We are beginning a series of the love letters called Making Room.
It is time to make room for yourself. As always in a new series, we discuss the “Why” first: and today, we’re talking about why we are making room for you. Then in the following weeks, we're going to be covering making room for yourself physically, mentally, emotionally, and then finally spiritually.
Why it's time to make room for you is because you have been asking Spirit for your next level, asking for that next vision, and an increase. Perhaps you have been praying for your territory to be enlarged, maybe in life or in business. Maybe you've been asking for more clients, more love and romance, more health, more play and enjoyment, but in order to receive what you are asking for, I would challenge you to ask a little bit bigger. If you have a goal card, for example, that is an ask that is outside of your norm, then good! And if you are not asking for what's outside of your normal for something that feels like a little bit of a stretch, now is the time.
This series is specifically for those in our tribe who have asked at a stretch level, as in, "Ooh, that income number looks a little bit uncomfortable," "Ooh, that goal feels entirely uncomfortable," or, "Ooh, speaking looks scary." If there is a sense of discomfort in your ask, that is fabulous, and the way that we are going to help ground you into sustaining the vibration necessary to get you into that space of receiving is to make room for yourself.
Now, back up a minute. If we don't have room for ourselves, what could that look like? It could look like a schedule that is so jampacked that there is absolutely no way to go out for friends, flirting, fun and rest. Downtime is just "catch up on all the other work-stuff" time. Does that sound a little bit familiar? There's no room for you in your schedule.
Another way that it can manifest is in your space. Perhaps with all of your responsibilities to your spouse, to your kids, or to your coworkers and employees, there's so much physical stuff in the actual space where you are that there's no room for your own expression. You're constantly making sure that everyone else is comfortable or managing everybody's else stuff. A dear friend of mine, Andrew Mellen of AndrewMellen.com, says it's time, if that's your case, to “unstuff your life” so that you can get out there and share your gifts with the world.
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Then there are those of us who are asking for more from source in a distracted way, saying “Okay, spirit guides, bring me more clients, bring me more health, bring me more abundance and rest and travel, et cetera." Then your mind goes, “squirrel!” and jumps to a totally new shiny thing to look at. Instead of physical clutter, there’s a mental clutter that we can have that gets in the way of us achieving and receiving our desired outcomes.
If that's you, you know my catch phrase by now. Be kind to yourself. None of us are perfect, and there's so many opportunities - gosh, with the phone and the TV and the news and the everybody else's stuff, social media - there's so many opportunities to be distracted, and it's not your fault if you're having a hard time maintaining focus. The way that society is set up around us is that we have been trained to interact with the world in a way that expects us to constantly take on a ton of information exposure – this distracted and overloaded lifestyle is considered “normal.” And if you are ready, seriously ready to receive that next manifestation that you have asked for, if you are serious about changing the circumstances around you, you have got to be able to focus, mentally, socially, and physically. The way that you're going to do that is by making room.
This week in particular, my guides are saying that in order to begin making room, begin with your Big Why. I would love to hear from you. Go ahead, send me an email back at team@victoriawhitfield.com. Send that to my assistant so I can hear exactly Why is it time for You to make some room in your life for yourself.
Maybe the way that you're going to make room is by working with a certain mentor that you've been following for quite some time, or maybe the way that you're going to be making room for yourself is by discontinuing working with a certain mentor so that you can open up to just observing yourself or changing things up in your life and business. Everyone is on their own unique journey, but I want to hear Your unique Why. Go ahead and send me an email back at team@victoriawhitfield.com. I'd love to hear it.
With further ado, the oracle cards deck of the week is Angels of Abundance. This oracle cards deck is by Doreen Virtue and Grant Virtue, her son. Angels of Abundance, we're going to be journeying with you all month on this topic. What do we need to know right now about making room for ourselves? Here we go. Words of Abundance. Words of Abundances. The angels have got my back on this one. I just got a hit that this is to really validate that you want to focus on putting to word exactly Why it's time for you to make room for yourself.
The card says, "You have the ability to instantly manifest abundance by choosing powerfully-positive words. Always describe your own in the world's economic situation in loving and optimistic terms, and that is what you attract for yourself and others."
This is where we're going to leave off this week: how you describe your situation right now, this situation that you desire to shift and change, is extremely important because the words that you use shape your reality. We want you using positive, spacious, empowering words to describe what you are creating in your current life circumstance.
Again, share your story: comment below or send it to me. I can't wait to hear it. Make sure you subscribe on YouTube so that you get these love letters first every week, and let's get to it. Muah. I'll see you in the next one. Bye for now.
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Just for today...
Use powerful positive words to describe your current and evolving situation right now.
Remember that your words shape your reality, so be intentional about using high-quality words to communicate how you are making room to receive your next level manifestations.
Notice how you feel in that moment - you're already healing!
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Hello there. I am Sensei Victoria Whitfield, your business reiki master. And it's my joy to get to support empathic entrepreneurs and business owners like you in getting and staying grounded and clear in mind, body and business.
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