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		<title>Love Letters &#124; Living an Unapologetic Life &#8211; Part 1 of 5</title>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p>Are you putting off living life unapologetically? Do you believe others can pursue their passions and dreams now, but not you? Feel like you'll have permission to be yourself "later" - like when you get the perfect job, spouse, baby, retirement, body, etc.? Most sensitive entrepreneurs put off living life fully and openly for fear [&#8230;]</p>
<p>The post <a href="https://victoriawhitfield.com/love-letters-living-an-unapologetic-life-part-1-of-5/">Love Letters | Living an Unapologetic Life &#8211; Part 1 of 5</a> appeared first on <a href="https://victoriawhitfield.com">Sensei Victoria Whitfield</a>.</p>
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<h2><span style="color: #800080;"><em>Are you putting off living life unapologetically?<br />
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<h2>Do you believe others can pursue their passions and dreams now, but not you?</h2>
<h2>Feel like you'll have permission to be yourself "later" - like when you get the perfect job, spouse, baby, retirement, body, etc.?</h2>
<p>Most sensitive entrepreneurs put off living life fully and openly for fear of criticism, shaming and judgement.</p>
<p>And these low-vibrational feelings distract us empathically from the reasons why we must show up in life and business unapologetically, now.</p>
<p><span style="color: #008080;"><strong>Watch this week’s 11-minute Love Letter, the first installment in our 5-week series, to remember why you must live your life unapologetically.</strong></span></p>
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<p style="text-align: right;"><em><span style="color: #800080;"><b>"Welcome to a brand new you!"</b></span></em></p>
<p><strong>This is a brand new five-week deep dive series that we're going to be doing on the topic of living an unapologetic life.</strong> Every year, I pick a word that is the theme for the year for me personally. Last year, my theme was <em>Supported;</em> how I want to feel. This year in particular, <em>Unapologetic Ease</em> is actually the full intention and sensation that I'm going for this year in particular. My guide said, “Let's start off the year bringing in the entire tribe around what it looks like and what's at stake behind living life <em>unapologetically</em>.”</p>
<p><strong>As you know, by now, when we do these multi-week deep dive series, it's so that you and I can have time to really get into the nuts and bolts of these topics.</strong> Also, we always begin with why. We start with why because we're conjuring energy, we're conjuring attention and focus around this new learning topic. If you're looking to start new projects and generate energy, you start with why. There are other reasons for you to start with why, such as: getting clear on what you're passionate about, clarifying focus and reeling in, honing in energy not just of your own but also of your team around you. So starting with why rocks!</p>
<p><strong>This week, let's look at <em>why</em> you should live life unapologetically.</strong> Here's the thing: When we live life apologetically, we go throughout our days and go throughout our businesses, our meetings, our relationships, even the thoughts that we think in our heads going round and around thinking, “I'm sorry. I'm sorry. I'm so sorry,” or, “This is a really sorry circumstance,” or the wah-wah kind of energy is what follows us around when we live life apologetically. Even when we're trying to get to our seat in the movie theater, we say repeatedly:“I'm sorry, I'm sorry, I'm sorry.” Is this you? Is that just your automatic thing to say, "I'm sorry", when someone calls on you or when you have a question or when you call someone up or think … Is that the way that you meet the world, as "<em>I'm sorry?"</em></p>
<p><strong>If the way that you are meeting the world is leading with I'm sorry, then you are automatically blocking all the love, all the abundance, the support and healing that Source is pouring on you.</strong> Write this down: Saying I'm sorry means don't support me, I'm bad. Saying I'm sorry means don't support me because I'm bad.</p>
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<h2 class="p1"><a href="https://ctt.ec/B9JAM">Know this: Constantly saying I'm sorry blocks #abundance; the universe hears it as "don't support me because I'm wrong." @SenseiWhitfield</a></h2>
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<p><strong>You should not be full of shame in the way that you meet the world.</strong> The reason why we want to live life unapologetically is so that you have all the energy that you need to meet life confidently and full of joy, full of radiance. We need your light.</p>
<p><strong>Healers, you've got to meet the world unapologetically because you have a powerful, powerful purpose, and we need you now more than ever.</strong> Entrepreneurs, you're here to solve problems. You're a problem solver. You've seen an issue and you're like, “Oh, I have a solution.” We need you to come to life unapologetically because there's plenty of problems out there that if it wasn't for you, we wouldn't have the solution for.</p>
<p><span style="color: #800080;"><strong>It's time for you to come out of your shell and step into life unapologetically. Why? Because we need YOU.</strong></span></p>
<p><strong>Now, also, be kind to yourself if you think that you should stave off living life unapologetically until retirement or on, “When I get married, I'll be unapologetic about myself. That's when I can let myself go.”</strong> By the way, it’s not how that works, or, “Maybe when I get that big client, I can finally book a massage because I don't deserve self-care until I make a certain amount of money.” No. Oh my goodness. Be kind to yourself if you're pushing off living life unapologetically. "I'm not going to travel the world until I’ve retired at 67 or 72 or whenever the years are when I'm too tired to really be going around the world, yeah, that's when I'll live life unapologetically." Or "I’ll wait until I'm older to be taken seriously because I'm a female or I'm a young man or whatever, and that means because I'm young or because I'm female, that means you can't really take me seriously."</p>
<p><strong>Stop apologizing. Why are you living life unapologetically? You have a purpose now. You can live life like you mean it. You can live life like you own it now, and we need you now.</strong> We needed you, as they say in New York. We needed you yesterday. Let's make a commitment this week in particular to invoke this concept of living life unapologetically. For the next five weeks, we're going to dive deep into it. Are you ready?</p>
<p>Accompanying us on our journey into living life unapologetically is the oracle cards deck <em>Daily Guidance From Your Angel</em>s by Doreen Virtue, one of the many oracle cards decks. You can send in your donation deck to the dojo. Go ahead to naturalintuition.com and look for the <a href="http://www.victoriawhitfield.com/contact">Contact page</a>, my mailing address is there. Thank you to all my loves who sent in donation decks. It's amazing. You should see how many people have been benefiting from your generosity. I’ll try to post more pictures. I'm not going to apologize though. Yes, yes. Okay.<em> Angels, what do we need to know this week in particular about why we need to live life unapologetically?</em> Oh, that felt strong.</p>
<p><span style="color: #800080;"><strong>Perfect Timing.</strong></span></p>
<p><em><strong>Perfect Timing: Now is the perfect moment for you to act on your inspirations. The doors are open while you walk through them with us by your side. Don't delay or procrastinate as all of the ingredients are ripe for your success. Everything and everyone is on your side supporting your positive outcome.</strong></em></p>
<p>Where we're going to leave off this week is that why should you live an unapologetic life is because Now is the time. There are opportunities, the angels are saying, that, if you have the confidence and the presence and the energy to step into, your whole life would change, and so will the lives of all those around you, in your community, in your family, on your team. We need you now. Can you see that first word? Now is the perfect moment. Now more than ever.</p>
<p><strong>Go ahead, type in the comments below how is this perfectly on time, this topic of living life unapologetically.</strong> We are walking into this as a new year - regardless of when you're watching or reading this, by the way. At the time that this airs, it will be a new year in 2018, but we are walking into this new year as if Now is when we're worthy, Now is when we can live life unapologetically.</p>
<p>What would that mean to you? Go ahead and type in the comments below. I want to hear it. I want to read it. Share, send me videos back, send me an e-mail back at info@victoriawhitfield.com. That comes straight to me. Make sure you subscribe on YouTube so that you get these love letters first every week and I will see you next time for part two of five. See you soon. Bye.</p>
<p style="text-align: right;"><em>(Original post 01/01/2018)</em></p>
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<p><strong><em>Just for Today...</em></strong></p>
<p><strong>Decide to live life unapologetically, right now.</strong></p>
<p><strong>Go about your day assuming you are already worthy and have everything you ever wanted.</strong></p>
<p><strong><em>Notice how you feel at that moment - you're already healing!</em></strong></p>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 27 Nov 2017 07:00:14 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p>Feeling indecisive, like you’re life lacks direction? Struggling to “find yourself” and feel like you belong? Wondering if you’ll ever get the clarity you seek? Indecision is a symptom of much deeper issues regarding your relationship with your own Spirit, aka your “spirituality.” And everyone has a sense of spirituality, especially skeptics and realists. Watch [&#8230;]</p>
<p>The post <a href="https://victoriawhitfield.com/love-letters-loving-your-spirit/">Love Letters | Loving Your Spirit</a> appeared first on <a href="https://victoriawhitfield.com">Sensei Victoria Whitfield</a>.</p>
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<h2><span style="color: #800080;"><em>Feeling indecisive, like you’re life lacks direction?<br />
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<h2>Struggling to “find yourself” and feel like you belong?</h2>
<h2>Wondering if you’ll ever get the clarity you seek?</h2>
<p>Indecision is a symptom of much deeper issues regarding your relationship with your own Spirit, aka your “spirituality.”</p>
<p>And everyone has a sense of spirituality, especially skeptics and realists.</p>
<p><span style="color: #008080;"><strong>Watch this week’s 12-minute love letter video, the final part in our four-part Deep Dive series on the Power of Loving Yourself, to redefine spirituality and use it to love yourself at work today.<br />
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<p style="text-align: right;"><em><span style="color: #800080;"><b>"<strong><span class="s1">What is my value?</span></strong>"</b></span></em></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">This week is week four of four in our deep dive into loving yourself. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1"><strong>The power of loving yourself and this week, the guides are going to have us talk about loving your spirit. Let's define terms a little bit, right out the gate.</strong> </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">What is a spirit? What in the world are we talking about? The spirit for the bounds of this conversation, we're going to understand as the resource behind your decision making processes in life. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1" style="color: #800080;"><strong>It is the force that determines the path that your life takes, right? It is that resource behind how you make decisions.</strong> </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1"> That's what your spirit is, so for those of us you are religious, we understand to be the holy spirit. For those of us that aren't creative or consider ourselves scientific, same thing, that you can understand to be your creative spirit, your spirit of innovation, growth and progress, that sort of a spirit. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">This is the fuel behind your decision making processes and when you're learning how to love yourself on another level, so that you can better love others, right? </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1"><strong>We're filling our cup at the faucet, the resource that we need, so that we can then hand that cup or pour from a full pitcher to others to love on them, as well. Showing up in service and loving others, abundantly.</strong> </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1"> With that, this week in particular, when we're learning how to love our spirit, it's important to then understand what your core values are, especially when you're at work. Now, there's a very professionalism and all those kinds of corporate sort of language. Mission, vision, values that comes up for us when we think of, what do we value? But instead, I want you to think of when it comes to loving yourself, what do you value? </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1" style="color: #800080;"><strong>When it comes to your life, what do you value? When it comes to being loving, what do you value? Remembering that your spirit is the force behind your decision making process.</strong> </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1"> With that, this week in particular, we want to pick one value in particular that is loving to you. One that nourishes you. If we could choose a more concrete word, whether than just loving can sometimes be a morphosis for those of us who are not used to being loving to oneself, right? </span></p>
<p class="p1"><strong><span class="s1">We're used to being loving to others, so think of a value that would be nourishing to you, even if you want to pick nourishment. My nourishment is something that I value.</span></strong></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1"> Me personally, my top values are, number one, love. Obviously. Number two is safety and number three is honor. Honesty for me falls underneath honor, so when I have something more vulnerable that I need to share to a team member or someone that I'm in an intimate relationship with, maybe family or my partner and so on, I think of my value of honor and that, for me, is loving toward myself first and that gives me the courage to then speak from the heart about topics that might be a little bit more vulnerable making or feel uncomfortable to bring up. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1" style="color: #800080;"><strong>That value gives me the courage to make a decision with my spirit to allow the spirit of honor to come through me and create more honorable experiences. Are you getting the picture here?</strong> </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1"> That's loving towards me because I'm bringing that spirit into my awareness in my decision making, which then effects my behavior and how I show up to others, how I serve others. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1"><strong>If I come with a spirit of honor or spirit of love or spirit of safety and honoring my safety, others safety and so on and so forth. What would be your value? How can you, but we want to make this very specific, this week in particular to work. How can you honor your spirit or how can you bring your spirit into your work experience?</strong> </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Perhaps it is honoring your religion. I'm putting a lot of my value of honor. Perhaps it is bring your spirit's desire to be religious or to glorify God in all that you do and bring that to your work experience. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span style="color: #800080;"><strong><span class="s1">How would you work? How would you show up? How would you speak to others if the force behind your decisions and your behaviors is, I want to glorify God in whatever I do?</span></strong></span></p>
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<h2 class="p1"><a href="https://ctt.ec/cEeea">Know this: Your Spirit is the force behind how you make decisions in life and #business. And spirituality is your relationship with it.</a></h2>
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<p class="p1"><span class="s1"> On the flip side, what if your value was, I value my health. My health comes first. How would you show up at work today if your value is, my health comes first? This is the one value that I'm going to embody today. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1"><strong>How can you allow that to come forward in your work day? How would you speak to people? How would you sit at your desk? What food would you choose to put in your body if that was your value that you were going to honor today, this week?</strong> </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Whether you're going all week or just for today, what would be different about the way that you conduct your behavior and the decisions that you make if you made value based decisions? </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1" style="color: #800080;"><strong> The power and the self-loving, self-nourishing aspect of making value based decisions is that you become responsive rather than reactive to life around you. When we're reactive, things happen and all right, I got to put out the fire over here and oh, so and so needs me.</strong> </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Okay, I'll do this and oh my gosh, what about this and da da da da and you're working yourself up spiritually because there's no anchor, there's no value anchoring you down on a spiritual level. Your decisions are flying off at the handle, they're reacting to all of the circumstances that are around you versus making value based decisions. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1"><strong>You're able to ground and then respond with wisdom to the experiences that are coming toward you so that your life, you're building by design in a wise and spiritually grounded way.</strong> </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1"> Value based decisions, that's the challenge for this week, in particular. The mantra of the week is, what's my value? Remember it's one. I know some of you do core desired feelings and stuff like that and you pick several and all of this. What one? Just one. Simplify it. I value simplicity. Let's all value simplicity right now. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1" style="color: #800080;"><strong>Bring the spirit of simplicity so that you can be kind to yourself and one, what's my value?</strong> </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1"> The next time someone asks you something, the next time you begin your work day, the next time you sit down to eat, what's my value? That is your mantra. Today, in particular, or for this week, in particular. Whatever you're ready to commit to. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1"><strong> I'm hearing the oracle cards calling and energy. Talk about spirit. Fairies. Ding, ding, ding. Yay. Healing with the fairies, another Doreen Virtue deck. Thank you so much for donating.</strong> </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">This is one of over 20 decks that we have here at the dojo that our clients and students play with as well as my co-op members. Between seeing their clients, they're reading their own oracle card readings. I love it. You're welcome to play. My cards are very social. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1" style="color: #800080;"><strong> Fairies, what do we need to know, this week in particular about loving our spirit? What value? Oh, this loud is coming forward. New opportunity, This is so powerful. Check it out. Gorgeous.</strong> </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">What I'm hearing in the energy to tell you about new opportunity for this week, in particular, is that you've been loving yourself and opening up to honoring and heeling and loving, nourishing and nurturing those parts of yourself that have been under loved for the last few weeks. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">We've been at that together and because of that, sources taken notice. There's a new opportunity coming your way that you want to use your value. You're going to need to have a set of values or one guiding light that gives you enough anchoring to receive that opportunity. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1"><strong>If you don't have it, you're going to miss this opportunity and it's because you're got to anchor first in order to receive the level of opportunity that's coming to you this week, in particular. Maybe even today. We want to make wise decisions, ones that are responding to life with elegance , with wisdom, with grounding, allowing spirit to come through and wash through our lives, blessing rather than rushing through and feeling unloved, especially by ourselves. Slow down, ground, make value-based decisions so that you can receive the next level opportunity that's coming to you.</strong> </span></p>
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<p class="p1"><span class="s1" style="color: #800080;"><strong>What's coming up for you hearing all of this? What opportunity, have you recognized it yet? I'd love to hear about it and how did you ground and make a value-based decision in order to receive that.</strong> </span></p>
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<p><strong>Pick one Value to focus on that is loving and nourishing to YOU.<br />
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<p><strong>At work, choose to embody the spirit of that value in your communications, your time at your desk, your self-care, etc.</strong></p>
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<h2><span style="color: #800080;"><em>Frustrated that things have come to a standstill professionally?<br />
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<h2><em>Unsure if your business or even your life is really going somewhere or making an impact?</em></h2>
<h2><em>Worried that you have plateaued, and that you can't grow any more than you already have?<br />
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<p>It's natural to feel resistance on the path to personal and spiritual expansion — you're only human!</p>
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<p><span style="color: #008080;"><strong>Watch this week's 13-minute love letter video to revisit your why, and discover the hidden power that you forgot you had!<br />
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<p style="text-align: right;"><em><span style="color: #800080;"><b>"I&nbsp;don't remember why I started this in the first place."</b></span></em></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1"> This week in particular, The Guides are asking you to revisit your big why. Your big why. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1"><strong>So, if you haven't seen the TedX talk by Simon Sinek, called Start With Why, I highly recommend that after this Love Letter video you go check him out. He's a fantastic resource on inspirational leadership.</strong> </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">He's someone that I admire very much and get a lot of energy from his wonderful, wonderful teachings and philosophies but basically, the gist of his talk is that how we motivate ourselves and people in life is by sharing and be attuned to why we do what we do. Not what, not how but why?</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1" style="color: #800080;"><strong>Now, your big why might be the why behind why you had kids or the why behind why you got married or the why behind you being in business or the why behind your in this company. The why you believe what you believe.</strong> </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">But, your big why is an energetic resource. It's an energetic resource in your life. We got to remember what it is in order to derive energy from it. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1"> Admittedly, I don't have the perfect memory, right? But, you remember your phone number. You remember your address hopefully. But, if you don't remember why you're doing what you're doing right now in the first place, your center, where you ground, your alignment, your essential energy in your alignment is off. It's a bit crunched. </span></p>
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<h2 class="p1"><a href="http://ctt.ec/biUE4">Know this: You remember your phone number &amp; address, but do you remember WHY you're doing what you're doing?</a></h2>
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<p class="p1"><strong>That natural flow of juice, that creative inspirational juice that you get from being connected to your big why is pinched off from your lack of knowledge.</strong></p>
<p class="p1">Maybe it's forgetting why you're doing what you're doing or you may not have even stated what your big why is in the first place. Maybe you genuinely don't know. It's not that you even forgot.</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1"> The title that The Guides asked for this Love Letter is revisit your why but I'm getting a vibe from who's watching right now, I don't know if this is you but you don't even know what your ... Why you're doing what you're doing. Why you're studying this in college or why you started your business other than, <em>"I need money!"</em> Right? Or, you don't even know why you really married the person. It's just like, <em>"They asked and I was there and the priest and here we are 25 years later." </em></span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1" style="color: #800080;"><strong> Going through the motions.</strong> </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">In a previous Love Letter we were talking about being intentional, which is really important. To set the stage that you're not just going through the motions in life but at this point in time, The Guides want you to revisit your why that can support you in being more intentional now. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1"><strong>It gives you a lot more energy and sauce, right? The juice. The juice, the fuel behind your decisions, behind how you speak and show up in life, behind your actions.</strong> </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1"> Want me to share with you my big why? Why I do what I do. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Here through the Dojo is because I believe that within every visionary leader is a creative being called the inner child who's the source of an unlimited amount of energy that one unleashed, can heal not only that person, herself/himself, but also all those who they come in contact with because they are a natural born leader. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1" style="color: #800080;"><strong> Natural born leaders, I believe, are highly sensitive individuals. They're sensitized to things that other people just kind of don't pick up on. It's not that they're superior, they're just sensitive.</strong> </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">With that, I believe, that you as a visionary leader have got to heal your relationship with your inner child so that you can show up with that amount of energy, fully supported, abundant, and at ease as you get out there and serve the world in a bigger way. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1"> What's behind all of what I do? Why I do what I do? The color, right? The shimmies, the rainbows and butterflies and jokes and silly pants ness. It's because I believe in making your inner child feel as safe as possible so that she can emerge from the traumatic shell that she went into because of whatever happened, she can emerge and unleash all of that inner power, that creative resource. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><strong><span class="s1">That flow, infinite flow of energy that you have inside of you. That is why I do what I do.</span></strong></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1"> Simon very beautifully says that our big why often comes from our own pain and so, absolutely a big why comes from big pain. There's a thing that I witnessed in my childhood that caused me to forget from age eight back. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">My life. It's like a dark cloud and so, since then, I've had to really explore what is identity? What is energy because I've always been naturally sensitive to people's emotions or a spiritual energy, food, sound. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1" style="color: #800080;"><strong>I've always had this sensitized relationship to it. Why? Because my inner child is on super protective mode.</strong> </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">She doesn't want that scary thing to happen again so she's going to super sensitize me to all things around. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1"><strong> But, that has catapulted me to doing a deep dive, basically committing that for the rest of my life. I know I'm committed now, as much as I am since I first started, looking into what is energy? What is identity? What is psychology?</strong> </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Learning more about philosophy and spiritual reality and how that effects each present moment so that I can show up as the best self that I can. The more I dove into healing my inner child, the more energy I had to show up in the world. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1" style="color: #800080;"><strong>I don't know who I'll be in five, 10, 20 years from now but this was built intentionally over time. I didn't come out of the womb shimming.</strong> </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1"> The story goes when I came out of the womb I was over eight pounds. I was a big pink ball and they actually almost killed me that day to save my mother. That's another story but anyway. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><strong><span class="s1">Revisit your big why. </span></strong><span class="s1"><strong>Your big why often comes from a traumatic experience.</strong> </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">It doesn't mean that someone tried to kill you or you forgot your childhood or you got sexually assaulted or something like that. Your trauma might be the loss of face or humiliation in school or your family became&nbsp;wealthy but lost it all. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">It could have been something that you saw, it didn't even happen to you but it was such an intense thing that you witnessed that it effected you irrevocably for the rest of your life. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1" style="color: #800080;"><strong> Be kind to yourself because the inner child, she sits on this unlimited power called your vulnerability and creativity. Once that's unleashed, you have every resource at your fingertips but that's big magic.</strong> </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Spooky scary if you're not used to being vulnerable. I'm starting to hear the oracle cards calling the energy around that but revisit your why.</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1"><strong> Why did you start your business in the first place? From one business owner to another, why? What are you doing? Why are you doing what you're doing right now?</strong> </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Why'd you buy your house in that area for the first place? Why did you buy that outfit? Why did you marry this person? Why did you pick this person to date? Why did you go to this school? Revisit your why.</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1"><strong> Oracle cards deck is the indigo angel oracle cards. This is specifically designed for empathic, highly sensitive individuals who, because of their sensitivity, are being primed for leadership.</strong> </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">I don't think that's how Doreen Virtue puts it but, this is how The Guides tell me about being indigo and that's her term for being highly sensitive, is indigo, as a vibrational color, your chakra&nbsp;system. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1"><strong> Angels, what do we need to know right now about revisiting our why? Look through the situation.</strong> </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Look through the situation. Now, I appreciate this. How she's gathering flowers. She's hard at work, got her bag on her back with the flowers that she's gathering. She's focused. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">My Guides are saying, <em>"In order for you to revisit your why, you've got to take your head up out of the details and look past what you're doing right now."</em> </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1" style="color: #800080;"><strong>Your why is not going to be in the doing ness. It's not going to be in the actions. It's a feeling and it's a big vision task so, you've got to step back this week in particular so that you can revisit your why. Recapture that energy and unleash your inner child so that you can get out there and serve and heal in a big way.</strong> </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1"> I believe in you and I'm here to support you. That's why I do what I do. That's why I specialize in it. I want to hear your why. Comment below or send me an email, SenseiVictoriaWhitfield@gmail.com. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1"><strong>I want to hear, what's your big why? What did you forget? Did you forget it? Was this for you?</strong> </span></p>
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<p class="p1"><span class="s1"> All right, and you're ready for it. Mwuah. Bye. See you soon. </span></p>
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<p><strong>Revisit your Big Why: the reason you started your career, your marriage, etc.</strong></p>
<p><strong>Try to write it down as a statement about what you believe.</strong></p>
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<h2><span style="color: #800080;"><em>Frustrated by your love life?</em></span></h2>
<h2><em>Wish you could attract your soulmate?</em></h2>
<h2><em>Having a hard time receiving love from people close to you?</em></h2>
<p>One of the oldest pursuits in the human experience is the pursuit of love.</p>
<p>Oddly enough however, when asked most people tend to have no idea what love actually is.</p>
<p><span style="color: #008080;"><strong>Watch this week's 8-minute Love Letter&nbsp;to begin exploring what love actually is, so you can get more of it!</strong></span></p>
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<p style="text-align: right;"><em><span style="color: #800080;"><b>"<strong><span class="s1"><span style="color: #800080;"><em>I just really want to be loved.</em></span></span></strong>"</b></span></em></p>
<p>Source has called you to a higher vibration of love and relationships in your lifetime.</p>
<p><strong>It's time we talk about what exactly is love.&nbsp;</strong></p>
<p>How&nbsp;would you define being and feeling loved in this lifetime?</p>
<p><span class="s1">Have you ever heard of the 5 love languages? That's one way of interpreting love.&nbsp;They are:</span></p>
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<li><span class="s1">Words of Affirmation</span></li>
<li><span class="s1">Acts of Service</span></li>
<li><span class="s1">Gifts</span></li>
<li><span class="s1">Touch, and </span></li>
<li><span class="s1">Quality Time</span></li>
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<p class="p1"><span class="s1"> There's 5 ways of expressing love, certainly. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1" style="color: #800080;"><strong>But love can go unfelt, unseen and unexperienced because we don't have a clear definition of what healthy love is for us ourselves.</strong> </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Perhaps we witnessed our parents have one version of what love is for them, and how they would define it in their lives. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">But what would Love in Her fullest expression be for you? </span></p>
<p class="p1"><strong><span class="s1">Going to Source right now, She is saying that love is oneness. </span></strong></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Oneness in all of her expressions: oneness in the sense of being connected, oneness in the sense of seeing yourself in another, oneness in circulating the energy healthfully throughout the entire system as one, oneness in the absence of separation.</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1"> During this time of the year or maybe oftentimes, you may be thinking in your mind, "<em>I just really want to be loved. I want to experience feeling loved in a deeper way, or having access to more love in my life.</em>" </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">The way to that,&nbsp;Source is saying, is through yourself first because love is oneness. Start at square one. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1"><strong>How then do you express love for yourself? How do you encounter love within you:</strong></span></p>
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<li class="p1"><span class="s1">Is it in the way that you take care of your body? </span></li>
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<li class="p1"><span class="s1">Is it in the way that you tell yourself stories about yourself?</span></li>
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<li class="p1">Is it in the way that you put yourself together or express yourself in the art that you create or surround yourself?</li>
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<li class="p1">Is it in the way that you share yourself professionally?</li>
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<li class="p1">Is that how you love yourself, or is it in the way that you express yourself personally, with your family?</li>
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<p class="p1"><span class="s1"> This week's topic in particular is more of an internal journey -- that's why we're asking so many more questions: because Source really wants to bring you back to you. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1" style="color: #800080;"><strong>What really matters most this week is that you sit down and journal your answers to all of the questions that Source is asking through us.</strong> </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Now I'm hearing the Oracle Cards calling in the energy.</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">The&nbsp;<em>Romance Angels Oracle&nbsp;Card Deck</em>&nbsp;is really wanting to send you a lot of extra love this week.</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">So let's ask them, "<em>How can we raise the vibration of love and romance,</em>&nbsp;<em>n</em></span><em><span class="s1">ot only with another person but also with ourselves?"</span></em></p>
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<p class="p1"><strong><span class="s1">This is a doozy: <em>"Let go of control issues. Allow this situation to unfold naturally."</em></span></strong></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Now in the energy, what Source is saying is -- especially for developing your natural intuition around love, feeling love, receiving love, being love -- it's about embracing your natural impulses around love.</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span style="color: #333333;"><strong><span class="s1">This really brings it full circle back to being about our parents' influence and what you may have witnessed, or maybe the influence of TV or other people around you. </span></strong></span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Perhaps other people are getting married or divorced or having children. All these external factors are causing you to judge your own status on love, be&nbsp;kind to yourself. </span><span class="s1">Call upon your own nature. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">What I'm hearing in the energy, this week in particular, is to challenge you to find your own natural stance. Centering. </span></p>
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<h2 class="p1"><strong><span class="s1">Know this: <a href="http://ctt.ec/KG08_" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">YOU define what love is, based on the feelings that confirm you're showing or experiencing love.&nbsp;</a></span></strong></h2>
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<p class="p1"><span class="s1" style="color: #800080;"><strong>This week is all about centering, finding where is your square one -- your feeling of oneness -- around love.</strong> </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span style="color: #333333;"><strong><span class="s1">And you can find your center by asking yourself in the journaling you're doing this week: "<em>why do I want love? what is love to me?"</em></span></strong></span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1"> It's important to always start with why. (Great book, by the way, by Simon Sinek if you haven't checked it out yet.) </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Start with why to find your center. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">If you're not exactly sure what your definition is, start with why. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span style="color: #800080;"><strong><span class="s1">Why do you desire love? </span></strong></span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1"><strong>Really unpack that story, and don't be afraid of exploring the dark forest of your heart.</strong> </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">There's so much love there. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">As you go for it, let go of whatever stories you may have inherited or created around love. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">There's so much within you. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Love is something that can come through you naturally, the same way that air in the form of oxygen for us to breathe naturally comes out of a plant.</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1"> She is able to allow the processes to express it naturally. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1" style="color: #800080;"><strong>Perhaps in order for you to receive more love in this lifetime or in this year or in this day, maybe you have to let go.</strong> </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Comment below, tell me what's coming up for you. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">You can even journal your answers if you'd like or send them to me. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">I'd love to share and talk to you about that.&nbsp;</span></p>
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<p class="p1"><span style="line-height: 1.5;">See you next time. Bye!</span></p>
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<p><strong>Victoria.</strong></p>
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<p><strong>Give yourself the gift of 10 minutes journaling about "what is love" in your opinion.</strong></p>
<div><strong>Go through this article and answer the questions, such as: "What is love to you? Why do you want love? How do you recognize healthy love?"</strong></div>
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