Frustrated by your love life?
Wish you could attract your soulmate?
Having a hard time receiving love from people close to you?
One of the oldest pursuits in the human experience is the pursuit of love.
Oddly enough however, when asked most people tend to have no idea what love actually is.
Watch this week's 8-minute Love Letter to begin exploring what love actually is, so you can get more of it!
"I just really want to be loved."
Source has called you to a higher vibration of love and relationships in your lifetime.
It's time we talk about what exactly is love.
How would you define being and feeling loved in this lifetime?
Have you ever heard of the 5 love languages? That's one way of interpreting love. They are:
- Words of Affirmation
- Acts of Service
- Gifts
- Touch, and
- Quality Time
There's 5 ways of expressing love, certainly.
But love can go unfelt, unseen and unexperienced because we don't have a clear definition of what healthy love is for us ourselves.
Perhaps we witnessed our parents have one version of what love is for them, and how they would define it in their lives.
But what would Love in Her fullest expression be for you?
Going to Source right now, She is saying that love is oneness.
Oneness in all of her expressions: oneness in the sense of being connected, oneness in the sense of seeing yourself in another, oneness in circulating the energy healthfully throughout the entire system as one, oneness in the absence of separation.
During this time of the year or maybe oftentimes, you may be thinking in your mind, "I just really want to be loved. I want to experience feeling loved in a deeper way, or having access to more love in my life."
The way to that, Source is saying, is through yourself first because love is oneness. Start at square one.
How then do you express love for yourself? How do you encounter love within you:
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- Is it in the way that you take care of your body?
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- Is it in the way that you tell yourself stories about yourself?
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- Is it in the way that you put yourself together or express yourself in the art that you create or surround yourself?
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- Is it in the way that you share yourself professionally?
- Is that how you love yourself, or is it in the way that you express yourself personally, with your family?
This week's topic in particular is more of an internal journey -- that's why we're asking so many more questions: because Source really wants to bring you back to you.
What really matters most this week is that you sit down and journal your answers to all of the questions that Source is asking through us.
Now I'm hearing the Oracle Cards calling in the energy.
The Romance Angels Oracle Card Deck is really wanting to send you a lot of extra love this week.
So let's ask them, "How can we raise the vibration of love and romance, not only with another person but also with ourselves?"
This is a doozy: "Let go of control issues. Allow this situation to unfold naturally."
Now in the energy, what Source is saying is -- especially for developing your natural intuition around love, feeling love, receiving love, being love -- it's about embracing your natural impulses around love.
This really brings it full circle back to being about our parents' influence and what you may have witnessed, or maybe the influence of TV or other people around you.
Perhaps other people are getting married or divorced or having children. All these external factors are causing you to judge your own status on love, be kind to yourself. Call upon your own nature.
What I'm hearing in the energy, this week in particular, is to challenge you to find your own natural stance. Centering.
Know this: YOU define what love is, based on the feelings that confirm you're showing or experiencing love.
This week is all about centering, finding where is your square one -- your feeling of oneness -- around love.
And you can find your center by asking yourself in the journaling you're doing this week: "why do I want love? what is love to me?"
It's important to always start with why. (Great book, by the way, by Simon Sinek if you haven't checked it out yet.)
Start with why to find your center.
If you're not exactly sure what your definition is, start with why.
Why do you desire love?
Really unpack that story, and don't be afraid of exploring the dark forest of your heart.
There's so much love there.
As you go for it, let go of whatever stories you may have inherited or created around love.
There's so much within you.
Love is something that can come through you naturally, the same way that air in the form of oxygen for us to breathe naturally comes out of a plant.
She is able to allow the processes to express it naturally.
Perhaps in order for you to receive more love in this lifetime or in this year or in this day, maybe you have to let go.
Comment below, tell me what's coming up for you.
You can even journal your answers if you'd like or send them to me.
I'd love to share and talk to you about that.
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Sending you so much love 🙂
See you next time. Bye!
In Love and Light,
Victoria.
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