Have a hard time knowing what you want lately?
Tired of being known as an indecisive person?
Wish there was a way to heal yourself and gain more clarity?
Indecision is actually a manifestation of unexpressed fears.
In an effort to avoid dealing with our truth, we can hide ourselves behind the phrase "I don't know" as a filler for conversation.
Watch this weeks 10 minute love letter video to gain clarity by naming your fear!
"I don't know what I want."
The phrase that source is sending for you this week in particular is "name your fear." Name your fear.
Oftentimes, we will hold ourselves in, pull back our enthusiasm so far that we forget what we really wanted to manifest or what we really want in the first place because we're just sucking ourselves back, right?
We're just hiding, hiding, hiding, and we have this sense ... It can manifest as a sense of apathy, boredom, fatigue, and you'll really know that this is happening to you when you say, "I don't know" as a knee-jerk reaction or almost like a tick when you're speaking.
You'll be speaking to someone, and they just, like their automatic answer's, "I don't know." There's an "I don't know" that comes forth.
It just shoots out every single time, every single time when we have sucked our energy so far back inside of ourselves that we lose a sense of what our real concerns are, our real goals and desires are, our real passions are.
We just suck ourselves inside, and usually, this is motivated, unfortunately, by fear. Fear of rejection. Fear of being seen, right? Fear of visibility.
Not only that but also fear of failure, fear of having to work hard and put in effort, like a fear of effort. We suck ourselves in, so we don't have to deal with or process what we're afraid of.
Know this: Overusing "I don't know" in everyday #communication is a sign you're hiding unresolved fears. @SenseiWhitfield
The next time you catch yourself saying or you hear someone saying, "I don't know," or if you ask, "How do you feel about us," if you're having the grown-up conversation around relationships, right, and this person says, "I don't know." What do you want in life? What do you want for dinner? "I don't know. I don't know." They're sucking their energy back.
We're not sharing. You aren't sharing yourself when you say, "I don't know."
We did a previous channeling video I don't know how many months ago. I just said, "I don't know." I'm afraid that I don't have all of my love letters memorized, people. I can't. I channel each one. They just flow out of me, but several months ago, we did a channeling on how "I don't know"... If anything, you can put it in YouTube and do a search for, "I don't know." We channeled on the fact that that's always a lie. We say that to hide. We say that to dodge the truth or dodge the reality of it because sharing ourselves fully is much too vulnerable and open.
This week, in particular, Source is saying, "name your fear," so when "I don't know" shows up this week, turn that around by asking yourself, "What am I afraid of right now?"
If someone asks me, super mundane, "what do you want to eat tonight?" "I don't know? What do you want?" Turning that around on myself, I would ask, "Well, what am I afraid of right now? Why do I say, 'I don't know.' What am I afraid of?"
Let me name my fear.
I'm afraid of making a decision. I'm afraid of being decisive. I'm afraid of making a decision and choosing something that I don't like. I'm afraid if I make a decision, the other person's going to have something else in mind. I'm afraid of rocking the boat by having my own point of view.
There's just so many things that could come out of that.
If you name your fear, it dispels that energy. It disperses it. It gets it out.
It takes it from feeling blocked and closed like a finite book or event being shut down, closed. "There's no way that I'm going to know what I want to eat tonight, ladies and gentlemen. It's no way. I don't know. There's no way I will ever know. I've blocked from knowing what I want."
You can shift that by naming your fear, so this is really for someone who's watching this who wants to know what they want.
If that's you, my love, I'm here for you. We are here. The energy is here for you. The angels are on your side. We're here to tell you, "Yes, you do know what you want."
The way that you find out is actually by going underneath what you want as as in, "Dig into your fear." Go there. Go there. It takes courage. You can do it, and there's so much love and clarity that comes out from naming your fear. The minute you do name your fear, it disperses fear's power.
"I'm afraid of the dark." Okay, it's just the dark. "I'm going to go into my bedroom, and I'm not going to imagine a giant arm reaching out and trying to grab me." (Thanks, Ma, for that horrible vision.) I'm just going to be with the darkness. Why is the dark afraid, fearful? What am I afraid of about the dark that I don't know what's going on, okay? Be with that. Be with that uncertainty.
Get the clarity from your fear rather than running from it.
I'm hearing the oracle cards calling and the energy. It's The Indigo Angel Oracle Cards Deck, another Doreen Virtue deck here at the dojo, one of 16 decks and counting. We're always open to receiving donation decks too. If there is one that you would like to donate to the tribe, we'd be happy to receive it. Also, if you have any recommendations. "Victoria, I saw this really great deck." Send me an email at senseivictoriawhitfield@gmail.com. I'd be happy to look into that, maybe even get it.
Angels, what do we need to know right now about naming our fear?
Two cards just came forward. Interesting ... This hasn't happened in a while.
Believe in yourself and Archangel Metatron.
Now, the angels are saying the believe-in-yourself card is coming forward around naming your fear because naming your fear takes courage.
By doing so, you take a stand to say, "You know what? I'm worth the exploration. I'm worth taking a minute to ask and investigate. I really am worth it. I believe that I'm capable of receiving the clarity from this question." Right? Believe in yourself.
Sometimes we avoid ourselves because we don't have that belief or inherent trust that it's going to be okay or that you're even worth the time.
If that's you, you need some extra love. We're here to support you.
Archangel Metatron is also here to support you, so this is the archangel of intuition, revelation and spiritual energy. You can ask for his help, in particular, with this clearing process. Ask him, "Archangel Michael, please help me to name my fear. Please give me the courage. Please heal me so that I'm able to move through this issue."
Wait and watch for the sensations that you get, any visions that you receive or advice that comes through, not just sudden thoughts, ideas and impulses that come to you or people and songs.
I'm searching for the word. People, songs, billboards ... There's going to be spiritual guidance that comes to you as soon as you ask, and that's what Archangel Metatron, in particular, is in charge of.
He also clears your aura. If you feel blocked, there's no such thing as being blocked, but if you feel blocked, you're creating it.
Ask him, "Archangel Michael, please release any blocks that I believe are on me or that are in me, and allow the experience."
Send me an email back at senseivictoriawhitfield@gmail.com. Post below so that I can hear, what are your experiences?
This week in particular. This is a big week, and it takes some courage to do it, but you can. You've got to believe in yourself because I believe in you.
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In Love and Light,
Victoria.
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Just for Today...
Listen to yourself speak to catch if you're saying "I don't know" just as conversational filler.
When you do, honestly ask yourself: "Wait, why did I say that? What am I afraid of?"
Notice how you feel at that moment - you're already healing!
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