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					<description><![CDATA[<p>Do you think that you're not good enough? Thought that you'd be further ahead in life than you are right now? Going through a difficult time of arguments and disagreements? When the going gets tough, our knee-jerk reaction can often be to think "why me?" or "what's wrong with me?" Believe it or not, no [&#8230;]</p>
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<h2><span style="color: #800080;"><em>Do you think that you're not good enough?<br />
</em></span></h2>
<h2><em>Thought that you'd be further ahead in life than you are right now?</em></h2>
<h2><em>Going through a difficult time of arguments and disagreements?<br />
</em></h2>
<p><span style="line-height: 1.5;">When the going gets tough, our knee-jerk reaction can often be to think "why me?" or "what's wrong with me?"<br />
</span></p>
<p><span style="line-height: 1.5;">Believe it or not, no matter how ugly it gets, Source says you need to remember that it's not about "me", instead it's about "we".</span></p>
<p><span style="line-height: 1.5;"><br />
</span><span style="color: #008080;"><strong>Watch this week's 9-minute Love Letter video to find the courage to be compassionate!</strong></span></p>
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<p style="text-align: right;"><em><span style="color: #800080;"><b>"What is wrong with me?"</b></span></em></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">This week, you must know that it is not about you.</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1"><strong>It's not about you. It never has been, it never will be, so from this point forward in time, you have got to stop taking it so seriously.</strong></span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">They told me, be more specific. You have got to stop taking him so seriously. You've got to stop taking her and what she does in her life and in her business, so personally, because it's not about you. It never has been, and it never will be.</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span style="color: #800080;"><strong><span class="s1">Now perhaps someone has really been getting under your skin lately, or they've been throwing their anger your way, or getting very emotional, and clogging up your joy with all of their crusty crap.</span></strong></span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Perhaps they talk stuff about you, or hating. (I don't really believe in hating.) But perhaps you feel like you may be getting hated on, or people writing smear stuff about you.</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1"><strong>There's this insidious, internal, pre-programmed response that we have, unfortunately, to these interactions of: </strong></span></p>
<ul>
<li class="p1"><span class="s1"><em>"What did I do to deserve this?"</em></span></li>
<li class="p1"><span class="s1"><em>"What's wrong with me, that I can't get ahead, like so-and-so?"</em></span></li>
<li class="p1"><span class="s1"><em>"What's wrong with me, that I am not married, yet?"</em></span></li>
<li class="p1"><span class="s1"><em>"What's wrong with me, that I can't have kids?"</em></span></li>
<li class="p1"><span class="s1"><em>"What's wrong with me, that I'm not financially stable?"</em></span></li>
</ul>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1" style="color: #800080;"><strong>Our ego turns us in on ourselves, because she's actually trying to protect you from stepping out when you're feeling vulnerable.</strong></span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">The reason why she brings you inward, blaming inward, <em>"What's wrong with me? There's something wrong with me,"</em> taking everything outside of us, personally or very seriously, turning it inward, is a way, a shadow way, a dark way of centering you. Let me explain.</span></p>
<p class="p1"><strong><span class="s1">It's never been about you. Someone says, <em>"You're doing this and the other thing, and I can't believe that this ..."</em> They're throwing all that drama around and on you. That's actually them and their stuff.</span></strong></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">If someone comments on your posts, and craps all over your sunshine parade, that is their problem. It's nothing that you did.</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1" style="color: #800080;"><strong>Maybe you did drop the ball. I just heard in the energy, perhaps you might have said something offensive, etc., but everyone chooses how to react, and how to respond to life.</strong></span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">That's their choice. It's on them. </span><span class="s1">You don't have to take responsibility for how they feel.</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">You do need to own up to who you are and how you show up in this world, absolutely. Clean it up, if you made a mess. That's your mess, but you made that.</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Whereas, if someone else makes a mess and starts blabbing about it or spewing all over you about it, that's their stuff.</span></p>
<p class="p1"><strong><span class="s1">I really don't know why the guides are having me say this in particular, this week. I know that I'm talking to someone, so I'm going to keep going with it, but this week, it's not about you.</span></strong></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Your business, by the way, if you're an entrepreneur, and you're thinking to yourself:</span></p>
<ul>
<li class="p1"><em><span class="s1">"Why aren't I doing any better?"</span></em></li>
<li class="p1"><em><span class="s1">"Maybe I need to implement more, work harder."</span></em></li>
<li class="p1"><em><span class="s1">"Why don't people like me?"</span></em></li>
<li class="p1"><em><span class="s1">"Why isn't so-and-so buying in?"</span></em></li>
</ul>
<p><span class="s1" style="color: #800080;"><strong>It's not about you. Come out of the ego cave and cage.</strong></span></p>
<p><span class="s1">The shadow side of centering is reinforcing an identity, so that you can feel and create a sense of stability in your personal ... no, put it that way. The ego she'll bring you in, and be like, something that I did.</span></p>
<p><span class="s1"><strong>Whereas, this is about me, or what's wrong with me? Come out of that cave. There's more outside.</strong></span></p>
<p><span class="s1">Instead, to flip that, where we're feeling not good enough, it's time to give more. There's so much more love, so much more value, so much more creativity and insight that you're capable of giving. It's about serving.</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1" style="color: #800080;"><strong>Tony Robins, I love his quote. <em>"The secret to living is giving absolutely."</em> That's the way to come out of an ego cave.</strong></span></p>
<p class="p1"><img decoding="async" class="aligncenter wp-image-2049 size-full" src="https://victoriawhitfield.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/11/TWEETOFTHEWEEK.png" alt="TWEETOFTHEWEEK" width="462" height="86" srcset="https://victoriawhitfield.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/11/TWEETOFTHEWEEK.png 462w, https://victoriawhitfield.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/11/TWEETOFTHEWEEK-300x56.png 300w, https://victoriawhitfield.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/11/TWEETOFTHEWEEK-460x86.png 460w" sizes="(max-width: 462px) 100vw, 462px" /></p>
<h2 class="p1"><a href="http://ctt.ec/eX0cm"><strong><span class="s1">Know this: </span></strong><strong><span class="s1">If you're not feeling "good enough," then give more to those less fortunate. Focus on WE, not me.</span></strong></a></h2>
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<p class="p1"><span class="s1">The guides are telling me to pull an Oracle card now. The deck that came forward in this week, is the crystal Oracle cards, in particular, to really weigh in on the topic of this situation.</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">It's really not about you. It's not about me. It's we. This week, in particular.</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1"><strong>Someone just said, pull this card. Amber.</strong></span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Look at how gorgeous. I love this deck, because it's all pictures. Juicy, juicy amber shot. They're telling me to read.</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span style="color: #800080;"><strong><span class="s1">The words that they've associated with Amber are transparency, calm, purification, and creativity. Here's the reading: <em>"An issue that is causing tension and friction in your life will soon erupt and come to a head."</em></span></strong></span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">I'm starting to get the chills. <em>"You are being urged to stay calm during this emotionally-charged event. Express how you feel, but don't be drawn into saying things that you don't mean. This event is, in fact, a blessing. One that is perhaps well overdue."</em></span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">You can't make this stuff up, people. This is amazing.</span></p>
<p class="p1"><em><span class="s1">"Through it, you will realize where you stand, and how others truly feel. As the air clears, you will uncover a hidden agenda and find creative ways of handling this type of situation in the future. Stay calm, and don't allow yourself to be dragged further into chaos by others. You will emerge from this situation, feeling purified of all the negative emotions and thoughts that have weighted you down recently. Trust and remember it. This event is a blessing."</span></em></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Here's where we're going to leave off.</span></p>
<p class="p1"><strong><span class="s1">Whatever disagreement, argument, or provocative conversation you are about to have this week, remember, it's not about me. This is about we.</span></strong></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Look for the lesson. There's always a dark gift, especially in difficult situations. They always teach us.</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span style="color: #800080;"><strong><span class="s1">Keep your eyes open for the gift. </span></strong><span class="s1"><strong>Stay focused on the we. Don't be pulled into that ego cave.</strong></span></span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Send me an email back. Comment below. Let me know what's coming up for you around this.</span></p>
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<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Sending you so much love. I'll see you next week. Bye.</span></p>
<p class="p1"><strong style="line-height: 1.5;">In Love and Light,</strong></p>
<p><strong>Victoria.</strong></p>
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<p><strong style="line-height: 1.5;"><strong>See the difference and disagreement from a third party perspective, considering the pros and cons of the opinions of everyone involved.</strong></strong></p>
<p><strong><em>Notice how you feel at that moment - you're already healing!</em></strong></p>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p>Rushing from one thing to the next more often than not these days? Been feeling confused, lacking clarity and unsure what you want? Stressed out because there's never enough hours in the day? It can be hard to feel grounded and clear when you're always on the go. Perhaps it's time to deliberately slow down [&#8230;]</p>
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<h2><span style="color: #800080;"><em>Rushing from one thing to the next more often than not these days?</em></span></h2>
<h2><em>Been feeling confused, lacking clarity and unsure what you want?</em></h2>
<h2><em>Stressed out because there's never enough hours in the day?</em></h2>
<p><span style="line-height: 1.5;">It can be hard to feel grounded and clear when you're always on the go.</span></p>
<p><span style="line-height: 1.5;">Perhaps it's time to deliberately slow down and do less, better.</span></p>
<p><span style="color: #008080;"><strong>Watch this week's 6-minute Love Letter video to learn how to pause and be in your power, naturally.</strong></span></p>
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<p style="text-align: right;"><em><span style="color: #800080;"><b>"I have to keep going. I have to keep up!"</b></span></em></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">This week, Source wants you to pause powerfully.</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1"><strong>Maybe lately you've been rushing to get things done, or felt this sense of <em>"I have to keep up and push out."</em> To really show others that you're moving at their pace with them.</strong></span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Perhaps, your mind has been racing and going through some confusion, not exactly sure how you're feeling, right?</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1" style="color: #800080;"><strong>What you need to do, Source is saying, is pause but pause powerfully. There is no rush.</strong></span></p>
<p class="p1">This week in particular. I don't know what is going to come up for you, but this is what's coming through. It's important that you take your time and give yourself the permission to take your time and pause.</p>
<p class="p1"><strong>You are brilliant, you have so much to offer. You know exactly what you want in this moment. In order for you to access your inner power and your inner knowing, that solar plexus confidence, you need to pause powerfully.</strong></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">When you take your time and you allow yourself to take your time, you actually ground, so pausing powerfully is actually a grounding practice. It is a communication and mental energy based form of grounding. When we pause and give ourselves pause in communication, there's space. Healing, conscious space, that gathers in that temporal moment, right?</span></p>
<p class="p1"><img decoding="async" class="aligncenter wp-image-2049 size-full" src="https://victoriawhitfield.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/11/TWEETOFTHEWEEK.png" alt="TWEETOFTHEWEEK" width="462" height="86" srcset="https://victoriawhitfield.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/11/TWEETOFTHEWEEK.png 462w, https://victoriawhitfield.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/11/TWEETOFTHEWEEK-300x56.png 300w, https://victoriawhitfield.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/11/TWEETOFTHEWEEK-460x86.png 460w" sizes="(max-width: 462px) 100vw, 462px" /></p>
<h2 class="p1"><a href="http://ctt.ec/RagXA"><strong><span class="s1">Know this: When we intentionally pause during communication, a healing, conscious space gathers in that moment @SenseiWhitfield</span></strong></a></h2>
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<p class="p1"><span class="s1">It allows for your energy to reground herself and gather. Perhaps in a more mundane sense, you're gathering your thoughts when you pause, or composing yourself when you pause.</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span style="color: #800080;"><strong><span class="s1">All of that has to do with grounding, and having an integrated grounding practice is the foundation of spiritual health and wellness, of inner confidence, shine and sense of ease and grace.</span></strong></span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">I'm hearing the oracle cards calling in the energy now. Goddess Guidance, is the deck that shone to say we would love to offer a little bit more guidance around pausing powerfully.</span></p>
<p class="p1"><em><strong><span class="s1">Angels, Goddess, what do we need to know this week in particular about pausing powerfully?</span></strong></em></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Woo, you're going to love this!</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1" style="color: #800080;"><strong>Aphrodite, Inner Goddess, yes, absolutely!</strong></span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1"><em>"Awaken the goddess within you through dance, self care and appreciating your divinity. Pausing powerfully respects your innate spiritual sense, your innate divinity."</em></span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">It honors yourself, because we're centering and grounding our energy by pausing, powerfully though.</span></p>
<p class="p1"><strong><span class="s1">We're not holding back, but instead taking a moment to appreciate perhaps your surroundings, to acknowledge how you feel inwardly. To just acknowledge the stress or acknowledge the rush or anxiety. Acknowledge it, and from there respond rather than reacting. Constantly putting out fires, right?</span></strong></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">This is not your inner goddess presence. I mean this for men, too. The goddess in all beings, whether masculine or feminine, the goddess represents flow, nature, organic, creativity, ease, sensuality, innovation, growth, incubation and birthing, right? This is our inner goddess energy. Yes guys, you too, and women, absolutely.</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span style="color: #800080;"><strong><span class="s1">It's about honoring yourself and making space for self care, specifically this week by pausing powerfully, all right?</span></strong></span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Comment below, send me an email back. What's coming up for you around this topic in particular? I'm curious to hear. Make sure that you subscribe on YouTube so that you get your Love Letters first every week, all right? I'll see you next time. Ready for it?</span></p>
<p><strong style="line-height: 1.5;">In Love and Light,</strong></p>
<p><strong>Victoria.</strong></p>
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<p><strong><em>Just for Today...</em></strong></p>
<p><strong>Intentionally pause to take a moment to acknowledge and appreciate yourself or your environment while you are talking about something to someone.</strong></p>
<p><strong>Visualize healing energy filling the space at that pause creates.</strong></p>
<div><strong><em>Notice how you feel at that moment - you're already healing!</em></strong></div>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p>Secretly mad about something? Hiding how pissed off you are to appear "polite" and not rock the boat? Tired of putting on a happy face for everyone? From an early age, most of us are taught that our anger is wrong, bad and should be tamped down. So we hide that fiery energy in our [&#8230;]</p>
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<h2><span style="color: #800080;"><em>Secretly mad about something?</em></span></h2>
<h2><em>Hiding how pissed off you are to appear "polite" and not rock the boat?</em></h2>
<h2><em>Tired of putting on a happy face for everyone?<br />
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<p><span style="line-height: 1.5;">From an early age, most of us are taught that our anger is wrong, bad and should be tamped down.<br />
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<p>So we hide that fiery energy in our minds and bodies and this can lead to dis-eases of many kinds.</p>
<p><span style="color: #008080;"><strong>Watch this week's 11-minute Love Letter video to learn how to honor your anger in a healthy way!</strong></span></p>
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<p style="text-align: right;"><em><span style="color: #800080;"><b>"I feel so blocked. I don't know what the problem is."</b></span></em></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">This week it's important for you to honor your anger. Honor your anger.</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1"><strong>Now you may be watching this and be the most happy and positive person you know. I'm sure you're just like me where you love to spread sunshine and positive energy and because of that there's nothing wrong, right?</strong></span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">No one ever makes you angry. In fact, I bet you can't even remember the last time you were actually angry or even showed any anger. 😉</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">How hard do you smile when you do share your smile? Is it like this or are you sharing your joy with ease?</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1" style="color: #800080;"><strong>Are you pushing that sunshine and positive energy out of you? Or is it naturally flowing out with a sense of ease, abundance and just spilling out of you? Or could we be pushing?</strong></span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">If you feel like you're pushing to be positive, keep listening because rather than being the happiest person you know you just might be the angriest person you know.</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1"><strong>Get this. Did you know that most highly sensitive individuals, those who are energy workers, healers, body workers, people who have a servant's heart and are really here for a healing purpose are in fact the angriest persons on the planet? They're the angriest people.</strong></span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Yes, really. Zen master that you see doing her yoga Zen thing or his yoga Zen thing actually is pretty darn angry.</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">It's interesting because that intense fire energy is what motivates the person to give so much. It motivates us, you, to be that change that you wish to see in the world, to really want to clean up and have the nice house that's all put together and everything where it's supposed to be.</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">It's that fire energy that motivates you to get to the gym everyday or to get into your yoga practice everyday. It's that fire energy of anger filling up your empathic sense and you think it's other people's negativity but I'm here to tell you, you actually need to honor your anger.</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span style="color: #800080;"><strong><span class="s1">There's nothing wrong with anger. In fact anger is quite beautiful, just like fire.</span></strong></span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Now, you can have in a fireplace the ability to admire the fire safely and have it warm your environment and really bring more of a sense of beauty and sensuality to your space. That fire energy, just oh my god, I love fireplaces, they're so sensual. It's wonderful, right?</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">So grounding or you could have it spread in her own divine feminine way consuming everything in her path destructively such as a forest fire where oh crap&nbsp;or the house is caught on fire because of one little thing, one little trigger and she just starts consuming all of the fuel that confirms her anger energy and just explodes out or perhaps if there's enough fuel.</span></p>
<p class="p1"><strong><span class="s1">Be kind to yourself. It's time to honor your anger and see the beauty in her.</span></strong></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Now as I'm talking to you, you're like this love letter is totally not for me. Hold on a second.</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1" style="color: #800080;"><strong>Anger that is not honored can show up in sneaky ways and we cover these ways in many different love letters but in particular we're talking about anger this week but it's suppressed energy.</strong></span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Suppressed energy can affect your sexual libido, can give you achy joints, neck, jaw, head and eye tension, tensed pelvis, let's see, what else? We're just going to go down the list.</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1"><strong>Water retention, excess weight holding, insatiable appetite. We just keep eating and for some reason we're not getting built. Repressed anger energy can also come up as feeling blocked or confused, craving a sense of clarity that we just can't seem to get.</strong></span></p>
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<h2 class="p1"><a href="http://ctt.ec/G9QNJ"><strong><span class="s1">Know this:&nbsp;Anger that is not honored can manifest in sneaky ways, such as inflammation, aches, apathy and confusion.</span></strong></a></h2>
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<p class="p1"><span class="s1">I'm just really trying to clarify my message but I can't quite get to it because I'm blocked. No, actually, you have some anger in you to release.</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">This week in particular, it's time for you to honor your anger.</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1" style="color: #800080;"><strong>Now the oracle cards are coming in the energy. It's the Indigo Angel Oracle cards deck.</strong></span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">This is actually a really great oracle cards deck for working through our anger.</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1"><strong>I just saw the image in the energy of an iceberg and this is how engaging your anger works.</strong></span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">You may think you've gotten to it. Like I'm mad about this but there's a whole … like the little iceberg on top, the split image and then the big, big cavernous iceberg underneath the water.&nbsp;</span><span class="s1">There's layers and layers and layers of anger energy that you can release.</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Trust. </span>And they're telling me to read.</p>
<p class="p1"><strong>The trust card comes up.</strong></p>
<p class="p1">Oh boy, I could feel someone on the other side of the screen being like, <em>"oh God, what are we going to find out now."</em> Take a deep breath in and exhale.</p>
<p class="p1"><span style="color: #000000;"><em>This card asks you to trust that there's a purpose to life right now. The guy just saying that there's a purpose to your anger.&nbsp;<span class="s1">Keep faith that the chaos you see around you has an underlying meaning and divine design. When times are hard, naturally sensitive people can feel that the world has been orchestrated to work against them and that nothing is fair. The truth is that your viewpoint has not yet expanded enough to put your problems into perspective. As you age, you'll see that what seems overwhelming and unbearable now is only a minor hitch.&nbsp;</span><span class="s1">Trust that there's so much more out there including magical experiences for you available to you right now. You will see how balanced the world has the potential to be when you look for them. Take this card as a reminder to persevere, stay strong and believe in yourself because the world needs you more than you may know.</span></em></span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">And here's where we'll end.</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1" style="color: #800080;"><strong>The gift of your anger, just like fire, is that it brings light to the world.</strong></span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Do you ever notice that when you really honor your anger and confront it, stand in it, you're so clear about what you're mad about? Magically and your body generates clear sensations and feelings to expel and express that anger. You need to trust that that is actually for your positive gain and that your anger is not something that is inherently bad.</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1"><strong>In the past you've been told that being angry is bad. It's not what good boys do and it's certainly unladylike to be angry. It's natural.</strong></span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">You see it out in the wild and animals all the time, they process through that ferocity, ferociousness, right, and allow it to move right through them but do they stay in that or like suck it in? No, they express and they use it to break through whatever is in their way. Some healthy ways to express your anger include exercise or screaming in your car with the windows closed by yourself as you drive, writing it out, drawing, tearing up pieces of newspaper that belong to you.</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1" style="color: #800080;"><strong>Post below what are some examples of ways that you process your angry in a healthy way.</strong></span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Do you go to a kickboxing or an MMA class? Do you dance it out? Share how you process that fire energy that you naturally have so that as a tribe we can come together and let it go. Okay?</span></p>
<p class="p1"><strong><span class="s1">I'm sending you so much love, subscribe on YouTube so that you get your love letters first every week and I'll see you next time. Bye. Happy angering.</span></strong></p>
<p style="text-align: left;"><strong style="line-height: 1.5;">In Love and Light,</strong></p>
<p><strong>Victoria.</strong></p>
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<p><strong>Honor your anger by engaging Her in a healthy way.</strong></p>
<p><strong>Dance, run or scream it off, tear up old papers and magazines, or take a kickboxing class.</strong></p>
<p><strong><em>Notice how you feel at that moment - you're already healing!</em></strong></p>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p>Have you been secretly feeling down and depressed lately? Feeling like you've lost the joy you once had, or wish you had more? Think that joy and feelings are irrelevant to your work? Keeping up with the demands of professional life -- or "adulting" as I call it -- can really drain your joy sometimes. [&#8230;]</p>
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<h2><span style="color: #800080;"><em>Have you been secretly feeling down and depressed lately?</em></span></h2>
<h2><em>Feeling like you've lost the joy you once had, or wish you had more?</em></h2>
<h2><em>Think that joy and feelings are irrelevant to your work?</em></h2>
<p>Keeping up with the demands of professional life -- or "adulting" as I call it -- can really drain your joy sometimes.</p>
<div>Yes we have responsibilities, and yes it gets monotonous, but deep down, you know that right now there's more to life than being dull and grey.</div>
<p><span style="color: #008080;"><strong>Watch this week's 7-minute Love Letter video to find out the power of joy and how to rekindle yours!</strong></span></p>
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<p style="text-align: right;"><em><span style="color: #800080;"><b>"Today I want to do something that brings me joy."</b></span></em></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Source wants you to know, this week in particular, that your joy is sacred.</span></p>
<p class="p1"><strong><span class="s1">Your joy, your happiness, your peace, how you feel, is sacred.</span></strong></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">One of the most common things that I say here to all my students at the Dojo, is that "what matters most is how you feel"; but your joy in particular is sacred.</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">In the energy I'm seeing that in a previous video, we had covered that your joy is actually a way of protecting yourself. It's your vortex, right?</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span style="color: #800080;"><strong><span class="s1">Being in your vortex keeps you energized -- and you're in it when you're feeling good.</span></strong></span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">When you're feeling joyful, it also keeps you open to new solutions and strategies for solving different issues that come through your life; also it does protect your heart and it protects your energy.</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">It's especially helpful&nbsp;when you're out in the world interacting with others, because sometimes news and things or issues at work can come up, or your family members or teammates may be having a challenge.</span></p>
<p class="p1"><strong><span class="s1">Your joy is sacred for protecting you from absorbing any of the healing journeys that they're on. Did you know that?</span></strong></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Joy is such a powerful thing to connect to, and especially when we are post-school-age.</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">So to all my students who are "studenting", awesome; but for those who are post being in school and you're now "adulting", as opposed to just "studenting" in your life right now, joy can become smaller and smaller and lesser and lesser.</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">The more we "adult" the more we get serious or monotonous, the more we curb our enthusiasm for life.</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">I'm using "adult"&nbsp;as a verb on purpose -- I was an English Major in college, so to all my grammarians out there, I know you're cringing, but I know what I'm doing, here ;).</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Let me be direct with you --</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span style="color: #800080;"><strong><span class="s1">What happened to your joy?</span></strong></span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">What happened to the things that made you come alive and inspired you, and made you want to be "frisky", as Abraham Hicks says, made you want to be mischievous or fun, sexy and silly?</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">What happened to your joy?</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">It energized you. It moved mountains in life so many times. When you've been joyful time flew and synchronicities came together, right?</span></p>
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<h2 class="p1"><strong><span class="s1">Know this:&nbsp;<a href="http://ctt.ec/1eKna">Your #joy is #sacred. This week start each day by #visualizing things that bring you joy. @SenseiWhitfield</a></span></strong></h2>
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<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Your joy is sacred.</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span style="color: #800080;"><strong><span class="s1">Source in particular this week wants you to know that you joy is sacred, though, because it is contagious.</span></strong></span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Your joy is contagious.</span></p>
<p class="p1"><strong><span style="color: #333333;"><span class="s1">God, Goddess,&nbsp;the Holy Spirit, Source consciousness, the human spirit and human potential that is around us and within us desires for more joy and more happiness to be on the planet -- and i</span></span><span class="s1">t's got to start with you.</span></strong></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Your joy is sacred because you're the only one who can access it for you.</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">I'm hearing the Oracle cards calling in the energy on this, but it's important that in this week, you prioritize first and foremost that&nbsp;<em>"Today I want to do something that brings me joy."</em></span></p>
<p class="p1"><span style="color: #800080;"><strong><span class="s1">I want to hear in the comments what brings you joy.</span></strong></span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">You know me. I love bubbles, I love dancing, I love rainbows, glitter and emojis. Shiny things and playfulness. Those bring me joy.</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1"><strong>These things bring me joy and light me up, and it's because of my joy practice that I have so much energy.</strong></span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">What I want to hear from you is how do you generate joy in your life?</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">What makes you joy-filled?</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span style="color: #333333;"><span class="s1">We're using the <em>Healing with the Fairies</em>&nbsp;oracle cards deck by Doreen Virtue.</span></span></p>
<p class="p1"><span style="color: #333333;"><span class="s1">Let's ask: <em>"Fairies, what do we need to know right now about our joy?"</em></span></span></p>
<p class="p1"><span style="color: #333333;"><span class="s1"><strong>Visualization.</strong></span></span></p>
<p class="p1"><span style="color: #333333;"><span class="s1">This is where we'll leave off for the week.</span></span></p>
<p class="p1">Your joy is sacred, and it's important that you visualize things that bring you joy.</p>
<p class="p1">I just heard it loud in the energy, like they yelled it in my ear --</p>
<p class="p1"><strong>Mindset. There's negative thoughts.</strong></p>
<p class="p1">We've been beating ourselves up with the same old crusty&nbsp;self-doubt and worry, etc. patterns that we keep pummeling ourselves with in our minds.</p>
<p class="p1"><span style="color: #800080;"><strong>This week in particular, I double-dog-dare you&nbsp;to&nbsp;visualize once a day something that brings you so much joy.</strong></span></p>
<p class="p1">Try it at the beginning of the day because it'll set the tone for the day for more joy.</p>
<p class="p1">You will see how it will attract more joy throughout the day.</p>
<p class="p1"><strong><span class="s1">Comment below, post back, let me know how it goes, what did you find, and make sure you <a href="https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCHybBbWcVx_IAKX0DXF70SQ">subscribe on YouTube</a> so that you get your weekly love letters first.</span></strong></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">I'm sending you so much love. I believe in you, and I'm sending you joyful energy. Bye. See you next week.</span></p>
<p class="p1"><strong style="line-height: 1.5;">In Love and Light,</strong></p>
<p><strong>Victoria.</strong></p>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p>Do you think that you're not good enough? Thought that you'd be further ahead in life than you are right now? Going through a difficult time of arguments and disagreements? When the going gets tough, our knee-jerk reaction can often be to think "why me?" or "what's wrong with me?" Believe it or not, no [&#8230;]</p>
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<h2><span style="color: #800080;"><em>Do you think that you're not good enough?<br />
</em></span></h2>
<h2><em>Thought that you'd be further ahead in life than you are right now?</em></h2>
<h2><em>Going through a difficult time of arguments and disagreements?<br />
</em></h2>
<p><span style="line-height: 1.5;">When the going gets tough, our knee-jerk reaction can often be to think "why me?" or "what's wrong with me?"<br />
</span></p>
<p><span style="line-height: 1.5;">Believe it or not, no matter how ugly it gets, Source says you need to remember that it's not about "me", instead it's about "we".</span></p>
<p><span style="line-height: 1.5;"><br />
</span><span style="color: #008080;"><strong>Watch this week's 9-minute Love Letter video to find the courage to be compassionate!<br />
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<p style="text-align: right;"><em><span style="color: #800080;"><b>"<em>What is wrong with me?</em>"</b></span></em></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">This week, you must know that it is not about you. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1"><strong>It's not about you. It never has been, it never will be, so from this point forward in time, you have got to stop taking it so seriously.</strong> </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">They told me, be more specific. You have got to stop taking him so seriously. You've got to stop taking her and what she does in her life and in her business, so personally, because it's not about you. It never has been, and it never will be. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span style="color: #800080;"><strong><span class="s1">Now perhaps someone has really been getting under your skin lately, or they've been throwing their anger your way, or getting very emotional, and clogging up your joy with all of their crusty crap.</span></strong></span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Perhaps they talk stuff about you, or hating. (I don't really believe in hating.) But perhaps you feel like you may be getting hated on, or people writing smear stuff about you. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1"><strong>There's this insidious, internal, pre-programmed response that we have, unfortunately, to these interactions of:&nbsp;</strong></span></p>
<ul>
<li style="list-style-type: none;">
<ul>
<li class="p1"><span class="s1"><em>"What did I do to deserve this?"</em></span></li>
</ul>
</li>
</ul>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<ul>
<li style="list-style-type: none;">
<ul>
<li class="p1"><span class="s1"><em>"What's wrong with me, that I can't get ahead, like so-and-so?" </em></span></li>
</ul>
</li>
</ul>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<ul>
<li style="list-style-type: none;">
<ul>
<li class="p1"><span class="s1"><em>"What's wrong with me, that I am not married, yet?"</em></span></li>
</ul>
</li>
</ul>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<ul>
<li style="list-style-type: none;">
<ul>
<li class="p1"><span class="s1"><em>"What's wrong with me, that I can't have kids?"</em></span></li>
</ul>
</li>
</ul>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<ul>
<li class="p1"><span class="s1"><em>"What's wrong with me, that I'm not financially stable?"</em></span></li>
</ul>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1" style="color: #800080;"><strong>Our ego turns us in on ourselves, because she's actually trying to protect you from stepping out when you're feeling vulnerable.</strong> </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">The reason why she brings you inward, blaming inward, <em>"What's wrong with me? There's something wrong with me,"</em> taking everything outside of us, personally or very seriously, turning it inward, is a way, a shadow way, a dark way of centering you. Let me explain. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><strong><span class="s1">It's never been about you. Someone says, <em>"You're doing this and the other thing, and I can't believe that this ..."</em> They're throwing all that drama around and on you. That's actually them and their stuff.</span></strong></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">If someone comments on your posts, and craps all over your sunshine parade, that is their problem. It's nothing that you did. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1" style="color: #800080;"><strong>Maybe you did drop the ball. I just heard in the energy, perhaps you might have said something offensive, etc., but everyone chooses how to react, and how to respond to life.</strong> </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">That's their choice. It's on them. </span><span class="s1">You don't have to take responsibility for how they feel. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">You do need to own up to who you are and how you show up in this world, absolutely. Clean it up, if you made a mess. That's your mess, but you made that. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Whereas, if someone else makes a mess and starts blabbing about it or spewing all over you about it, that's their stuff. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><strong><span class="s1">I really don't know why the guides are having me say this in particular, this week. I know that I'm talking to someone, so I'm going to keep going with it, but this week, it's not about you.</span></strong></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Your business, by the way, if you're an entrepreneur, and you're thinking to yourself:</span></p>
<ul>
<li style="list-style-type: none;">
<ul>
<li class="p1"><em><span class="s1">"Why aren't I doing any better?"</span></em></li>
</ul>
</li>
</ul>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<ul>
<li style="list-style-type: none;">
<ul>
<li class="p1"><em><span class="s1">"Maybe I need to implement more, work harder."</span></em></li>
</ul>
</li>
</ul>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<ul>
<li style="list-style-type: none;">
<ul>
<li class="p1"><em><span class="s1">"Why don't people like me?"</span></em></li>
</ul>
</li>
</ul>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<ul>
<li class="p1"><em><span class="s1">"Why isn't so-and-so buying in?" </span></em></li>
</ul>
<p><span class="s1" style="color: #800080;"><strong>It's not about you. Come out of the ego cave and cage.</strong> </span></p>
<p><span class="s1">The shadow side of centering is reinforcing an&nbsp;identity, so that you can feel and create a sense of stability in your personal ... no, put it that way. The ego she'll&nbsp;bring you in, and be like, something that I did. </span></p>
<p><span class="s1"><strong>Whereas, this is about me, or what's wrong with me? Come out of that cave. There's more outside.</strong> </span></p>
<p><span class="s1">Instead, to flip that, where we're feeling not good enough, it's time to give more. There's so much more love, so much more value, so much more creativity and insight that you're capable of giving. It's about serving.</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1" style="color: #800080;"><strong>Tony Robins, I love his quote. <em>"The secret to living is giving absolutely."</em> That's the way to come out of an ego cave.</strong> </span></p>
<p class="p1"><img decoding="async" class="aligncenter wp-image-2049 size-full" src="https://victoriawhitfield.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/11/TWEETOFTHEWEEK.png" alt="TWEETOFTHEWEEK" width="462" height="86" srcset="https://victoriawhitfield.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/11/TWEETOFTHEWEEK.png 462w, https://victoriawhitfield.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/11/TWEETOFTHEWEEK-300x56.png 300w, https://victoriawhitfield.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/11/TWEETOFTHEWEEK-460x86.png 460w" sizes="(max-width: 462px) 100vw, 462px" /></p>
<h2 class="p1"><a href="http://ctt.ec/70JpV"><strong><span class="s1">Know this: If you're not feeling "good enough," then give more to those less fortunate. Focus on WE, not me.</span></strong></a></h2>
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<p class="p1"><span class="s1">The guides are telling me to pull an Oracle card now. The deck that came forward in this week, is the crystal Oracle cards, in particular, to really weigh in on the topic of this situation. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">It's really not about you. It's not about me. It's we. This week, in particular. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1"><strong>Someone just said, pull this card. Amber.</strong> </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Look at how gorgeous. I love this deck, because it's all pictures. Juicy, juicy amber shot. They're telling me to read.</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span style="color: #800080;"><strong><span class="s1">The words that they've associated with Amber are transparency, calm, purification, and creativity. Here's the reading: <em>"An issue that is causing tension and friction in your life will soon erupt and come to a head."</em></span></strong></span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">I'm starting to get the chills. <em>"You are being urged to stay calm during this emotionally-charged event. Express how you feel, but don't be drawn into saying things that you don't mean. This event is, in fact, a blessing. One that is perhaps well overdue."</em> </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">You can't make this stuff up, people. This is amazing. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><em><span class="s1">"Through it, you will realize where you stand, and how others truly feel. As the air clears, you will uncover a hidden agenda and find creative ways of handling this type of situation in the future. Stay calm, and don't allow yourself to be dragged further into chaos by others. You will emerge from this situation, feeling purified of all the negative emotions and thoughts that have weighted you down recently. Trust and remember it. This event is a blessing."</span></em></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Here's where we're going to leave off. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><strong><span class="s1">Whatever disagreement, argument, or provocative conversation you are about to have this week, remember, it's not about me. This is about we. </span></strong></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Look for the lesson. There's always a dark gift, especially in difficult situations. They always teach us.</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span style="color: #800080;"><strong><span class="s1">Keep your eyes open for the gift. </span></strong><span class="s1"><strong>Stay focused on the we. Don't be pulled into that ego cave.</strong> </span></span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Send me an email back. Comment below. Let me know what's coming up for you around this. </span></p>
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<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Sending you so much love. I'll see you next week. Bye.</span></p>
<p class="p1">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><strong style="line-height: 1.5;">In Love and Light,</strong></p>
<p><strong>Victoria.</strong></p>
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<p><strong><em>Just for Today...</em></strong></p>
<p><strong>Look for the love and learning in a difficult conversation or argument.</strong></p>
<p><strong style="line-height: 1.5;"><strong>See the difference and disagreement from a third party perspective, considering the pros and cons of the opinions of everyone involved.</strong></strong></p>
<p><strong style="line-height: 1.5;"><em>Notice how you feel at that moment - you're already healing!</em></strong></p>
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<h2><span style="color: #800080;"><em>Not sure if you're making the right decision?<br />
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<h2><em>Having a hard time knowing what you want?<br />
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<h2><em>Annoyed that your goals are not manifesting fast enough?<br />
</em></h2>
<p><span style="line-height: 1.5;">Getting things done is different than getting the right things done, and it all depends on your ability to prioritize.</span></p>
<p>How do you know the difference between what's important and not?</p>
<p><span style="color: #008080;"><strong>Watch this week's 9-minute Love Letter video to learn how to align first before you do anything else, and why you should!</strong></span></p>
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<p style="text-align: right;"><em><span style="color: #800080;"><b>"What are my values?"</b></span></em></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">This week, Source wants you to focus on making sure that you align first. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><strong><span class="s1">Focus on aligning yourself first before you do anything. This can be not only a physical alignment but also an emotional alignment. Mental alignment. As well as a spiritual alignment.</span></strong></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Now it looks different of course, in different realms, but what matters most is how you feel. Especially when you get ready to take any action of some kind or to make a decision then to take any action of some kind.</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1" style="color: #800080;"><strong>Alignment is actually something that we tend to take after the fact. Or, we'll begin out of alignment and then,&nbsp;"I'm out of alignment, let me try to work my way into it", as we're running, for example.</strong> </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">We will just take off on the treadmill, you know whatever, and then you start to feel the different creaks and achy things in your body and you're like: </span></p>
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<li class="p1"><em><span class="s1">"Let me lean slightly forward"</span></em></li>
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<li class="p1"><em><span class="s1">"Let me make sure that I'm going completely through the run on the full part of my foot"</span></em></li>
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<li class="p1"><em><span class="s1">"Let me swing my arms more." </span></em></li>
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<p><strong><span class="s1">All right, so, there is a sense of course correction. Not that there is anything wrong with course correction, it's just that, I'm hearing very strong from the guys to tell you, it takes more energy if you don't align first.</span></strong></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">There's always going to be course correction. It's good, we're in the flow, we're making sure that we're being exactly who we need to be in the moment to moment as we experience what we're doing. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1" style="color: #800080;"><strong>However, it does take a lot of energy. Especially when you start out of alignment.</strong> </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">If you go to dead lift anything you want to be in alignment first before you pick up that weight because you're body, you will be able to better respond to pulling and the adjustments necessary to lift whatever weight you're dead lifting.</span></p>
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<h2 class="p1"><a href="http://ctt.ec/pOtiI"><strong><span class="s1">Know this:&nbsp;Your energetic alignment affects your productivity. #selfcare</span></strong></a></h2>
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<p class="p1"><span class="s1"><strong>That's physical alignment, what about emotional or mental alignment? This has to do with centering.</strong> </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Becoming aware, before you begin, in an emotional alignment, what is your core desired feeling? Danielle LaPorte, The Desire Map, by the way, that book and Danielle is superb! Go get, go follow, go work that book if you really need to know: <em>"well, what are my core desire feelings?" </em></span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1" style="color: #800080;"><strong>That is the feminine way of saying what are your values?</strong> </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Finding your internal emotional alignment and then making sure that you are emotionally clear on where your home space is before you are proceeding forward.</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">In a mental sense, being aligned first, is seeing the vision and knowing what is most important to you. It's being, how do we say, prioritized? Having your priorities straight in a mental construct. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1"><strong>Being clear on who you are and who you are becoming. What you are moving towards is mental alignment. It's important to align first.</strong> </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">This week in particular because Source says you are going to have to make a big decision that is going to stretch you. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1" style="color: #800080;"><strong>If you aren't aligned to your highest vibrational physical, emotional, and mental selves, all together that's spiritual alignment. If you aren't aligned you may miss out on making the best decision.</strong> </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">You may run because you get intimidated by the stretching energy. Stretching is just growing and that's perfectly fine. Be kind to yourself if you are stretching right now. It's a sign of growth.</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1"><strong>I'm hearing in the energy the oracle cards coming for the week.</strong> </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">This week it is the Messenger Oracle cards deck to weigh in on aligning first. It's more of a shamanic earth energy deck. One of many that you could play with if you come here to The Dojo.</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Guides what do we need to know right now about aligning first? Ooh!&nbsp;</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1" style="color: #800080;"><strong>Know you belong.</strong> </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">I love the fairy energy, the magical energy of this card in particular. The guides say read number 19. Okay they're telling me pause, before I even read what this card says they're also saying talk about the meteorological significance of the number 19.</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">One represents individuality, insight, internal energy, mental energy, singularity and being rooted and clear. Stationary. Nine represents moving through because completion has occurred. All right. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">So there is this sense of identity formation and turning of the karmic wheel. Moving on the the next lesson is what 19 represents. You add them together 1+9 is ten. So it's even more, a zero behind anything, like 10, 20, etc, means amplify whatever comes before it. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1"><strong>So, one, this is a very strong identity moment where you are stating who you are, rooting who you are, specifically in your decision this week. It's even more paramount.</strong> </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">I don't even need to read, they're yelling at me, <em>"read the card Victoria"</em>, but, with that it's important to align yourself first before you proceed forward because this is going to be a big week for you stepping out authentically in a whole new way.</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1"><em>"Know you belong. You have place. You have purpose. You are special. Do not change who you are just so others might accept you."</em> </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span style="color: #800080;"><strong><span class="s1">This is amazing. </span></strong><span class="s1"><strong>I don't know who this is for.</strong> </span></span></p>
<p class="p1"><em><span class="s1">"Do not dishonor your truths by allowing someone else to tell you who you must be right now. Change made just so you fit the expectations or social criteria of a clique&nbsp;or group does not honor you. You do not need to change in order to belong. You are a blessed child of Guya and great spirit and belong simply because you are."</span></em></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">There's where we'll leave off. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1"><strong>The guides are saying, you have permission to be just as you are. Accept yourself. Accept her as is.</strong> </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">You belong by default. The real you, the highest version of yourself. Your highest vibration, your healthiest, your brightest energy belongs. It's allowed. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span style="color: #800080;"><strong><span class="s1">Yes you are allowed to be yourself and you have to consciously choose that this week in particular. The way that you'll do it, is by aligning first.</span></strong></span></p>
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<h2><span style="color: #800080;"><em>Secretly mad about something?</em></span></h2>
<h2><em>Hiding how pissed off you are to appear "polite" and not rock the boat?</em></h2>
<h2><em>Tired of putting on a happy face for everyone?<br />
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<p><span style="line-height: 1.5;">From an early age, most of us are taught that our anger is wrong, bad and should be tamped down.<br />
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<p>So we hide that fiery energy in our minds and bodies and this can lead to dis-eases of many kinds.</p>
<p><span style="color: #008080;"><strong>Watch this week's 11-minute Love Letter video to learn how to honor your anger in a healthy way!<br />
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<p style="text-align: right;"><em><span style="color: #800080;"><b>"<em>I feel so blocked. I don't know what the problem is.</em>"</b></span></em></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">This week it's important for you to honor your anger. Honor your anger. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1"><strong>Now you may be watching this and be the most happy and positive person you know. I'm sure you're just like me where you love to spread sunshine and positive energy and because of that there's nothing wrong, right?</strong> </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">No one ever makes you angry. In fact, I bet you can't even remember the last time you were actually angry or even showed any anger. 😉</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">How hard do you smile when you do share your smile? Is it like this or are you sharing your joy with ease? </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1" style="color: #800080;"><strong>Are you pushing that sunshine and positive energy out of you? Or is it naturally flowing out with a sense of ease, abundance and just spilling out of you? Or could we be pushing?</strong> </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">If you feel like you're pushing to be positive, keep listening because rather than being the happiest person you know you just might be the angriest person you know.</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1"><strong>Get this. Did you know that most highly sensitive individuals, those who are energy workers, healers, body workers, people who have a servant's heart and are really here for a healing purpose are in fact the angriest persons on the planet? They're the angriest people.</strong> </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Yes, really. Zen master that you see doing her yoga Zen thing or his yoga Zen thing actually is pretty darn angry.</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">It's interesting because that intense fire energy is what motivates the person to give so much. It motivates us, you, to be that change that you wish to see in the world, to really want to clean up and have the nice house that's all put together and everything where it's supposed to be. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">It's that fire energy that motivates you to get to the gym everyday or to get into your yoga practice everyday. It's that fire energy of anger filling up your empathic sense and you think it's other people's negativity but I'm here to tell you, you actually need to honor your anger. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span style="color: #800080;"><strong><span class="s1">There's nothing wrong with anger. In fact anger is quite beautiful, just like fire.</span></strong></span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Now, you can have in a fireplace the ability to admire the fire safely and have it warm your environment and really bring more of a sense of beauty and sensuality to your space. That fire energy, just oh my god, I love fireplaces, they're so sensual. It's wonderful, right? </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">So grounding or you could have it spread in her own divine feminine way consuming everything in her path destructively such as a forest fire where oh crap&nbsp;or the house is caught on fire because of one little thing, one little trigger and she just starts consuming all of the fuel that confirms her anger energy and just explodes out or perhaps if there's enough fuel. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><strong><span class="s1">Be kind to yourself. It's time to honor your anger and see the beauty in her.</span></strong></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Now as I'm talking to you, you're like this love letter is totally not for me. Hold on a second. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1" style="color: #800080;"><strong>Anger that is not honored can show up in sneaky ways and we cover these ways in many different love letters but in particular we're talking about anger this week but it's suppressed energy. When you want to stop watching porn for example, stop supressing and use systems from <a style="color: #800080; text-decoration: none;" href="http://pornaddiction.co.uk">pornaddiction.co.uk</a>.</strong> </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Suppressed energy can affect your sexual libido, can give you achy joints, neck, jaw, head and eye tension, tensed pelvis, let's see, what else? We're just going to go down the list. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1"><strong>Water retention, excess weight holding, insatiable appetite. We just keep eating and for some reason we're not getting built. Repressed anger energy can also come up as feeling blocked or confused, craving a sense of clarity that we just can't seem to get.</strong> </span></p>
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<h2 class="p1"><a href="http://ctt.ec/S2s86"><strong><span class="s1">Know this:&nbsp;Anger that is not honored can manifest in sneaky ways, such as inflammation, aches, apathy and confusion.</span></strong></a></h2>
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<p class="p1"><span class="s1">I'm just really trying to clarify my message but I can't quite get to it because I'm blocked. No, actually, you have some anger in you to release.</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">This week in particular, it's time for you to honor your anger. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1" style="color: #800080;"><strong>Now the oracle cards are coming in the energy. It's the Indigo Angel Oracle cards deck.</strong> </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">This is actually a really great oracle cards deck for working through our anger. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1"><strong>I just saw the image in the energy of an iceberg and this is how engaging your anger works.</strong> </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">You may think you've gotten to it. Like I'm mad about this but there's a whole … like the little iceberg on top, the split image and then the big, big cavernous iceberg underneath the water.&nbsp;</span><span class="s1">There's layers and layers and layers of anger energy that you can release. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Trust. </span>And they're telling me to read.</p>
<p class="p1"><strong>The trust card comes up.</strong></p>
<p class="p1">Oh boy, I could feel someone on the other side of the screen being like, <em>"oh God, what are we going to find out now."</em> Take a deep breath in and exhale.</p>
<p class="p1"><span style="color: #000000;"><em>This card asks you to trust that there's a purpose to life right now. The guy just saying that there's a purpose to your anger.&nbsp;<span class="s1">Keep faith that the chaos you see around you has an underlying meaning and divine design. When times are hard, naturally sensitive people can feel that the world has been orchestrated to work against them and that nothing is fair. The truth is that your viewpoint has not yet expanded enough to put your problems into perspective. As you age, you'll see that what seems overwhelming and unbearable now is only a minor hitch.&nbsp;</span><span class="s1">Trust that there's so much more out there including magical experiences for you available to you right now. You will see how balanced the world has the potential to be when you look for them. Take this card as a reminder to persevere, stay strong and believe in yourself because the world needs you more than you may know.</span></em></span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">And here's where we'll end.</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1" style="color: #800080;"><strong>The gift of your anger, just like fire, is that it brings light to the world.</strong> </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Do you ever notice that when you really honor your anger and confront it, stand in it, you're so clear about what you're mad about? Magically and your body generates clear sensations and feelings to expel and express that anger. You need to trust that that is actually for your positive gain and that your anger is not something that is inherently bad.</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1"><strong>In the past you've been told that being angry is bad. It's not what good boys do and it's certainly unladylike to be angry. It's natural.</strong> </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">You see it out in the wild and animals all the time, they process through that ferocity, ferociousness, right, and allow it to move right through them but do they stay in that or like suck it in? No, they express and they use it to break through whatever is in their way. Some healthy ways to express your anger include exercise or screaming in your car with the windows closed by yourself as you drive, writing it out, drawing, tearing up pieces of newspaper that belong to you.</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1" style="color: #800080;"><strong>Post below what are some examples of ways that you process your angry in a healthy way.</strong> </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Do you go to a kickboxing or an MMA class? Do you dance it out? Share how you process that fire energy that you naturally have so that as a tribe we can come together and let it go. Okay? </span></p>
<p class="p1"><strong><span class="s1">I'm sending you so much love, subscribe on YouTube so that you get your love letters first every week and I'll see you next time. Bye. Happy angering.</span></strong></p>
<p class="p1"><strong style="line-height: 1.5;">In Love and Light,</strong></p>
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<p><strong><em>Just for Today...</em></strong></p>
<p><strong>Honor your anger by engaging Her in a healthy way. </strong></p>
<p><strong>Dance, run or scream it off, tear up old papers and magazines, or take a kickboxing class.</strong></p>
<p><strong><em>Notice how you feel at that moment - you're already healing!</em></strong></p>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 15 Aug 2016 12:00:21 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p>Rushing from one thing to the next more often than not these days? Been feeling confused, lacking clarity and unsure what you want? Stressed out because there's never enough hours in the day? It can be hard to feel grounded and clear when you're always on the go. Perhaps it's time to deliberately slow down [&#8230;]</p>
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<h2><span style="color: #800080;"><em>Rushing from one thing to the next more often than not these days?<br />
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<h2><em>Been feeling confused, lacking clarity and unsure what you want?</em></h2>
<h2><em>Stressed out because there's never enough hours in the day?</em></h2>
<p><span style="line-height: 1.5;">It can be hard to feel grounded and clear when you're always on the go.</span></p>
<p><span style="line-height: 1.5;">Perhaps it's time to deliberately slow down and do less, better.</span></p>
<p><span style="color: #008080;"><strong>Watch this week's 6-minute Love Letter video to learn how to pause and be in your power, naturally.</strong></span></p>
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<p style="text-align: right;"><em><span style="color: #800080;"><b>"<em>I&nbsp;have to keep going. I have to keep up!</em>"</b></span></em></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">This week, Source wants you to pause powerfully. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1"><strong>Maybe lately you've been rushing to get things done, or felt this sense of <em>"I have to keep up and push out."</em>&nbsp;To really show others that you're moving at their pace with them.</strong> </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Perhaps, your mind has been racing and going through some confusion, not exactly sure how you're feeling, right?</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1" style="color: #800080;"><strong>What you need to do, Source is saying, is pause but pause powerfully. There is no rush.</strong> </span></p>
<p class="p1">This week in particular. I don't know what is going to come up for you, but this is what's coming through. It's important that you take your time and give yourself the permission to take your time and pause.</p>
<p class="p1"><strong>You are brilliant, you have so much to offer. You know exactly what you want in this moment. In order for you to access your inner power and your inner knowing, that solar plexus confidence, you need&nbsp;to pause powerfully.</strong></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">When you take your time and you allow yourself to take your time, you actually ground, so pausing powerfully is actually a grounding practice. It is a communication and mental energy based form of grounding. When we pause and give ourselves pause in communication, there's space. Healing, conscious space, that gathers in that temporal moment, right? </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">It allows for your energy to reground herself and gather. Perhaps in a more mundane sense, you're gathering your thoughts when you pause, or composing yourself when you pause.</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span style="color: #800080;"><strong><span class="s1">All of that has to do with grounding, and having an integrated grounding practice is the foundation of spiritual health and wellness, of inner confidence, shine and sense of ease and grace.</span></strong></span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">I'm hearing the oracle cards calling&nbsp;in the energy now. Goddess Guidance, is the deck that shone to say we would love to offer a little bit more guidance around pausing powerfully. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><em><strong><span class="s1">Angels, Goddess, what do we need to know this week in particular about pausing powerfully?</span></strong></em></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Woo, you're going to love this!</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1" style="color: #800080;"><strong>Aphrodite, Inner Goddess, yes, absolutely!</strong> </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1"><em>"Awaken the goddess within you through dance, self care and appreciating your divinity. Pausing powerfully respects your innate spiritual sense, your innate divinity."</em></span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">It honors yourself, because we're centering and grounding our energy by pausing, powerfully though. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><strong><span class="s1">We're not holding back, but instead taking a moment to appreciate perhaps your surroundings, to acknowledge how you feel inwardly. To just acknowledge the stress or acknowledge the rush or anxiety. Acknowledge it, and from there respond rather than reacting. Constantly putting out fires, right?</span></strong></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">This is not your inner goddess presence. I mean this for men, too. The goddess in all beings, whether masculine or feminine, the goddess represents flow, nature, organic, creativity, ease, sensuality, innovation, growth, incubation and birthing, right? This is our inner goddess energy. Yes guys, you too, and women, absolutely.</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span style="color: #800080;"><strong><span class="s1">It's about honoring yourself and making space for self care, specifically this week by pausing powerfully, all right?</span></strong></span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Comment below, send me an email back. What's coming up for you around this topic in particular? I'm curious to hear. Make sure that you subscribe on YouTube so that you get your Love Letters first every week, all right? I'll see you next time. Ready for it?</span></p>
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<h2 class="p1"><strong><span class="s1">Know this:&nbsp;<a href="http://ctt.ec/j7N89">When we intentionally pause during communication, a healing, conscious space gathers in that moment.</a></span></strong></h2>
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<p class="p1"><strong style="line-height: 1.5;">In Love and Light,</strong></p>
<p><strong>Victoria.</strong></p>
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<p><strong><em>Just for Today...</em></strong></p>
<p><strong>Intentionally pause to take a moment to acknowledge and appreciate yourself or your environment while you are talking about something to someone. </strong></p>
<p><strong>Visualize healing energy filling the space at that pause creates.</strong></p>
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<p><strong><em>Notice how you feel at that moment - you're already healing!</em></strong></p>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 16 May 2016 12:00:23 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p>Have you been secretly feeling down and depressed lately? Feeling like you've lost the joy you once had, or wish you had more? Think that joy and feelings are irrelevant to your work? &#160; Keeping up with the demands of professional life -- or "adulting" as I call it -- can really drain your joy [&#8230;]</p>
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<h2><span style="color: #800080;"><em>Have you been secretly feeling down and depressed lately?</em></span></h2>
<h2><em>Feeling like you've lost the joy you once had, or wish you had more?</em></h2>
<h2><em>Think that joy and feelings are irrelevant to your work?</em></h2>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>Keeping up with the demands of professional life -- or "adulting" as I call it -- can really drain your joy sometimes.</p>
<div>Yes we have responsibilities, and yes it gets monotonous, but deep down, you know that right now there's more to life than being dull and grey.</div>
<p><span style="color: #008080;"><strong>Watch this week's 7-minute Love Letter video to find out the power of joy and how to rekindle yours!</strong></span></p>
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<p style="text-align: right;"><em><span style="color: #800080;"><b>"Today I want to do something that brings me joy."</b></span></em></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Source wants you to know, this week in particular, that your joy is sacred.</span></p>
<p class="p1"><strong><span class="s1"> Your joy, your happiness, your peace, how you feel, is sacred. </span></strong></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">One of the most common things that I say here to all my students at the Dojo, is that "what matters most is how you feel"; but your joy in particular is sacred. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">In the energy I'm seeing that in a previous video, we had covered that your joy is actually a way of protecting yourself. It's your vortex, right? </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span style="color: #800080;"><strong><span class="s1">Being in your vortex keeps you energized -- and you're in it when you're feeling good.</span></strong></span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">When you're feeling joyful, it also keeps you open to new solutions and strategies for solving different issues that come through your life; also it does protect your heart and it protects your energy. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">It's especially helpful&nbsp;when you're out in the world interacting with others, because sometimes news and things or issues at work can come up, or your family members or teammates may be having a challenge. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><strong><span class="s1">Your joy is sacred for protecting you from absorbing any of the healing journeys that they're on. Did you know that?</span></strong></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Joy is such a powerful thing to connect to, and especially when we are post-school-age. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">So to all my students who are "studenting", awesome; but for those who are post being in school and you're now "adulting", as opposed to just "studenting" in your life right now, joy can become smaller and smaller and lesser and lesser. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">The more we "adult" the more we get serious or monotonous, the more we curb our enthusiasm for life.</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1"> I'm using "adult"&nbsp;as a verb on purpose -- I was an English Major in college, so to all my grammarians out there, I know you're cringing, but I know what I'm doing, here ;).</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Let me be direct with you --</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span style="color: #800080;"><strong><span class="s1">What happened to your joy? </span></strong></span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">What happened to the things that made you come alive and inspired you, and made you want to be "frisky", as Abraham Hicks says, made you want to be mischievous or fun, sexy and silly?</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">What happened to your joy? </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">It energized you. It moved mountains in life so many times. When you've been joyful time flew and synchronicities came together, right?</span></p>
<p class="p1"><img decoding="async" class="aligncenter wp-image-2049 size-full" src="https://victoriawhitfield.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/11/TWEETOFTHEWEEK.png" alt="TWEETOFTHEWEEK" width="462" height="86" srcset="https://victoriawhitfield.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/11/TWEETOFTHEWEEK.png 462w, https://victoriawhitfield.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/11/TWEETOFTHEWEEK-300x56.png 300w, https://victoriawhitfield.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/11/TWEETOFTHEWEEK-460x86.png 460w" sizes="(max-width: 462px) 100vw, 462px" /></p>
<h2 class="p1"><strong><span class="s1">Know this:&nbsp;<a href="http://ctt.ec/mwbN5" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">Your #joy is #sacred.&nbsp;</a></span></strong><a href="http://ctt.ec/mwbN5" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer"><span class="s1">This week start each day by #visualizing things that bring you joy @SenseiWhitfield</span></a></h2>
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<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Your joy is sacred. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span style="color: #800080;"><strong><span class="s1">Source in particular this week wants you to know that you joy is sacred, though, because it is contagious. </span></strong></span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Your joy is contagious. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><strong><span style="color: #333333;"><span class="s1">God, Goddess,&nbsp;the Holy Spirit, Source consciousness, the human spirit and human potential that is around us and within us desires for more joy and more happiness to be on the planet -- and i</span></span><span class="s1">t's got to start with you. </span></strong></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Your joy is sacred because you're the only one who can access it for you. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">I'm hearing the Oracle cards calling in the energy on this, but it's important that in this week, you prioritize first and foremost that&nbsp;<em>"Today I want to do something that brings me joy."</em></span></p>
<p class="p1"><span style="color: #800080;"><strong><span class="s1">I want to hear in the comments what brings you joy. </span></strong></span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">You know me. I love bubbles, I love dancing, I love rainbows, glitter and emojis. Shiny things and playfulness. Those bring me joy.</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1"><strong>These things bring me joy and light me up, and it's because of my joy practice that I have so much energy.</strong> </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">What I want to hear from you is how do you generate joy in your life? </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">What makes you joy-filled? </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span style="color: #333333;"><span class="s1">We're using the <em>Healing with the Fairies</em>&nbsp;oracle cards deck by Doreen Virtue. </span></span></p>
<p class="p1"><span style="color: #333333;"><span class="s1">Let's ask: <em>"Fairies, what do we need to know right now about our joy?"</em></span></span></p>
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<p class="p1"><span style="color: #333333;"><span class="s1"><strong>Visualization.</strong> </span></span></p>
<p class="p1"><span style="color: #333333;"><span class="s1">This is where we'll leave off for the week.</span></span></p>
<p class="p1">Your joy is sacred, and it's important that you visualize things that bring you joy.</p>
<p class="p1">I just heard it loud in the energy, like they yelled it in my ear --</p>
<p class="p1"><strong>Mindset. There's negative thoughts. </strong></p>
<p class="p1">We've been beating ourselves up with the same old crusty&nbsp;self-doubt and worry, etc. patterns that we keep pummeling ourselves with in our minds.</p>
<p class="p1"><span style="color: #800080;"><strong>This week in particular, I double-dog-dare you&nbsp;to&nbsp;visualize once a day something that brings you so much joy. </strong></span></p>
<p class="p1">Try it at the beginning of the day because it'll set the tone for the day for more joy.</p>
<p class="p1">You will see how it will attract more joy throughout the day.</p>
<p class="p1"><strong><span class="s1">Comment below, post back, let me know how it goes, what did you find, and make sure you <a href="https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCHybBbWcVx_IAKX0DXF70SQ">subscribe on YouTube</a> so that you get your weekly love letters first. </span></strong></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">I'm sending you so much love. I believe in you, and I'm sending you joyful energy. Bye. See you next week.</span></p>
<p class="p1"><strong style="line-height: 1.5;">In Love and Light,</strong></p>
<p><strong>Victoria.</strong></p>
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<p><strong><em>Just for Today...</em></strong></p>
<p><strong>Mind your mindset, strategically.&nbsp;</strong></p>
<div><strong><strong>When you feel fearful or anxious, decide to actively visualize something that brings you joy.</strong></strong></div>
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<h2><span style="color: #800080;"><em>Stuck in a rut lately?</em></span></h2>
<h2><em>Feeling your creativity is blocked or stifled?</em></h2>
<h2><em>Same old routine producing stale results?</em></h2>
<p>Most people are creatures of habit; to deal with daily stressors we create a sense of comfort through predictability.</p>
<p>That's understandable, but routines can hold us back from achieving new levels of health, wealth and connection in life because they define, and in turn limit, our point of view.</p>
<p><span style="color: #008080;"><strong>Watch this week's 8-minute video to learn a technique for jump starting your perspective and your productivity: pattern interruption!</strong></span></p>
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<p style="text-align: right;"><em><span style="color: #800080;"><b>"<em>I need help getting a fresh point of view.</em>"</b></span></em></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">This week Source spoke to me and said that she would like to send you a holistic stress management technique for the week, and in particular, she wants you to focus on "pattern interruption."</span></p>
<p class="p1"><strong><span class="s1">Pattern interruption -- this is also a lovely Google-ing point if you want to learn more about this technique in particular -- is really great for challenging perceptions and behavioral patterns simply through changing one tiny thing, especially if the thing is environmentally governed.</span></strong></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">In the picture of me right now, do you notice anything that looks slightly different? Is there something different in the room or different about me that you're not exactly used to? </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1" style="color: #800080;"><strong>The pattern interruption that I'm demonstrating to you right now is wearing bright red lipstick.</strong> </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">That can really shift your perspective about what I'm saying or how you feel about listening to me, because I've changed one tiny aspect of an environment that you've been used to:&nbsp;<em>"Yay, it's the dojo! Oh, it's Victoria, saying blah, blah, blah, blah. She's so cute and sweet, and ... red lips. Oh, my goodness!" </em>LOL!</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1"> What kind of association does red lipstick have for you? Do you notice how you feel different about me seeing this?</span></p>
<p class="p1"><strong><span class="s1">This is just one example. For the ladies, wearing red lipstick is a pattern interruption that you can shift the way that your perceive yourself, you entire day, how you make decisions, or how you feel about a certain thing. </span></strong></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">I've heard of one lady who always wears bright red lipstick whenever she's getting ready to pay her bills, because she feels more confident and sensuous and romantic in that stressful and boring situation, cutting&nbsp;checks and reviewing statements.</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1" style="color: #800080;"><strong>It's about shifting how you feel.</strong> </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">For the guys, it could be getting a straight razor shave with the hot towel at a proper barber shop.&nbsp;<i>"Oh, it feels so amazing!"</i></span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1"><strong>Another one that's universal for pattern interruption is having an at least one minute dance break.</strong> </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">If you are studying for an exam or perhaps you're working hard at work you're just coding, coding. (I code in HTML. I know it's ancient, but it works.) If you get into the zone at work, periodically get up and give yourself at least 60 seconds of dancing. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">It can shift the way that your perceive what is happening around you. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span style="color: #800080;"><strong><span class="s1">In fact, a pattern interruption can activate your creativity in a whole new way. </span><span class="s1">It an bring up new solutions, because what was expected in the environment has shifted. </span></strong></span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">When you shift what is expected, everything changes.</span></p>
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<h2 class="p1"><a href="http://ctt.ec/6nek7" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer"><strong><span class="s1">Know this:&nbsp;<strong><span class="s1">Your #routine is holding you back right now.</span></strong></span></strong></a></h2>
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<p class="p1"><span class="s1">I'm hearing the oracle cards calling in the energy this week right now. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">The deck that came to use is Goddess Guidance Oracle Cards, so they are some lovely feminine energy. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1" style="color: #0000ff;"><strong>I'm going to practice pattern interruption again and send you bright blue, so that we can have more stronger throat chakra energy communicating this with you.</strong> </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Let's see. What do the guides have to say about shifting your environment to shift how you feel? </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">What matters most is how you feel, and one great way that you can manage that, even going into some feng shui: moving a chair across the room opposite from where it normally is, or moving your desk around, shifting where your computer normally is facing, or putting a scarf over your chair or your favorite t-shirt in where you have to sit very often. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span style="color: #800080;"><strong><span class="s1">It can completely change the way that you feel from a level of stress, anxiety and overwhelm to comfort, humor and curiosity.</span></strong></span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1"><i>Angels, what would you like us to know right now? </i></span></p>
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<p class="p1"><span class="s1"><b>Wow! Two cards of Egyptian goddesses came out: Maat and Bast. </b></span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Okay, Maat who is the Egyptian goddess of fairness, and Bast is strength and independence. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Okay, first off, Maat's message: "<em>This situation will be handled in a fair and just manner."</em> </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">When you're doing pattern interruption, it's balances a situation so that you are not solely externally focused; you're balanced because you're remembering how you show up, how you feel, and how you are framing the situation. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span style="color: #800080;"><strong><span class="s1">Health is a balancing act, so it's important to do things that inspire you to become a more balanced wholly integrated individual. </span></strong></span><span style="color: #800080;"><strong><span class="s1">Pattern interruption is a powerful tool for that.</span></strong></span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Then Bast is saying, <em>"You're independence is a foundation for your strength and success."</em> </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">And&nbsp;here's where we're going to end. You'll want to practice pattern interruption to keep your point of view fresh and detached from what's going on around you. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1"><strong>It's important to not take things so seriously and not take things so personally.</strong> </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">If by moving your environment around or by wearing a loud lipstick or wearing your favorite pair of earrings or jewelry or a bright watch, or a tie that is fun or confident, it can really help assert your individuality, so that your energy doesn't get lost in the day.</span></p>
<p class="p1">Got it? Try it out!</p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Let me know what's coming up for you around pattern interruption. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Have your tried this, and what were your results? What did you start seeing differently? Was it weird seeing me with red lipstick? Tell me. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">I love to see your comments, and I always respond.</span></p>
<p class="p1"><strong>That's this week's message. By all means, please go to <u><a href="https://victoriawhitfield.com/freegift" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">victoriawhitfield.com/freegift</a></u> and make sure that you subscribe so that you're getting your weekly Love Letters if you haven’t already.</strong></p>
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<p>Sending you so much love 🙂</p>
<p class="p1"><span style="line-height: 1.5;">See you next time. Bye!</span></p>
<p><strong style="line-height: 1.5;">In Love and Light,</strong></p>
<p><strong>Victoria.</strong></p>
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<p><strong><em>Just for Today...</em></strong></p>
<p><strong>Change something small about your environment or your appearance.&nbsp;</strong></p>
<p><strong>Then go back to work or back to your routine and see it from this new perspective.</strong></p>
<div><strong><em>Notice how you feel at that moment - you're already healing!</em></strong></div>
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