Self-Love and Acceptance
Have you always tried to "fit in" - changing your looks, your demeanor and yourself to survive, but lost yourself along the way?
Constantly worried that you're not enough yet in life - not educated enough, not attractive enough, not making enough money, etc.?
Find yourself saying "I just wish somebody would love me for me" more and more?
There's a fine line between personal development for self acceptance and personal development for self rejection.
How can you receive authentic abundance if you do not authentically believe you are whole and worthy of it right now?
Watch the above video to explore the question "WHY am I a spiritual seeker?" - are you seeking to authentically love yourself as you are or to hide from or reject the real you?
More Love and More Money - Video Series on Increasing Authentic Abundance
Self-love and acceptance is a life-long journey.
There's no "self-acceptance" nirvana, because we are constantly changing.
You are always evolving and discovering more. Now this can be both inspirational and overwhelming to know, because yes there's always room for improvement but no the journey never ends.
So how do you learn to love and accept a moving target like yourself? Or is it just impossible?
It's not impossible. Learn to move with the target.
Sometimes we feel very low, and at other times we thing we're on top of the world. Like the Earth, we naturally have seasons of feelings and emotions.
Yet the key is to accept and re-accept yourself where you are at, as you go. As you do so, you create a momentum of love and healing in your own life through the actions you take.
When you love and accept yourself, your behaviors like eating, moving, speaking, etc. show that you do - and others' can feel it!
Energetically (empathically) people will pick up on the love you show yourself, and because of your brave model, it gives them permission to do the same.
The ripple effect of embracing yourself is huge.
So why then, is it just so hard?
Maybe somebody told you you're not enough. Not pretty, not tall, not strong, not fast, not smart, not powerful, not old, not young, not educated, not wealthy, not skilled, not skinny, not ...enough.
Or maybe... you tell yourself that you're not enough. All day.
Perhaps that thought's running in the back of your head all day, fueling your actions and your drive to serve, and keeping you on task - perhaps you're thinking that right now?
Know this: You are enough right now. You just are. #MLMM #BK2YS
Most people wait until the last few years of their lives to finally let go of caring about searching for others' approval and acceptance, because they believe they've "paid their dues" and are more afraid of their inevitable transition to death than their fear of living their lives fully now.
As if retirement and old age are the excuse to FINALLY be who you are and do only what you want.
Here's the thing: you don't have to wait that long to give yourself permission!
If only just for now, decide to love yourself as you are, as if you were retired already.
You did pay your dues already - you were born. That's all the permission you need to be yourself in this lifetime, is to make it into this lifetime.
Watch this week's video for the Oracle Card of the Week, which shows exactly WHY you can love and accept yourself and HOW to do it, right now!
In Love and Light,
Victoria.
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Just for Today...
If you were already loved, retired, wealthy and healthy, how would you feel?
Would you lose your sense of meaning to life without the struggle for "more" or for others' approval? Be honest.
Notice how you feel at that moment - you're already healing!
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