Scared to ask for help?

Struggling to hold it all together on your own?

Feeling like you're headed for burnout?

Feeling resistant to making a change because it's outside your comfort zone?

Strong, independent go-getters like you and I have learned over time to rely on ourselves to get the job done, and done well.

Yet, there comes a time in life where in order to get what we really want, we have to open up and receive help – so where do you start?

Watch this week's 12-minute Love Letter video to find out exactly what you need to do to turn your situation around!

"I don't want to be a burden."

As a holistic stress management expert and spiritual teacher, it's a really interesting line of work.

I get all kinds of reactions and all kinds of stories from people, when they encounter who I am and what I do.

I support visionary entrepreneurs like yourself, and creative people just like you, in creating a life that they love by harnessing their natural intuition, so that they feel more centered and grounded as they get out there and share their gifts.

And from time to time, that means speaking to people who don't quite get it, or encountering people who love, and need, and desire support in that realm.

They need the one-on-one, or the group spiritual support sessions that I provide. They'll need it, but then they'll resist it, and then they'll throw their resistance, they'll "hot potato" that on me. Right?

Here's the thing. This week in particular, the guides are telling you what they've told me for many years, and that's take a risk. Risky requests.

This week in particular, your visionary challenge is to take a risk by making a risky request.

Now what does that look like? That basically looks like inviting someone in to support you, to affirm you, or to join you, or to help you out, etc, making a risky request.

If you are watching this, chances are very, very likely that you are a natural healer, supportive caregiver, someone who's highly sensitive, and wants everybody else to feel happy, healthy, loved, supported, etc.

You care so much that you take strong, deep responsibility for making sure that everyone around you is well taken care of, except for you.

Correct me if I'm wrong, maybe I'm off-base. Maybe this one isn't for you. Maybe you're amazing at making requests, and that's wonderful.

But to the rest of us watching this Love Letter video, or reading through it, or listening to the recording, etc, we could all use a little bit more practice asking for what we desire, asking for what we need, and asking for support.

So this week in particular, the guides are challenging you to make a risky request. All right?

What would that look like for you? What could you never ask for? Oh, like:

• • "I could never ask my husband to massage my shoulders, no way. No, no, no, no,"

• • "I could never ask for a little bit more time off from my boss. No, no, no, no,"

• • "I could never ask that beautiful person out on a date. No, no, no, no,"

• • "I could never ask for my own one-on-one session with Victoria. No, no, no, no, no. I'm not worth it."

• • "I don't want to interrupt her,"

• • "I don't want to interrupt him."

• • "I don't want to be a burden."

• "I don't want to take up space."

What? Ooh, look at all of those excuses, and all of that resistance that just comes flying out of us.

Requests that are effective, that are really meant for you to move to your next level, in life and in business, usually feel a little bit risky. There's a flutter of vulnerability, because you're risking rejection.

What's the worst thing that could happen, though? They could say no. And guess what?

There's another seven billion people on the planet. You've got that many more opportunities to find the person, the organization, the venue, the space, the time, etc, who can fulfill what it is that you need and desire.

So what's your risky request? Is it for more time off? Is it for a sick day? Is it for flowers? Is it for a compliment and an affirmation?

I want to hear it. Type in the comments below or send me an email back at senseivictoriawhitfield@gmail.com. I want to hear your risky request, but I dare you to share it publicly.

Know this: Quantum leaps in life and business require you to take a risk.

Mine's coming, but first I hear the Oracle cards calling in the energy.

And talk about risk, Angel Answers, by Doreen Virtue. This is the yes/no deck.

So you ready to play a little bit of Russian roulette? Let's go. This deck is similar to the old Magic 8-Ball thing, where you'd shake it and ask a yes/no, binary type question, and it would say Yes, No, Maybe, Ask Again Later. I always got the Ask Again Later, what about you? Oh my gosh.

Angels, what do we need to know right now? Should we ask a risky question this week? Can we ask a risky question this week?

You know there's nos, there's two nos, actually, and two yeses in this deck in particular.

Can we ask a risky question this week? What do we need to know right now? This is so good. You ready? Compromise.

Compromise, and this is so beautiful. Look at, there's the two hands, the higher self and the lower self. Ooh, they just told me to read. I'll give you the channeling that I'm hearing first, though.

The guides say, "When you ask, remember that it's not your way or the highway. It could be what you ask for, or something even better. Let your risky ask be of mutual benefit. Ask in a way that pleasures you as well as the person that you are requesting for." What would that look like?

Also, asking from a space of pleasure and abundance versus asking from a place of, "Arrgh, you're not going to even answer my request anyway, so I'm just doing this homework because Victoria told me to." Don't do that. Compromise.

Also, the guides turned this upside down and said, "Be careful how much you compromise your boundaries in order to meet others' requests. Remember, you have needs and desires too."

Here it is, "In order to create a happy outcome for this situation, you will find it necessary to compromise. Allow yourself some time to become clear about what is truly important to you."

Some of you may be thinking, "Well Victoria, I don't know what to ask for."

Okay, don't jump to it. Take some time to reflect about what you want, or what you would ask for that feels a little bit, "Ooh, I can't ask that."

"Also take note of matters where you would be open to changing your position. Work toward an agreement where everyone wins." Same as the channeling. Beautiful. "Be open to cooperation that would allow you to get what you need while also assisting others in fulfilling their desires." Is this beautiful or what? "Be objective about finding a balance between respecting everyone else's viewpoints and still being true to your own."

So good, and this is where we're going to leave off.

Your risky ask is actually a blessing. So be kind to yourself. And share what that desire is, because it could very well, and it can very easily, bless the other person. By them getting to serve and support you, it gives them an opportunity to show you love.

Here's my risky ask, by the way. If you could, please send me a comment back or an email below. In what way have I touched you? Maybe it was in this video. Maybe it's been over the years. Maybe in a group experience, or maybe in one of your private sessions.

As someone who's out and sharing, sharing, sharing abundantly, and it's my joy to share, sometimes I wonder, "Have I ever touched anyone, or really helped them?"

I can tell you, this is a risky ask because I feel a bit of emotion flutter, like, "I wonder." Right? Even I wonder, I'm not perfect.

So if you want to return a little bit of the love received, please send me an email back or comment below, and let me know what has been my effect on you, whether right now or in the past, et cetera.

And if you're very new to my work, what do you see me doing in the future? I'd love to hear that. Okay?

I don't know if anyone's going to answer that, but I'm trusting and putting it out there, and I'm open to receiving your love, support, and affirmation. I'm sending you so much love, regardless.

Muah, make sure you subscribe on YouTube so that you get your Love Letters first every week. All right, we'll see you soon. Bye.

In Love and Light,

Victoria.

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Make a risky request.

Go out on a limb and ask for something you normally wouldn't or worry would "bothersome" just to see what happens.

Notice how you feel at that moment - you're already healing!

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Are you really good at talking yourself out of things?

Have you successfully mastered the fine arts of procrastination and self-sabotage?

Getting ready to turn down a golden opportunity because it just seems "impossible"?

Telling yourself that you can't do something both stems from and feeds insecurity.

Not only that, but we also say we can't to avoid hard work and risk for fear of failure -- even if it could pay off really big.

Watch this week's 9-minute Love Letter video to say "yes!" and give yourself permission to go for it!

"I can't afford that."

This week, Source wants you to know, Yes you can. Yes you can.

I don't know who this is for, I don't know why you need to hear this, but there's something that's been developing lately and you've been talking yourself out of it.

In fact, the guides have brought you to this video, in particular, because you have a habit of talking yourself out of things. Things that could be very beneficial for you, things that could recoup your energy in a big way, that could help you to receive more abundance of health, love, wealth, whatever it may be.

Friendship, on a whole new level, but you talk yourself out of it. "I know I'd really love to make that trip this weekend but I can't because my husband and my kids and my clients and my dog and my foot and my ..." All of that that comes before why you can't.

"I would really like to talk to her, she's so beautiful, she seems so interesting. I would really like to just get to know her a little bit better, but I can't because I'm too fat, I'm too short, I'm too ugly, my face is strange, my tooth and my pinkie and my bank account and..."

No.

When you sabotage yourself like that, you immediately lob off the amount of opportunity and possibility the Source is capable of giving to you at any given moment.

If possibility, if opportunity is being given to you, if it's in front of you, if it's occurring to you, if you're having that idea, it's on purpose. You wouldn't have access to that, if you weren't worthy. You wouldn't have access to that idea, that opportunity or that possibility, if you weren't capable of handling it somehow.

Know this: You wouldn't have access to that idea or vision if you weren't able to realize it. #mindset @SenseiWhitfield

The how, is up to ... We could say up to God, up to the universe, up to goddess, the angels, however you want to say. It's up to the flow of nature.

How will arrive. It's up to you to have the right mindset that brings you into alignment with going for it, by saying, Yes I can.

You know the Nutty Professor? The one with Eddie Murphy. Yeah. He's like, "Yes I can." Sometimes you're so scared you have to amp yourself up, and that's reprogramming. Yes you can.

Yes you can, stop saying that you can't.

Stop saying, "Oh I can't afford that." Yes you can. "I can't have a happy marriage." Yes you can. "I can't have kids that respect me." Yes you can. "I can't have a successful business." Yes you can. "I can't ever be happy." Yes you can. "I can't ever be healthy." Yes you can.

This week in particular, I'm not sure why but Source wants you to know, that: yes, you can. You have permission and they're taking me to the Oracle cards.

For this week in particular is, Daily Guidance from the Angels. Another Doreen Virtue deck.

What do we need to know angels? Creative project.

Look at the picture. All the angels are around her with that incredible vortex of energy. Creative project.

Your soul longs to express itself in creative ways. We are guiding you to infuse artistry and creativity into your life. Creative expression makes you feel alive and excited and reignites passion toward your life.

This is where we're going to leave off. Whenever you talk yourself our of it, you are putting limits and limitations on your creativity.

Your spirit is naturally creative. Creativity is your birth right, and I'm not talking about drawing a house or a portrait.

I'm talking about the ability to make happen and create a life that you love. I'm talking about that kind of creativity.

Whenever you talk yourself out of it, say no I can't, you're putting limitations on yourself. Limitations on your spirit, limitations on your ability to grow and engage and experience life.

If only just for now, or only just for this week, I double dare you to say, Yes I can. Specially when you start talking about, I can't because... Yes I can or, as one of my mentors Fabienne Frederickson says, how can I. I love that she encourages me to ask myself that question. How can I do this versus I can't.

Comment below, send me and email back.

What do you think you can't do? I want to hear that. What do you want guidance on, because that's the reason why you're suppose to comment back and send me and email below so that I can send you whatever the spirits say.

I'm happy to do it. All over social media, that's what it's there for. Let's connect.

Subscribe on YouTube so that you get your love letters first every week.

Until next time, Yes you can. Say it, say it with me. Yes I can.

Okay. Sending you so much love and bye.

In Love and Light,

Victoria.

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Tell yourself that you CAN do something you would normally say that you can't do.

Get creative and describe to yourself out loud an alternate reality where you actually could do it.

Notice how you feel at that moment - you're already healing!

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Wondering if you will ever make it big in life?

Feeling like your own worst enemy?

Wish there was a way to be your own best friend and biggest supporter instead?

You don't have to continue the cycle of self-sabotage; you can decide to end it, right now.

You're absolutely capable of Greatness and playing BIG, and Source believes in you.

Watch the above 7-minute video to learn how to step into your greatness and believe in yourself, for yourself!

"I got this. I can do this."

Source says you can do it.

Feed the good in you, if only just for today.

Just for today, feed the good, the positive, the uplifting, the champion, the one that champions you within you--if only just for today.

You don't have to solve all of your problems.

You don't have to have everything figured out and tied up in a nice little bow for you to still be feeding the good side of you, the positive side of you.

Bring your loving focus to the positive parts of you.

It's a conscious choice you make from a moment to moment basis.

Inwardly say, with me right now, "I got this. I can do this. I've got this. I can do this. I don't know how, but I can do this. I'll figure it out. Things are working out in my favor. Things are getting better, actually, with time. I can do this. I can do this."

I'm hearing the oracle cards calling in the energy right now to weigh in on this love injection that source is sending you this week.

The deck that came screaming through when we asked who wants to send love and encouragement this week in particular to the tribe to let them know that they can do this, is the Life Purpose oracle cards deck.

Your oracle card of the week is Speaking.

 

Your life purpose involves your skills or oration.

I'm going to read this to you because I'm hearing the guides say, "Read, Victoria." Okay.

 

This card indicates that your dream of being a professional speaker is more than a dream.

You have much to share with others and the best way to reach your audience is on the speaker's platform.

While it's normal to feel intimidated by the process of presenting your ideas in public, the angels see that your life purpose will help you overcome these fears.

In fact, you'll learn to enjoy being a public speaker according to this card.

You may have also received this card because your soul's profession involves some other aspect of teaching or entertainment. For example, you may be destined for acting, dancing, singing, or playing a musical instrument.

This card indicates that your purpose involves a public arena and that you're well suited to bring blessings to a wide audience.

The angels are totally validating and verifying that, yes you can do this.

You're meant for, as the reading says, a wide audience.

You're not meant just to please people--or moreover to people-please--just a few people by playing small.

Know this: You're not meant to play small. You can do it and do it BIG. 

We have got to just underline it: You can do it.

The angels are saying you can do this. Source is saying you can do this.

But, it is up to you to choose which part of yourself are you going to feed.

If everything around you; I'm telling you. Source is telling you. The angels are telling you.

If everything in surround sound is saying, "you can do this," then what is it going to take for you to join the consensus?

What will it take for you to believe that you actually DO have what it takes?

That you don't actually need anymore schooling?

That you don't need anybody's permission to do it?

In fact, did you know that if you take that jump, that leap of faith, that you'll be caught by Source, honored, validated and lifted up toward the vision, rather than crashing into a wall, failing and it being a disaster?

But which one of those stories are we telling ourselves, right now?

You can do this.

Believe it. Claim it. Say it: 

"I can do this!" 

Send me an email or comment below. Let me know what's going through your mind as your hearing this. Tell me what's coming up for you.

What's the positive challenge that you think, "I don't know if I can do this"? What do you think would happen if you DID believe you could?

Let me know and I'm happy to support you. Your TRIBE is here to support you one thousand percent.

In Love and Light,

Victoria.

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Scared to take the next step toward realizing your vision?

Think that you haven't got what it takes?

Worried that if you try, you'll fail?

Negative self-talk can often get the best of us, blocking us from taking big, positive steps toward changing our lives for the better.

But don't count yourself out -- you CAN do this.

Watch the above 6-minute video to understand why you think you can't do this, and how to change that now!

"I haven't got what it takes. I'm not enough."

Spirit this week is sending you a very direct message and it's this: "You can do this."

I get the chills as the message is flowing through me to you.

This week all Spirit wants you to know is that whatever vision that has been put in your heart, put before you, laid out in Shamanic reality, in what you've been seeing in your meditations and that you've been feeling is your real life path -- this is your real gift to enable you to have the life that you're supposed to be living.

The gifts that you're supposed to be sharing -- the joy, the creativity, the vision that's within you -- you really can do it.

It may seem above your ability right now.

It may seem frightening at times -- or it might be right at your fingertips now and you're about to sign on it!

For whatever reason, the angels are bringing me to those of us in our TRIBE, and to you right now, who are thinking to yourselves:

• • "I can't do this."

• • "I haven't got what it takes."

• • "I'm not enough."

• • "They won't pay for that."

• • "I can't afford this."

• • "This isn't me."

• • "I shouldn't reach this far."

• • "I need to play it safe."

• • "I've never done this before."

• • "How could I possibly do this?"

• • "How can I support this many people?"

• "How could that vision be real?"

I'm just inside our head right now with Spirit, and this is what we are hearing.

Know this: Source is rooting for you as your Universal cheerleader. You can do this!

There's a Shamanic story that we've told to many of our students and is often passed down in Shamanic practices: the story of the two wolves.

Perhaps you've heard this before but I'm hearing the angels retelling it again in the energy.

So here it is. In every man, and woman, there are two wolves that are constantly fighting. They are eternally fighting.

They are the good wolf and the bad wolf.

They are eternally fighting. This fight has had no beginning and will have no end.

They are always fighting.

One woman brings food to the bad wolf.

The bad wolf in her that says, "You are not good enough. You should be quiet. You need to play it safe. Who do you think you are? You're fat and you're stupid. What's wrong with you?"

She brings the "food" of her attention and energy to this wolf.

Day in and day out, the good wolf tries and tries to fight with the bad wolf, but without food of attention and positive focus, the good wolf keeps losing.

It's always trying though.

It'll always try and fight back, but because she's bringing her food to the bad wolf, guess who wins?

On the other hand, another woman brings food to the good wolf and starts ignoring the bad wolf.

She feeds the good wolf food as the good wolf says, "You can do it. You're positive. You're powerful. Anything's possible. You're loved. You're gorgeous. You're working hard and you're working smart, and learning more and more each day."

She feeds the good wolf and the good wolf gets stronger and stronger and stronger until, although the bad wolf never stops fighting, the good wolf starts winning because it has been fed her attention and focus.

Guess who wins the fight most of the time? The good wolf, because she fed it.

All of us have to choose which wolf we are going to feed in any given moment.

So which one will you choose right now? The bad wolf or the good wolf?

In Love and Light,

Victoria.

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Notice how you feel at that moment - you're already healing!

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