Do you think that you're not good enough?

Thought that you'd be further ahead in life than you are right now?

Going through a difficult time of arguments and disagreements?

When the going gets tough, our knee-jerk reaction can often be to think "why me?" or "what's wrong with me?"

Believe it or not, no matter how ugly it gets, Source says you need to remember that it's not about "me", instead it's about "we".

Watch this week's 9-minute Love Letter video to find the courage to be compassionate!

"What is wrong with me?"

This week, you must know that it is not about you.

It's not about you. It never has been, it never will be, so from this point forward in time, you have got to stop taking it so seriously.

They told me, be more specific. You have got to stop taking him so seriously. You've got to stop taking her and what she does in her life and in her business, so personally, because it's not about you. It never has been, and it never will be.

Now perhaps someone has really been getting under your skin lately, or they've been throwing their anger your way, or getting very emotional, and clogging up your joy with all of their crusty crap.

Perhaps they talk stuff about you, or hating. (I don't really believe in hating.) But perhaps you feel like you may be getting hated on, or people writing smear stuff about you.

There's this insidious, internal, pre-programmed response that we have, unfortunately, to these interactions of: 

• "What did I do to deserve this?"
• "What's wrong with me, that I can't get ahead, like so-and-so?"
• "What's wrong with me, that I am not married, yet?"
• "What's wrong with me, that I can't have kids?"
• "What's wrong with me, that I'm not financially stable?"

Our ego turns us in on ourselves, because she's actually trying to protect you from stepping out when you're feeling vulnerable.

The reason why she brings you inward, blaming inward, "What's wrong with me? There's something wrong with me," taking everything outside of us, personally or very seriously, turning it inward, is a way, a shadow way, a dark way of centering you. Let me explain.

It's never been about you. Someone says, "You're doing this and the other thing, and I can't believe that this ..." They're throwing all that drama around and on you. That's actually them and their stuff.

If someone comments on your posts, and craps all over your sunshine parade, that is their problem. It's nothing that you did.

Maybe you did drop the ball. I just heard in the energy, perhaps you might have said something offensive, etc., but everyone chooses how to react, and how to respond to life.

That's their choice. It's on them. You don't have to take responsibility for how they feel.

You do need to own up to who you are and how you show up in this world, absolutely. Clean it up, if you made a mess. That's your mess, but you made that.

Whereas, if someone else makes a mess and starts blabbing about it or spewing all over you about it, that's their stuff.

I really don't know why the guides are having me say this in particular, this week. I know that I'm talking to someone, so I'm going to keep going with it, but this week, it's not about you.

Your business, by the way, if you're an entrepreneur, and you're thinking to yourself:

• "Why aren't I doing any better?"
• "Maybe I need to implement more, work harder."
• "Why don't people like me?"
• "Why isn't so-and-so buying in?"

It's not about you. Come out of the ego cave and cage.

The shadow side of centering is reinforcing an identity, so that you can feel and create a sense of stability in your personal ... no, put it that way. The ego she'll bring you in, and be like, something that I did.

Whereas, this is about me, or what's wrong with me? Come out of that cave. There's more outside.

Instead, to flip that, where we're feeling not good enough, it's time to give more. There's so much more love, so much more value, so much more creativity and insight that you're capable of giving. It's about serving.

Tony Robins, I love his quote. "The secret to living is giving absolutely." That's the way to come out of an ego cave.

Know this: If you're not feeling "good enough," then give more to those less fortunate. Focus on WE, not me.

The guides are telling me to pull an Oracle card now. The deck that came forward in this week, is the crystal Oracle cards, in particular, to really weigh in on the topic of this situation.

It's really not about you. It's not about me. It's we. This week, in particular.

Someone just said, pull this card. Amber.

Look at how gorgeous. I love this deck, because it's all pictures. Juicy, juicy amber shot. They're telling me to read.

The words that they've associated with Amber are transparency, calm, purification, and creativity. Here's the reading: "An issue that is causing tension and friction in your life will soon erupt and come to a head."

I'm starting to get the chills. "You are being urged to stay calm during this emotionally-charged event. Express how you feel, but don't be drawn into saying things that you don't mean. This event is, in fact, a blessing. One that is perhaps well overdue."

You can't make this stuff up, people. This is amazing.

"Through it, you will realize where you stand, and how others truly feel. As the air clears, you will uncover a hidden agenda and find creative ways of handling this type of situation in the future. Stay calm, and don't allow yourself to be dragged further into chaos by others. You will emerge from this situation, feeling purified of all the negative emotions and thoughts that have weighted you down recently. Trust and remember it. This event is a blessing."

Here's where we're going to leave off.

Whatever disagreement, argument, or provocative conversation you are about to have this week, remember, it's not about me. This is about we.

Look for the lesson. There's always a dark gift, especially in difficult situations. They always teach us.

Keep your eyes open for the gift. Stay focused on the we. Don't be pulled into that ego cave.

Send me an email back. Comment below. Let me know what's coming up for you around this.

Subscribe on youtube, so that you get your love letters first, and make sure you share this with someone who may be going through something right now, and could really use some positive encouragement.

Sending you so much love. I'll see you next week. Bye.

In Love and Light,

Victoria.

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Facebook.com/SenseiVictoriaWhitfield

Just for Today...

Look for the love and learning in a difficult conversation or argument.

See the difference and disagreement from a third party perspective, considering the pros and cons of the opinions of everyone involved.

Notice how you feel at that moment - you're already healing!

SHARE THIS! You’d be surprised how many people you know right now are in desperate need of healing and could use this information to change their life. If you can read this, you know someone who needs this Love Letter!

Want spiritual support on your healing journey but don't know where to start? Tell me!

Click the grey button below to book your complimentary 30-minute Share Your Story Call  to start your healing journey, today!

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Do you think that you're not good enough?

Thought that you'd be further ahead in life than you are right now?

Going through a difficult time of arguments and disagreements?

When the going gets tough, our knee-jerk reaction can often be to think "why me?" or "what's wrong with me?"

Believe it or not, no matter how ugly it gets, Source says you need to remember that it's not about "me", instead it's about "we".

Watch this week's 9-minute Love Letter video to find the courage to be compassionate!

"What is wrong with me?"

This week, you must know that it is not about you.

It's not about you. It never has been, it never will be, so from this point forward in time, you have got to stop taking it so seriously.

They told me, be more specific. You have got to stop taking him so seriously. You've got to stop taking her and what she does in her life and in her business, so personally, because it's not about you. It never has been, and it never will be.

Now perhaps someone has really been getting under your skin lately, or they've been throwing their anger your way, or getting very emotional, and clogging up your joy with all of their crusty crap.

Perhaps they talk stuff about you, or hating. (I don't really believe in hating.) But perhaps you feel like you may be getting hated on, or people writing smear stuff about you.

There's this insidious, internal, pre-programmed response that we have, unfortunately, to these interactions of: 

• • "What did I do to deserve this?"

• • "What's wrong with me, that I can't get ahead, like so-and-so?"

• • "What's wrong with me, that I am not married, yet?"

• • "What's wrong with me, that I can't have kids?"

• "What's wrong with me, that I'm not financially stable?"

Our ego turns us in on ourselves, because she's actually trying to protect you from stepping out when you're feeling vulnerable.

The reason why she brings you inward, blaming inward, "What's wrong with me? There's something wrong with me," taking everything outside of us, personally or very seriously, turning it inward, is a way, a shadow way, a dark way of centering you. Let me explain.

It's never been about you. Someone says, "You're doing this and the other thing, and I can't believe that this ..." They're throwing all that drama around and on you. That's actually them and their stuff.

If someone comments on your posts, and craps all over your sunshine parade, that is their problem. It's nothing that you did.

Maybe you did drop the ball. I just heard in the energy, perhaps you might have said something offensive, etc., but everyone chooses how to react, and how to respond to life.

That's their choice. It's on them. You don't have to take responsibility for how they feel.

You do need to own up to who you are and how you show up in this world, absolutely. Clean it up, if you made a mess. That's your mess, but you made that.

Whereas, if someone else makes a mess and starts blabbing about it or spewing all over you about it, that's their stuff.

I really don't know why the guides are having me say this in particular, this week. I know that I'm talking to someone, so I'm going to keep going with it, but this week, it's not about you.

Your business, by the way, if you're an entrepreneur, and you're thinking to yourself:

• • "Why aren't I doing any better?"

• • "Maybe I need to implement more, work harder."

• • "Why don't people like me?"

• "Why isn't so-and-so buying in?"

It's not about you. Come out of the ego cave and cage.

The shadow side of centering is reinforcing an identity, so that you can feel and create a sense of stability in your personal ... no, put it that way. The ego she'll bring you in, and be like, something that I did.

Whereas, this is about me, or what's wrong with me? Come out of that cave. There's more outside.

Instead, to flip that, where we're feeling not good enough, it's time to give more. There's so much more love, so much more value, so much more creativity and insight that you're capable of giving. It's about serving.

Tony Robins, I love his quote. "The secret to living is giving absolutely." That's the way to come out of an ego cave.

Know this: If you're not feeling "good enough," then give more to those less fortunate. Focus on WE, not me.

The guides are telling me to pull an Oracle card now. The deck that came forward in this week, is the crystal Oracle cards, in particular, to really weigh in on the topic of this situation.

It's really not about you. It's not about me. It's we. This week, in particular.

Someone just said, pull this card. Amber.

Look at how gorgeous. I love this deck, because it's all pictures. Juicy, juicy amber shot. They're telling me to read.

The words that they've associated with Amber are transparency, calm, purification, and creativity. Here's the reading: "An issue that is causing tension and friction in your life will soon erupt and come to a head."

I'm starting to get the chills. "You are being urged to stay calm during this emotionally-charged event. Express how you feel, but don't be drawn into saying things that you don't mean. This event is, in fact, a blessing. One that is perhaps well overdue."

You can't make this stuff up, people. This is amazing.

"Through it, you will realize where you stand, and how others truly feel. As the air clears, you will uncover a hidden agenda and find creative ways of handling this type of situation in the future. Stay calm, and don't allow yourself to be dragged further into chaos by others. You will emerge from this situation, feeling purified of all the negative emotions and thoughts that have weighted you down recently. Trust and remember it. This event is a blessing."

Here's where we're going to leave off.

Whatever disagreement, argument, or provocative conversation you are about to have this week, remember, it's not about me. This is about we.

Look for the lesson. There's always a dark gift, especially in difficult situations. They always teach us.

Keep your eyes open for the gift. Stay focused on the we. Don't be pulled into that ego cave.

Send me an email back. Comment below. Let me know what's coming up for you around this.

Subscribe on youtube, so that you get your love letters first, and make sure you share this with someone who may be going through something right now, and could really use some positive encouragement.

Sending you so much love. I'll see you next week. Bye.

In Love and Light,

Victoria.

VictoriaWhitfield.com
Facebook.com/SenseiVictoriaWhitfield

Just for Today...

Look for the love and learning in a difficult conversation or argument.

See the difference and disagreement from a third party perspective, considering the pros and cons of the opinions of everyone involved.

Notice how you feel at that moment - you're already healing!

SHARE THIS! You’d be surprised how many people you know right now are in desperate need of healing and could use this information to change their life. If you can read this, you know someone who needs this Love Letter!

Want spiritual support on your healing journey but don't know where to start? Tell me!

Give us a call at +1 (732) 903-8573 or click on the blue BOOK NOW button to start your healing journey, today!

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Are you ready to step into being a natural shamanic healer?

Attracted to Native American aesthetic, music and ritual?

Want to take charge of your own healing and clearing?

If so, then this retreat is for you!

Join us at the Spirit Warrior Shamanic Healing Retreat on May 31st! Continue or begin your shamanic healing training and deepen your spiritual connection to Earth!

“Humans have been using shamanic methods for healing and problem-solving for many thousands of years across all inhabited continents and in a wide variety of cultures—not because these people were naive or ignorant, but because they worked. […]

Many become shamanic healers and work to heal individuals suffering from physical, emotional, and spiritual illnesses. Others use shamanic methods to heal in their communities, bringing the power of the helping spirits to issues such as violence, conflict, or environmental pollution. Some use shamanic methods in a more personal way, to help improve their own lives, to be more at peace, resolve troubled relationships or past suffering—to bring freedom, creativity, and joy into their lives.” 

- Susan Mokelke, J.D., Foundation for Shamanic Studies

As a lightworker, you know and feel that there’s a spiritual war going on out there now, between the energy of love & light, and separation & confusion. The ancient earth-based spiritual practice of shamanic healing is resurging now during our technocentric time, to heal our connection to Earth and aid in restoring natural spiritual connection, communication and power.

This month’s retreat builds on the power of the shamanic journey, upgrading it from simply being a divination tool that allows you to psychic read yourself, to a even more powerful tool for healing oneself and others! Don’t miss this one!

WHAT YOU'LL GET:

1. 5 Hours of Reiki, Channeled Guidance and Counseling with Sensei Victoria Whitfield (Value $500)
2. Discussion: You Are A Spirit Warrior In This Lifetime (Value $100)
3. Holy Fire Karuna Reiki Deep Meditation: The Holy Love Experience for Deep Earth Grounding (Value $150)
4. Cleansing and Grounding Vegan Lunch & Live Juicing (Value $50)
5. Training in Self-Healing Shamanic Journeys & Spirit Guidance (Value $200)
6. Training in Shamanic Psychic Surgery (Value $200)
7. Training in Native American Self, Space & Object Clearing (Value $150)
8. Ample time for practice, journaling and sharing with kindred spirits...

Total Value = Over $1300

But tickets for the day cost ONLY $147!

Why? Because I love you 🙂

LOGISTICS:

Date: Sunday, May 31st

Time: 10:00am - 3:00pm (5 hours)

Location: Sensei Victoria Whitfield's Reiki Dojo at 523 Westfield Avenue, Third Floor in Westfield, NJ. (No-shoes facility; please bring socks. In-person attendance only.)

Bring: Pen and pad for journaling, scarf for meditation, and a rattle or something that makes a loud noise when shaken.

Tickets: $147 Seekers; $97 Students -- $97 deposit required to reserve your space, due by April 24th. (Limited space; 10 person max).

RSVP ONLINE by 11:59pm on Wednesday, May 20th and receive the retreat recording for FREE!

Reserve your seat online NOW 

http://senseivictoriawhitfield.fullslate.com/services/81

 CONTACT VICTORIA:

Email: SenseiVictoriaWhitfield@gmail.com

Phone: 732.903.8573

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This time of year
always feels like you.
My warm winter jacket.

Thank you for your Love.

Your memory
is a sweet fragrance
that follows me.

Thank you for your Love.

I give recklessly
Because you did.
I have your hands, they say.

Thank you for your Love.

I hide your smile
in my left breast pocket.
My protector. Always.

Thank you for your Love.

Words fail.
But if I tilt my head
And close my eyes,

I can still smell your shoulder.
I can hear your laugh.

Wandering by
On a midwinter breeze.

Thank you for your Love.

Memories splinter, dashed
Like broken china
On the kitchen floor -

You'll pick them up
and make their glitter
turn to stars tonight.

Just like you always do

I love you,
See you at dinner.

- SVW

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FREE Monthly Internet Meditation Livestream - TONIGHT at 7:00pm EST!
Meditate from the comfort of your own laptop, iPad or smartphone device.

Click the above video link to join me on Google Hangout On Air for a Group Guided Meditation and Reiki Share

Tonight's meditation will focus on letting go of emotions and stress by practicing the Tibetan Buddhist "Red Empty Body" meditation, which I personally learned from Tulku Lobsang.

This technique is very simple, yet effective mindfulness meditation that anyone can do - beginner or advanced! It's essential for empaths, lightworkers, healers, counselors and caregivers to know how to empty themselves of stress and emotion so you can feel calm from the inside, out and continue to help others without feeling drained or overburdened.

We will begin with a brief introduction, followed by setting intentions as a group for the meditation, then we will enter the guided meditation, and we will end with group discussion of our experiences.

Missed it? Don't worry! The replay will be available immediately after - just click play on the above video.

Make sure you share this - more people need to learn how to meditate!

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All Empaths Have The Wounded Healer Archetype.

"The [wounded] healer is someone who has been broken, so that they could be open. So that the people who come to them are treated with the soul instead of the mind - [they know that] pain is not just theory, it has to be felt. ...You are the Wounded Healer when you have gone through the experience of needing to heal yourself." - Caroline Myss, PhD

Wounds You Must Endure as The Wounded Healer:

1. Betrayal
2. Isolation
3. Rape (Physical, Emotional, Energetic, Death of Loved Ones)
4. Relationships - Misunderstanding and Rejection
5. You As the Wound-Giver
6. Unforgiveness and Vengefulness

Surviving and enduring these wounds transform and initiate the Wounded Healer - when seen through, this is the true path of the Shaman. You are the only one who can bring back and translate the healing knowledge you receive from these wounds or "Dark Gifts."

Do you have the Wounded Healer Archetype?

If you believe so, make sure you are connected to Divine Love so that you do not "fall on your sword" in the end as Dr. Myss explains at the end of the above video.

Recognize that Grace - Spirit, Source, The Energy - is the healing force that flows through you, rather than your ego. Our wounds can make us want to shake our stick and say "I deserve credit because I survived that!"

Quiet your mind, my Lightworker friend.

Give thanks for the honor of witnessing the healing. In you, your clients and your community.

Love and light,

Victoria

CLICK HERE TO TAKE THE HEALING JOURNEY JUMPSTART QUIZ

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20-Minute Guided Meditation with Sensei Victoria Whitfield

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Energywork for Empaths 101

Sunday, August 31^st at 10:00am

Find yourself sensing, and even absorbing, the emotions, pains, and moods of others more and more?

Do large crowds or stressful environments drain you and leave you feeling irritable?

Tired of your health and wellbeing constantly being derailed by your circumstances?

If so, then you’re an Empath. And you need to come to this retreat.

At Energywork for Empaths 101 you’ll receive essential energywork tech to finally harness your empathic power!

WHAT YOU’LL GET:

1) 5 Hours of Reiki, Channeled Guidance and Counseling with Sensei Victoria Whitfield (Value $500)
2) Discussion: A Hero’s Journey: The Empowered Empath’s Life Purpose (Value $100)
3) Holy Fire Karuna Reiki Deep Meditation: The Heavenly Banquet Hall Experience for Divine Downloads and Supercharging Your Energy (Value $150)
4) Cleansing and Grounding Vegan Lunch with Live Juicing (Value $50)
5) Training in Grounding & Centering with Reiki and MBSR (Value $200)
6) Training in Energy Clearing with Qigong and Therapeutic Touch (Value $200)
7) Training in Raising Your Vibration with Chi Balls, Altar Magick and More (Value $150)
8) Ample Time for Practice, Journaling and Sharing

     Total Value = $1,050

     But These Tickets Are Just $197!

FAST ACTION BONUS:
Register by 11:59pm on August 10th and get $100 OFF Ticket Price!
Reserve your seat now Online!

LOGISTICS:

Discount ends Sunday night at 11:59pm, so don't miss this opportunity!

Sign up online now at:

senseivictoriawhitfield.fullslate.com

Victoria.

VictoriaWhitfield.com
Facebook.com/SenseiVictoriaWhitfield

SHARE THIS! You'd be surprised how many people you know right now are in desperate need of healing. If you can read this, you know someone who needs healing!

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I'm in Glastonbury and Stonehenge this week receiving above-master training in Karuna Reiki and Holy Fire Reiki!

Learn more about this class: READ MORE

Learn more about Karuna Reiki: READ MORE

Learn more about Holy Fire Reiki: READ MORE

See where I'm staying - The Abbey House Retreat Center: READ MORE

Here's My Itinerary:

• Sunday: 7:30am Arrival at London Heathrow International Airport, take Bus & Coach to Glastonbury and Check in at Abbey House Retreat Center (and crash after 10 hours of travel!).
• Monday: 9:00am Chakra Tour of Glastonbury with www.TorsToursoftheTor.com, then meet classmates at 4pm
• Tuesday: 8:30am - 6:30pm Karuna Reiki and Holy Fire Reiki Class at Abbey House Retreat Center
• Wednesday: All day - Trip to Stonehenge and Main Attunements in Inner Circle of Stonehenge
• Thursday: 8:30am - 6:30pm Karuna Reiki and Holy Fire Reiki Class at Abbey House Retreat Center
• Friday: Check out of Abbey House Retreat Center, take Bus & Coach to London Heathrow International Airport for 8:30pm flight -- 11:30pm Arrival in Newark Airport (and crash after another 10+ hours of travel!)

Please consider making a donation to the fund to help support my training at GOFUNDME.COM - I am excited and honored to bring back this amazing energy!

Lastly, below is last week's Free Internet Meditation.

Watch it and do the meditation and raise your frequency with me!

Tell me what you think in a comment below.

Lots of Love and see you soon!

Are you receiving your Love Letter? I'll be sending one this week from the UK to share the magical energy with you!

Sign up by entering your email in the box on the right, or on the top of my homepage. <3

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Spirit Warrior

Shamanic Healing Retreat

Tired of feeling overwhelmed emotionally and spiritually day in and day out?

Have you always been attracted to Native American aesthetic, music and ritual?

Want to take charge of your own energetic healing and clearing?

T h e n   t h i s   r e t r e a t   i s   f o r   y o u !

RSVP now for the Spirit Warrior Shamanic Healing Retreat on Sunday, May 25th. Continue or begin your healing training and deepen your spiritual connection to Earth.

At this retreat you will learn basic, ancient Native American techniques for:

- Self-Healing Shamanic Journeys

- Psychic Surgery for Removing Blocks, Negativity & Illness

- Self, Space and Object Cleansing

WHAT YOU'LL GET:

1) 5 Hours of Reiki, Coaching and Channeled Guidance with Sensei Victoria Whitfield ($500)

2) A Reiki Detox Attunement for removing blocks from and connecting you to healing energies of the Earth (Value $150) (Voluntary)

3) Cleansing and Grounding Vegan Lunch and Live Juicing (Value $50)

4) Guidance through Self-Healing Shamanic Journey & Spirit Guide Activation (Value $200)

5) Training in Native American Psychic Surgery (Value $200)

6) Training in Native American Self, Space and Object Cleansing (Value $150)

7) Ample Time for Practice, Journaling and Sharing

Date: Sunday, May 25th
Time: 10:00am - 3:00pm (5 hours)
Location: Sensei Victoria Whitfield's Reiki Dojo, 523 Westfield Ave, 3rd Floor, Westfield NJ 07080 (Event is not be available for online attendance; in-person attendance only)

Tickets: $197 -- $50 to reserve your space due by May. 15. (Space is limited; 10 person max.)

ONLY 4 SEATS LEFT!

RSVP NOW Online: senseivictoriawhitfield.fullslate.com

If you can't make it to this month's retreat, let me know you want to be on the Interest List so you can be the first to know! Also, if you are ready to commit to taking charge of your energetic health NOW and don't want to wait, you can always set up an individual session schedule by clicking on the BOOK NOW button at the bottom of this email.
What or who are you waiting for? Get started!

You deserve to be your own hero and protector. You are your Guardian Angel.

Don't back down. Let that negativity and darkness hear you ROAR!

Woo! I get such intense chills singing and listening to this song! I'm one big goosebump!

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