Tired of the same old routine?

Heavy news stories got you down?

Find yourself fighting off loneliness and depression?

You have WAY more power than you think, you Unicorn, you!

Negative energy is nothing compared to your secret superpower — FLIRTING!

Watch this week's 9-minute love letter to shine you joyful light in an otherwise dark, cold world!

"I'm tired of my routine."

Have things been feeling a bit grey and boring lately?

Things can get very heavy as we're focused on work, or other people, and our relationships, or as being the anniversary of us having lost someone, etc.

Source is sending some inspiration your way for this week in particular.

It is: flirt with the world! You ready? Let's do this, okay.

Flirting, and this is not necessarily, like, "Okay, we're going to get all in everybody's pants." No, no, no, no.

Flirting is simply having fun and making light. Making light, where there was darkness, making light. Lightening the mood, having a sense of humor, silliness, adventure, cheekiness, right?

Flirt with the world. Perhaps it's that mid-day slump, and you're feeling low on energy. It's time to do something silly. The way that you flirt with the world is not even necessarily with anybody else.

Guess what? It's with you first. How in the world does one flirt with themselves? We could hold up a mirror and we're like, "Oh, my. Look at you."

Whatever makes you want to laugh, or if it's making a silly face, right? Something that makes you want to laugh. Bring the joy to your life. Don't wait for someone else to bring it to you.

Here's the thing that can make relationships, whether they're intimate or platonic go really, dead, boring, whether it's your relationship with another person, or even your business, right.

You wait for the other half of the relationship, right? The business, the person, the child, the animal, et cetera, to always be on, or you'll lean on and depend, the other side, to be flirtatious, fun, silly, adventurous, and spontaneous, right? We'll fall into that kind of a routine.

Come on! Pick the ball up! You can do this. Stacey Martino and Paul Martino who are at relationshipdevelopment.org rock, and they really master on sharing about relationships, and bringing the spark, or as they call, the s-flirt, back to our relationships. Go check them out, by the way. Have so much love and respect for them.

This week in particular, it's about you, however. Bring the flirt in you back. Flirt with your reflection.

Flirt with people at the party. Just make jokes and laugh. Try yourself out. You really can.

Now, I'm getting some kickback in the energy right now, I don't know who is watching this and being like, "Girl, you done gone off the deep end", or, "I don't know how to flirt." If you have a sense of humor, or if you've ever laughed at something, yeah, you can flirt.

It's having a sense or the ability to laugh at yourself, and engage, and be spontaneous, and bring that energy out. Bring the joy. How do you bring joy? If you were to flirt with someone. It's not just like a, "Da da da". No, no, no. This is not seduction flirting. This is just having fun and being silly. Another way that you can find yourself flirting if you're not used to it, is maybe with a baby.

You're sort of, "Hey, sweetheart! How are you! Oh, my gosh, look at you." The weird, gooey things that we do to those poor children, and puppies, and kittens, et cetera. Whatever makes you laugh. This week in particular, though, you are being called on by source to make light. I'm not just talking about making light and joking about a situation, even if it's quite heavy, right, but to bring light as a light worker.

Know this: Bring joy to you life; don't wait for it. Have fun and make light where there was darkness. Shine bright!

That is who you are. You're here to bring more joy, more love, more healing, more connection into this planet. It's up to you. Don't wait for somebody else to do it. Calm down, Victoria.

The guides are about to jump through the camera and say, "Wake up!", right? For now, we're going to go to the oracle cards, because they're, "toot, toot", tucking on my shirt. Our angels, angel therapy by Doreen Virtue, one of 19 decks here at the Dojo.

Let's hear it. Let me pull out the cards here.

Angels, what do we need to know about flirting with the world this week? Why in the world is source telling us to do that?

Ooh la la! This is excellent! Ready?

Shield yourself.

This is pretty ninja, I didn't know that they were going to pull that out. We're coming from, like, the fifth dimension now, fifth level conversation right now. Protect yourself from harsh or fear-based energies by envisioning a cocoon of healing light surrounding you.

Here's where we're going to leave off.

Bringing light, making light, flirting with the world, and just deciding to have fun all by yourself, with yourself, is actually an advanced form of energetic protection.

This is psychic self defense, on the sneaky side. My students and I, we have this expression, we call it "the sneaky reiki" that we do in the background. That's actually one of the sneaky reiki, this under the radar techniques for actually shielding your energy from negativity, is actually bringing joy and bringing light.

Raising the vibrations. Start with you first. Flirt with yourself. Enjoy yourself as if you were someone that you were flirting with, who you really liked.

Blessed be if you're someone who is not exactly comfortable with yourself, but pretend that you're hot to trot, and you're the funniest thing on the planet, and you're going to laugh at whatever in the heck you're about to say next. Try it on for size. Do an experiment, right?

Don't commit, fine. Don't commit, just test, see if you like it, and notice how your vibration raises, and you end up actually rising above all the Krusty Krab negativity that could be floating around you. It'll just, "whoop", repel off.

Send me an e-mail back, comment below, what do you think? Have you tried flirting with the world around you, and yourself? What was the result?

Was it an awkward, hot, delicious mess? Was it a delicious everything?

I would love to hear your stories, oh my gosh. Please spread light, because you are a light worker. Subscribe on YouTube, so that you get your love letters first every week, and from one light worker to another, ready for it?

In Love and Light,

Victoria.

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Make light and bring joy to a dark, negative or fearful place in your life.

Decide that you are allowed to share humor and raise the vibration of any situation.

Notice how you feel at that moment - you're already healing!

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Love & Relationships Healing Blisswork Retreat

Sunday, January 31^st  2016   10:00am - 3:00pm

Are you ready to receive more love in 2016?

Want to let go of past disappointments and hurts so you can heal your love life?

Is this the year you want to raise the vibration of bliss, romance and fun in your life?

If so, then this retreat is for YOU!

If you're reading this, then you've been burned in the past. And it was probably by someone you loved and trusted.

Perhaps you may have even been abused. Abuse can be verbal, emotional, mental, energetic, sexual, spiritual, physical, financial, social…

Since our past negative experiences were the norm for us, we come to expect people to abuse us now – our Subconscious projects the past on the present when certain triggers come up, creating pain from a normally “harmless” exchange…

Maybe your experience was so bad that it shaped and stunted the way that you look at everyone else. Take a look and see if you recognize some of your hidden beliefs:

“Love hurts.”   “Trust no one.”   “All men are dogs.”   “All women are crazy.”   “Nobody loves me.”   “I’m afraid to be alone.”   “Everybody leaves me anyway.”   “Maybe I should just settle for less.”    “All the good ones are already taken.”   “They can’t handle the real me.”          “I can’t do any better than this.”    “I need someone to save me.”   “I need to fix her / him; then it’ll be perfect.”   “I’m too [fat, poor, busy, short, ugly, etc.] to be loved.”   "My parents are divorced / I am divorced, so I'll never find love that lasts."   "I don't receive the love I want, so I'll give all I’ve got to everyone and hope they recognize it."    “I can’t speak up for myself so I’ll wait until they figure out I’m not happy.”   “What’s the point? Why try?”   “I always end up alone.”   “Nobody wants me.”

Sound familiar?

If so, then you need to join us at this month's retreat, Love! <3

Singles and couples are equally welcome – but for those of you who are in a relationship, know this: you do NOT have to bring your partner to change your relationship. They don’t even have to know! Why?

Because it’s YOUR private healing journey. ONLY YOUR energy needs to be healed!

This day is about healing the parts of our spirit that were lost at the scenes of trauma and heartbreak in a safe, nonjudgmental and loving environment.

It’s time to get rid of that baggage that’s weighing you down.

WHAT YOU'LL GET:

1. 5 Hours of Reiki & Channeled Guidance at The Dojo with Sensei Victoria Whitfield (Value $625)
2. Discussion: We Are All Sacred Mirrors & The Healing Power of Divine Intimacy and Relationships (Value $150)
3. Holy Fire Karuna Reiki Deep Meditation: The Holy Love Experience for Soul Retrieval and Interdimensional Heart Chakra Healing (Value $200)
4. Cleansing & Grounding Vegan Lunch with Live Juicing (Value $50)
5. Training in Identifying, Cultivating and Receiving R.E.A.L. Love (Value $150)
6. Training in Microcosmic Orbit and Manifestation Magick for Attracting Love (Value $200)
7. Training in Raising The Vibration of Your Sacred Temple with Spiritual Assertiveness and Blisswork (Value $200)
8. Ample Time for Practice, Journaling and Sharing

Total Value = $1,575, but you pay less than $200 for the entire workshop!

Why?
Because I love ya! 😉

LOGISTICS:                 

Date: Sunday, January 31st 2016

Time: 10:00am - 3:00pm (5 hours)

Bring: Dress to impress / for a romantic date (but clothes you can lounge in), 1 dozen roses or your favorite flowers, a candle to dedicate to Love and Joy, scarf or eye cover, pen and pad for journaling.

Location: Sensei Victoria Whitfield's Reiki Dojo at 922 South Avenue West, First Floor (Porch Right Door), Westfield, NJ 07090 (Free street parking. In-person only; no online attendance at this time. No-shoes facility; please bring socks.)

Tickets: NEW YEAR NEW YOU JANUARY SPECIAL $147 Earlybird (rec. by Jan. 15th), $197 Songbird (rec. by Jan. 27th) required to reserve your space -- prices go up to $197 / $247 starting February 1st 2016, so don't miss this chance to jumpstart your healing 2016! Sorry, no verbal or emailed RSVP's accepted because space is VERY limited: 10 person max; first come, first serve.

FAST ACTION BONUS:

BRING A FRIEND BONUS. Register by 11:59pm with your friend on January 10th and get TWO Group Guided Meditation Class Passes FOR FREE -- A $40 VALUE!!!

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Have you always tried to "fit in" - changing your looks, your demeanor and yourself to survive, but lost yourself along the way?

Constantly worried that you're not enough yet in life - not educated enough, not attractive enough, not making enough money, etc.?

Find yourself saying "I just wish somebody would love me for me" more and more?

There's a fine line between personal development for self acceptance and personal development for self rejection.

How can you receive authentic abundance if you do not authentically believe you are whole and worthy of it right now?

Watch the above video to explore the question "WHY am I a spiritual seeker?" - are you seeking to authentically love yourself as you are or to hide from or reject the real you?

More Love and More Money - Video Series on Increasing Authentic Abundance

Self-love and acceptance is a life-long journey.

There's no "self-acceptance" nirvana, because we are constantly changing.

You are always evolving and discovering more. Now this can be both inspirational and overwhelming to know, because yes there's always room for improvement but no the journey never ends.

So how do you learn to love and accept a moving target like yourself? Or is it just impossible?

It's not impossible. Learn to move with the target.

Sometimes we feel very low, and at other times we thing we're on top of the world. Like the Earth, we naturally have seasons of feelings and emotions.

Yet the key is to accept and re-accept yourself where you are at, as you go. As you do so, you create a momentum of love and healing in your own life through the actions you take.

When you love and accept yourself, your behaviors like eating, moving, speaking, etc. show that you do - and others' can feel it!

Energetically (empathically) people will pick up on the love you show yourself, and because of your brave model, it gives them permission to do the same.

The ripple effect of embracing yourself is huge.

So why then, is it just so hard?

Maybe somebody told you you're not enough. Not pretty, not tall, not strong, not fast, not smart, not powerful, not old, not young, not educated, not wealthy, not skilled, not skinny, not ...enough.

Or maybe... you tell yourself that you're not enough. All day.

Perhaps that thought's running in the back of your head all day, fueling your actions and your drive to serve, and keeping you on task - perhaps you're thinking that right now?

Know this: You are enough right now. You just are. #MLMM #BK2YS

Most people wait until the last few years of their lives to finally let go of caring about searching for others' approval and acceptance, because they believe they've "paid their dues" and are more afraid of their inevitable transition to death than their fear of living their lives fully now.

As if retirement and old age are the excuse to FINALLY be who you are and do only what you want.

Here's the thing: you don't have to wait that long to give yourself permission!

If only just for now, decide to love yourself as you are, as if you were retired already.

You did pay your dues already - you were born. That's all the permission you need to be yourself in this lifetime, is to make it into this lifetime.

Watch this week's video for the Oracle Card of the Week, which shows exactly WHY you can love and accept yourself and HOW to do it, right now!

In Love and Light,

Victoria.

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If you were already loved, retired, wealthy and healthy, how would you feel?

Would you lose your sense of meaning to life without the struggle for "more" or for others' approval? Be honest.

Notice how you feel at that moment - you're already healing!

SHARE THIS! You’d be surprised how many people you know right now are in desperate need of healing and could use this information to change their life. If you can read this, you know someone who needs this Love Letter!

Want to learn to love and accept yourself so you can attract more abundance?

Give me a call at 732-903-8573 or click on the blue BOOK NOW button to start your healing journey, today!

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Do you feel like you're falling apart?

Worried that something is "off" or that you're in a "funk" these days?

Struggling to get work or attract new customers and clients?

There's nothing wrong with you - you just need to show yourself More Love.

One way you can shift your energy back into flow and alignment is by re-committing to taking care of yourself, first.

Watch the above video to learn how to tell if you have let yourself go, and what you can do about it.

Lack of self-care.

This week's topic presents us a hidden cause behind a lack of abundance in our lives.

Feeling like you're coming apart at the seams is a symptom of a greater issue, and that is lack of self-care, which is how your demonstrate that you love yourself, to yourself.

When we drop our self-care routine, or don't even have one to begin with, we self-sabotage ourselves energetically; Spirit sees this as us turning down or even discouraging the flow of abundance.

Here's the thing: in order to receive abundance of anything - love, money, customers, health - we need to be a good container for it.

For example, if you try to pour tea into a cracked cup, it can only take so much water before it breaks open and causes a mess.

The cup couldn't handle the tea, so it broke.

Now, what if you were the cup and the universe was trying to fill you - with love, abundance, a better home or job?

What I mean is, can you honestly say that you're being a good container for abundance - as in, would you be able to handle making $2 million dollars a year, or can you only handle $30 or $50,000?

Know this: It's ok to be honest - you don't have to be perfect; all you have to be is honest. #MLMM

But the point is to notice if you are just remaining comfortable as a cracked and broken container, or making sure you are in a constant state of repair, expansion and improvement.

It all comes down to this: if you want more money for yourself, you need to show yourself more love in the form of self-care.

What does that mean?

Self-care means that you invest in yourself - and that doesn't necessarily mean with dollars and cents. In fact, the very first and most crucial way that you can invest in yourself is with your TIME - using it consciously, and honoring your own boundaries.

Watch this week’s video for the Oracle Card of the Week, which shows exactly how to get started with your self-care!

In Love and Light,

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Sunday, October 26th, 10:00am - 3:00pm

Embrace your sacred sensuality for deep spiritual healing and empowered energywork.

If you are reading this, then you have gone very, very deep in life. You are a powerful Spirit Warrior and Love Master in this lifetime. When you decide to love someone, Heaven and Earth move. No one Loves like you do. And that unfortunately can be painful..

Because you have gone deep, you’ve gotten some deep wounds and battle scars. But where does the General go when s/he is wounded? So many people need you – your family, friends, clients, coworkers, lovers – so you do your best to take care of yourself. You take classes, read books, do energywork and more to heal – truth be told, you’re more healthy and balanced than most people.

But there’s always been that one area that gets pushed all the way to the back of the closet of your mind because it is so powerful to even knock you, in all your power, off your horse: sexual intimacy. Sacred sensuality is a gateway for communion with the highest vibrations of Spirit. At this retreat we will explore how the strength and balance of your sexual self is actually The Key to unlocking your most powerful, beautiful and effective energywork.

WHAT YOU'LL GET (Value $1,400!):

1. 5 Hours of Reiki, Channeled Guidance and Counseling with Sensei Victoria Whitfield (Value $500)
2. Discussion: Spirituality, Sex and The Sacred Temple (Value $100)
3. Holy Fire Karuna Reiki Deep Meditation: The Heavenly Banquet Hall Experience, for Bliss Communion with The Divine (Value $150)
4. Cleansing and Grounding Vegan Lunch with Live Juicing and Earthing (Value $50)
5. Training in Divine Intimacy and Your Energy Body (Value $200)
6. The Sensual Empath: Navigating the Master Path with Your Angels (Value $200)
7. Training in The Microcosmic Orbit and Manifestation (Value $200)
8. Ample Time for Practice, Journaling and Sharing

Date: Sunday, October 26th
Time: 10:00am - 3:00pm
Bring: Dress in your most soft / smooth slothing, bring but don't wear your favorite perfume or incense, scarf to cover your eyes for meditation, pen & pad for journaling. (more will be added soon.)
Location: Sensei Victoria Whitfield's Reiki Dojo, 523 Westfield Avenue, 3rd Floor in Westfield, NJ 07090. (In-person attendance only; no online attendance at this time.)
Tickets: $197 -- $50 deposit required to reserve your space, due by October 15th. (Space is limited; 10 max accepted.)

FAST ACTION BONUS:

Send in your $50 deposit by 11:59pm Sunday Oct. 12th and get $100 off admission!

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