Archive: Author: Sensei Victoria Whitfield

Love Letters | Are You Afraid of Abundance?

Posted on by Sensei Victoria Whitfield

Is it hard for you to take compliments because you doubt people's sincerity?

Resistant to others offering to help you, thinking you'll appear weak or that you "should" do it all yourself?

Avoiding calling back that great contact you just met or even that friend you miss, and don't know why?

Though we often ask Spirit for abundance--not just of money, but also of friendship, love and health, etc.--we can be resistant to receiving what we asked for when the opportunity finally comes our way.

Believe it or not, it's because we're actually afraid of getting what we want. Yikes!

Watch the above video to start learning to receive abundance without fear!

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Love Letters | When Your Yes Means NO

Posted on by Sensei Victoria Whitfield

Do you have a hard time saying "no" to people?

Always end up kicking yourself afterward, because you're too quick to say "yes" when others ask you if you can do something for them?

Wondering why you have trouble knowing and respecting your own boundaries?

Chronic people-pleasing behavior comes from our core human desires for significance and approval.

It's natural to want to feel significant and approved of, but it's a whole other can of wormy worms when you're dependent on others to feel emotionally secure.

Watch the above video to embrace the fact that your yes actually means no sometimes, and what to do about it!

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