overused.</strong></p>
<p>Maybe you're feeling anxious and carrying your stress with you recently, or even right now, because there was a recent fight that you had with a loved one, or you received some scathing criticism at work, or someone was just kind of a jerk and rubbed you the wrong way and you just can't get it off of your mind...</p>
<p>And it keeps replaying over and over in your head.</p>
<p>You say to yourself things like: "This is what I would've said to him if things would have went differently." And you continue to argue inside yourself.</p>
<p><strong>So we're still attached to the fight. Hours, days, weeks, months, even years after it's happened we're still carrying the emotional energy.</strong></p>
<p>Though it happened in the past, right now all the emotional energy comes out fresh because we're being triggered by the attachment we agree (in the present) to maintain (to the past offense).</p>
<p>Another way that excessive emotional energy can creep up on us is irrational fear.</p>
<p>For example: are you afraid of a certain room in the house? Like the basement? Have you assigned your dark basement the title of "haunted" or generally creepy? LOL!</p>
<h2>Know This: <span style="color: #008080;">You are in charge of how you feel right now. And you can&nbsp;choose to feel better.&nbsp;#takecharge #stressedout</span></h2>
<p>The truth is, you give the basement it's creepy power over your emotions. Even if it is actually haunted, you don't have to feel afraid of or victimized by that!</p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;"><strong>If emotional energy is dominating your life, then that means YOU are carrying it around with you – re-upping it, reintegrating it, reactivating things that are done and over with. </strong></span></p>
<p><span style="color: #800080;"><strong>And it’s up to YOU, and nobody else, to change that.</strong></span></p>
<p>You can start by clearing some of it out. And a wonderful technique for doing that is the Archangel Michael Vacuuming meditation.</p>
<p><strong>HOW TO DO IT:</strong></p>
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<li>Ask&nbsp;Archangel Michael, "Please be vacuum out my negative emotions&nbsp;right now."</li>
<li>Visualize him just above you with a huge healing vacuum in his hands.</li>
<li>See him&nbsp;sucking up all of the negative and dark emotional energy that is in your body, starting at the top of your head, down to your feet.&nbsp;The more you watch him do this, using your imagination, the better it works.</li>
<li>Then ask Archangel Michael, "Please bring your healing white light hose, and fill me in with healing white light. Dense, healing, high vibrational energy."</li>
<li>Visualize him with&nbsp;a fire hose filling your entire body in; the light comes out of it like marshmallow, very thick, very dense. Start again from the top of your head, down to your feet.</li>
<li>Once it's completed, say "thank you and so it is." And you're done!</li>
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<p>The point is to play with your inner child while doing this.</p>
<p>This is not that serious, people!</p>
<p>Don't miss out on the power of this meditation right now because of your ego, growling <em>“Grr! I’m a board-certified lawyer skeptic person and I hate marshmallows and angels are ridiculous! Gimmie my Xanax and forget this froo-froo BS!"</em></p>
<p><strong>Relax, because the more playful and imaginative you are, the less stress and overwhelm you are capable of carrying, and the less stress you put on your adrenals.</strong></p>
<p>On the other hand, you may be reading this and feel totally cool with angels, fairies, unicorns and rainbows.</p>
<p>If that's you, then High Five!</p>
<p>BUT WATCH IT!</p>
<p>As you're seeing Archangel Michael do a very detailed job, getting every single crevice completely saturated with healing white light until it is completely done, make sure that you're JUST watching, you're not taking the nozzle and doing it for him.</p>
<p><strong>Just observe, let go, let him do his work. You can TRUST him. He happens to be an Archangel you know. They kinda know what they're doing.</strong></p>
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<p><em><span style="line-height: 1.5;">Watch&nbsp;this week’s video strategy to be guided through this meditation and feel the healing energy flow!</span></em></p>
<p><em><span style="line-height: 1.5;">&nbsp;</span></em></p>
<p><strong>In Love and Light,</strong></p>
<p><strong>Victoria.</strong></p>
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<p><strong><em>Just for Today...</em></strong></p>
<p><strong>Give yourself permission to play and be a bit silly.<br />
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<p><strong>When you are feeling nervous and stressed out, get up, go outside and do something that makes you laugh or feel playful, fun and less serious. (I personally love to watch <a href="https://www.youtube.com/results?search_query=christopher+titus">Christoper Titus on Youtube</a> for a good laugh!)<br />
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<p><strong><em>Notice how you feel at that moment - you're already healing!</em></strong></p>
<p><span style="color: #008000;"><strong>SHARE THIS! You’d be surprised how many people you know right now are in desperate need of healing and could use this information to change their life. If you can read this, you know someone who needs this Love Letter!</strong></span></p>
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<h2><span style="color: #008080;"><strong>Want to release stress and anxiety&nbsp;now&nbsp;but don't know where to start? Tell me!</strong></span></h2>
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		<title>Love Letters &#124; Let Go and Forgive</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 14 Jun 2015 08:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p>Having a hard time letting something go? Still angry about what happened and can't forgive them, or yourself? Know you "should" stop&#160;holding on to the past, but just don't know how? It seems like every therapist, spiritual teacher, healer and guru tells us to "let go" so we can heal. But it seems like they [&#8230;]</p>
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<h2><span style="color: #800080;"><em>Having a hard time letting something go?</em></span></h2>
<h2><em>Still angry about what happened and can't forgive them, or yourself?</em></h2>
<h2><em>Know you "should" stop&nbsp;holding on to the past, but just don't know how?</em></h2>
<p>It seems like every therapist, spiritual teacher, healer and guru tells us to "let go" so we can heal. But it seems like they just don't see how that is WAY easier said than done, right? JEEZ!</p>
<p>One way you can begin to let go and forgive is to understand why you're holding on, and what causes you to hold on in the first place.</p>
<p><span style="color: #008080;"><strong>Watch the above video to learn how to begin&nbsp;letting go to free yourself from the toxic energy of unforgiveness!<br />
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<p style="text-align: right;"><span style="color: #800080;"><b>"Ugh. Really? Here we go again! Let's get back on and go for a ride on that old rollercoaster of emotions!"</b></span></p>
<p>Isn't it exhausting when the same old stuff just keeps coming up over and over?</p>
<p>You would think that you'd be&nbsp;fine by now, after all you've been through, right? You gave yourself space, said you were moving on, said you were done with the issue - you basically did everything that you were "supposed to" do.</p>
<p><strong>And yet here it is again, the same old feeling is biting you in the butt and getting your emotions all riled up, reviving the whole sick cycle of feelings that you buried.</strong></p>
<p>Perhaps you see that person that betrayed you years ago. Perhaps you watch a movie that triggers a memory. Or perhaps you happen to smell something that reminds you of how things used to be.</p>
<p>Then comes the anger, the sadness, the drama. They all fall on your head fresh like a ton of bricks. Wham!</p>
<p><b>You say to yourself: "They hurt me. How could this happen? This shouldn't have happened. Why does this always happen to me? It's not fair! It's wrong! It's wrong, damnit! I don't deserve this!" and so on...</b></p>
<p>Suddenly you find yourself angrily rejecting what happened&nbsp;or what "they" did all over again <em>as if it's happening now</em>, and it makes you feel clear, strong, and "in the right" - justifying how far you've come and what you've learned, how good of a person it made you, etc.</p>
<p>But&nbsp;at the same time, you feel grief and ache, having lost your innocence to that experience.</p>
<p>Pumping yourself up every so often like this always feels artificial as the underlying grief of having lost part of your innocence to what happened continues to weigh on your spirit... Sound familiar?</p>
<p><strong>This is the cycle of unforgiveness.</strong></p>
<p>And it's maddening.</p>
<p>Time is just an emotion; it's made up. And the feeling of unforgiveness is actually proof that time doesn't exist, because it can cause "old" experiences to be brand new in the moment because they are so full of emotion.</p>
<p>In fact, your brain knows that time doesn't exist, and so once you start reliving the emotions of the "past" your brain can and will send signals to your body to trigger your fight or flight response - your heart rate increases, your palms and armpits sweat, your jaw tightens, your digestion stops and your stress hormones release more and more.</p>
<p>All this from thoughts you keep thinking, or get triggered to think of again.</p>
<p><span style="color: #800080;"><strong>Being re-triggered and reliving these issues like this creates a fertile breeding ground for disease in your body and dis-ease in your life, by the way.<br />
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<p>Chronic pain and illness are often caused by <em>habitual</em> holding on or an <em>addiction&nbsp;</em>to unforgiveness. It is the body screaming against these toxic emotions being in your system.</p>
<p>You see, your body knows that those emotions and feelings are bad for you, so s/he will do whatever it takes to grab your attention to tell you that something mentally, emotionally or spiritually is seriously out of alignment - and you can gauge how out of alignment you are by how severe your body's disease is manifesting.</p>
<p><strong>But how the heck do you kick an addiction to unforgiveness?</strong></p>
<p>Well, the same way you would kick any addiction: start with WHY. It all starts with understanding WHY you would be addicted to unforgiveness in the first place.</p>
<h3>Know this: <span style="color: #008080;">Letting go starts with finding out why you're holding on in the first place. And it usually boils down to CONTROL. #forgiveness #freeyourmind<br />
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<p>Here's the thing: no matter what happened that rubbed you the wrong way, it happened, and it made you feel powerless and not in control of your life and feelings in that moment.</p>
<p>Because of that, your identity - or "ego" - was compromised, and in the moment it (identity/ego) basically flipped the "freak out switch" to defend itself by getting angry, rebelling and infusing the situation with all kinds of inflammatory emotions.</p>
<p>These inflammatory emotions are&nbsp;meant to protect you, so you could&nbsp;<em>survive</em> the experience and continue living; they are part of your psyche's evolutionary, primal protective mechanism.</p>
<p>Think of the inflammatory emotions as inflating a big bubble suit around your body/essence to serve as a buffer that allows you to keep going, just like an airbag deploys in a car crash to save your life.</p>
<p><span style="color: #800080;"><strong>But what if you continued to live inside that mangled car after the car crash, holding on to the airbags for dear life?<br />
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<p>Think of it. It's years later, and the wrecked car is overgrown with weeds and wildflowers, perhaps birds and squirrels have made their nests in the rubble, and people are driving past you on the highway in brand new cars totally oblivious to the fact that you're still living inside this car wreck just because the airbag deployed and made you feel safe ONCE.</p>
<p>That's what holding on looks like, and it's time to be willing to set yourself free from a self-imposed imprisonment.</p>
<p><em><strong>Watch this week's video for the Oracle Card of the Week, which shows us how to let go and forgive for good!</strong></em></p>
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<p><strong>In Love and Light,</strong></p>
<p><strong>Victoria.</strong></p>
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<p><strong><em>Just for Today...</em></strong></p>
<p><strong>Take an inventory of past experiences that still trigger negative emotions for you by writing it down in your journal.<br />
</strong></p>
<p><strong>Then ask yourself and journal about these two questions: "1) How does feeling these emotions <em>now</em> make me feel justified, powerful or in control of what <em>happened</em> to me in the <em>past</em>? and 2)<em>&nbsp;</em>Can I just <span style="text-decoration: underline;">decide</span> to feel powerful <em>now</em> without thinking about or basing my feeling upon what <em>happened</em>?"<br />
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<p><strong><em>Notice how you feel at that moment - you're already healing!</em></strong></p>
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<p><span style="color: #008000;"><strong>SHARE THIS! You’d be surprised how many people you know right now are in desperate need of healing and could use this information to change their life. If you can read this, you know someone who needs this Love Letter!</strong></span></p>
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<h2><span style="color: #008080;"><strong>Want to finally let go and forgive but don't know where to start? Tell me!</strong></span></h2>
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