Have you always tried to "fit in" - changing your looks, your demeanor and yourself to survive, but lost yourself along the way?

Constantly worried that you're not enough yet in life - not educated enough, not attractive enough, not making enough money, etc.?

Find yourself saying "I just wish somebody would love me for me" more and more?

There's a fine line between personal development for self acceptance and personal development for self rejection.

How can you receive authentic abundance if you do not authentically believe you are whole and worthy of it right now?

Watch the above video to explore the question "WHY am I a spiritual seeker?" - are you seeking to authentically love yourself as you are or to hide from or reject the real you?

More Love and More Money - Video Series on Increasing Authentic Abundance

Self-love and acceptance is a life-long journey.

There's no "self-acceptance" nirvana, because we are constantly changing.

You are always evolving and discovering more. Now this can be both inspirational and overwhelming to know, because yes there's always room for improvement but no the journey never ends.

So how do you learn to love and accept a moving target like yourself? Or is it just impossible?

It's not impossible. Learn to move with the target.

Sometimes we feel very low, and at other times we thing we're on top of the world. Like the Earth, we naturally have seasons of feelings and emotions.

Yet the key is to accept and re-accept yourself where you are at, as you go. As you do so, you create a momentum of love and healing in your own life through the actions you take.

When you love and accept yourself, your behaviors like eating, moving, speaking, etc. show that you do - and others' can feel it!

Energetically (empathically) people will pick up on the love you show yourself, and because of your brave model, it gives them permission to do the same.

The ripple effect of embracing yourself is huge.

So why then, is it just so hard?

Maybe somebody told you you're not enough. Not pretty, not tall, not strong, not fast, not smart, not powerful, not old, not young, not educated, not wealthy, not skilled, not skinny, not ...enough.

Or maybe... you tell yourself that you're not enough. All day.

Perhaps that thought's running in the back of your head all day, fueling your actions and your drive to serve, and keeping you on task - perhaps you're thinking that right now?

Know this: You are enough right now. You just are. #MLMM #BK2YS

Most people wait until the last few years of their lives to finally let go of caring about searching for others' approval and acceptance, because they believe they've "paid their dues" and are more afraid of their inevitable transition to death than their fear of living their lives fully now.

As if retirement and old age are the excuse to FINALLY be who you are and do only what you want.

Here's the thing: you don't have to wait that long to give yourself permission!

If only just for now, decide to love yourself as you are, as if you were retired already.

You did pay your dues already - you were born. That's all the permission you need to be yourself in this lifetime, is to make it into this lifetime.

Watch this week's video for the Oracle Card of the Week, which shows exactly WHY you can love and accept yourself and HOW to do it, right now!

In Love and Light,

Victoria.

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Just for Today...

If you were already loved, retired, wealthy and healthy, how would you feel?

Would you lose your sense of meaning to life without the struggle for "more" or for others' approval? Be honest.

Notice how you feel at that moment - you're already healing!

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Want to learn to love and accept yourself so you can attract more abundance?

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Do you feel like you're falling apart?

Worried that something is "off" or that you're in a "funk" these days?

Struggling to get work or attract new customers and clients?

There's nothing wrong with you - you just need to show yourself More Love.

One way you can shift your energy back into flow and alignment is by re-committing to taking care of yourself, first.

Watch the above video to learn how to tell if you have let yourself go, and what you can do about it.

Lack of self-care.

This week's topic presents us a hidden cause behind a lack of abundance in our lives.

Feeling like you're coming apart at the seams is a symptom of a greater issue, and that is lack of self-care, which is how your demonstrate that you love yourself, to yourself.

When we drop our self-care routine, or don't even have one to begin with, we self-sabotage ourselves energetically; Spirit sees this as us turning down or even discouraging the flow of abundance.

Here's the thing: in order to receive abundance of anything - love, money, customers, health - we need to be a good container for it.

For example, if you try to pour tea into a cracked cup, it can only take so much water before it breaks open and causes a mess.

The cup couldn't handle the tea, so it broke.

Now, what if you were the cup and the universe was trying to fill you - with love, abundance, a better home or job?

What I mean is, can you honestly say that you're being a good container for abundance - as in, would you be able to handle making $2 million dollars a year, or can you only handle $30 or $50,000?

Know this: It's ok to be honest - you don't have to be perfect; all you have to be is honest. #MLMM

But the point is to notice if you are just remaining comfortable as a cracked and broken container, or making sure you are in a constant state of repair, expansion and improvement.

It all comes down to this: if you want more money for yourself, you need to show yourself more love in the form of self-care.

What does that mean?

Self-care means that you invest in yourself - and that doesn't necessarily mean with dollars and cents. In fact, the very first and most crucial way that you can invest in yourself is with your TIME - using it consciously, and honoring your own boundaries.

Watch this week’s video for the Oracle Card of the Week, which shows exactly how to get started with your self-care!

In Love and Light,

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