Dear Love,
Why are you doing what you are doing right now; do you know?
Why are you continuing to follow the traditions that you do?
Where did your daily, weekly, monthly, quarterly, annual routines come from, originally?
Can you answer that?
Perhaps we are just blindly following our schedules, as creatures of habit.
Or perhaps we find ourselves doing certain things often because we have pre-existing stories like "I'm a lover, not a fighter" or "I'm an empath; I'm very sensitive" and we, in turn, engage in certain activities - and not others - because we think we know who we are, or, because someone told us who we were in the past, and we continue to show that we believe them, in our now-actions and current lifestyle.
He said I'll never be nothing. So I'm making sure to self sabotage my success.
She said I need to lose weight. So I'm making sure to stay heavy so I maintain the need to lose weight.
They said I need to be a millionaire. So I'm making sure to keep spending money, refusing to sell my services and keep buying million-dollar-business books and programs so I maintain the need to be a millionaire.
Who's purpose are you serving? Who's traditions are you upholding?
Yours, or theirs?
Let's talk about it:
I explore this in detail in this week's video: CLICK TO WATCH on YouTube.
In French there is a phrase "raison d'être", and it translates as "the most important reason or purpose for someone or something's existence." In other words: your life purpose.
Finding your purpose can mean the difference between feeling like you're wasting time, and, feeling a deep sense of fulfillment, in life.
But most people tend to get intimidated by the idea of "finding your why" or setting out to write up a "mission, vision, values statement", as the task is daunting, and unusually limiting, especially for creatives.
As a creative individual, you may feel that you have many reasons for what you do, and that you don't want anybody or anything to chain you down or label you, so the idea of finding your life purpose becomes a deep desire, and an impossible task.
Because the minute you find your why, you lose your freedom.
The minute people can know you for One Thing, you're tied down forever, right?
Wrong.
Be kind to yourself.
This is a limiting belief that you're harboring: the belief that you can lose your freedom to create and be whatever you want because you're being decisive or taking an action, taking a stand for something.
I get the chills as I type this in my coworking space.
My spirit guides just said that you picked up this limiting belief in a previous time when you were burnt at the stake, or somehow murdered or martyred or sacrificed for your beliefs. You soul remembers being killed for being different, sticking out.
So of course you won't allow yourself to be clearly defined: to you, that's a death wish.
Find yourself repeating the same old dysfunctional pattern over and over?
Wondering when you'll finally "get" this spiritual lesson and move on from it?
If so, let me help you get the clarity you need to move forward:
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Now is your time to start over fresh.
If you are reading these words, this is your sign that Now is your time.
The past is dead and gone; it no longer applies to you now. Be kind to yourself, and decide to start over.
Sure, there is a wealth of inspiration, meaning, education, connection and experience in the past, but if it you feel beholden to repeating the same old pain over and over, it's time to put the past down and to stand up for your self, stand up for your Now passions, your Now hopes and Now goals.
Who someone told you to be in the past, is their business, not yours.
What happened to you in the past, is a part of those now passed circumstances, not your current.
What motivates others, may not necessarily motivate you. And that is ok.
What matters most is how You feel.
You are the only person in all of creation who has full access to the YOUniverse inside you.
They may act like they know what's best for you or what you should do, but make no mistake, they don't because they aren't you--so stop blaming and shaming others for your lack of fulfillment, momentum and drive to rise. That's on you, boo.
It's time to define your Big Why, and my spirit guides say "you already know how" and "you already know what it is" - curious?I go in to this in detail in this week's video. Click the link or video above to watch.
Remember:
You create your reality. You create your flow.
You also can destroy your flow.
The choice is yours.
In case you were not aware: you are not alone in this. We are walking this journey of universal service (as conscious entrepreneurs) and spiritual ascension (as spiritual beings).
The fight to stay grounded and clear in mind, body and business is a daily one. I know.
So I will continue to share these messages out of devotion to my soulmate clients who may be watching from the sidelines; to my Loves who are up at 3am praying for the strength to keep serving their clients and community, praying for a safe place and a safe person who can help them accept themselves, too. Someone who can help them clear their energy, get out of their own way and finally grow and flow into their goals of having massive positive impact.
Is that you? (Or someone you know?)
If so, I see you, and I am here when you are ready.
You are enough.
You are ready.
You are worthy.
I believe that you do not have to lose your glow as you grow in life and business.
I believe that you have what it takes to make your vision happen, and that with a little extra love, you will see it manifest and come to fruition.
And that's what I'm here for. If you sense that you need to ground and clear or balance and align your energy in your life and business, and are seeking support in doing so, don't hesitate to reach out.
You are not weird or crazy for sensing it - it's NORMAL!
Well, our tribe's "normal." *wink*
As an empath AND an entrepreneur myself, I understand that your energy is everything, especially in businessman a very deep and personal level.
Your energy is everything because when you feel better, you do better.
It's that simple.
And when you're energy is off kilter, you feel stressed, stuck and scattered, and that can stop you in your tracks, which cuts off the universal flow of abundance and positive manifestation in your life.
Manifestation of health, love, money, energy, progress...
I can help you with that.
So let's talk about it - I'm just one text message away: book your session by clicking below or texting "PRIVATE SESSIONS PRICING" to +1-732-903-8573 for private session pricing and scheduling options now.
With love, that you may shine your light,
S. Victoria
Sensei Victoria Whitfield - Personal Energy and Business Coach for Spiritual CEOs, Business Reiki Master™
Strategic Meditation for High Performance | Intuitive Business Development | Personal Energy Mastery
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