Do you secretly believe you’re still not good enough yet?

Feeling like you’re always chasing the proverbial “carrot on a stick” in your personal or professional life?

Constantly searching for the next certification or next "thing" that will finally make you accepted by others?

The comparison monster is a nasty opponent, and it can eat sensitive empaths like us alive from the inside, out.

He turns our inner dialogue into a story of struggle and exclusion, but the good news is this: we can change that right here and now!

Watch this week’s 11-minute love letter video, part 4 in our 5-week deep dive on living an unapologetic life, to shift your mindset and activate your instinct of worthiness again!

"People are going to find out I'm a fraud."

Welcome back. This is week four of five, right on our five week deep dive. I'm living life unapologetically. How's this month going for you? We're really going in gangbusters. Last week we talked about the importance of celebrating yourself.

At the end of last week I remember I noticed something was a little bit, felt a little bit deja vu. Turns out we had two of the same oracle cards in a row. Some of you reached out, "Victoria, look." Yeah, so the guides, the angels are making it a point to say, "We are releasing and surrendering to this unapologetic life and it can be easy."

It doesn't have to be a push or a struggle or anything, tough. Instead, we're just opening to living unapologetically. So good, so beautiful, and it's completely in alignment with this week's channel topic, and that's your already worthy.

What would your life look like if you were already worthy, if you believed, deep down in the core of your being, that you are already worthy? That you didn't have to lose a certain amount of weight to be worthy. That you didn't have to have as many degrees on the wall as your thermometer, right, as TD Jakes says.

If you didn't have to make, have this much in the bank and be spending this much in order to be worthy, what would your life look like? What would the internal dialogue in your head look like if you sincerely believed that you were already worthy? We were covering sorry not sorry earlier this month, week two out of five. We're talking about that we're really apologizing to ourselves, right?

This is more of an internal mindset shift. This doesn't have to do with anybody but you baby. What would it look like if you were already worthy? In fact, how would you carry yourself throughout the day, throughout the week, throughout the year if you believed that you were already worthy? My guides say it comes down to permission, especially permission to fail, to take risks, and to try.

Our egos are so powerful in that they're protecting us from taking risks in the first place, or even trying in the first place because ego, he's a good guy. He's trying to protect you from harm and from perceived harm, perceived danger, but he can be firing on overload.

Where we perceive harm and danger in things that are actually possibly growth opportunities for us, but we'll hold back and tell ourselves then, we come in with the story of, "Well, I'm not worthy," or "I'm not good enough," or "People are going to find out I'm a fraud," or "Someone's going to think something of me. I'm going to be critiqued," right, etc., or "What is so and so going to say?"

We come in with the story of unworthiness that stops our growth at our brilliance right in our tracks, but here's the thing. There's no such thing as being blocked. That's an old love letter that you might want to go dig in YouTube for, fabulous topic, but one of the universal laws is that there's no such thing as being blocked. As much as we tell ourselves the story of unworthiness, it is all just a story. It is all just an illusion.

For this week's activity, you are going to give yourself permission to feel already worthy. The same way that a puppy, if you've ever had a brand new puppy or kitten, whatever your animal people flavor is. When they're first learning to howl or meow, they make all kinds of ridiculous sounds, or when they're first getting used to playing and running, they'll fall on their face and have a great time of it. This is just an animal, it's not even a person.

Think of babies, how they try and try, and try, but animals are unique in that they're driven by instinct, and this week in particular I'm calling on you. I'm calling on you to tap into your instinct of worthiness.

‪Know this: You have an instinct of worthiness. Call on it. Decide to turn it in now.

You have an instinctual worthiness that you know that you have within you, that you can just decide is turned on. I'm calling on you and your instinct for worthiness. I want you to feel it, walk in it, feel in it, speak from it, if only just for this week or just for today as we write in the love letters.

My guides are bringing the oracle cards deck back up in the energy. Daily guidance from your angels, Doreen Virtue. I'd be interested to see if maybe we'll have a three in a row. Angels what do we need to know right now about believing and living as if we're already worthy? Life purpose, the purpose of your life is to serve in a way that brings great joy to yourself and others.

Don't worry about finding your purpose. Instead, focus upon serving a purpose and then your purpose will serve you. This is where we'll leave off this week.

I'm sinking deep into my heart for members of our tribe, for you, if you're watching and you would love to argue with me that you are not worthy. You are staunch about, "I am not worthy. I am not ready. I am not good enough." I'm sending you big love, so much love, and healing energy, sending to you.

The angels are bringing this card forward, my guides tell me, especially because for those of us where we believe that we're really not worthy, then the bridge to believing in your own worth is having a purpose that is worthy of your attention, of your energy and of your calling.

If you can't believe in yourself yet, find something to believe in. It could be a cause for animal rights. It could be a cause of helping out people in your community that are disadvantaged. It could be for standing for different issues, of serving a purpose.

What causes you to feel passionate? My mentor, Fabian, says that your passions are not random. They are actually your calling.

Tap into your passions this week, if you are feeling that you are not worthy and you are not good enough. Instead, lean on serving a purpose first until you will realize that even without that purpose you were already worthy.

Come and blow. Send me an email back. Write me back, a letter in the mail. You know I love, love letters. Thank you to all of those of you who've sent them. Oh my gosh, that's just like, that's not even all of them. Feeling so much love, thank you, thank you for that.

Make sure you subscribe on YouTube so that you get these love letters first, every week, and by the way, if you need an extra shot of positivity and you want to learn how to really value yourself and raise your vibration at will, join us at the next Master Manifester Challenge.

There will be a link in the description box or somewhere on this page, or around this video, so that you can join in, and we can interact live. You're just watching these videos. I want to see you too. I will see you soon. Next week is our last,

(Original post 01/22/2018)

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Decide to act and live as if you are already worthy: of love, wealth, health, etc..

Imagine that you had permission to make a million mistakes right now, and still be “ok” regardless.

Notice how you feel at that moment - you're already healing!

SHARE THIS! You’d be surprised how many people you know right now are in desperate need of healing and could use this information to change their life. If you can read this, you know someone who needs this Love Letter!

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Are you uncomfortable receiving compliments?

Is it weird for you to ask for *and* to receive help from others?

Feeling out of place in your new position at work, like you don't deserve it?

Being seen is always uncomfortable; that's why we tend to hide our gifts, rather than share them openly and often.

But positive discomfort can also be a sign of growth and good changes happening, if you know what to look for.

Watch this week's 10-minute Love Letter, the final installment in our 4-week exploration of the Power of Positive Community, to harness the healing power of Evolutionary Visibility in your life and business!

"Sometimes I feel like I don't belong."

This is our fourth and final week of a deep dive into the power of positive community. So if you haven't seen the previous installments, I highly recommend them. Stop, go back, and watch them on YouTube, or on my blog at victoriawhitfield.com.

This week, for our fourth and final installment, where we're going to land the plane of our journey through the power of positive community is what happens when you actually are in positive community, what you can expect. And it is ... Drum roll please, evolutionary visibility.

Evolutionary visibility. It is so powerful, and this phrase came straight from my guides. I've tried to read more on it, and I haven't really heard of it. So you heard it here first.

Evolutionary visibility is the true essence and power of being in positive community.

Last week we covered the lions and the kittens, right? Where's your mindset at? And we covered the concept of the lioness who grew up around cats, so that finally when she was come of age and fully-formed, it was a bit of a surprise and a shock feeling completely out of space.

What would happen if she finally got around a pride of lions? This is where we're going this week in particular. Are we ready for it? So evolutionary visibility is the experience of others seeing you as your true self, your higher self, and because of that, they hold you to that standard and call that out of you.

And with all of that support around you, you evolve into your full and highest self.

It takes two parts, however. When we are first the lioness, that grew up around cats and kittens, we have a certain self image of ourself. We are a cat. We are a kitten, yes? And then when we get around lions, there's this fear, a sense of, I don't belong.

Maybe you have experienced this in your business because you've enrolled in group coaching or you joined a networking group or association. Or maybe you moved your business to a more premium area. Or you may have even rebranded at a higher vibration, right?

And there's this kind feeling that you have where "I'm a fraud. I'm a fraud. I am not what that says I am. I am not what you say I am. I am not what the branding and those ... I'll never be enough. I'll never be enough."

That fraud and not enough-ness, our inner-achiever, comes out with a vengeance, especially when we're growing.

This is a sign of growing pains, however. And especially if you're feeling discomfort. It's extra important for you to be surrounded by lions who will champion you and celebrate you in your power and say, "Yeah. Bring out those claws. Yeah, let your mane shake out.

You're brilliant. You're gorgeous. You're fabulous. You're an expert. You're the best of the best." Those type of cheerleaders and champions cause us to evolve. They're like a mirror, a cosmic mirror. All brilliant loving people are cosmic mirrors, and when they stand in front of you, they reflect your greatness back to you.

With that, the power of positive community is allowing yourself to be seen in that light. There's an element of vulnerability that comes being seen as brilliant. If you think of the light, like the lamp back there, when you first turn a light on, there's a bit of an adjustment in your eyes, if you're sensitive to light.

Know this: All brilliant, loving people are Cosmic Mirrors. When they stand in front of you, they reflect your #greatness back to you. Allow yourself to be seen as brilliant by your #positive community.

Or even especially if you've been in the dark for so long. It hurts at first, but then you adjust.

That pain is the opening of your eyes, the relaxing of your ocular muscles to allow for more light to flood in. The same thing happens to us emotionally and mentally when we open up about our life purpose, or we open up around, this is what I really want to focus on, or this is who I really am.

There's a vulnerability in that opening. But when you're around positive community, if and when you open vulnerably, it is powerful. And those cosmic mirrors of those loving people will reflect back to you the brilliance that you are. Your mindset may be a couple light years behind you, but if you stick around that positive community long enough, you will adjust and relax into your greatness.

So this week in particular, the guides are asking you to bring more evolutionary visibility into your life. Being safe and vulnerable and open in your brilliance and in your power, and because others are reflecting that and championing it and celebrating it in you, you can evolve and step fully into it.

I'm hearing the oracle cards calling in the energy. It's the fairies. Healing With the Fairies by Doreen Virtue. Okay. And I'm always accepting donations if you have an oracle card deck that you would love to donate to the dojo, go to my "About Me" page. There's a "Give Back" link, and there's all the information that you'd like for donating. Thank you, by the way, in advance.

Fairies, what do we need to know right now about evolutionary visibility and positive community? Stepping into our greatness and positive community. Don't shuffle anymore, they said. Ooh. New opportunity. This is where we're going to leave off for this week. Really exciting.

So the fairies are bringing forward a card that says, "You have, within one degree of separation of you ... " Moi, right here. "You are directly connected to the opportunity of stepping into positive community and evolutionary visibility being in that community." Are you aware of that? Be on the lookout. There is a new opportunity coming your way to be part of a next level positive community. A next level space and group of people who see you and celebrate you in your power and in your brilliance.

I highly recommend that you go and check out my visionary shaman circle at victoriawhitfield.com/jointhetribe. Go there, read through it. That is the next level tribe that we have here at the dojo of lions and lionesses who are championing you in your high vibrational presence.

But what's your new opportunity that's coming through? What positive community are you going to commit to join? Is it my Visionary Shaman Circle?

Go ahead and send me an email back or comment below what comes up for you around this. Do you want to be held in that brilliant space of evolutionary visibility? Curious to hear it.

So that's it for this week's Love Letter video, and for our four week deep dive on the power of positive community. Make sure you subscribe on YouTube so that you get these Love Letter videos first every week.

And remember, if there's any way that I can help you balance your mind, body, and business, just let me know at victoriawhitfield.com/contact.

We'll see you there. Bye.

(Original post 04/23/2018)

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Share your life purpose with someone positive, who delights in celebrating and encouraging others.

Open your heart and reveal your passion for what you're excited to create in your life and business, and allow them to celebrate you and lift you up.

Notice how you feel at that moment - you're already healing!

SHARE THIS! You’d be surprised how many people you know right now are in desperate need of healing and could use this information to change their life. If you can read this, you know someone who needs this Love Letter!

Want spiritual support on your healing journey but don't know where to start? Let's work #together!

Click the pink button below to take your Abundance Energy Jumpstart Assessment with Victoria and jumpstart your healing journey, today! 

Are you "stuck in your head" often because you're so stressed out and busy these days?

Feeling frustrated that you're not getting through to people, or that your loved ones, clients or colleagues aren't quite connecting with you in the way you would like them to?

Worried that when you talk no one hears you, or do you even feel that people think you are "ranting" or "rambling" all the time?

Communication issues have to do with the part of your energetic body that's called the Throat Chakra.

The Throat Chakra governs your ability to speak up and be heard with clarity and authenticity in this lifetime.

Watch the above video to explore why you should stop "speaking your mind," and what you should start doing instead, to heal your communication issues!

Clear communication is an energy exchange.

It involves you expressing yourself clearly, as well as the other person experiencing your expression clearly.

A healthy Throat Chakra exchange leaves you feeling heard, connected and well received.

Therefore, the energy exchanged in communication needs to be clear and open on both sides: both for that of the speaker and listener.

It's obvious that having a garbled message can ruin the quality of our communication with others.

However, what may not be so obvious is that having garbled energy can also affect the quality of our communication with others, perhaps even moreso than the message itself.

Why? Because everyone is an empathic listener, to some degree.

And, on top of that, the majority of people have no idea what the heck that means. YAY! 🙂 It's a hot mess, I know, but hey, that's what we are here to solve, right lightworkers?

So what exactly is an empathic listener?

Does that mean everyone is psychic or something? No, not exactly.

An empathic listener is someone who is "listening" to or moreover aware of the energy that someone else is giving off in a given situation. In short, they pick up the person's "vibes."

For example, have you ever had the experience of watching someone read a really well-written speech, but you could tell they were faking it or being disingenuous?

What gave them away? They had correct body language, they varied their voice tone elegantly, and said all the right words. Heck, they even had a great outfit on and smelled good!

But how you could tell that they didn't really feel what they were saying to you, even though all of your 5 senses were being "correctly" tickled by the book?

Here's how: your 6th Empathic Sense felt the imbalanced energy that they were sending out, and you in turn concluded they were being disingenuous.

This is therefore a more extreme example of someone speaking their mind, and not speaking their heart.

The meaning, the resonance, gets lost in translation when we are personally out of alignment when communicating.

And that's a big reason why people can and will misunderstand what we are trying to say, or even write off what we are talking about: it's not coming from the right place.

Know this: Don't speak your mind. Speak your heart. #communication #leadership

When we try to do a "perfect" job in talking, sometimes the heart of the matter can get lost in translation.

Maybe you've been preparing your presentation at work for a very long time, or maybe you've been trying to figure out "just the right way" to tell your loved one something that's a sensitive subject.

Just get out of your head, and into your heart.

The ego is very powerful at wanting to wrap himself around everything you experience. However, it can in it's wrapping end up choking the flow of expression with too much censorship and analysis paralysis.

So, when you feel like your loved ones, clients or colleagues aren't quite getting it, make time to stop what you're saying and check in with them. You can ask "did that make sense or have I lost you?" for example.

Watch this week's video for the Oracle Card of the Week, which explains exactly how to speak from your heart and who you're really doing it for!

In Love and Light,

Victoria.

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Pause, and drop into your heart.

Watch the video and do the simple heart-centering exercise before you go to speak.

Notice how you feel at that moment - you're already healing!

SHARE THIS! You’d be surprised how many people you know right now are in desperate need of healing and could use this information to change their life. If you can read this, you know someone who needs this Love Letter!

Want to remove blocks from your throat chakra and speak clearly?

Give me a call at 732-903-8573 or click on the blue BOOK NOW button to start your healing journey, today!

How to Meditate and Why You Should

Convinced you can't meditate?

Have you tried and tried, but just can't seem to quiet your mind or focus at all?

Wondering what's the point to this "meditation thing" anyway?

Meditation is a powerful practice that can attract abundance of all kinds into your life very quickly.

And although you may think you can't meditate, chances are that you're already meditating and just haven't realized it yet.

Watch the above video to learn how easy it is to meditate and understand exactly why it's a crucial daily practice for increasing your spiritual health!

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"Oh, I should do that more often."

That's the typical response I get when I tell people I teach meditation. Sound familiar? 😉

And whenever I inevitably ask them why they don't meditate, people say they can't or think they're not good at it because they can't completely and utterly shut off their mind.

So they get this idea that it's impossible, and they give up. But what if I told you that you're meditating already and are just unaware of it? To understand that, let's redefine what "meditation" actually is --

Meditation is anything that puts you in a state of flow.

It's anything that makes you feel focused, "in the zone" or "on a roll." And when you're in this state, you're very present to what you're doing, so much that time tends to bend: flying by or standing still.

That also means there are positive and negative forms of meditation, however. For example, a positive physical form of meditation is running, and a negative physical form of meditation is binge eating.

Intention, therefore, is everything!

If you have no intention, then you're mindlessly meditating, usually for entertainment or to escape, such as with channel-surfing, binge eating or endless facebooking. This is negative meditation. The global casino uk industry has shot past Hollywood to become the fourth biggest entertainment market in the world, behind gambling, reading and TV.

Sure, you're definitely "in the zone" while doing these activities, but they're not constructive or healing for you, so all I'm asking is for you to start asking yourself, "what's my intention right now?" or "what is my outcome?" the next time you notice you're in the zone.

The more you recognize moments of flow, the more you'll realize you are already unconsciously meditating nearly all day long.

The next logical step then is to start meditating consciously and on purpose, with purpose.

Intentional, conscious meditation can heal your life and attract abundance of all kinds to you, but only if abundance or healing is your intention for your meditation time. An example of this would be to spend 10 minutes with the intention of focusing only on what feeling abundant feels like to you.

Depending on your personality type, you may prefer stationary (seated, laying down) or dynamic (moving, like walking or yoga, etc.) meditation -- neither one is better or more correct than the other universally, because it depends on preference. Are you able to focus and flow better while seated or while moving around?

Know this: If you can read this, then you are meditating right now. No, really! #MLMM #BK2YS

Okay, so if you're a smart cookie you may be asking yourself at this point: "well, if I'm meditating all day already, why should I care about practicing meditation consciously?"

Here's where it gets good. If meditation was only about honing your ability to focus, then yeah, you don't really have to care much about practicing it on a regular basis. Sure, the ability to focus is very important, but it's not something your heart longs for, and because of that, you won't stick to it.

The real reason why you meditate isn't to sharpen your ability to focus, it's actually to sharpen your ability to TRUST.

Trust is the #1 thing that is destroyed in adulthood. It's absence eats away at our soul, our vitality and our sense of "aliveness."

What if I told you that meditation was the vehicle for rebuilding your trust in yourself, in Spirit and in others -- then how would you feel? Carries a lot more energy, right?

Watch this week's video for the Oracle Card of the Week, which shows exactly WHY your ability to Trust has been broken and what to do about it!

In Love and Light,

Victoria.

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The next time you feel you're "in the zone" or flowing, acknowledge how you're meditating in that moment.

Then ask yourself "what is my intention right now?" and feel the clarity increase within you.

Notice how you feel at that moment - you're already healing!

SHARE THIS! You’d be surprised how many people you know right now are in desperate need of healing and could use this information to change their life. If you can read this, you know someone who needs this Love Letter!

Want to learn to meditate so you can attract more abundance?

Give me a call at 732-903-8573 or click on the blue BOOK NOW button to start your healing journey, today!

Raising Bliss Sacred Sensuality Retreat

Sunday, October 26th, 10:00am - 3:00pm

Embrace your sacred sensuality for deep spiritual healing and empowered energywork.

If you are reading this, then you have gone very, very deep in life. You are a powerful Spirit Warrior and Love Master in this lifetime. When you decide to love someone, Heaven and Earth move. No one Loves like you do. And that unfortunately can be painful..

Because you have gone deep, you’ve gotten some deep wounds and battle scars. But where does the General go when s/he is wounded? So many people need you – your family, friends, clients, coworkers, lovers – so you do your best to take care of yourself. You take classes, read books, do energywork and more to heal – truth be told, you’re more healthy and balanced than most people.

But there’s always been that one area that gets pushed all the way to the back of the closet of your mind because it is so powerful to even knock you, in all your power, off your horse: sexual intimacy. Sacred sensuality is a gateway for communion with the highest vibrations of Spirit. At this retreat we will explore how the strength and balance of your sexual self is actually The Key to unlocking your most powerful, beautiful and effective energywork.

WHAT YOU'LL GET (Value $1,400!):

1. 5 Hours of Reiki, Channeled Guidance and Counseling with Sensei Victoria Whitfield (Value $500)
2. Discussion: Spirituality, Sex and The Sacred Temple (Value $100)
3. Holy Fire Karuna Reiki Deep Meditation: The Heavenly Banquet Hall Experience, for Bliss Communion with The Divine (Value $150)
4. Cleansing and Grounding Vegan Lunch with Live Juicing and Earthing (Value $50)
5. Training in Divine Intimacy and Your Energy Body (Value $200)
6. The Sensual Empath: Navigating the Master Path with Your Angels (Value $200)
7. Training in The Microcosmic Orbit and Manifestation (Value $200)
8. Ample Time for Practice, Journaling and Sharing

Date: Sunday, October 26th
Time: 10:00am - 3:00pm
Bring: Dress in your most soft / smooth slothing, bring but don't wear your favorite perfume or incense, scarf to cover your eyes for meditation, pen & pad for journaling. (more will be added soon.)
Location: Sensei Victoria Whitfield's Reiki Dojo, 523 Westfield Avenue, 3rd Floor in Westfield, NJ 07090. (In-person attendance only; no online attendance at this time.)
Tickets: $197 -- $50 deposit required to reserve your space, due by October 15th. (Space is limited; 10 max accepted.)

FAST ACTION BONUS:

Send in your $50 deposit by 11:59pm Sunday Oct. 12th and get $100 off admission!

June 1-6 Trip to Stonehenge!

I'm in Glastonbury and Stonehenge this week receiving above-master training in Karuna Reiki and Holy Fire Reiki!

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See where I'm staying - The Abbey House Retreat Center: READ MORE

Here's My Itinerary:

• Sunday: 7:30am Arrival at London Heathrow International Airport, take Bus & Coach to Glastonbury and Check in at Abbey House Retreat Center (and crash after 10 hours of travel!).
• Monday: 9:00am Chakra Tour of Glastonbury with www.TorsToursoftheTor.com, then meet classmates at 4pm
• Tuesday: 8:30am - 6:30pm Karuna Reiki and Holy Fire Reiki Class at Abbey House Retreat Center
• Wednesday: All day - Trip to Stonehenge and Main Attunements in Inner Circle of Stonehenge
• Thursday: 8:30am - 6:30pm Karuna Reiki and Holy Fire Reiki Class at Abbey House Retreat Center
• Friday: Check out of Abbey House Retreat Center, take Bus & Coach to London Heathrow International Airport for 8:30pm flight -- 11:30pm Arrival in Newark Airport (and crash after another 10+ hours of travel!)

Please consider making a donation to the fund to help support my training at GOFUNDME.COM - I am excited and honored to bring back this amazing energy!

Lastly, below is last week's Free Internet Meditation.

Watch it and do the meditation and raise your frequency with me!

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