Are you scared to go to work?

Secretly angry that everyone doesn't take care of you like you take care of everyone around you?

Do you hide the fact that deep down you actually expect others to *not* have your back behind always preparing for the "worst case scenario"?

Feeling emotionally safe in life is foundational to experiencing grounded health and wellness.

However, most of us have been taught from a very young age to be circumspect by harboring mistrust in others: we expect the worst, and not the best.

Watch this weeks 8-minute love letter video to explore Source's high-vibrational version of "safety first" and upgrade your mindset!

"I don't trust people."

This week, the guidance from Source is safety first. Safety first.

Did you know that one of the most important things that you can have as your emotional set point is an internal center of safety?

Let me explain.

When we don't have an internal set point of safety, we look to our external world to feel safe.

If we do not create our own safety by having an internal set point of safety, the external world, if she is unsafe, which unfortunately, more often than not she is, the external world is unsafe, we will then identify as being unsafe.

Example, going to work in an environment that you do not feel supported in or comfortable in. Because of that, that will create in you an identity, a self identity of, "I don't trust people" or "I'm not trustworthy" or "My life is hard" because the external environment creates the sense of unsafety, and then because you don't have your center, it's outside of you. You, therefore, identify with your environment instead of with your center.

This week is all about centering, finding your alignment, in particular, strategically generating your version of feeling safe. It starts with you first.

If you've ever meditated here at the dojo with me or on one of the conference lines, etc., one of the mantras, we have many mantras that come through the dojo, but one of the main mantras, especially during meditation time is, "I am safe here. I am safe here."

Telling that to your inner child. "I am safe here."

The reason why we assert that as our mantra is to bring that feeling, that strategic feeling of safety, into you and assert that that is up to you. It's not dependent on the environment, regardless of your space.

You are safe right here. Take a deep breath in and exhale.

Know this:Don't blame your circumstances. You can create your own sense of emotional safety in the world.

Can you imagine if only just for now what your life would be like if you felt safe, and I mean this emotionally, if you felt safe wherever you went?

Rather than looking and searching and searching in other places and other people and other groups and organizations and food and wine and cigarettes and technology, rather than searching externally for an assertion of, "I feel safe. I feel connected. I feel centered."

What if, no matter where you went, you felt safe? Here, in healing journeys with my students, that's what we really practice is bringing that and learning that, bringing that into us, that feeling of safety and then learning strategically how to generate feelings of safety no matter what because in spiritual truth you are safe, even if you decide to transition.

You're still safe right here no matter where you are.

This week in particular, Source wants you to know that, that before you go out into your day, remember safety first.

What that's going to mean for you, and I'm hearing the oracle cards right now coming in the energy, what that specifically means is that safety is something I generate. Safety first. I create my sense of safety, and then from there, I enter the world.

Wouldn't it be amazing to be with people who felt and generated safety no matter where you were?

The oracle cards for this week are the archangel oracle cards deck, another Doreen Virtue deck, one of 19 and counting as we enter the new year. I'm so excited. If you ever want to donate, by all means, send me an email back or comment below. I'd be happy to receive.

Angels, what do we need to know about safety first? 

They just said, "Don't shuffle any further." This is powerful. Courage. Isn't this gorgeous?

Courage. Archangel Ariel says, "Be courageous and stand up for your beliefs."

This is where we'll leave off this week.

The guides say that safety is actually a belief, and you can choose to believe.

Stand up for believing that safety is within you and something that you can choose to create and generate for yourself. It takes courage to decide that this is your center rather than going with the tides and going with convention and saying, "It's outside of you."

I don't know who this message is for, but I'm sharing it because the guides have said so.

If this is for you, send me an email back and comment below. Let me know. Is this speaking to you? What's been coming up?

Have you been putting the responsibility of your safety on others or on your job or on the government or on organizations outside of you? How do you feel safe? Let's take this apart and talk about it.

Make sure you subscribe on YouTube so that you get your Love Letter first every week, and I'll see you next time. Muah. Bye.

In Love and Light,

Victoria.

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Tell yourself "I am safe here" as you go about your day.

Then act as if you believed that were true.

Notice how you feel at that moment - you're already healing!

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Believe that you "have to" stay later at work to prove your worth to the company?

Do you eat lunch at the computer and bring work home with you to save time?

Tired of feeling overworked and underpaid?

"All work and no play makes Jack a dull boy" is actually the truth.

Even if we love what we do for a living, it's important to find a safe, loving balance between contributing (through work) and receiving (through self-care, etc.) abundantly in life.

Watch the above 10-minute video to stop being a workaholic and heal your addiction for good!

"If I'm not working, I don't feel safe."

I'm hearing the Oracle cards calling in the energy now.

Be kind to yourself this week.

If you are an workaholic, if you have self-identified as being a workaholic, you don't have to do that.

You don't have to stay later, you don't have to come earlier, you don't have to eat lunch at the computer.

You don't have to bring work home with you and work on the laptop in front of the TV while you're on Facebook on your cellphone, and maybe even another couple of screens around you.

You don't have to.

There is an enabling pattern going on here, and the enabling is serving you on some level, and Source wants you to know that something about this addiction is serving you -- what is it?

It's this: you're trying to fill a Soul scar of neglect.

Whether you were neglected as a child, or are feeling neglected in your relationship or at work now, or you've been neglecting yourself -- neglecting your own relationship with yourself -- these cycles of neglect perpetuate cycles of workaholism.

This goes for any of the "-aholisms" -- alcoholism, for example. is to fill that space, that Soul scar of neglect.

It's an aching space. It doesn't have to be this way, though.

The Oracle cards for this week are the fairies sending us love and joy. Let's see. What have you got to tell us, fairies?

 

Feeling safe.

There's a strong, deep resonance coming from this card. I couldn't agree with the fairies more.

The first thing that I'm hearing in the energy is that, "Well, if I'm not working, I don't feel safe."

That's the dilemma of retirement, by the way.

Ah, the dilemma of retirement. "OK, I'm not working anymore. Out into the great unknown! What the heck is life without work?" Right?

Work is a coping mechanism to deal with experiencing life uncensored.

A coping mechanism to deal with experiencing your own emotions, your own desires, your own vision, your own passion and purpose uncensored.

Work, at its lower vibration, is the biggest coping mechanism and distraction you experience in your adult life.

Know this: Work can either be a distraction from an unfulfilled life or a vehicle for expressing love.

But let's see what the channeling is from the fairies: 

 

Any feelings of danger of vulnerability are healing. 

Wow! You know, usually when we think of feeling vulnerable we get scared.

Say you're feeling financially vulnerable because you're unemployed right now. To all my unemployed members of The TRIBE on the list, all my unemployed people, I'm sending you LOTS of love right now! 

But, they're saying feeling vulnerable can be healing?

You know, there are times when we go through bouts of unemployment where looking for money becomes our job, and that's our number one focus. 

It's a worry, a fear, a frustration.

And then there are the blessed moments when we realized in unemployment, holy cow, the world is my oyster right now, or I'm rekindling my relationship with my family, and with myself, because I have time and space to do that.

That higher vibration is what the fairies are talking about.

But I'm only one phrase in. It wasn't even a whole sentence of what they said: 

 

Any feelings of danger or vulnerability are healing, and they are replaced with the certain knowledge that you are safe and protected right now.

Have you felt frightened or insecure lately?

If so, this card is a signal that heaven is aware of your feelings and has come to your aid.

You are surrounded by heavenly beings who love and protect you on an ongoing basis. The fairies remind you...

I just heard in the energy for all of us who feel like workaholics right now -- Source is saying we're looking for ongoing protection to come from work, rather than looking for it to come from Spirit.

And if you don't believe in a higher power, to all of my loves on the list out in The TRIBE who are Atheist, see "Spirit" as looking into your own inner spirit, the human spirit, your own will, your own desire to live, your capability as a human being.

Rather than looking inward, we're looking outward for protection. And that's why it can be addictive.

Why? Because whenever we look outward -- we will never be satisfied being external focused.

When you're looking for what to energetically feed on and what to do to "find" (or define) yourself, you won't find what you're looking for in just work. You're much bigger than that.

 

The fairies remind you that your thoughts of danger are triggering your feelings of vulnerability. In your mind you have given power to some outside entity."

Your job or your business or your clients, or the search for a job, or your volunteering. Big hugs to my volunteer-aholics! Wow, LOL, we're calling out everybody today!

 

You believe that this idol that you have created has the power to hurt you, or to control your life. Yet the only power it has is that which you have attributed to it.

You gave it the power. You unplug, you've got it back for you.

 

The fairies urge you to awaken from this mistaken concept, see that you have the power to create a happy and secure dream, and make the decision to feel safe by living that dream.

Affirmation: 'I am safe, I am secure, I am completely protected at all times.'

And this is where we're going to end.

Being a workaholic is just a spiritual boundaries issue.

This may have to be like a "let's get real moment" here, guys.

You're the only one who's burying you under your work, and in fact you're the one shoveling more on top of you.

But you don't have to be entombed like this.

Take personal responsibility and say: "I don't have to."

Say it with me. "I don't have to work right now. I don't have to work right now. In fact, I'm here to live. I'm here to live my life."

Build a strategic, clear and balanced personal approach to work.

And if you have a business, build your business in a way that supports you living your life in the way that you envision you want to live it at your best and highest vibration.

Send me an email back. What's coming up for you?

I look forward to hearing from you, and until next time, I'm just giving you tons and tons of hugs and kisses.

In Love and Light,

Victoria.

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Decide to look inward for feelings of safety and protection; take your power back.

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Confused and unsure of where you stand or what to do next right now - personally or even professionally?

Wondering why everyone else is getting ahead while you're still struggling to get yourself together in the first place?

Wishing that things could just be easy already?

This is tough - because we always have a choice between being clear and being comfortable, between staying put or moving onward. But the good news is that this time is raising your Abundance Vibration.

Your ability to navigate being comfortable vs. being clear dictates the level of abundance you experience.

Watch the above video to learn why you may not be getting ahead in life right now, and what you can do about it.

#MLMM More Love and More Money - Series on Increasing Authentic Abundance

Every so often we all come to a crossroads in our lives.

It's natural to encounter a bit of an identity crisis while you're growing and preparing to receive more from Spirit for your soul's development. The age-old dilemma of:

"Do I take the high road, or do I take the easy way out?"

Part of the journey to self-improvement entails being tested - specifically, in the form of Spirit testing your character and wisdom in the face of uncertainty.

When you come to a crossroads in your life, Spirit presents you an opportunity for expansion. 

Take the above picture for example: "Yes" clearly points right, and "No" clearly points left.

What lies to the right or the left, we don't know - engaging the Unknown is always an opportunity for expansion.

However, "Maybe" points nowhere, and instead represents staying right here. When you choose the "maybe" or choose to procrastinate in life, you do because it's safe, familiar, and comfortable to stay right here and withhold making a decision or taking action.

There’s a problem, though: “comfortable” energy is stagnant energy.

Know this: Your next level of abundance lies just outside your comfort zone. #MLMM #BK2YS

It’s important to note that if you are asking for an increase of abundance – of love, health, money, of anything – you’re also asking for an increase in the flow of energy.

You need to be able to shift with your vibration, if you really want More Love and More Money – and no, shifting is not comfortable.

So many people tend to play it safe and play it small in life, saying “I just want to be comfortable.”

But having “comfortable” as your goal doesn’t inspire evolution – however “clarity” as a goal, does. Reach for being clear, and you’re sure to live an authentic, fully expressed life.

Watch this week’s video for the Oracle Card of the Week, which shows exactly why you need to be clear if you want to find and live your life’s purpose!

In Love and Light,

Victoria.

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Notice where you’ve been settling for being “comfortable” instead of being “clear.”

Ask yourself, “what would I be doing in this situation if my intention was to be 100% clear and transparent with myself, instead of just comfortable?”

Notice how you feel at that moment – you’re already healing!

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